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RomanceRe: The Women Are Wonderful Myth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:18pm On Sep 07, 2020
JasperVII:
Vagina people go soon show. We dey wait sha
Lol, they can only argue but it still don't change the fact
RomanceRe: Gatekeepers Of Commitment by Dpsychologist(op): 4:17pm On Sep 07, 2020
IAmSkinny:
Swears
I wish my guys would see this. I'm tired of arguing tirelessly with them on the need to be redpill woke.
Why don't You invite them over to come see it here. If after taken the red Pill and they refuse to change. Then they are no longer blue pill but they are just being very Stubborn.
RomanceRe: Sex Is Not As Free As You Think - Part 2 by Dpsychologist(op): 4:13pm On Sep 07, 2020
InfinityFabric:
Quite insightful.
That being said, there are always exceptions.
An exception does not render a principle to be void. Just like democracy, the majority carry the vote

When we say men are logical and women are emotional. Using the pareto principle it means Men are 20% emotional and 80% logical. While women are 80% emotional and 20% logical, yet we say
We say men have Testosterone, and women estrogen.
But look closer men have estrogen also, but .
Nothing is absolute(100%) so because there are exceptions don't make i said to be false.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
22.) THE IMPORTANCE OF SOCIAL /SEXUAL MARKET VALUE :
In male - female relationship, Social/sexual market value is everything. Something a low-value man says which is seen as “creepy” is “flirty” or “sexy” when spoken by a high value man. If you are not high value you are invisible to women.

In your quest to be an alpha male never forget about your appearance. You have to dress the part

If you are not naturally handsome exercise and get muscles, eat well, take care of your scalp and facial hair, dress nice, put cologne this will compensate for your lack of handsomeness and will improve your appearance. This Self improvement Itself will increase your strength and Confidence

As an addendum, Get as popular as you can, hold leadership positions and do anything to increase you status. This will radically increase your Confidence. Also Hustle for money but be wise not to be used as an ATM(you know what i mean).

The theory of first impression
Do you know that in the first instance of meeting a woman, she has already decided (about 90%) if something will ever happen between both of you. This is due to first impression. If you put your hands in your pocket, can’t maintain eye contact and dress crappily, you will still have problem with women. Most will judge you because of the way you appear. Remember people will forever judge a book by its cover.

A man must as such focus on maintaining his physical appearance and status to the highest possible standard. This will make his life easier in areas not just confined to sexuality, but likewise in the social and financial.

The better looking you are , the more positively you are perceived. This bias for the attractive we all instinctively share is described by a phenomenon known as the halo effect.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija: Chidi Mike To Give Erica N2M Cash After Disqualification by Dpsychologist: 11:22am On Sep 07, 2020
2 Million just like that?

FoodRe: Three Crowns ‘Jara’ Campaign Elevates Care For Mums by Dpsychologist:
Three crowns "jara" ?

RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:17am On Sep 07, 2020
hahn:
I'll definitely teach my son
This is very necessary for the male child especially in the kind of generation we are living in.

I have started teaching my juniors and cousins subtly. They need to be emancipated.
FamilyRe: 3-Page List Of Marriage Items By A Nigerian Family by Dpsychologist: 11:13am On Sep 07, 2020
AntiWailer:
Nice list grin grin
God knows I can never marry into such greedy family.
Their type will eventually wreck the man
It seems Poverty is Disturbing that family o Lol
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:11am On Sep 07, 2020
hahn:
Now I finally understand that for a woman it ain't easy trying to raise a man - Tupac
Yea. I remember that line from his song, Dear mama.

Its difficult to raise a man for them.
FamilyRe: 3-Page List Of Marriage Items By A Nigerian Family by Dpsychologist: 11:09am On Sep 07, 2020
Arrewa:
Now way men don dey form Galadima??

In the next 10yrs if you don't take time na beg parents go dey beg men to come and marry their daughter for free.

Men way no send marriage again grin

Parents don't know the kind of Alpha men this our generation is breeding grin
Hehehehe you are right at thesame time funny

RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
21.) SINGLE MOTHERS BREED WEAK MEN :
Single mothers are ill-equipped to breed men, and overwhelmingly lack the tools necessary to give a boy the guidance he needs to reach a higher stage of male development.

Boys don’t meet their potential, they are poorly disciplined(no mental toughness) and have little sense of purpose or life direction.

Poor discipline breeds low confidence and passivity, qualities which are inherently anti-charismatic in nature and hence deleterious to a man’s romantic chances.

These are men that end of being mama's boy. Single mothers raise weak men. However, a single mother breeds a strong/masculine woman
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
Dpsychologist:

19.) THE WALL : MEN APPRECIATE , WOMEN DEPRECIATE:

Women possess neoteny. Lemme explain

Neoteny refers to an adult organism retaining childlike features. In humans, this means a roundish, soft face with large eyes, short nose, full lips and clear skin, but also overall a shorter and weaker stature. Neoteny is a highly desirable trait in women and women are more neotenous than men, both in appearance and behavior (e.g. adult crying ).

Women use make-up to enhance their neoteny by smoothing their skin and enhancing eye contrast.

Women's neoteny steeply declines in their twenties such that women's rate of aging is faster than men's, which is known as hitting the wall .

A twentyfive year old woman will already have a less neotenous facial fat distribution and hence appear less sexually attractive than an eighteen year old woman.

Men desire neoteny. This preference can be seen in

1. Men's re-marriage: The age gap is little at first marriage, it becomes widest at second or third marriage.

2. Hypogamy: A 40year old man marries a 20year old woman is another example.
CrimeRe: The Security Man Who Killed A Bride-To-Be And Buried Her In Delta State Pictured by Dpsychologist: 10:10am On Sep 07, 2020
Mehnnnnn!

What does it profit a man to kill someone and end up being arrested and thrown in jail.

RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:06am On Sep 07, 2020
20.) MEN ARE MADE , WOMEN ARE BORN :
Women are born, a woman is just a girl that can conceive children. There is no challenge mental, spiritual or otherwise that distinguishes a girl from a woman, nothing other than age even attempts to make this distinction. And thus it is so that whilst we hear chatter of what constitutes manliness, that a hated man is a boy whilst an admired man is “a real man”, we hear no such rhetoric in regards to women.

Unlike womanhood, there are barriers to manhood which transcend age and they embody qualities and characteristics which men as a collective respect and aspire to. Things like fearlessness, confidence, bravery, strength and honour. Unlike women, men are not born, they are created. Pain, poverty, difficulty and heartache, these are the things that make men out of boys.

It is women that pushed most men to the red pill

Conflict and pain is what forges the masculine mindset, a boy cannot grow into a man without conflict and retrospectively analysing his mistakes. A man is the embodiment of experience and difficulty.

Men need to apply logic to the pain endured in their lives in order to become powerful enough to transcend boyhood. Men are not born because comfort doesn’t breed men, men are bred in the fields of bloody battle, be it a war of economy, psychology, violence, or a combination of such.

A man is a soldier of differing kinds, an individual that has learnt to repress fear and hone the adrenaline it elicits to attack his limitations and evolve. This is the spirit of “manning up”, all this the process necessary to become someone worthy of the mighty majesty the word “man” represents.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:04am On Sep 07, 2020
ongback:
True, but in most cases such man will end up in tears and regrets.
Unfortunately that is the consequences they have to face. Some have lost their jobs, some assets, some lost their sanity and some lost their lives.

There is no benefits for being a weak man.
RomanceRe: Sex Is Not As Free As You Think - Part 2 by Dpsychologist(op): 9:53am On Sep 07, 2020
IAmSkinny:
Damn! How do you by pass this shit? I don't see myself spending on any silly kitten. I've never and would never.
This is where game is important. If you keep chasing a lady not interested in you thats where you end up spending unnecessary on p*ssy. When you have a girl insanely interested in you, you can get the pussy anytime, anywhere.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
ongback:
Truth, but the rate have increased in recent times. Amplified simps everywhere, it's the norm nowadays.
As funny as this may seem. I have Discovered that simps/nice guys have Financial dominance(findom) complex. Lemme explain

Financial domination (money slavery or
findom ) is a sexual fetish , in particular a practice of
dominance and submission, where a submissive ( money slave, human ATM usually a male) will give gifts and money to a dominant (money mistress, findomme, or cash master) woman .

The relation may often be accompanied by other practices of BDSM and master/slave relationships, like
erotic humiliation , but there may be virtually no further intimacy between the individuals.

The relationship between the "slave" and the dominant may take place solely via online communication, but it is not uncommon for the "slave" to accompany the dominant while shopping and paying with the submissive's money.

The submissive guy may grant all their money saved and earned to the dominant(woman) , in addition to many other aspects of their autonomy, and it is not uncommon for both partners to have an intimate relationship as well.

Financial domination can also be distinguished from sugar baby relationships in which a sugar daddy/mama offers gifts and money to the "baby" in return for a relationship, generally without any explicit elements of domination.

SMH
RomanceRe: Life Without A Boyfriend by Dpsychologist:
lefulefu:
i was reading a story this afternoon on some dude who went homeless cos he was spending on some chick cheesy.girl is not even his girlfriend cheesy.She is a sort of social media influencer and the dude is one of her fans.the guy feel in love with her online sorts of and the girl used it to her advantage.before u know it the dude spend up to twelve thousand dollars on her sold his truck and used the money on her and wen he got broke the chick blocked him.the man is currently four months behind his rent and he got kicked out by his landlord cheesy.He is now on the streets.In anger on how the babe scammed him he had to expose her grin.see guy i dont blame the ladies cashing on the morons.most times the morons are the ones who begged to be scammed grin.
As funny as this may seem. I have Discovered that simps/nice guys have Financial dominance(findon) complex. Lemme explain

Financial domination (also known as money slavery or
findom ) is a sexual fetish , in particular a practice of
dominance and submission, where a submissive ( money slave, human ATM usually a male) will give gifts and money to a financial dominant (money mistress, findomme, money domme ) woman .

The relation may often be accompanied by other practices of BDSM and master/slave relationships, like
erotic humiliation , but there may be virtually no further intimacy between the individuals.

The relationship between the "slave" and the dominant may take place solely via online communication, but it is not uncommon for the "slave" to accompany the dominant while shopping and paying with the submissive's money.

The submissive guy may grant all their money saved and earned to the dominant(woman) , in addition to many other aspects of their autonomy, and it is not uncommon for both partners to have an intimate relationship as well.

Financial domination can also be distinguished from sugar baby relationships in which a sugar daddy/mama offers gifts and money to the "baby" in return for a relationship, generally without any explicit elements of domination.

In financial domination the submissive has no expectation of sexual contact in return for the money, and often there is no physical contact of any kind between the two parties.
RomanceRe: Gatekeepers Of Commitment by Dpsychologist(op): 10:50pm On Sep 06, 2020
IAmSkinny:
Men, I'm speechless.
The truth is like a rude awakening. It can be bitter to taste and difficult to swallow but it emancipates.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:47pm On Sep 06, 2020
Martinez39s:
This is good stuff. Ride on!
We will keep riding till all the red pill in the world is exhausted. cheesy
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:44pm On Sep 06, 2020
Kalatium:
The old Charlie’s Angels was far better than the new Charlie’s Angels. The Story line is not intriguing.

Why blame men for the movie being a box office bomb. Didn’t the old one still sold well despite being female led.
Her statement is not only non sequitur but also preposterous.
Yea true
RomanceRe: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Dpsychologist: 10:37pm On Sep 06, 2020
Adesucess1:
I met the man i married 2 years ago, it was like a joke, we started like a friend, i never knew we could even be together because he was always to joffier, he was a cool headed man, he is caring and loving and he is also very rich, though his money is not what i was looking for, i was looking for true love and what truly felt them was love.

He always say to me that he loves me and use to ask me that if am not in love with him, i should let him know that breaking a courtship is better than breaking a marriage. I dont even know maybe something was truly wrong with me then because i told him i do love him too, truly, i thought i did, because as at then, i dont usually remember my ex boyfriend, he was the only in my heart, so, i felt i love him.

Now, we are in the marriage, but the thought of my ex boyfriend keeps coming to the extend that when we make love, i always remember my ex boyfriend. i just dont understand all this, i had to reflect in my past that how did we started i remember that i had forgotten my ex boyfriend, now am so confused how his thought started coming again, and this bitters my heart.

My conscience is beginning to hunt me, i never knew i still love my ex until i got married, i dont want to hurt my man and i want to protect my marriage but all i use to remember is my ex and is affecting the marriage, its not as if my ex boyfriend called me, all these just started of a sudden, am so tired of all these nonsense . Please what should i do? I need serious help?
This is okafor's law at work
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):

This is what ultimately leads to a lot of resentment and bitterness from women and constitutes a huge part of the core demographic in the most radical elements of the feminist movement, blaming their lack of social/sexual appeal on concepts like “the patriarchy” and “misogyny” to rationalise away their lack of biological attractiveness to the opposite sex and the social ramifications which follow from that.

It is only with this erosion of power in a woman’s life that a shift in priorities takes hold, such women scramble in desperation to find a man to settle down with, often settling for men they would not give a look but a few short years before.

This is why you see ladies marrying men they are not attracted to but because she is desperate for marriage she has to marry whoever is ready.(This is another cause of dual mating strategy)

They date a man they love but marry a man that loves them.

Men on the other hand are beginning to acquire more power than they had in their twenties around this age, becoming even more attractive to women( you will then be surprised that now that you have made it, the same lady who may have rejected you will now be going gaga for you) .

A woman burns brightly in youth but extinguishes quickly with age, time is much kinder to men, permitting them to age more like wine than milk. This is why it is like a taboo to ask a woman her age, whilst men bear no such sensitivity over the issue .
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):

This stage is what is referred to in the red pill philosophy as “the wall” it’s around the age of 25– 35 (depending on the specific woman) when a woman’s physical appearance takes a sudden decline she begins to finds her life becoming less enjoyable because essentially, her beauty privilege is fading.

Guys now pay less attention to her and because she didn’t spend her youth cultivating personality traits which men value, the asset she has exploited for the entirety of her life to get by is beginning to fail her and she can feel her power and social leverage weaken in its sphere of influence.

As her social value falls, her misery increases – it’s usually at this stage where women panic, they want a family/baby and become more open-minded in regards to learning new things and essentially try to give their personality a makeover in order to secure a mate; both because they fear the prospect of being socially unsuccessful as well as reproductively which ultimately leads to life loneliness.

This is the stage where if a woman cannot improve herself, she’ll “settle” for a man, quite miserably, who she perceives as “beneath her” because of all the hot guys she had back in her younger days, however because her sexual value has fallen with age she is unable to still get that same calibre of man for a one night stand, let alone a commitment and thus “the settling.”

However, after years of marriage and she is able to have a hold of the guy she is truly attracted, she is will cheat on her husband

For example : https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):

19.) THE WALL : MEN APPRECIATE , WOMEN DEPRECIATE:
Women are depreciating assets, their major asset and unique selling point is their sexual beauty and fertility.

Most squander their prime engaging in casual sex with strange men met in club and parties. Thinking the party will never end, such women spend the bulk of their twenties being generally infantile, and irresponsible, believing they have all the time in the world “to settle down.” This is the time you will see all those ladies you are crushing on rolling with sugar daddies, big boys or bad guys.

Then around age 30 a strange thing happens, a woman’s looks begin to noticeably decline, every wrinkle eroding the allure and power she is accustomed to. This is further exacerbated by years of debauchery, substance abuse, wild sex etc and so typically lacking in any culinary(cooking) ability the modern woman is prone to premature ageing.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
ongback:
Truth, but the rate have increased in recent times. Amplified simps everywhere.
Ah tell you.

There was a thread i saw in front page where a man was proposing to a girl and was even rolling in the mud after she rejected his proposal.
The worst is that this guy sponsored her to school.
I will talk about this issue here later on.

BTW

I like your moniker, it makes me remember the movie, "ongbak", with its superior fighting skills.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:57pm On Sep 06, 2020
ongback:
Imagine a world without SIMPS, the narcissistic engines of all these females will always lack fuel.
Thats true. But unfortunately look at where we are. A look down history will show you how weak men died for women in the guise of love. See the way Cleopatra turn mark Anthony, a mighty roman general into a pawn. This was just after she was done with Julius caesar.

Thank God, octavius was too smart to be manipulated by cleopatra. It was he that led to her death.

Men have been simping since from time immemorial. History keeps on repeating itself because men refuse to learn from history.

The internet as given us opportunity to see for ourselves what it entails. It is now left to us not to repeat those mistakes.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):

17.) FEMALE VICTIM MINDSET

Real life Example of women playing victim mindset

Elizabeth Banks exhibited an excellent example of Female HypoAgency by blaming the failure of her unsuccessful "Charlie’s Angels" feminist promoting movie, on men’s failure to attend the cinema because women are the action heroes.

She never want to consider the fact that, could it just be that the film is crap? But no, it must be men’s fault.

What about wonder woman and captain marvel that were blockbusters were they not also female led action stars?


SMH

RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:00pm On Sep 06, 2020

The top 3 most populated countries are China, India and The friendzone. Stop making your commitment too cheap to the opposite sex Dpsychologist


Men are the gatekeepers of commitment and women are the gatekeepers of sex. Women decide if sex will happen, but men decide if a relationship follows.

Why is it this way? Simple supply and demand.

Men covet sex more than women, whereas women covet relationships more than men. Male commitment to women is as valuable as sex is to men.

The kicker is, a woman need not necessarily trade sex for commitment(The mutually respectable arrangements are that women demand commitment for their sex, and men demand sex for their commitment) . Much like men who enjoy sex devoid of commitment(such as players/badboys) , women are known to enjoy commitment devoid of sex(virgin, golddigger) .

Where a woman can get commitment without giving sex, she will “become friends” with a man. This is the friend zone, a purgatory where men willing to commit to a woman without any promise of sex from her in return while he erodes his last portion of their dignity.

This man is the male equivalent of a slut, because much like promiscuous women lower the price of sex, a sexless yet committed man lowers the price of commitment.

Thus a Beta male is an equivalent of a slut.

RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):

18.) GATEKEEPERS :

Sex is the female dominion of power and it is in this relational battlefield that sex is constantly weaponized, dangled, implied, used as bait and then withdrawn to solidify and ensure your promise of commitment, whilst her promise of sexual access remains retractable(withdrawn) .


Women don’t need to work to get sex, sure certain men may present a challenge because they’re out of her league but if she works within her level and goes out tonight and tells a guy that she wants him then 9/10 guys will agree to bang her. It takes no skill for a woman to get sex and therefore it does not merit any respect or admiration. Women are the gatekeepers to sex, men are generally up for sex most of the time, specific men aside.


Many women are conscious of the power they have in simply saying “I’m not in the mood” when they are withholding sex as a mechanism to manipulate their man into bending to her will. Naturally, this is the best option that women use to manipulate their partners.


The male response should of course be, dread game(i will talk about dread game later) . It is in the female nature to reduce your sexual access whilst she continues to maximise your level of personal investment into her well-being.

Effectively, women use sex or the implication of sex strategically to ensure their self-interest in relationships with men.

For her to crave your sex and lose the ability to leverage it over you, you must be able to own her like Christian Grey of 50 shades of grey(this is the essence of bad boy, Alpha male) .

Read more on
https://www.nairaland.com/6092760/gatekeepers-commitment
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:55pm On Sep 06, 2020
Lets roll....
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
Dande55:
I'm a living sperm, I survive by growing vagina every day of my life grin

Since I came out from the smelly pussy of a whòre, I can't stop talking about it.
As much as i am tolerant with all NLders to comment on this thread. Your posts are unnecessary.

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