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BluntBoy:
I remembered 50's Many Men.

It took me a long time to understand the last part of his 3rd rap verse.

He got hit like I got hit

It sounded to me like agagahi agagahi

Respect to 50.

Zhegx:


Slice 15 hot pepper in a flat plate, add one teaspoon of aboniki balm. Put the mixture in hot vegetable oil. While still on the fire, remove a tablespoon and rub it on your flaccid preek.....


It will shrink to the size of a groundnut. Thank me later.

Nova15:
The last kingdom - 8/10

The directors and producers of this series really did their homework. I can't wait for season 4.

EVILFOREST:
She has made her points straightaway.
She doesn't want a ?Christian that will drag her to Hell, all in the name of MARRIAGE..
RELIGION alters the Intelligent Quotient of Individuals.
If People can only open their eyes to see and understand what Religion is all about and how it came into play

FOR ME:
I am a Christian not because I chose to be.
But because I was born into a Christian family in a Christian dominated Region.
If I was born in Sokoto and brought up by SoKoTo people, I guess I would have gone to MECCA by now..
If I was born in ASIA, I would have ended up a HINDU...
If Given Opportunity, I will Completely BAN RELIGIONS that keep disturbing other Religions.
No RELIGION has Unrestricted access to GOD over the other.
No RELIGION has right to kill for its GOD.
Allow the GODS to do their Killings, after all they are known for their divinity.
RELIGIONS were designed by MEN as away to reverence the creator and for atonement of sins of the land.
GOD does not have a RELIGION...ask me why....?

MY QUESTION:
When the ASIANS die, where do they go to since only 1% of them are Christians or Muslims..??
Where are our FOREFATHERS now, especially those who were fetish in worship, murdered twins and were Polygamous in nature before Christianity came...?

cooooooks:
1. In Sec sch. I was in SS2, two different SS1 boys tell me that a class girl of theirs says she likes me but they don't tell me who. End of the session comes and one of them comes to say she's waiting for me and tells me who it is. I went and we spoke for close to 2 hours . It was nearly midnight when we went back to our hostels

2. I was dancing in a club with friends. This girl kept bumping into me so we moved to another part of the dancefloor. 20 mins later, she bumps into me again. Later, as we were leaving, her friend gives me her number. She smiles and waves as she's going home.

3. A girl that everyone knew liked me decides to dance with a younger guy in the club. Even making out. Okay, i start lighting up the dancefloor and girls are hanging onto me. This girl who likes me comes with other members of our group and pulls me off, claiming t hat these girls are not "fine enough". Mtchew. Last last, we went home together that night.

Sundayadesina:
Some people don't know the meaning of "MUMMY" that we usually call our mother and some old women
According to OXFORD dictionary "MUMMY" means bad things examples are (1) Mummy means dead body (corpse) or dead animal (carcass)
(2) MUMMY is also the way Egyptians preserved (embalming) dead body before buried

CosmicPhoenix:

i will give the money to the police as a good citizen of nigeria

Pacesetter123:
Why wouldn't de man flogg dem? Wen small children of 14yrs will jump from SS1 to go n write WAEC n JAMB at de same time to seek for admission into Nigeria universities, things like dis r bound to happen.It is high time over zealous parents allowed dia children to pass tro all stages of basic education gradually.This will make dem mature biologically, psychologically, emotionally n odawise b4 venturing into de 4-walls of de University.A lot of dem wen given de admission,break down along de way,not because of poor academic performance but because of im maturity to cope with de rigors of academic work associated with a typical Nigeria University system.

pauladonis:
As these men don age so, den still fine... Make person create alternate thread for actresses too, I wan see some horror pics abeg

If it gives you good health and a stable mind do it. Men should have the freedom to do what they want. You are men ffs. Don’t bend to women manipulation

Marcus2:
This one don old , she's now looking for a prey to catch.

shawlar:
Lol... You think that's all. Recently the virtual assistants (siri, genie, go etc) have been accused of listening in to your conversations and using the info to 'help personalize your experience'. eg you mention to someone that you want to buy a TV/car etc and next time you open your browser you'll just be seeing advert of TVs or cars etc. It's very unnerving

Donald3d:
Marriage hmmm....
As I always say every problem(s) has a solution .
My advice would have been different if you were not married yet.

And from your story she was "perfect", cooks, financial supports and all that before marriage. I am also assuming there was also no sign of insults to you or your family before marriage....

The first sign of trouble(according to you) was the birthday issue, after that multiple issues followed.

There are two possible sides to this, she is either a pretender(faking being good at the beginning) or she changed .
If she was faking her good character, to be honest, its almost impossible to resolve this.
If she changed, there is a chance things can be fixed, thankfully, you are showing signs of willingness to fix things.
The next thing to do is to find the root cause of what the issue is.


Please do not listen to people trying to make you violent . As much as they deceive themselves into thinking they are " Alpha Males " , as I always say, a true "Alpha Male" is one who knows how to neutralize situations before they escalate, who knows how to earn respect even with silence, who knows when to be tough and when to act like a fool (yes !, like a fool !), you have no idea the things you can learn and the problems you can avert just by keeping quiet and not reacting. Also a true Alpha Male knows how to Listen !!....He handles issues with wisdom and logic, he understands how to create a balance

No matter how this is viewed, she was/is wrong on all levels to be disrespectful to you and your family. But you are in this already, it can be fixed (if you both are willing to) . Pause your travel plans for now .And remind yourself about this, a good number of women act "emotionally" and not "logically", so you should be the bigger person here. Remember this advice is coming under the "impression" that she was not pretending to be a good woman and she actually just "changed", I am also giving this advice under the notion that this is not a case of pre/postpartum disorder/condition.

Do you remember this statement :



From all you wrote, you are a good man, but I want you to please Listen better, pay more attention. Take her out, buy her gifts, send her romantic text messages, leave hidden notes around the house to make her feel appreciated and wanted, ask her how her day went and be interested in her daily activities, even ask her how she prefers sex !, create time for her and remember to [b]Listen attentively to every single verbal and non verbal message she sends across[/b] ......The gifts and outing doesn't have to be very expensive(it can if you can afford it), just show you care, buying her something she loves as frequently as you can. I used to know a lady that would be swept off her feet when you buy her this chewable chocolate called Parago, it used to cost just #10 Naira. I know it sounds crazy but that's what she loved. What does your wife love Sir ?. What sweeps her off her feet ?

Now to the most important questions, most men always fail to ask their wives . Have you asked her "Baby what do you want , what do you need, is there anything I am doing wrong, is there anything you want more of, is there anything you would like me to improve on". Sit her down and in a calm way ask her these questions, you would be very shocked at the replies you would get.

The thing about marriage is, sometimes we think we are getting it all right and we are perfect, but from our partners perspective, there is something we are not doing right, or they just probably misunderstand us. Asking her the questions above, would bring to light the things you probably need to amend and also bring to light the things she is misunderstanding that you need to clarify to her.

Remember, speak softly and act wisely while you do this, get her in a good mood, probably by buying things she likes.

Again, I am not justifying her actions, if she changed and she was not pretending to be good at the beginning, something might have caused her to change, and she is just handling it the best way she feels it can be handled, although badly.

Dear husbands and wives, if your spouse is doing something you don't like or not acting or living up to your expectation, please stop trying to pass non-verbal messages. People don't talk and communicate anymore !!! why !!!. Tell them how you feel !, call them aside, have a heart to heart talk with them about what you don't like instead of going on a rampage and acting up !!. Above all learn to be tolerant too, you don't have to react to everything, especially the things your spouse is not directly responsible for(your mother did this, your sister did this).

Let's all act in wisdom please.Remember that love and marriage cannot work without massive amount of commitment, sacrifice and selflessness....At one point or the other, you or your spouse would have to be the "fool", the "subdued", the "sacrificial lamb" to make things work. Be selfless.

Another important thing is boundaries, once you are married or committed to someone, understand that ex partners have to be eliminated in all possible ways from the picture.Make this known to your spouse and have an agreement on it

And OP remember to pray too, for God to touch her heart(Proverbs 21 vs 1), but also remember that just praying without acting is useless.

I pray your marriage is restored.

NB:I purposely left the child and suspected infidelity issues out, since you said you now trust her and she trusts you.

BabaIbo:
Please I want to learn graphics designing. I have tried downloading the app online but it doesn't install anytime I try to install it, please, how can you help me on this?

Zabiboy:
i havent reached the minimum for withdrawal yet..
but the guy that referred me has cashed out

Globalistic:
Hello Writer, I just laughed after reading your epistle because I once passed thru this phase of life. I was squatting with my sister in 2014 and teaching as well. But today, God changed my story for good... My advise to you is that you should keep pushing and never you forget God Almighty. Keep praying and ensure you pay your TITHE. Also, learn to sow dangerous seed and you will see things working for your favour. God bless you.

noble2faith:
I need tutorials for the listed

bravesoul247:
nawa o. These guys are just something else

madgoat:
Coward
Only women fear like you.

bravesoul247:
does Google have disadvantages?