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Na una use una mouth talk o!!!

Lol, law of attraction maybe... $200m loan...hmm

We keep praying and hoping our prayers will be heard soon... sad news, peace to the troubled.

Thank God no accident happened.

True, that's why I used profound for emphasis. Thanks.

ceeceeuwa:

There is no break up that won't affect you psychologically,if you are certain it is what you want,then take that bold step. It is only time that heals!

And they will never agree, that's how a friend told me he's trying and I found out that he can play almost any piece from any genre. You just name it. He's graduating with a first class from music dept. I sight read, losing my skills but working on getting it back. My love for the piano is boundless. Nice one bro,

DeeTus:
Not really.

I also got talent in music especially blues.

I see a Grand piano as your displayed picture, can you play that?

DeeTus:
You're welcome.

In as much as you liked the girl, you obviously need some space. That's why it's so important to let her miss you a little, so as to love you more.

And that is why sometimes when a woman calls you, you do not need to pick her call immediately, allow her call several times before you pick it up.

Thank you very much, this was helpful.

cooluc:
Before you two break up I will suggest you guys visit a counsellor that will help you two shed some lights on grey areas that might be hidden from the both of you...and if it doesn't help then you two need to meet and discuss it over dinner or lunch on the way forward and what it's best for the both of you..

Thank you very much for seeing it from this angle too...

greggng:
As far as am concern, you left us confused. No sane person will advice you based on what you ve just told us. Is neither here nor there. Let me recommend over dosage of prayer and fasting. That way God will give u a clearer picture of what is happening to you. Ending a relationship without concrete evidence is insanity

Thank you for seeing it from this angle too...

chukel:
Op, at the end of the day, u just said nothing. U just don't have a reason for this breakup from ur story. U will certainly breakup with the next. I guess you have so much time on your hands.

Wow, I must say I am impressed, there are a lot of people here that are quite detailed in their analysis, and tackle issues with objectivity. Thank you very much, you are the sort of people that make me proud being a NAIRALANDER and I won't fail to seek for advice when I need one.

DeeTus:
You're welcome.

In as much as you liked the girl, you obviously need some space. That's why it's so important to let her miss you a little, so as to love you more.

And that is why sometimes when a woman calls you, you do not need to pick her call immediately, allow her call several times before you pick it up.

Thanks all, I read all the comments to this point its been helpful... I have to go and attend to some other business now. it was a nice time I had with you guys.

Thanks

Keky:
Tell Her how you feel man, that you can no longer continue. It's better you end it now. But if you still feel something for her, maybe you should go on a cruise, have some fun. And if there is no improvement after that, end it ASAP.

True

Adanna28:


Speaking from personal experience, myself. It no b beans, but you can't hold on to someone by force, pushes them away even more.

Coz you just feel like your trapped, can't breathe, feel like your losing your mind, not happy.

Plus you can't go back to what use to be, that point in time gone.

thanks

tommychow:
LISTEN OP, I personally advice you start seeing someone else...or even more (as in, date ). Usually the main reason people find it hard to break up from an even bad relationship is FEAR OF LONELINESS. A part of you two doesn't wanna start from the scratch again. You keep telling yourself "but we've come this far". I advice you to become very social with other girls because you can't just tell yourself "there are many fishes in the sea". That won't do much. You have to make yourself know FOR A FACT there are other babes.

Good luck.

crossed my mind. possible

bulldoza:

She's cheating on your.... 100% sure

lol

ZuzuMan:
...OK Try This Trick!

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lol

sonofananimal:
bros! She didn't nag you,

She didn't ask you for money or not the money type, she didn't cheat on you, she is nice and so on.

But why did you want to break up with her

Let me guess! Sex right you are looking for a new BOO BS and ass right

Good luck but if that GIRL swear for you heh!

Thank you very much, helpful.

damola1:


You are killing yourself, when you don't break up. Time is precious, if you are not happy for a long time in a relationship just break it off. Life is fun. Try to have fun... It's best to simply enjoy it with someone you are comfortable with. The search continues if one fails. No decision is ever perfect, improve yourself, make more money to attract more prospect, be confident, and be alive all the time.

Men need to be more firm or simply run away. I am talking from a person experience. Time flies away, and later, they'll just blame you for everything.

I bet you most men that are married to women are not supposed to be.

Thanks, helpful.

missyadorable:

You are not ready and determined to end the relationship
If you are,it only takes barring her numbers/changing your sim card,delete everything concerning her from your life n stop seeing her but obviously you aren't bold enough for that.

Thanks helpful, but wish you could follow the full story.

NellyGhenghen:
How you want to end a relationship just like that, after three years. Why didn't u end it long time ago? So basically uve just wasted three years of your life?

People need to know what they want before going Into LTR. LTR should be with someone you intend to marry and you need to make sure that person is someone you can actually spend the rest of your life with first before even starting anything.

Op it sounds more like you are the one who is tired and wants to break up otherwise you won't be asking how. Met someone else maybe? anyway if she doesn't entice you anymore save the poor girl further stress and break if off with her like a man. You didn't need advice on how to toast her nor how to Bleep her, do this same way you did those.

But when I did that, mine said we will work it out

ayowole21:
well bro...I was once in your shoes.... and what I did was to call her and tell her I want out...I poured my heart out to her and she understands.... though it was painful but that's what I want... so go for it bro

Thanks, Helpful.

OBSEQUIOUS:
Op, why are you thinking ending what seem blissful is the solution? From all indications, if you get her heart back to it, I think you can make the world jealous!

Ladies don't give in to break up easily, it shows she still have a thing for you, if not it would be long gone. That be the case, give it a considerate effort to make it work.

Never say never, if that doesn't work, sure it would work sef. No need for plan B.

MAKE IT WORK!

Lol That's her decision, but she won't do that, she will only be amazed and read all the comments with rapt attention.

limdude:
Brother, if ur girl in a nairalander I'm utterly sure that if she sees this you posted she'll definitely be person who breaks up with you.....

Thanks, helpful.

DrIloekwe2020:
my brother if u are sure she is not what you want u can end the friendship by applying the following
1,stop seeing her
2,stop calling her
3,stop picking her calls
4,pray about it.
5,call her and let her know is over.

lol, thanks

8unit:


have se.x with her without cond.om. Cum inside her. Look straight into her eyes, slap her, ask her "why is our feeling dying?" if she wanna say a word, shut her the fuc.k up with a kiss. You're meant to be together.

Thanks

Dinakas:
From all you've said, I didn't see where you said you guys talked deeply about the problem. Sometimes, problems of relationship is misunderstanding and miscommunication. What if you guys can save the relationship? It's 3yrs. Sometimes we look for spark and all, it's good o, but don't forget one would get married. What if after 3years of marriage things are going somehow, would divorce be the answer? Marriage is a lifetime and within that period, so many things we didn't expect show themselves.

I'm not saying you shouldn't break up, I'm just saying think about it, can it be resolved? Can something better happen? Can it work? Whatever you decide, you can go ahead with whatever it is.

Thank you very much, this is very helpful and real.

DeeTus:
Well, sorry about that. Seems like you feel very terrible.

Beyond a shadow of a doubt, I think this woman still loves you and may not really hold onto any negativity. Life is so gritty sometimes. Are you concerned about parental approval?

The key to a "solid relationship" is to understand where feelings of lust, desire and attraction originate in the women's brain.

If you think you can't go far with this woman, is better you drop her now, so that she'll find someone else and not blame you later.

Thanks a million, added a book to my read list too

EMEKA1MILLION:
when it takes a nose dive, sticking around will only make it worse.
first thing is to cut off all manner of communications, cut down on ur use of social media where you both communicate and get rid of her pictures in ur gallery, her personal effects should be eliminated around you for now till the next 5 to 6 months and i advice you dont date anyone else for the main time. rad this book if u can download it.. A ROAD LESS TRAVELED. it will help you discover alot of things about yourself.