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Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 12:10pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Nzeh12: @bolded that's a fact, but is there anything in life that isn't really risky? We've tried working it out though. But you've given me something to think really hard about. Thank you. Your effort to process and put down something is greatly appreciated. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 12:07pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
jomoh: Thanks, very helpful. |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 12:05pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
olaBanks: Thanks, this is very helpful. |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 12:04pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Pennah: It's okay bro... Yeah indeed it is a problem. |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 12:03pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
ibietela2: We still find a way back to each other... the communication part is helpful thanks. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 12:00pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Harkynkunle: Hmmmm.... Food for thought... thanks. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 11:58am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Icecomrade: Erm not done that in a while now... |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 11:57am On Nov 15, 2015 |
KiidaACE: Thanks, Helpful... |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 11:55am On Nov 15, 2015 |
kennyman2000: Thanks a lot, we are not staying in the same place. I'll do the rest. Thank you... this was helpful. |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 11:54am On Nov 15, 2015 |
ibietela2: Done that several times!!! |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 11:54am On Nov 15, 2015 |
anytexy: I didn't intentionally do that, but situations have put me in that state, and still she's still here. I didn't know how it felt until she started acting the same way and says it's not on purpose I should try and understand... she was there for me when I was acting CARELESS |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 11:49am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Lasgidy1: Even though I have bouts of depression, I am not and never will be suicidal neither do I support violence thank you. Happy birthday btw. |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 11:47am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Mindfulness: Thanks, but Hmm, a lot has changed, we are not the same people we used to be when we first met. Am not saying it's impossible, but the energy we would use to get back there, why don't we use it to improve ourselves and better our lives? |
Romance / Re: How Do I Move On When She's Not Letting Go? by dovetark: 11:38am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Hmm what's happening today? Everyone seems to want to move on...https://www.nairaland.com/2738065/need-advice-how-break-up. My man, if you love something go for it, nor dull or waste time. If it's yours, its yours. Don't be considerate, if that guy were to be in your shoes do you think he'll consider you? In fact when you are dating the girl, he won't even consider you and will try to take her from you. Smh, the sooner you are realize we are in a jungle full of lions, the better. |
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 11:34am On Nov 15, 2015 |
gentlesinna: Lol, no matter how serious a situation is, when humor is thrown at me, I can't help but laugh... which I am doing right now. but at the end of the day bro, the problem won't be solved. So you can share an experience on how you ended a relationship with a girl before and I can learn from it. I haven't formally initiated a break up before and that is why I ask. Same goes to you @Pennah I have to take this time out to thank every one who has contributed in one way or the other to this post. I have read through all the comments so far and they've been very helpful. I used to make her read Nairaland a lot then and probably she may stumble into this, she may relate but might not be able to figure out its me. I wish I could tell her "we made Front Page" but its a serious matter. To every one out there... communication is very key in every relationship; be it friendship or one that is intimate. I have been overwhelmed by your response and I think Nairaland has a lot of relationship dr's... Thank you once again Family... 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Politics / Re: 7 Revelations By Former GEJ'S Minister Diezani by dovetark: 11:24am On Nov 15, 2015 |
These days, it's hard to differentiate true facts from lies, cause the art of lying has been carefully studied by humans and is now practiced effectively and efficiently. 1 Like |
Romance / Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by dovetark: 11:07am On Nov 15, 2015 |
We've dated officially for over 3 years, I have to admit she's a nice girl when her heart is in it, but certain events have occurred which has left a once blissful relationship sour. Prior to the series of events that have brought us to this point, I used to feel like a superhuman with her in my life (for real I could do anything I set my mind to do and succeed), but all that has changed... Life happened!!! We've both been hit by series of events that have adjusted our perspective on how we view life which has undoubtedly affected us. Since the beginning of this year, we've been on a free fall with our emotions. We've not had intense quarrels neither have we had intense passion being together of late (I admit, they both spice up a relationship) and we have grossly neglected each others feelings. We both played our roles in getting to where we are now, I feel the door closing in fast on us and I can't stand this flip-flop of emotions involved. We've tried taking a break and that didn't work, I have suggested severally that we just remain friends and end the relationship but I really don't know why she doesn't agree to that. We can't just stand each others bullshit anymore but still a part of us wants it to go back to how it used to be I guess that's the reason we've been hanging on. I am not here to cry over spilled milk, rather, I am here to seek advice on how I would successful end this relationship without it having profound effects on my psychology and emotions while maintaining optimum productivity as an individual. Please your comments are needed and appreciated. Thank you Nairaland. Please don't just read, I need your suggestions. 19 Likes 5 Shares |
Health / Re: Red Wine by dovetark: 9:34am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Red wine is an alcoholic drink made from grape fruit. Subject to verification; Islam is against the drinking of alcohol and so the fact that red wine is alcoholic, it is a no no. Grapes contains Reservatol- an anti-oxidant which has been proven to have several health benefits. Anti-oxidants offer health benefits which include; removing free radicals intermediate and inhibiting other oxidation reactions that occur in the body. The magnified implication of this is that, it generally protects your body from different diseases(cancer,heart diseases in fact they are numerous) keeps you healthy, boost your immune system and slows down aging process. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Red Wine by dovetark: 9:14am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Red wine is an alcoholic drink made from grape fruit. Subject to verification; Islam is against the drinking of alcohol and so the fact that red wine is alcoholic, it is a no no. Grapes contains Reservatol- an anti-oxidant which has been proven to have several health benefits. Anti-oxidants offer health benefits which include; removing free radicals intermediate and inhibiting other oxidation reactions that occur in the body. The magnified implication of this is that, it generally protects your body from different diseases(cancer,heart diseases infact they are numerous) keeps you healthy, boost your immune system and slows down aging process. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Photos From Comedian Akpororo's White Wedding Event by dovetark: 12:08am On Nov 15, 2015 |
brownsug:Lol |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Flaunts Money After Being Robbed In South Africa by dovetark: 8:11pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
ayoolanr: I disagree, he comes from a family with class. |
Celebrities / Re: Photos From Comedian Akpororo's White Wedding Event by dovetark: 3:13pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
What's the name of this his dance? 5 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Shares Photo Of His Daughter Imade Adeleke, She Is cute by dovetark: 3:02pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
Targaryen: Lol 7 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Shares Photo Of His Daughter Imade Adeleke, She Is cute by dovetark: 3:01pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
FTC where's the money? 1 Like 1 Share |
Business / Re: TSA Transfers: Central Bank Recovers N8.6bn From Owner Of Remita, Systemspecs by dovetark: 2:59pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
oake: Exactly my thought... |
Crime / Re: Islamic State Says France Remains Top by dovetark: 2:46pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
What is the world turning into? |
Health / Re: Unpleasant Odour From Your Body And Breath Reveal Something About Your Health! by dovetark: 2:39pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
Space Booked |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Robbed Of $60K At Gun Point In South Africa by dovetark: 2:31pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
Jeez why move with such amount of money? He said $55,000 on his twitter handle though. http://www.bellanaija.com/2015/11/13/55000-2-rolexes-gone-davido-robbed-in-south-africa/ |
Crime / Re: FRSC Officer Allegedly Killed Final Year Student Over N100 Bribe by dovetark: 2:28pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
Even the FRSC? If true then this is pathetic. |
Politics / Re: Tsa Fraud Alert; Remita & The Misinformation by dovetark: 2:13pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
philips70: This amazes me too, it is high time our mods give us an explanation why poo news makes front page while informative news like this is left to oblivion. |
Business / TSA Transfers: Central Bank Recovers N8.6bn From Owner Of Remita, Systemspecs by dovetark: 2:01pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
The Central Bank of Nigeria has recovered N8.6 billion deducted by a Lagos-based software firm, SystemSpecs, which provided the e-Payment/e-Collection solution used for the transfer of government funds from commercial banks to the treasury single account (TSA) domiciled with it, THISDAY investigations have revealed. The central bank, according to sources in the CBN, directed the company which owns the Remita software platform used for the funds transfer, when it was discovered that SystemSpecs had deducted as much as N8.6 billion for the remittance of government funds from banks to the TSA in the last few weeks. Throwing more light on the e-Payment/e-Collection Remita software, which the Senate on Wednesday resolved to probe, CBN sources said the implementation of the modular solution was approved by the former CBN Governor who is currently the Emir of Kano, Alhaji Muhammad Sanusi II, and former CBN Deputy Governor, Operations, Mr. Tunde Lemo, in 2011 to facilitate the transfer of government revenue to the TSA. On Wednesday, the Senate had ordered its joint Committee on Finance, Banking and Other Financial Institutions and Public Accounts to probe the allegation that the e-Collection agent, Remita, had been paid 25 billion, being the 1 per cent commission it charged for the transfer of N2.5 trillion of federal government funds to the TSA. The motion, which was moved by Senator Dino Melaye and adopted by the Senate, held that the N25 billion payment was in gross violation of Section 162(1) of the 1999 Constitution which states that “the federation shall maintain a special account to be called the federation account into which all revenues collected by the government of the federation except the proceeds from the personal income tax of the personnel of the Armed Forces of the Federation, the Nigeria Police Force, the ministry or department of government charged with foreign affairs and the residents of the FCT, Abuja”. However, investigations by THISDAY showed that Remita was not an agent or company, but the software platform used for the transfers, while SystemSpecs, whose Managing Director is Mr. John Obaro, is the owner of e-Payment/e-Collection solution. The company’s website further revealed that the chairman of SystemSpecs is the former Director General of the Nigerian Broadcasting Commission, Dr. Christopher Kolade. Other directors of the company include a former Executive Vice-Chairman of the Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC), Mr. Ernest Ndukwe, Mr. Emmanuel Ocholi, Mr. ‘Deremi Atanda and Dr. Emmanuel Eze. Remita, which has been adopted by the CBN as the e-Payment and e-Collection platform of the federal government, is currently used by all 22 commercial banks and over 400 microfinance banks nationwide. CBN sources informed THISDAY that contrary to the assertion of the Senate that N25 billion had been paid to SystemSpecs, it was N8.6 billion that was deducted by the company for the transfer of N1.5 trillion since the enforcement of the TSA by the current administration in the last few weeks. “Remita is an e-Payment/e-Collection software that has been in place since 2011, because the TSA transfers started under the Goodluck Jonathan administration. “It was Tunde Lemo’s baby and approved by former Governor Sanusi for the transfer of funds to the TSA. “But when it was discovered that SystemSpecs had deducted about N8.6 billion for the recent TSA transfers of N1.5 trillion, we immediately asked them to reverse the deduction, which they complied with. “The issue was brought to the attention of the president (Muhammadu Buhari) and he asked that the money be returned immediately which is what has happened. “Going forward, it is our intention to review the contract on the software, because the CBN has its own software for e-Payments and e-Collections,” a CBN official, who did not want to be named, said. http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/tsa-transfers-central-bank-recovers-n8-6bn-from-owner-of-remita-systemspecs/225480/ |
Romance / Re: How A Nairalander Pranked His Ex Girlfriend With The Lyrics Of Adele's Song by dovetark: 1:22pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
Is this real? |
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