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chatinent:
But I don't understand why people keep multiple sex partners other than one wife.


And the annoying thing is that na only those who dey cheat on their wives who go wan die if they hear their wife cheated once on them.

So those who don’t cheat on their wives are not as pained by cheating as those who do?
That can’t be right.

Yet another story of sponsoring women through school going wrong.

He should allow her go back to her parents. He’s the one who made a mistake.

Nigerians think Mechanical engineering begins and ends with fixing cars and generators.

McLizbae:
Makes no sense. How do you know how to build and not how to merely repair?

Build...as in analyzing a given problem (within the mechanical engineering field) and creating a design that can solve that problem optimally.
That is different from understanding exactly what stops another person's design from working optimally, and how to fix it (repair).
The technicians (mechanics) are trained on how to repair. The engineers will require the same training if fixing cars is what they want to do.

hansomb:
I remember in my faculty the mechanical engineering student were given a generator to assemble back, they have to go hire one small under 10 year roadside mechanicbwho fixed it under 10 minutes. Come see shame

Lol. That has made him a better engineer than them, has it?
Those students only need to see how it's done 2 or 3 times and they'll get the hang of it.

emae009:
please mention the 4 trophies, Lewandowski has??

Check the OP.

MrOON:
Crocodile Tears.

Lawandoski should blame Covid 19.
2020 is gone Lawan, everyone knows you won it for 2020 but we dont live in the past.
This is 2021.
See the stat below for reference.

Cherry picked trash to make Messi look better.

Before the Ballon D’Or was awarded:

Messi:
56 games, 41 goals, 18 assists, 2 trophies.


Lewandowski:
54 games, 64 goals, 12 assists, 4 trophies.

Lewandowski leads in every single thing, but you want us to count number of tackles.
Comedy.

This is a very old video.

Hmmm.

Kingcalls:
This simply shows u how alot of NL members are either kids or very non-enlightened .... The moment I saw Dino, I knew it was the former Italian great goalkeeper... these are the same people I argue football with ...

What does age or enlightenment have to do with knowing an old Italian goalkeeper?

TrishaOvie:
I've read the topics you follow.. I like how you're consistent with Foolishness. Wail On!

Going through my posts?
That’s cute
Congrats on that...second

TrishaOvie:
Fools recognise Fools. Wail on prick!!

Yhh...you definitely come second.

TrishaOvie:
You're the biggest Joke lol

No...Ibra is.
Maybe you come second.

TrishaOvie:
Lol Is Ibrahimovic a joke to you?

He is actually.

sunshineV:
One is a terrible fake made by chinese crooks while the other is an original product

How can you call it a fake when they’re not even copying anybody?

begoniaa:
Omoo. Na so you fear reach?

And I don't write much oh. Is this those small small little words here and there?

Na so I fear reach pls.

begoniaa:
Thank you ooo. Because it seems like say I dey always speak or type in psychobabble to some people, lmaoo.

It's good you got it. Or unless you wan read treatise sha, if you reeeally want to hear my opinion and would force me to think.

No pls. I know what you’re capable of.
Except the opinion no go pass 10 words.

cococandy:
Every man deserves a woman who’s like him.
If this makes you mad, die mad

Makes sense.

Magnoliaa:
Unfortunately not. Sorry.

Do you u n d e r s t a n d that?

Lol. Perfectly.

Magnoliaa:
Tooorrr.

Hmmmm.

**gulps uncomfortably**

I’d like to know your opinion on this...if you have one.

So your current girl and your ex were/are virgins.
Honestly, I don’t think you’re in any position to give this advice.

You say you’re not with the current one because of sexual purity, you prefer them to know their way sexually...then why exactly are you with this one nau?
Abi you want to take the virginity then dump her for one who is more experienced?

mariahAngel:
I would say he's the most misunderstood player in his generation.
Thank God for God and his talent, otherwise, the media and some big gods would've sunk his career prematurely.

They would love nothing more than that.
But the boy pass them.

paulolee:
all positive vibes n no bad feelings bt its d opposite in cr7 camp..
his family are banned from watching messi game, his sister is a huge critic of Leo..

Actually, this is also a lie.
Ronaldo’s sister was asked if they discuss about Messi in the house, and she said no, they don’t.
The media reports it as “The name Messi is banned in Ronaldo’s household”.

Somewhere in the middle of the article (which most people won’t read) was where they put what the woman actually said.
They give you people the sensational headlines you want to see and you happily run with it.

You’ve even remixed it to “banned from watching Messi’s games”. Wonderful.

So none of you thought that maybe this could be a fake account?

Next thing, we’ll see this thread with false information on front page

sanpipita:
Read the whole op thread again, the issue was a wife and brother, regardless if you dont think the person you want to marry or already married wont be/isn't part of your family then you have no business being with them

Yeah. And he stated the ways in which his wife became his family, which are correct.
He may resent his brother, but he’s not going to avoid his whole family just because of his brother. Eventually, he’ll let go of whatever pain he was holding on to.
As for the wife, divorce can end all connections with her in one go...unless they have children, then it’ll be just like his brother’s case. He’ll eventually forgive her too, and they may get back together.
It seems the OP and his fiancée were looking at it from different perspectives.
The woman is right (from a certain perspective).

BuddhaPalm:
I despise many antics of our beloved vagina people...

But in this case she has a point and should be rightly upset.

In matters of betrayal, your brother should be held to an even higher standard than your wife.

If your brother bangs your wife, he committed the bigger fvck up.

Blood is overrated. Judge people only by their behavior and actions.

If you go back far enough, we are all related.

The Bleep up’s are equal. A wife who got down with her husband’s brother can’t be forgiven for any reason.

It seems OP finally did not marry the girl again

sanpipita:
Why are marrying her if you dont see her as your family? some of you are just plain stupid.

Lots of people telling you, you did nothing wrong i feel sorry for you if you are listening to them

She isn’t just family...she’s a fiancée, who cheated.
Forgiving her doesn’t necessarily mean taking her back.

Amarisco:
Unfortunately for you, the scientific world doesn’t care about your opinion. Which is what your comment is full of and empty of any academic research.

Furthermore, though generalisability is always an issue, no research is flawless. That doesn’t discount the findings bro.

& if you think that gender roles in the 21st century are ‘miles apart in every instance*’ which you probably meant to say instead of indices, then we no longer need to have this discussion.

Is academic research required for one to know that American (or other nation) based statistics may not necessarily hold true in Nigeria?
Your “findings” are not pointless to this discussion, but it’s not out of place to think that the results would be very different if data used was obtained from here.
That said, the general conclusion is correct. Women seek help in better ways than men, and there are better support systems to help women out, which they take advantage of.
I wonder what prompted you to begin stating how women go through more in a thread that just wants men to do better for themselves.

Midas01:
I keep saying that the average Nigerian has no sense


How they see problem with the bolt driver literally stalking her is bewildering. Why is common sense so far from Nigerians...? Why?

Imagine you paying a plumber to fix your sink and he starts toasting your wife and the next day he comes looking for her.

Senseless Nigerians. That's why our society is a shithole.

Completely stupid people.
Some are calling it "insecurity".
The whole problem of harassment completely flew over their heads.
How won't rape news hit fp everyday? When even here, the average male has no idea what harassment means.
Disgraceful people.

Why is everyone acting like it's a normal thing for a bolt/uber driver to trace a girl down to her house?

Are you people even thinking at all?

Harassment means nothing to you people. No wonder this country is full of rapists.

A 19-year-old boy is more likely to start fending for himself at that age than his female counterpart.
But you people will not call that one maturity.
We only hear "maturity" once it's time to have sex with younger girls.