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vescucci:
. I'm beginning to think there should be a category for highest grossing movie too.

Um. No.

Norbit grossed alot of money, should it get an award too?

*spits*

bawolowo, you speak like a true commitmentphobe.  No offence but guys like you are my worst nightmare  The whole "marriage doesnt mean anything" You'd better off playing that line to an oyibo person

If you have genuinely expressed your interest in getting married to her and the relationship has gone on long enough, then set a date - be it this year or the next, but set a firm date and start planning towards it. Meet the folks, propose, buy the ring, start looking for a venue. I believe that should take care of some of the fears that you will jilt her suddenly. As those plans are proceeding, you can also continue your business/job and get yourself financially ready.

Don't try to get everything established before marriage, but you need to go in with enough confidence and financial strength to meet the basic needs of the home. Building together is good, but make sure you plan towards it from NOW.

Now this is what the OP should definately take into consideration.

If they awarded stuff like Transformers, I would have stopped watching

The Academy awards GOOD movies, not blockbuster fluff and I personally thank God for that.

300 COULD have gotten cintemography but seeing that Sin City didnt (way better movie in that aspect) I'm not surprised, I thought the cinemtography in There Will be Blood was wonderful, same for Assination Of Jesse James

and seriously, jk, you need to get over brokeback. I can bet my lungs you ahvent even watched it so if anyone is biased it's you. Great movie that should have gotten the oscar, not that garbage known as Crash.

If she stopped being active and turned into a fat couchpotato the same "sweet" boyfriend will complain just as much

Volleyball players are one of the most "fittest" people. Her ridiculous boyfriend should be thanking God that she doesnt just sit and eat indomie all day.

Humans are beginning to give me a migraine.

I fear some of you people

None of you bother to say you'd ask her 'WHY". What the hell so you'd "slap her" and 'hate her" without finding out a damn reason? Eru awon omo komo wo lele

AJ, once again I agree with you.

almondjoy:
Na wah oh! Forgetting that the most successful marriages are not of ready made homes but form those who "build together", so there is mutual respect.

The secret is

Most of these men, Nigerians especially DONT want to do things together with their spouses. They want to be "set up" on their own so when they marry they can become like masters and say "yea well you weren't there when I got myself together. All I have now is from my own sweat and blood, you have no right to tell me what to do or to expect me to share my decisions with you", That is all it is.

That's why you have these losers in their  late 30s and 40s looking for "wives" to dominate

Btw I think it's funny that most of the men are crying 'don't rtush" yet they'll be the same jjerkswho will be making fun of such women in a few years time when they are in their mid 30s without any husband asking what has she been doing with her life

She was wasting it on some confused idiot, that's what. Nonsense.

bawolowo

You act like you don't understand how Nigeria goes. Who the hell is going watch a 4 year relationship go by and not expect marriage to come up. He should be glas she's just "nagging" now. Most would have started that after the first year.


I definitely agree with Almond on this.

Just had yam and efo. Wee!

AJ, why no breasts?!

and Cole Slaw? ewwwwww

Um Lost is awesome,

mjsrox, why did you suddenly change your age from 12 to 19?

You are obviously blind.

There's no where in that first postb where she said she "suggested" anything.

Anyway somze, My question was posted TO 4Play. Not you.

Thanks.

how did she create this impression, 4Play

spoilt, you're insane lol

comb. Everyone knows BigSis is the resident retard. I dont pay her any mind and neither should anyone who is sane She's "sista" part 2

chiogo:
Teehehehehe, u're so right!! On the other hand, if the only way to be funny is to make a fool of one's self,
then let 'em continue.

But that's NOT the only way to be funny though. Most black movies think the only way to get an audience is by throwing the typical black stereotypes at you. It's insulting to one's intelligence., Last I checked John Singleton and Spike Lee, both black directors didnt realy have to rely on such and the times taht they do, it wasnt bloody annoying

Seriously how is any of Tyler's movies different from the other. Gosh. I can at least say that for Do The Right Thing and Inside Man.
I would like to see more black directors doing movies like Malcolm X, Finding Forrester, wanna go the comic route, I thought 4 Brothers was SO hilarious, now that's funny to me. not garbage that Tyler has going or BarberShop or whatever
I wont say his movies dont have "good messages" but I'd like to think he can be alot more creative.
Quality over Quantity I say

AJ, I've seen so many great movies in the last year that dont follow the same formula. I tend to avoid blockbusters(black and white) for the most part cos they are just mind-numbing with the same nonsense

Dont let me even start on his pitiful sitcom and the fact that the NNACP gave it 3 awards. Tasteless lunatics. There was no other show they could award so why not award the worst thing ever I guess

ayoappeal:
Thanks for your[b] intelligence contribution[/b] to the thrend, it's obvious that most Nairalanders are educated but still intellectually bankrupt.

Dude,

Lmao spoilt. I actually WANT her to tell him cos I wanna see how he'll react and see how he'll treat the relationship from then on out

nutinikole:
secondly as for my "lie" it was simple turning a deaf ear or an "ommision" if u must. i honestly don't think he has a right to be mad yet! on the other hand i don't think he should be mad if hes "assumption" turned out to be wrong i mean what are guys turning into nowadays? if he doesnt pass first base in the first three months automatically ure a virgin? whatever happened to holding out 4 as long as possible

Cos they are morons. They figure if a person doesnt jump on them a few hrs or days later then the person MUST be a virgin. Apparently only a virgin would hold out to see if the relationship is worth reavching that step

Tell him the truth, if he doesnt stay nah his own palavar.

Yea as long as the students said they enjoyed it, they must have been right. alainironu

4 Play:
Could you imagine,their hostel residences are segregated along racial lines and it was against attempts to end such segregation that the Whites were protesting.

Doesnt surprise me. Still cant believe they are JUST integrating schools/dorms over there. Pathetic

4Him:
I havent seen any guy weeping because his girl was not a virgin.

Would you like for me to post the MANY MANY threads showing otherwise

Btw since when does assumption equate "trusting", You people are ridiculous.

Not a crime to assume, juts dont mad if your retarded assumption ends up being DEAD WRONG

somze:
She lied about her chastity - that probably led to his assumption

Now you're just making lame excuses for the guy's assumption.

I did read it, after all he was respoinding to 4Play's comment and I think you blew it up and kept dragging it out for no reason.

You really thought these workers knew they were supoposedly doing "Fear Factor"

and how does it go from doing claiming the video was MADE to show what they thought of integration to "Fear Factor"

They're bloody cowards who cant stand by their words and their apology is hogwash.

somze:
I doubt if the virginity would be an issue. The issue may be the incontrovertible fact that she lied about it and made a clear mockery of trust in the relationship.

Lmao. Riiiiiiiiight. For him to make just an assumption based on morals and "innocence" shows how much it DOES matter to him. Like I said Im all for the OP to tell him and I can assure you, it wont be the fact that she didnt correct him sooner that will change him.

spoilt:
sometimes you know what the guy yearns for so badly that you are tempted to fake it to make him happy and to not upset the apple cart. I know someone who faked virginity. it got her diamond earrings, brand new car, limitless dough and everlasting pampering. She just keeps praying an ex doesnt surface. even if an ex surfaces its his word against hers. the husband will argue that he saw blood. but then again he did see blood .

she's not even sorry for what she did!! hehehe. he wanted a virgin? he got one.

what an idiot that guy is so if she wasnt I assume he woldnt have gotten her those things or treated her as such


Btw, the OP was just GUESSING on why he assumed. If she has high morals n ko? That means it's ok for him to automatically assume such. He's a slowpoke and I do hope the OP tells him and we'll see how he'll change.

You can ask whatever you wish but you're the obnoxious jackass in this thread. If he wants to side with Jesus, so what? Out of all that is written, that is what was bothering you? Why? Why do you bloody care? What does that have to do everything else that was said Stick to the topic or carry go jare.

and you're constantly "LMAO!! OH MY GOD! You actually think yada yada yada LMAO!!!"

Like an obnoxious autistic child. Better calm down. shio.

Kobo can be quite obnoxious at times, I swear.

Some poltical thread has been turned into some Jesus war. Thanks to you.

I'd rather they put effort into changing things for the better than our "dealers" sending empty apologies

But I guess that's just me.