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[color=maroon] Why women play victims
Women play victims due to female hypoagency.


Female HypoAgency allows women to choose to be an
Object (Victim) or Agent (Independant & strong woman) of their actions. This switchable ability gives them
Deniable Plausiblity.

While Men can only ever be considered to be Agents (Perpetrators), they are never really thought of as Objects (Victims), most especially in a dynamic which involves a woman.

An immediate example would be how we percieve women hitting men as okay if not actually quite funny, while men hitting women is domestic violence.

Another example is men raping women which is called rape , while women raping men, there is not even a word for it. A woman cannot rape a man, there is no law against it, rape only applies to men (Agents) doing something to women(Objects), and yet we know countless women are caught raping minors, but the word is never used in law because the act does not currently exist for women. That is HypoAgency.[/color]

fattprince:
Happy Sunday you to bro.
Could you imagine I saw the herd theory apply today. A guy was talking about how he is suspecting his wife then someone came over to talk about how it's all the man's fault and how the man should change and some other whatnot advice. Didn't even say anything about the woman. Guess who said all this? A FEMALE. Like WTF?!!! A female is fornicating but it's the husband you are advising to change. Wouldn't it be easier if it's the woman that should just stop fornicating?

Glad you are seeing the manipulation being played covertly(secretly) by women . Women do not like to be blamed and will always side their fellow gender (even if she is wrong)

This is the truth, even though it may be better.

Happy sunday guys

See y'all tomorrow. Gnyt

[color=maroon] Women victim mindsets

¶ False tears
This is a popular victim Principle used by women. It is very easy for women to shed tears crocodile tears. In order for her to conjure up pity, she will force the tear gland to release tears. At the sight of tears, most people will believe she is the victim.


¶ He used and dump me
He didn't use and dump you. You both used each other and dump each other.

¶ Excuses
He wasn't giving me attention so i cheated, is her excuses. She is just trying to make herself feel like the victim. Cheating is a choice. She was just looking for an excuse to cheat. If the man was to give her alot of attention she will still be complaining that the man is too clingy and desperate.

¶ I was naive
After whoring around she will claim she was cajoled or taken advantage of. This days Even pornstars are now claiming victims, claiming they were naive or cajoled when they join porn industry.

Saying men manipulate them into having sex is itself a manipulation. They want to make it seem as if they are victims so that society won't see them as slutty or wayward. This manipulation technique is called " victim entrapment manipulation "

¶ I was molested
As surprising as it may sound. Ladies inorder not to feel slutty will form victims by claiming a guy molested them especially if they know they are not virgins. (this is the extent a woman can go just to save face)


¶ Men see us as sex objects
This is a victim mentality. A girl will dress provocatively, show her backside on Instagram and then show her breast on twitter but then complain about men objectifying them.

But men are also objectified by women. They see men as "success objects" . She will be calling a guy in his 20's broke, irresponsible or without future. Thats objectification


¶ Men are cheats.
Women say this line always so that men will be seen globally as cheats.
I agree men are cheats. So who do men cheat with, is it stones?
Men cheat with women. So it means women are also cheats.
By the way, women are experts at cheating.

¶ Society's contributions
When a woman treats a man poorly, it is asked what he did to make her behave so unsightly, yet should a man treat a woman poorly, it is hastily concluded he is a monster without further investigation.

Women are given the benefit of the doubt even when they have done wrong, with justifications being sought to explain away their wrongdoing – no such instinctual courtesy is extended to men.

This is a social privilege women benefit , to the extent that even in courts of law their punishments are less punitive, should they even be punished at all. [/color]

fattprince:
Continue Boss.

Yes boss . We will ride till the end

Chineke
150 cows?

Mehnnnnn!

The Red Pill is simply the truth. But has you must have heard, the truth is bitter.

saladinnoir:
While I love what you're doing, I'm sceptical about what you said here "Ask a man to chose between his Wife or child and he will always choose his Wife" I don't have any kids but I've seen examples that prove this wrong, and I believe you shouldn't generalise.

Thanks for bringing my attention to this. I think i didn't clarify myself vividly on that statement. I think i have to reorganize that statement.

My message is that men will choose their wives over their child not that they don't love them but if in a situation to choose between both of them especially in situation like death.

For example : a woman with complications in a labor room will chose to die to let her unborn child live but if a man is given the choice between his wife and his unborn child he will choose the wife over the child. With the Belief that she can give birth to another child.

Mehnnnnn!

In Nigeria BBNaija is better than school

Good day everyone. Lets roll shall we.

Kalatium:
Exactly the OP's point earlier

Perfection is gotten through repeated action not by just reading instructions — Dpsychologist

Exactly

Nigeria with its daily pandemonium

Martinez39s:
This is good stuff.

Thanks mart, feel free to contribute.

Grandamante:
Because women are passionately jealous and envious of penis. Give a woman a penis and watch her cause havoc.

You are making sense.
I heard of a research done by Sigmund Freud in the 20th century that proposes that women are envious of penis.

TEAMvido:
My guy no vex o
Make I ask you one question...
Why you just carry women matter put for head like say na your hair ??..

Am just curious .


Although am your fan and i like how you write..

Lol good question.

The truth is that i get pissed off anytime i see on Nairaland frontpage, where a guy with beards is being manipulated and he simps around to the extent he is being humiliated.

As for the frequency of my post there is something i call, "The Reiteration effect" When an information is constantly repeated to an individual in different forms. The information becomes incorporated into the individual.

There is nothing we have not seen those n Nigeria.

[color=#800080] WOMEN AND EMOTIONS [/color]

A woman’s definition of good and bad bear little logical merit, for a woman rather be told pretty lies that charm her than be saved from colossal error that causes ill-feeling. In fact if you give women wisdom that will save them, should it happen to feel bad they will opt to ignore it, hate you for eliciting negative feeling, and defy you in the hasty deduction you’re an enemy.


Women are not known for living harmoniously with reality, they have a propensity to weave and work with delusion because they have a blind trust for emotion and value the convenience that such rapidly attained certainty provides.

Of course, the cunning can easily manipulate emotion for less than noble purposes, are pick-up artists not the perfect proof of this?

So if women are so impervious to logic and reasoned discussion, how do you persuade them into a particular course of action?

Well of course, one must speak in the language of emotion, of which there are two primary mechanisms of influence: shame/guilt and approval/validation.

Whatever is validated, approved of and praised is that which “feels right” to women, regardless of whether the thing being promoted or praised is a toxic value of a declining and degenerate culture.

Toxic here is not meant as a value judgement, but is rather meant in the sense “sure that feels good right now, indulge it, go right ahead, but in the long run you will regret what you just did, it will make you feel horrible, and you won’t be able to take it back because it’s done and all you’re left with is self-delusion in an attempt to cope.”

Using pareto principle, men are 20 % emotive and 80 % logic. While women are 20% logic and 80 emotive.


Most men will act upon logic more often than women, so men as a group are seen as logical. For women, it’s the opposite, a capacity for logic but with a preference for emotion, and hence a propensity to act upon emotional volition. Women will act on emotion more often than men, so women as a group are seen as emotional. Maxims don’t need to be “perfectly true” to be correct, they need only be “accurate most of the time.”

One need not be right all the time, for it is wiser to operate from generalisations that lead one to be right most of the time than it is to reject said generalisation on the basis it is wrong some of the time.

The prior believes in an imperfect statement on the basis it is usually right, the latter rejects an imperfect statement on the basis it is fallible. Rejecting the veracity of something on the basis it is fallible and not correct 100% of the time has to be one of the grandest forms of ignorance conceivable, yet sadly it is fairly common.
Women have a capacity for logic, but because most of the time they cannot segregate emotion from logic, their capacity for logic does not equate to possession of a logical nature.

A person that possess logic who is ill-equipped to segregate it from emotion is not as logical as someone who possess the same logic but can better segregate it from their emotion.


Having a capacity for something does not make you the thing you can sometimes do, to be characterised as something, that part of yourself has to be dominant, a capacity preferred and used often. On the logic-emotion spectrum, you have to err more towards logic than you do emotion to be considered logical, the fact you possess an ability to think logically doesn’t matter if you’re oft overridden by the visceral impulses we know as emotion.
Don’t cling to the idea that just because a woman can have a logical thought, that she is a logical being ruled by logic, this is a false equivalency. If women were logical rather than emotional beings, it would be glaringly obvious, so obvious this essay would probably not exist.

Hence pointing to women’s capacity for logic and then saying they are just as logical as men is a preposterous if not idealistic notion that cherry picks only what it wants to see.
# illimitablemen

NIGERIAN WAHALA

frankman365:
This is the real freedom fight.
Conquer women and about 50% of your problems have been solved.

Word bro.

Flesh and bone did not reveal this to you