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love love google chrome!!!! it just suits me perfectly

i find internet explorer verrry slow,

this sounds good

i had heard that Nigerians werent allowed into Seychelles, except on emergency for not more than 24 hrs!

this is a great development, as these two countries are great for aspiring tourists like me

sophy09:
well i guess you are right parislomo am the rebound girl, my eyes don open. i can't believe i fell for this. just saw another text message where he was telling her they had true love and he will always cherish what they had together and he talked of the probably of them getting together. so what we had was never true love? well i guess i have to move on like what most people said. i do not need to confront him about anything, i hate the fact that he can't even tell his ex that he has a gf already. well i do not think i can trust any guy right now. this is really disappointing with all that she has done, if it were me will he give me the second chance i guess not.

it really is a sad situation, if ur goin to leave him,let him knw why ur doin so and give him a chance to explain, in case he's just tryin to get a revenge frm her.

however, if in fact he's really goin bac to her,let him go and dnt even bother fightin him cos he's not worth it anyway.

bt pls watever happens, just knw that all guys arent d same, lots of good ones out there, dnt let one bastard convince u otherwise.
pray for d grace to meet a guy who really loves u, no one should be alone, no one!

@ poster and others:

how do we in naija help?do we send texts to those numbers also?

how can i volunteer myself?

@ flashgeek:

u said "i will suggest that you start an online business. Browse online for honest opportunities (avoid work from home sites ,they are scams)".
can u kindly suggest sites where i can find such online biz opportunities?
or any1 in d house?ur replies wud be highly appreciated.thank u

p.s am in naija

@ poster, i have to say am with u on this one o!

wont mind if i could naturalise to, (still considering some options)

jamaica sounds good!

naija is just from one wahala to d other, d dark tunnel is soooooooooo long!

This is truly beautiful, so simple and exotic!

wat does one do to have such a beautiful weddin and not soak garri afterwards!

i hope d couple lives together happpily for ever o!

u have to remember that abortion is a grave sin!dont u fear God anymore?u should be happy ur girl wants to keep d baby bt no, ur tryin to convince her to abort it?na wa o!are u even concerned abt her life and possiblity of conceiving again?
PLEASE STOP BEING SELFISH AND SPOILT!!!
whoever told u 27 is young?guy, ur mates are married wit kids all over town, u really need to grow up. forget abt whether or not ur ready, it really isnt abt u or her anymore,bt abt d baby God has blessed u with. if u arent ready to be a father(as u say)then give d baby up for adoption abi
seriously tho, why are u whining?ur parents and her parents are ready to support u, u really need to understand that u have it good.lots of pple wud love to be in ur shoes, do d wise thing!

@ poster, since its a long distance relationship, you both have to put in double the efforts of a normal relationship.

my own relationship has been long distance for the past 2mths and few wks(and its been, really diificult adjusting)
good thing tho, we knew and loved each other for over a yr b4 d distance.and i knw it'll just make our hearts fonder!

whichever way it happens tho, u do need much more than love to survive any relationship.
there shld be trust,patience, tolerance, understandin,respect, etc!try to make d distance wok for u,not against u!

it'll wok out jor!no fears

battleofthesexes

kai thats bad o!
for me o.no matter wat rubbish i utter, comparison btw my ex and my guy is one thing i'll never do!
fact is all d so-called ex-es are not even comparable
pls warn that gal o!its probably her own way of u knw makin u feel bad or teachin u certain things bt its way below d belt.
if she does it again, give her sometime to GO BE WIT D BLOODY EX!
or maybe u shld start comparing her wit ur ex too

~Sauron~:
By natural order, it is easier for a man to cheat than a woman.
It takes EVERYTHING for a woman to go down in that manner cos she musta thunk it through before proceeding.
Women don't cheat by accident like MEN so i stand by my words that a cheating woman CAN poison her husband.

Tsk Tsk!!!

in recent times, its becomin easier and easier for women to unfaithful,without emotions atttached.yeah now a woman can cheat with someone who means NOTHING to her!so this whole poisonin issue, so not true!

@poster, am sorry abt ur pain.bt its up to u to find out if she reallly really loves u and if u can forgive her and move past this.

Ranks007:
It's not easy I must confess, but if you av good intentions, God go see you thru, also fast thinkin helps,

so y do u do it?
pls am not critiscing u
isnt it like, stressful?
so neither of them knows?
how do u juggle double relationship with with work(or school).personal and family life, guy, ur strong and sharp!

princekevo:
They are of no comparism. We Know there is no school as government school in Nigeria, but a glorified Zoo. Where student can hang on the window like monkeys recieving lecture.

that is soooo funny!!!


depending on how much moni ur able to save,private pry sch(this is a must)
and for sec sch, federal schs and military schs arent so bad if u cant do GOOD private.
start saving o!

Ranks007:
****scratches beer-beer**** 2 grls 4 3yrs & six months now, hopin 2 carry any of 'em along after the aptitude relationship test that will qualify any of 'em a wife!!! not jokin' folks!!

u've been dating 2gals for d past 3yrs?wonders!!!!!pls i'd like to knw how ur doin it.so i shall know d signs to look out for

we've been dating for 1yr,6mths!

bestnaijaforum

bestnaijaforum

private schools all d way o,if u'll be educating them in naija

however, its not enuf to just say private sch o!cos private get class now,some r even worse than them public schs.

if u cant afford d really good ones, then pls stick to d likes of QC, KC or military schs.for real o!they aint so bad, i went to navy(real good)

then again PLS START SAVING TODAY!whether married or not and remember, primary sch's d most important.d foundation!spare no expenses!

@ revolt u have fear of roaches and big flyin insects?wow!!!! bt thats wat guys r for, fightinthem off lol
i have fear of not bein there for my children to grow up mehn that shit scares me!
fear of rats and cockroaches ofcourse
and PHOBOPHOBIA,yea am really afraid of being afraid!lol

for me o!in my serious r/ships,my bf's my best friend.
so all this issue of havin a best friend from d past?, NEVER!!!!
ur cousin shld express her worries to d guy,
if it doesnt werk(he doesnt do anything abt it)then like someone said here,she shld also get a male best friend
then lets see how d guy feels abt that.(hope it doesnt backfire tho)
last option?confront d so-called 'best friend'(pls dnt quote me)
final final option,concentrate on d trust u have for him, be nice to her,make her feel jealous too!

mehn! am loving this topic sooooo much!
didnt learn from my mom(bless her soul) bt av picked up alot growin up,
i knw u shld always keep ur kitchen clean,turn pot handles away and d normal ones.bt av read some amazin stuff here
am savin this thread,will pick out d best 'rituals' and they'll become my kitchen bible, will definitely pass these on to my daughters.
thanks a lot girls,

"if i get over this, i have learnt a very valuable lesson that i am going to hold on to.

maybe he never fully knew how much i was into him, but i did try my very best to let him know that i was madly in love with him.

on his first visit to see me here, i knelt down with my two knees on the floor at heathrow airport . . . . yes, jampacked heathrow, in appreciation of all he has done for me.

i have been loving, faithful, caring,  respectful to him and excellent in the bedroom as well.

really, am confused."


i dnt knw how to quote posts yet so av just added quotation marks,


wat i'll say is i once loved a guy who i tot i cud neva live without, bt today am without him and am a much better person in diff ways.he knew how much i loved him and still hurt me, sometimes u can be d best and shit still happens for wateva reason,
am not sayin he wont be bac or u shld leave him,bt just knw that ur happiness lies in ur hands.noone can do that better than u, concentrate on bein a stonger,more independent person, improve urself.let bein happy be ur goal

wateva happend to "wat's urs is mine", or am i old old fashioned?
me am a believer that a family shld have joint account sef so all these issues dnt come up.
however, if u dnt have a joint account then simply keep contributing cos he's[b] UR[/b] husband and its[b] UR[/b] baby and UR[/b]self (in otherwords, its [b]U)we're talkin about here. so if he doesnt appreciate it, appreciate it urself or u can tell ur son to appreciate it (ok thats too funny)
he just maynot wonna admit that he doesnt give u enuf, thats where u get to understand he's a man wit his EGO(d imaginary friend)

hmmm please dnt let anythin affect u to this point ever again!try to be in full control of ur emotions(esp ur happiness)
one single person shldnt have so much power over u!
anyway i think u shld also ignore him, u've tried ur best, since u say he also loves u then he'll come bac to u if he wants to.
try to distract urself,take ur mind off d whole issue,make urself happy!
all these things av said will be oh so difficult bt am tellin u, u will mosdef survive it!

really pple,read topics well b4 u comment.
15k may or may not be enuf bt i dnt tink thats d real issue here,
IMO, its not a prob for a woman to contribute to house upkeep and all with or without appreciaiton (this doesnt mean she shldnt be appreciated o!)
bt its her family na, sacrifices shld be made without complaint,
am pretty sure she doesnt handle quite as much as he does.so wats an extra 15k from u since u wok
bottomline, accept ur hubby as he is, if u cant change him (men and their big big egos)
and pls dnt let d negative comments here influence u(half of them are from single ladies/gentlemen)

we're crazy about each other!!!!
we're from the same state
we're d same age,
we both LOVE to get it on!!!!
we both miss each other
we both served in d same state(does that count?)

hey girl,i knw u probab feel like mayb if u dnt go then u'll lose him or sth, fact is, wats urs shall be urs, no 2ways abt it!my advice? pls dnt go all d way 2 d east 2visit a guy u've neva met b4!too many risks involved!
if he's soooo broke,let him boro then u'll re-imburse him or beta still,let him chill till he recovers financially.try not to beliv he got d flat cos of u, its simply NOT TRUE!!!!!
abt findin out if he's a 2-timing bastard, goin there wont help, or will u sit on his head? u jst have to trust him on that one
on a final note, wow babe! 8pages! Nairalanders love u!!!
this is d bestest advice, pls take it