₦airaland Forum

adeniyi65:
sir afe babalola structures are usual building you find in most of private secondary Schools in lagos.the structures of this river Nile uni makes it distinct from afe own

What different about Nile...the tiling, or the paint? It looks like a secondary school, fine. But this Nile isn’t much better.

You can't tell me this is ALL of Nile. Where are the different college buildings?


LOL. So Nigerians like this school that has two buildings, but called the much bigger and more beautiful Afe Babalola Uni a poultry


You guys lack taste.

Skepticus:
Same old bull shît.

All these can be gotten outside the confines of marriage. The "illegitimate child" thing is nonsense, used to goad men into carrying the responsibilities of women (who never take responsibility) for anything.

Homo Sapiens started settling down into the union called marriages barely 10000 years ago. Up till 50 years ago, marriage made sense but with the rise of feminism, abolition of gender roles and an extremely high economic pressure on men to level up, marriage has become outdated and men all over the world are dumping it all together.

Bro...chill. If one wants to get married, it should be to one who adds value to him (value in terms of all she listed, as well as financially). If that is done, the gender roles and “high economic pressure” won’t matter as much.

Nooil:
If you marry a good wife, you'll gain legitimate children, peace of mind, constant gist partner, constant sex mate, a foresighted being, a real estate agent, a real estate investor, a stock investor, a backup plan, a supporter and helper, a cuddle partner, a doctor, a pastor, a spiritual guide, a teacher to your kids, a Sunday school teacher to your kids, career planner for your kids, a business development officer.... Should I continue? Just pray to God to give you a wife. It won't always be rosy, but when two work together in harmony, the world will be under their feet.

I absolutely agree with this...especially your beginning “If you marry a good wife”.

With the way the majority of Nigerian girls are these days, I was already looking for how to rule out marriage. Someone can’t even just love another person entirely...your eyes must always be observing
I’ll give my absolute best to whomever I choose though. May God help me.

VenumX:
First, negroes convinced you African women to have sex with them before they wife you. Now negroes just want you to birth for them. Meanwhile, one kobo, your waste of space boyfriend has not given you to show he can be a responsible father.

When will you realise that the enemy you have been sleeping with is there to ruin your life?He has no home training and good values- nothing! I am sure he is one 35 year old agbero looking creature who is about to become a fool at 40.

Let me tell you something about this your blind bat boyfriend. By the time he is in his 50's and suffering from erectile dysfunction, nobody will tell him to go and get married. He will go and get one girl like Regina Daniels to wife. All his money, he will spend on her whether she is faithful to him or not. While you will be there struggling to pay your last child's school fees. You better don't fall into that trap!

Ignore all the miscreants with no future here telling you to listen to that fool you call your useless boyfriend.

Dump him fast and move on with your life. Let him go and meet all those ratchet broke jezebels that will deal with him mercilessly.

You have been warned!

Well...this comment has given me the only reason a man should get married. And that is, if he falls in love with a genuinely good woman, who brings actual value to his life and isn’t among the numerous “ratchet broke jezebels” that flood the Nigerian female society. The problem is that there aren’t much of those kinds of women around. So you can’t really blame men for reaching the conclusion that marriage is a no no.

So bros, get married...if you find a woman with the above specifications. Don’t let people like that go. They’re extremely hard to find.

OP, don’t give up on your guy yet. I know you’ve probably talked to him about this, but, his problem is that he doesn’t see the reason behind marriage. I didn’t too until recently. If you can help him see that, he’ll come around. Afterall, he’s 30+(the group Nigerian females call “mature”). You should be able to talk to him.

If he doesn’t, move on. If you’re as good as you’ve portrayed yourself to be, then he simply doesn’t understand your value. There are people out there who do.

Confusedgirl869:
Hey guys, I have taken the bold step. I have blocked him on WhatsApp. Now to move on! It's really not easy, I've cried my eyes out. This is my first real and painful heartbreak, before him I learn to love with my head and not heart. I have no friends at all which will make it a more difficult journey.

I have an idea though, I will keep an online diary here so I need all support you can give, thanks

I hope you made him know it was because of his stance on marriage that you blocked him.

ApplicantNG:
To me oo i think he just needs time to trust you more and be sure you are good and different from the bad women out there
which means you too have alot of role to play inhere ..

Exactly. She needs to show him that there is a reason he should get married to her. He can’t see a reason, and that’s not his fault.

Larcardii:
Please dear most of d useless guys...on nairaland trolling u here ...dat d guy said d right thing by wanting to have a baby mama...will get married soon...dey still desire marriage and will still Insult baby mamas don't mind Dem..and dump dat useless guy u are dating

This is the problem. You guys are telling her that her man will get married to someone else. Can’t you fathom the fact that there are people who don’t want to get married?
I’ll ask you (since you’re so sure we want to get married), what exactly do you think men gain from marriage?

PoliteActivist:
A family. Living with your own exclusive wife and kids. On the rare occasion it works it can beat singlehood

Exclusive...that used to be the case in the past. These days married women sleep around anyhow, so that “exclusive” factor may be long gone.
And you don’t have to be married to have a family. If you’re asked about Ronaldo’s family for example, you’ll mention his girl and his children. He isn’t married.

pansophist:
Love ke? Na to secure the bag bros. And that is natural. Women go for security and provision, men go for youthfulness and fertility. Blame nature

Imagine. So what exactly do men get married for? With all the stories I’ve been seeing everywhere, a lot of women just pretend to have a good character, so they can get married.
Of what benefit is marriage to men?, considering how these days, you can get every physical thing a married person has, whilst being single.

Come to think of it, if this woman had an actual reason to tell her man, as to why he should marry her, she’d have said it. But she doesn’t. He literally has no reason to marry her, other than the fact that she wants to get married.
Woman, if you ever come up with a reason as to why your man should get married to you, do tell him. His problem is he can’t see why exactly marriage is necessary. Try showing him a reason for him to get married.

TomMary:
Chicken brain only weaklings are scared of marriages

Manipulation as usual. Wouldn’t it have made more sense to counter his post by telling us what exactly men gain from marriage?


And to the Nairaland ladies advising that she should leave the man she loves (and who loves her) to get married to another person...it really makes me wonder why exactly women want to get married...because in this case, it sure as hell isn’t because of “love”

shogsmania:
Post the pictures of the Senate building, you ignorant touts that run your mouth anyhow for cheap attention,it's not called Senate building over there, you'd know that If you had visited one.
If you can't provide the name and pictures of the imaginary school then get lost pls.the fact that you feel intimidated because I live outside the country shows how unintelligent and unexposed you are,so your assertion is bogus.
You're way too bitter to think like an intelligent person ,imagine stupidly comparing my street with ajegunle,you guys just keep setting new strides of stupidity daily. I'm not the cause of your problem,if you can't communicate like a grown up then you get the heck out of my thread,I'm not in the business of making stupid people famous pls.

Sir, calm down first. This is the Senate building in the University of Northampton. It’s use doesn’t fit what we use our for in Nigeria, but it still remains a “Senate Building”.
“It’s not called Senate building over there”. Even if most people don’t call theirs a “Senate Building”, your comments could be translated to mean that AAU’s Building is among the most beautiful, even in the presence of the buildings from other universities which we, here, would refer to as a “Senate Building”.

Ariza:
Yes Sir.... I will try and I will learn to ask too.

Alright. Ask...not demand. Niggas are ready to provide. No go dey ask nigga wey no fit provide oh...na another heartbreak be that.

Ariza:
It's just my nature.... dunno why. I find it difficult to ask anyone except my immediate family members for help or accepting gifts without thinking twice.

I prefer to give

Chai. Abeg oh...help niggas be happy. If a guy actually loves a girl, he'd derive joy just from seeing that girl smile. For him to go out of his way to get a gift, expecting a particular reaction, only to be rejected...repeatedly? . That's multiple minor heartbreaks you're giving oh.

Help niggas be happy. If he's your guy, accept his gifts...or at least appreciate the effort.

Ariza:
The truth is I've learnt bitterly from two experiences that MEN love to spend to spend on their Women. To them it's like a form of fulfilment and relevancy reason why most assume the roles of father immediately they enter a relationship. Forget the redpill and all things guys type here, it's opposite offline and op is really projecting reality.

As one who hardly takes gifts because I feel it kind of subdue someone to some form of indebtedness.I go to relationships with the "He isnt responsible for me" mentality and I don't ask. I will rather call my parents or Sister if I'm pushed to the wall but I learnt the effect this has on guys I'm dating the hard way. One told me, I blocked every form of his existence,and made him feel useless and accuse me of "probably getting my help elsewhere" The other didn't even say anything, only found himself a Barbie doll he can decorate with gifts. While to me, I was only putting them first.

The truth is Men love to be leeched on. It gives them joy when they share their stories. I'd be foolish to think otherwise. I've learnt the hard way. I even came across Ubunja thread on How a man's heart is where his money is.

See ehn, I will ask ooooo. since that's how you all feel important.

Constantly refusing gifts is very different from demanding that a guy provides for your every need.

Why would you "hardly take gifts". That's like scattering the efforts of a person to make you happy. You expect him to smile after that? When he's obviously put a lot of thought into getting you that gift? Una dey very funny oh.

This is what happens when the vast majority of Nigerians are poor (both men and women).
If the men had money, they wouldn't see it as a problem to provide on occasion. If the women had money, they wouldn't base their relationships on the mans money.

May God help us.

Simplecity:
if you where indeed following the school you would know

I'm asking if this school is a necessity. I haven't used the school before.

Daniel058:
To fund account,u need to sign up on brokerage firm website, submit ur documents and after approval you go ahead to fund ur account

Alright.

SavageResponse:
No mind that one, him no go talk...he thinks he is dealing with ignorant people he can bamboozle

I'll hear what he has to say. But only reasonably sized accounts should have such profit...on a bad day.

BadRadio:
I cant share that info here...


you can imagine @ 10$ lots size. 99.99% guts risk

Lol...alright.

BadRadio:
I make @ least 100$ daily on a very bad day in FX trade.

On what account size?

Daniel058:
those sites are for news release nah..

Anybody who really wants to learn how to trade have to pass through babypips school of Pipsology, after that you define the kind of TRADER you are and find a suitable strategy for you.

I have learnt a bit about forex before. This school will give me a better understanding?

Another thing...I don’t really know how to find an account. How do you do it?

Somebody created thread and logged out immediately, hasn’t entered Nairaland since then. But look at nairalanders, arranging to insult themselves over a story that is most likely made up.

KanielOutis92:
Cc; DrayZee, please, what about these?

Lol...I no be god of Twitter.
But, the names “Sinzu Money” and “Spending” became heavily popularized from Lasisi Elenu’s comedy skits. They’re the names of two of his ‘Yahoo Boy’ characters, the last being “Jacuzzi”. People attribute some of these names to people who ‘spend’ or receive a lot of money, most commonly Buhari, since his request for borrowing an obscene amount of money (“funds”) was granted by the Senate (or whoever grants those).
“E be things”...I have no idea. But it basically means...weird things are happening.

2loadedguy:
What's the skill named after Ronaldo other than the widely known penaldo? We all know he's the king of penalties. You call Ronaldo that cannot put two passes together for his teammates the most complete player? I have video proof of his matches in Juve, his passing ability is extremely poor and thats what makes a player complete because u need vision and teamwork in football which is the reason many football coaches and pundits will always rate Messi ahead of him anytime anyday cos of Messi's playmaking abilities.

The way you people whine yourselves. You think it’s your talk that determines how Ronaldo plays
You really want to tell me Ronaldo doesn’t pass. Right from 2012, you people have been saying this thing. I have still not seen the rubbish you people are talking about.

StubbornGENIUS:
The only correct items on your list are penalties and goals in the box.Others are a hoax

Lol. Others are a hoax, including a skill that was literally named after him?

Messi fans are the most delusional people on earth No vex sha. It’s not good for your health.

StubbornGENIUS:
Oga calm down there jare.Your lies are out of this world!Most complete footballer my foot.

No vex. Help me name one thing Ronaldo cannot do in football.
Goals (left foot, right foot, head, others, all 100%), assists over 200+, skills (Ronaldo’s signature ‘chop’, step overs, ‘chesting’, back flicks, some other skills that I don’t even know the names of), free kicks, dribbling (even though he doesn’t do it too much these days), penalties, long range goals, goals in the box, defending, top speed...anything.

He can do EVERYTHING in football. That’s what it means to be complete...being able to do everything.

I think the trend started on Twitter from a video of some girls who went to a supermarket. One of them, while dancing, broke one of the bottles in the supermarket. Someone made a tweet about it, talking of the trouble the girls had gotten into, while adding the phrase “na the matter we still dey settle”.
This might not be the very first instance, but it pioneered spin-offs of other threads about funny but unfortunate events (mostly fictional) with ongoing disputes, whose ‘matter’ was yet to be settled.

lablonclacla:
Well, let's assume it's private and since it's more of profit oriented, they will try to minimize cost because a well crafted modern architectural design would gulp more money than the block over block decking and roofing pattern. Even modern tall sky scrapers are being designed and not just tall for nothing.

The futuristic design of the faculty of engineering and architecture department in unilag are cool though. Hopefully we get to see them in our lifetime.

Exactly. You can’t realistically compare a private-funded university to a government-funded 1st generation university. The fact that it’s even close says a lot. You can imagine what would happen if the founder had government-level funding.
This is the best in CU currently. It’s still a block design...on the outside. Inside is mainly glass.

flokii:
You are the only one who made sense on this thread.

Honestly, accreditation for Universities should be reviewed, it should not be based on structures but quality of education offered.
Don't be surprised that the school only has structures, laboratory with equipments but no lecturers or professors. I heard some Departments there including Sciences & Engineering have Mr. (ordinary BSc holder) as Head of Department. Imagine!

This IPPIS system introduced for Public Uni lecturers and professors will expose many of these private institutions. It's just a pity that people pay so much for nothing.

You typed this whole thing without even bothering to verify if you’re right or wrong. Who is feeding you people with all this information that “private universities don’t have professors”?
And this is Covenant you’re looking at, not the other private universities you might know.

yakamata:
With regards to the second point.
He isn't the first and he is sure as hell ain't the only player to do so.
Henry did it first.

This is what he’s talking about

Numerouno94:
Inferiority complex.
U guys wanna front Ronaldo's achievements cos dat of Messi graced d front page yesterday.

All Penaldos achievements i see here re all abt goals. No awards frm tournaments, no playmaking, etc.

After all said nd done.Messi still has more goals dan him despite playing fewer games compared to Penaldo.

In conclusion, Messi has more goals despite being a play maker, nd not a striker like our penaldo. Messi has more outside d 18yrd goals compared to Penaldo, has more free kick goals to Penaldo. Nd its jux a matter of time b4 Messi breaks Penaldos champoins league goals wit fewer games...U can slightly compare Penaldo in his Man u days nd early madrid days to Messi, buh its an insult to compare d present Penaldo to Messi. Haba..!!. Ronaldo dat can't even dribble a single player again on d pitch, all he does is do some step overs nd still pass d ball to his mates. Lol.

Quote me nd i won't reply.

Messi doesn’t have more goals than Ronaldo. But you wouldn’t know that.