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Phones › Re: TECNO Camon 16 Premier First Impressions And Review + Price (photos) by Dpsychologist: 2:11pm On Sep 09, 2020

Softgamer:
wetn u smoke? where u expecting it to have 10000mah?

was expecting a 6000mah. How can a phone with such functionalities be having just 4500mah.

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:45pm On Sep 08, 2020*

Dpsychologist:
6.) HYPERGAMY & BRANCH SWINGING: cont

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If she is better than you she will dump you

In relationships she appears to be “submissive” and “needs him.” She takes and continues to take from him, money, wisdom, energy, time, everything.

She’s like a parasite, a black hole, but she frames herself as a willing accomplice who needs investment to return dividends to an eager, naive, hopeful investor.

As he keeps giving eventually the man in question has nothing left to give and is dried up both spiritually and financially. Now he’s been drained of his resources she becomes aware that although he elevated her self-development, she has become more valuable than him.

Better yet with the tastes she’s had and the strides she’s made, she believes she has the opportunity to become even more. Thus rather than return investment as initially promised or implied, out of disrespect and insatiable hypergamy, she will betray and abandon her prior lover to repeat the process with a new one.

One who she considers to be more worthy of directing her. Effectively, this means finding an even higher level man to surpass her newer, more recent elevated status.

Never make her better than you,
When she is above you,
She will dump you
— Dpsychologist
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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:24pm On Sep 08, 2020*

Dpsychologist:
6.) HYPERGAMY & BRANCH SWINGING:

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Guys never make the mistake of sponsoring a lady to be better than you. I have seen someone sponsored a lady to get a Bsc while he only has an OND. Or a guy who is trader sponsoring a girl to get her bachelors degree.

The guy thinking he is doing her a favour and she will love him more. Wrong. You have successfully upgraded her status and made her above you. Education in Nigeria is seen as a status. Never make that mistake of making her better than you while not improving yourself. You bought her Iphone 11pro but you are using Techno Spark 4,that's utter stupidity.

Female hypergamy is very binary, you are either superior, or inferior. If a woman believes a man inferior to her, he’s sexually invisible, only when a woman deems a man superior does he become visible.

That is why sometimes when you were younger alot of ladies will ignore you but when you get older and increase in SMV they will now come back for you.

Women want men who demonstrably exude power in a way that makes them feel inferior. When a woman feels inferior to a man, she is attracted to him. This is hypergamy at work.

That is why i kept stressing that in the process of learning about women always increase your LMS.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:41pm On Sep 08, 2020*

Dpsychologist:
Being a bad boy helps 'get' women. Having the permission to act like an asshole/badguy around women requires that you already have a perceived looks, money, or status.

Men's Looks Matter More Than Women Admit, Study Shows

Even if a guy has a great personality , a woman looking for a date still hopes he's at least a little cute, a new study suggests.

Researchers asked young women (ages 15 to 29) to choose potential dates from a series of photographs and descriptions, while the women's mothers (ages 37 to 61) were asked to select possible boyfriends for their daughters using the same information.

Results showed that a man's looks influenced both groups of women more strongly than his personality profile. This held true even if a man's profile was filled with highly desirable personal qualities , such as being respectful, honest and trustworthy .

This is why during chat, a girl will be asking for your pics. She wants to check you out

https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:32pm On Sep 08, 2020*

Women want you to fall in love with them, but not so much so that you don’t make them feel safe anymore.

Women want to be loved, but as a man if you fall in love and allow that to change who you are, to be overwhelmed by them and allow them to erode your identity, you no longer remain attractive.

To keep a woman you must remain everything you were when she found you, despite everything, despite a tirade of emotional manipulation manifesting itself as shit tests. You see with women it’s not you in and of yourself that they are attracted to, it’s your masculinity and how that makes them feel which they find attractive.

The presence of dominance is what triggers and captivates female attraction; its absence will have her discard you in search of a new source of dominance.

The irrational thing about this whole sordid ordeal is that you cannot properly love a woman and let them all the way into the fiber of your being without such a love directly translating into psychological vulnerability.

Agápe inherently elicits vulnerability. Women desire connection with that vulnerability whilst simultaneously, feel contempt for that vulnerability when it becomes prominent enough to translate into weakness.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:29pm On Sep 08, 2020*

Women do not rigorously shit test their men out of malice, but merely out of insecurity, out of a need to feel protected, out of a nagging sense of insecurity that they “just need to make sure” they have made the right choice and are still in a relationship with a man who is badass .

As soon as a man can no longer give a woman “that safe feeling”, she will leave him and find a guy who can make her feel safe. She will then rewrite history in her memory to say the man she is leaving was always weak and that he failed in his duties to her, she will paint him as the bad guy so that it makes it easier for her to branch swing to the next guy without feeling bad or having any sense of personal responsibility for it.

This is why women say bad things about their exes

She has to demonise him and paint herself as the victim(See section 17) within her own mind to allow herself to carry on without hating herself.

She needs him to “be the bad guy” so that she can move on. As far as she is concerned, it’s his fault she lost interest in him, regardless or despite if he did everything in his power for her. It’s always the man’s fault in the mind of a woman.

She wants a man she can’t change but she tries to change him as a form of counterintuitive test of his strength, and if she succeeds in changing a man into someone who is no longer dominant she will grow to hate what she has made of him.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:28pm On Sep 08, 2020*

27.) INFINITE SHIT TEST :

TRP says that the way women choose men is by unconsciously submitting men to confidence tests called shit tests. When a man passes a woman's shit tests, and 'holds a higher frame' than her, TRP says he will 'get' her or have a good chance. TRP stresses that men not only have to have good confidence and self worth, but higher confidence and self worth than the woman he is pursuing.

However, She will never stop testing you for weakness. Women are biologically insecure. They are always thinking in the back of their heads “what if I have made a mistake.”

It is this constant need for romantic reassurance that causes them to rigorously shit test their men, on a seemingly primal level women are utterly obsessed with feeling safe, both emotionally and materially, and so will test their boyfriends/husbands to see if he still has what it takes to make them “feel safe.”

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Food › Re: How I Prepared This Bush Meat That Ran Into My Compound (With pictures) by Dpsychologist: 9:22pm On Sep 08, 2020

Op so you ate this and refuse to share with us

Sports › Re: Ava And Mia Mikel Obi Adorable In 'Big Girls School' Attire (Pix) by Dpsychologist: 8:43pm On Sep 08, 2020

majamajic:
Not ordinary white woman
She is a billionaire daughter

That is why the rich will continue to be rich

Phones › Re: TECNO Camon 16 Premier First Impressions And Review + Price (photos) by Dpsychologist: 8:37pm On Sep 08, 2020

Mehnnnnn!

115k but with a 4500mah?
Mtchew

I am disappointed in TECNO

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Sports › Re: Ava And Mia Mikel Obi Adorable In 'Big Girls School' Attire (Pix) by Dpsychologist: 8:36pm On Sep 08, 2020

Mikel obi married a white woman?

Phones › Re: Live Unveiling Of The TECNO CAMON 16 Series (Watch Live) by Dpsychologist: 8:33pm On Sep 08, 2020

For how much?

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:30pm On Sep 08, 2020

sotall:

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:13pm On Sep 08, 2020

Dpsychologist:
Women possess neoteny. Lemme explain

Neoteny refers to an adult organism retaining childlike features. In humans, this means a roundish, soft face with large eyes, short nose, full lips and clear skin, but also overall a shorter and weaker stature. Neoteny is a highly desirable trait in women and women are more neotenous than men, both in appearance and behavior (e.g. adult crying ).

Women use make-up to enhance their neoteny by smoothing their skin and enhancing eye contrast.

Women's neoteny steeply declines in their twenties such that women's rate of aging is faster than men's, which is known as hitting the wall .

A twentyfive year old woman will already have a less neotenous facial fat distribution and hence appear less sexually attractive than an eighteen year old woman.

Men desire neoteny. This preference can be seen in

1. Men's re-marriage: The age gap is little at first marriage, it becomes widest at second or third marriage.

2. Hypogamy: A 40year old man marries a 20year old woman is another example.

People tend to confuse beauty with virtue

Handsomeness lacks the visual childlike innocence signatory of beauty that leads the observer to infer virtue.

Effectively the visual cues that lead us to believe in the innocence of children is the exact mechanism from which women’s beauty takes a degree of its power; that degree pertaining to the conflation of beauty with virtue and the presumption of innocence that results from it rather than woman’s sexual power per se.

This phenomenon alone serves as further proof of women’s immaturity relative to man, if further proof were even necessary; greater neoteny is a biological marker of lesser maturity. In summary of this section’s thought, I leave you with this concluding statement: her first concern is her appearance, her second concern her cunning, but both serve the same ends.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:23pm On Sep 08, 2020*

26.) DOMINANCE & BOLDNESS :

When you are a push over, its game over
— Dpsychologist

Always set boundaries with everyone, do not be a pushover. Cultivate a sense of fearless boldness. Men take more risks than women and are expected to do so by merit of being male.

Being fearful and unconfident as a man leads to failure and disrespect from peers. Men must be confrontational and risk-takers when a situation calls for it, they cannot be passive or defer responsibility without losing esteem.

As such, men are required to solve problem and deal with conflict in a way unexpected of women. Men are better equipped to deal with such matters (see sections 3 and 10).

TRP more or less advocates that the way to get girlfriends (including model girlfriends) is by building self-confidence and self-worth (mental 'frame') by yourself.

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Celebrities › Re: Framed Photo Of Hushpuppi Sold In Lagos Traffic For N30,000 (Video) by Dpsychologist: 6:13pm On Sep 08, 2020

This guy wants to make money from Hushpuppi

Politics › Re: Buhari, Family Under Fire For Breaching CBN Act, NCDC Guideline At Hanan Wedding by Dpsychologist: 6:09pm On Sep 08, 2020*

Firstorderwizard:
Rules are meant for the poor
I never believed this before but now I've learnt from experience

True

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Nairaland General › Re: Huge Snake And Monitor Lizard Caught By Soldiers In Maiduguri (Photo) by Dpsychologist: 3:13pm On Sep 08, 2020

Madmohamed419:
thay send them to kill boko Haram they r busy killing innocent snake. Coward SOJA

Ah tell you

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:10pm On Sep 08, 2020

Legitimate female friends, women you find unattractive and are interesting are rare, because most women have no personality. Their personality basic, based on gossip. This is most women; the epitome of boring. Most women never become more than their sexuality because they don’t need to evolve beyond that to be successful. This is why the vast majority of women make no effort to be funny or interesting. That’s just the way it is. If you want quality friendship, you look for it among men.

If you are ever in a situation where you’re stuck with women and bored out of your mind (you will be) the best way to make things interesting is to mock them. The only way women become interesting is if you tease them, call them out and be generally combative. Otherwise you’ll be bored, asking yourself why you’re with a gaggle of women when you’d have more fun reading the world’s least interesting book.

A lot of what i said here overlaps with the principles laid out in section 18, refer to that for a deeper understanding of this dynamic.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:09pm On Sep 08, 2020*

Even though a man’s friendship is worth more than a woman’s, women won’t trade sex for it because being likeable doesn’t make you fuckable. Women have the opposite problem, they are fuckable rather than likeable. Men have to work to be fuckable, women have to work to be likeable.

But a woman is only concerned with her own needs(Narcissism) not yours. Just like men will gladly use a women up sexually, a woman will gladly use up a man emotionally and financially.

A woman is all too happy to devour your time and use you as a source of entertainment and conduit (means) for complaining all the while she gives you nothing in return.

This is a bad deal for a man because his company is infinitely higher quality, and thus more valuable than hers. In 99% of cases this means if you’re hanging out with a woman you are interested and you’re not fucking, you’re getting a bad deal .

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:08pm On Sep 08, 2020*

25.) WHY WOMEN COVET MALE FRIENDSHIP :

Women want male friends because they’re better company. More interesting, more entertaining, less crazy, less annoying – all of that good stuff. Likewise they know if they’re pretty they can leverage that into favour whilst giving you nothing, so this is the scam most even moderately pretty women are working.

The more beautiful a woman is, the more guys in her friend zone

Men want to be friends with women because they are naive and think friendship is the first stepping stone to sex. Women profit from this false belief because men waste time, passion and energy on an endeavour which eventually yields nothing but hassle in return. When a man figures out friendship is not the path to sex with women, he ceases to see the point in having female friends.

Be weary of girls that dress provocatively. Because she dresses as such does not mean she is very cheap and will get laid with you. In fact they are the most difficult to Bleep. They are dressing provocatively so you can give them your attention, resources and commitment with the expectation of sex, unfortunately you will not get it. This is a tactic used by golddiggers. The irony is that the girls who dress decently and who are Innocent are those very easy to Bleep.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:06pm On Sep 08, 2020

24.) THE FEMINISATION OF EDUCATION :
The female child is regarded as more important than the male.

In my alma mater, during my University days an entrepreneur gave 150k to all male first class but then gave 250k to females.

The modern educational environment is not very kind to boys and young men. Women are starting to outnumber men in school and have a stronger presence within institutions of higher learning.

The concentration is on the female

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:24pm On Sep 08, 2020

Good day everyone

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Romance › Re: The Women Are Wonderful Myth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:12pm On Sep 07, 2020

chiddyok:
I’m a woman. Why do I find myself agreeing with this post?
Ps no feminist should come and disturb me. What y’all practice in Nigeria is petty feminism, the feminism that wants to talk, but not act. The one that will not endure difference of opinion.

Yea i guess its because the post is saying the truth and at the same time the language is neutral without any form of insult.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:53pm On Sep 07, 2020*

23.) WOMEN GAIN MORE FROM RELATIONSHIPS / MARRIAGES THAN MEN :

Jeff Bezos estranged wife Mackenzie Scott is now worth about $68B after divorce settlement,making her the world richest woman. This is money she never worked for. She is richer than Oprah Winfrey who has been working her ass off decades ago.

Any man that’s ever heard other married men talk has surely heard of the “what’s yours is ours” and “what’s hers is hers” double standard.

To women, relationships are exercises in which you burden another with your baggage which lead to their betterment but do not want to contribute their part. A woman is very stingy with her resource. She wants to use your money but do not want you to use hers

For a man a relationship is a morbid attempt at controlled chaos, an exercise in the most burdensome leadership.

Relationship is something society encourages, because society derives benefit from it. Of course society derives benefit from all male sacrifice, which is why of course society has always encouraged men to do things that aren’t necessarily in their best interest.

Society encourages you to buy the flowers, do the calling, take her on a date, buy her gifts. All to their benefits, they are making money from it.

By my use of the word “society” I of course refer to women at large, the female hive mind. So aside from peer pressure, why do we do even do it? Why do men have relationships with women when they can enjoy the best a woman has to offer without making a promise of commitment?

Men have their various reasons. For some, it’s a fear of loneliness. For others, it’s the dream of being a patriarch that rules over his own family, a good (high value, well-trained) woman being essential to such an endeavour, rare as they are.

For the men still plugged in(blue pill) , it’s based on an archaic idealistic notion of undying love served to you by the societally entrenched meme of “The One™”(We will talk about the soul mate myth later )

Women have nothing to lose from securing a man’s commitment, but for a man it is a risk, a calculated risk. Our risk is higher because by merit of having more to give, we have more to lose.
We marry downwards or sideways and as such lose more

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Romance › Re: The Women Are Wonderful Myth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:45pm On Sep 07, 2020

Truvel:
Op, Be Ready 4 War 4rm Anti-women Group In Nairaland, Lol.

Lol the War is already won.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dpsychologist: 7:41pm On Sep 07, 2020*

KVN1:
Hello redpillers,

I messed up again.

I traveled to another city for some business transactions.

Prior to that time, there's this girl I've been chatting with and making overt passes at( yeah, I've been raw and straight to the point with her), and whenever I say sth about making out with her, she turns me down weakly with words like"you're high, your head" etc

Once upon a time,I invited her over to my school,she schools in another state..She agreed to come, but I had to cancel, because I was checking my expenses.

Throughout last week,I was in the town where she stays,but I had to finish with most important stuffs first..

On Thursday,I gave her a call and asked her to come to the hotel where I was lodging..she begged me to shift our meeting to Sunday because that's the only time she's free from work. In the course of our meeting plans,she told me she'll be coming with her sister cos she doesn't trust me. I asked her to bring her purse along to clear her sister's bills..she finally coordinate shaa

Mind you,I was lodging in a hotel, and because I accepted the postponement,I had to pay for two extra nights (just to have sex... for my mind naa)

She called me two hours to our scheduled meeting time and told me she wouldn't be able to make it that she made some loss in the shop which she would be trying to pay back by working overtime... I became furious,but I was still calm.. I called her again, this time, trying to cajole her to come... that I already wasted cash for her sake...She stylishly dropped the call and claimed it was network..but this time,she was beginning to feel guilty...so I banked on that... I asked her where she stays and she lied about that...

I again remembered she once told me that so I traced her to her place.

On seeing me,she was so shocked, surprised...but happy that I could find my way to her place...

I wasn't having any of those, so I rebuked her severely, but this time,she was begging.I decided to relax and bit...she gave me a hug, but I didn't hug back..but after some minutes,the third leg took over from the brain... I kissed her in the ear twice, and she was relaxed. I decided to calm down when I noticed someone coming around.

So this time again,I made a move to hold her and bring her closer to me, but this time,she protested. This one come vex me. How she go get mind make me waste money for hotel still come dey do rubbish... I tried to catch her hand almost forcefully ..and we stuggled with it for some time with her claiming that I was hurting her

The biggest f up came when she started begging me to ''show her love" still no want make I even kiss her and I think I became needy...

I teased her with money but eventually gave it to her claiming she'd have gotten more if she had complied with our terms of meeting..

After I gave her the money without even considering what I've been through already, I felt scales fall from my eyes and I come realize say I don jonse..

Redpillers,abeg make una advise me because I dey vex..

I still want this girl to pay in kind but I think I need help on how to go about it..

Till today,she never even call me to know if I reach home in peace

Insults are allowed.

Damn bro. You bleeped up big time. See the way this girl manipulated you.

Mehn.

She is already done with you. Just move on

In life you fail and you learn lessons. It is what you do with that lessons that turn to blessings—Dpsychologist

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:35pm On Sep 07, 2020

Dpsychologist:

The better looking you are , the more positively you are perceived. This bias for the attractive we all instinctively share is described by a phenomenon known as the halo effect.

Being a bad boy helps 'get' women. Having the permission to act like an asshole/badguy around women requires that you already have a perceived looks, money, or status.

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Romance › Re: The Women Are Wonderful Myth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:01pm On Sep 07, 2020

tobechi74:
Do you have a blog for these your posts

Unfortunately not

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:22pm On Sep 07, 2020*

The truth does not need a lawyer.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:21pm On Sep 07, 2020

If you say the truth, it will set you free.

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