DMPaulSr:
Too dumb!!!!!
So i'm dating you to take care of your bills or what?
Which kain yeye mentality be dis. U must be a simp OP.
I can do things out of love but i can't take over ur parents responsibilities because of ordinary dating. Hu born u? Hu you?

He's even as Arsenal fan. It explains everything.

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

your post is annoying go outside go and see how others are doing outside nigeria ...you will slap your self and beg lala to delect this post

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

To date, a Naija girl is a risk. High risk indeed..there are some ladies that they date for living....kai! Men don suffer...that is the reason why some of the ladies here are old haggard evening newspapers....
All sort of entitlement on guys that haven't find his footing...if it is easy, your irresponsible father could have provided all you needed for you so that you will not be dating guys because you want to fix hair and nail or you want to be collecting a salary from each guy you are dating...
Whosoever guys that fall for all this conspiracy from the broke and irresponsibility ladies on this platform, will make your life miserable.

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Madam! It is called dating not marriage.

You must be 14-yes old. Okay, maybe 15. Right, no more than 16-years old. Better to go and post your immature stuff on your Facebook page, not here.

Una don start another one.....

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judedwriter:


Godly lady.... Nice one.

Too many ladies today think otherwise especially when they have myriads of guys as admiers.

me I can't. Let somebody not come and "swear" for me for chopping his money.

This is a total piece of crap


So in your obnoxious mind you feel ur write up makes sense uhn?
Common, stop daydreaming

Eulalia:


me I can't. Let somebody not come and "swear" for me for chopping his money.

Lol....

CorGier:


He's even as Arsenal fan. It explains everything.

Heartbreaks can't hurt him again that's why he thinks like a fuuuuuuu
Imagine telling ur fellow men to always spend on ladies...
SMDH
So, i'll leave my mum and siblings just to focus on spending on a lazy ass piece of shîtty broke ass bîtch...
Hmmmm, my grandfather will curse me.

Im not in a relationship 2 fend 4 any girl. Me being di man doesnt equate 2 being di breadwinner of the relationship. Period

Ariza:
But he's right nah... If I weigh your impact in my life and you can't even offer what Nigerian men take as their Number sign of affection (MONEY) then you can be easily dismissed.

Painful but bitter truth

It's not about offering, you base this on relationships, yes relationships are sex for cash deals, but have you ever loved a guy like really(no probably or maybe but he didn't meet standards) if you love a guy it will be hard to ask him for money, you will prefer asking other guys, same as a guy won't ask for sex from a girl he loves

Seconded.

Total BS

MissRaine69:
BS

Fadiga24:


Dude stop smoking in the early morning

Don't mind him. He's now an OP for posting on Nairaland.

tosyne2much:
Really?

YES REALLY

A woman asking you for money does not necessarily mean she loves you. The earlier you change your mindset, the better for you. It's ok as a man to support a woman you are dating, financially but don't go about with the notion that a woman loves you because she is asking you for money. You'd just enter one chance and become chief executive Maga to some people.

Lala so u carry something of 2017 to fp

a girl that loves you will not request for money regularly from u.

See them .
Feeling entitled as if it’s birth right

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Small children still living under their parents go just come nairaland dey type rubbish.

Eulalia:


That's not what the post is all about na. Anyways... Why won't you spend on me? I'll leave you and ill let you know why im leaving you. Can't deal.

Please no body should come and tell me how to be independent.

fine. I will spend on u. if u are worth it

kerry57:
Na craze dey worry u. Was ur hole created with money inside?

You're very stupid

Is A Relationship Supposed To Be A Poverty Alleviation Programme

This is what happens when the vast majority of Nigerians are poor (both men and women).
If the men had money, they wouldn't see it as a problem to provide on occasion. If the women had money, they wouldn't base their relationships on the mans money.

May God help us.

feguson123:
What happen after providing the need of a girlfriend and you end up not marrying her.it is waste of resources.So it wife need that needs to be provided for not girlfriend

All relationship doesn't lead to marriage so if you can't spend move away.

Liposure:
fine. I will spend on u. if u are worth it

Ok. Sir.

AfroKnight:


It appears you only came to this thread to colour it.

Like pouring oil on the floor. If we slip, we fall. If we don’t fall we wouldn’t have an easy time walking on it anyway.


Why?

The truth is I've learnt bitterly from two experiences that MEN love to spend to spend on their Women. To them it's like a form of fulfilment and relevancy reason why most assume the roles of father immediately they enter a relationship. Forget the redpill and all things guys type here, it's opposite offline and op is really projecting reality.

As one who hardly takes gifts because I feel it kind of subdue someone to some form of indebtedness.I go to relationships with the "He isnt responsible for me" mentality and I don't ask. I will rather call my parents or Sister if I'm pushed to the wall but I learnt the effect this has on guys I'm dating the hard way. One told me, I blocked every form of his existence,and made him feel useless and accuse me of "probably getting my help elsewhere" The other didn't even say anything, only found himself a Barbie doll he can decorate with gifts. While to me, I was only putting them first.

The truth is Men love to be leeched on. It gives them joy when they share their stories. I'd be foolish to think otherwise. I've learnt the hard way. I even came across Ubunja thread on How a man's heart is where his money is.

See ehn, I will ask ooooo. since that's how you all feel important.

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

are u normal....wer u nt financing ursef before u met him..wat is wrong wit al dis girls always want der bf to spend on dem, hv u told of spending on ur bf one day, abi u tink men plug money frm d tree....,had it u say wife, i would agree wit u 100%......any guy dat date u wil go bankrupt n liquidate.

use ur head.......boys also nid girls dat wil spend on us, we re sumbdy children too

Op is a mischievous person. But see how men are replying him calmly. If it was a lady, they would have flayed her skin.

MONEY ehn...it Rules foreal

Don't mind the guy. posting this to gain females attention hoping they will bring free pussy to his front door. haha you go wait tire

Fadiga24:


Dude stop smoking in the early morning