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Not easy to invest your money on a business bro

Iam a Bet9ja agent in Ibadan, I have like four to five Bet9ja shop, well equipped( I meant standard ones) with huge turnover, but the expenses and maintenance is costly especially after the removal of fuel subsidy.
Therefore I had to switch to solar power which cost at least 2.5m for each shop, I've been having a bit relief though. Now to the topic I've had a lot of bad experiences from my employees despite that they are making a lot of money from customers everyday from excess( those who understand the business will understand this) they do still steal your money, sell paper rolls, use the shop data to watch movies at leisure and all sort of lies. To be candid I have some loyal ones, but most of them are not trustworthy. I had more than five shops before but I have to shut down like two shops due to nonchalant attitude of my staffs there.
Please is it like this in other businesses or this our own is exception?
Please share your experience.

Wetin children go chop for earth Dey follow them from heaven.... as many as possible
12 maybe

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Youths like u, right?
We don't know when una go get old
Follow Nigerian politicians t your own disappointment

JASONjnr:
This is foolishness....


Handling just one woman is a stress and you added two more.

If this man will keep these three women under the same roof, he might not live long enough to see his children at 10.




But I wonder how the Muslims handle their four wives.??🤔

That's when they are 2
Three wives na enjoyment
Even one wife problem pass three wives in 10 folds

Your mummy is old enough to have seen it all... she's trying to spend the rest of her life to be close to her own creator in her own best knowledge to do it. leave mama alone..... HEAVEN MATTERS!!!

This job thing, I no know wetin dem knack for head o
Never been lucky.... I was forced to create a niche for myself and doing well is the testimony

You don't need to quit your current job before u search for another one

Don't japa
Naijiriya go better

Happy new year 2024 to us all. In this year may God restore everything we have lost in the previous year in multiple fold. Last year I made a financial or investment blunder which I'll never forget for the rest of my life and I know some other guys here also must have a story to tell in this regard... I pray we learn from our past to be a better version of ourselves this year.

Yes, that's true
He should resign because obi didn't win

Yutes!!!
Gen z

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

"Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil."
And you're still here telling all this story, when you already know the quoted above
Run for dear life bro

Lie from the pit of hell
Marriage is a blessing!!!
May God give us the bone of our bones

No qualms
Planning to go back to one's father's compound not a bad idea

femi4:
Just quit...you can't change him

Yes that's true
Another cheater is preferable afterall

Olufhemy:
When people regard money than values

His life, not yours

Witness

Foolish prophet everywhere

Hope no be all this yahoo yahoo boiz
But if u are a hardworking guy
Kudos and congrat to u and ur parent

L1TTLE:
Please, please sir, my intentions are really pure, I want to get married asap, and I really love to end up with a white person, please help if you can.

I can but honestly I can't help
I'm sorry
I don't know u
This is a faceless forum where u don't know who's who

ZaddyJ:
You better becareful o na yourself you know dont trust nobody, as its I'm married to an African American, each time I make such a comment here my mention will full ,but guys for here na scam dem wan do reason I dont answer dem.

Thank u sir 🙏

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

If I had known you well and your intention, I could introduce u to one( maybe older though) but fear who no fear Nigerian youths
Yahoo! Yahoo! Intentions everywhere

Beware of the Gunners!!!