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FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 2:42am On Dec 22, 2017
1Sharon:
You tell me undecided
In Omawumi's voice (If you ask me, na who I go ask, the matter wey we see so, the day wey e start, the matter for ground, na who I go ask)
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 2:34am On Dec 22, 2017
1Sharon:
Lol OP what does Lawrence mean?
Lol. Google is your friend.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 11:55pm On Dec 21, 2017
pazienza:
Azuka means " Children are greater " or "descendants are greater ".

Azu in this context means those coming after you, those behind you, ie your children. Think of a chicken and her chicks all lined behind her, they are her "Azu".


Azuka = Children are greater.
Azuka ego = Children are greater than money
Azubuike = Children are strength
Azubogu = Children is fight , meaning one can only fight when one has children.
In the days of old, winning battles depend on numerical strength, which is decided by number of one's children and decendants.


Some had interpreted "Azu" to mean support, they are right in a way, since children provide support, but children do more than just support provision , so the interpretation of " Azu"as support, is not an encompassing one.

NB: I don't consider myself an erudite scholar grin Maybe I could become one, one day cool. The above description, however, was the explanation my now late grandfather gave to me, when I asked him of the meaning of the name "Azuka".

I also understand that same name might hold different interpretations, depending on part of Igboland one is from. This reality might also apply here.
Interesting, thanks for your contribution.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 11:54pm On Dec 21, 2017
pazienza:
Azuka means " Children are greater " or "descendants are greater ".

Azu in this context means those coming after you, those behind you, ie your children. Think of a chicken and her chicks all lined behind her, they are her "Azu".


Azuka = Children are greater.
Azuka ego = Children are greater than money
Azubuike = Children are strength
Azubogu = Children is fight , meaning one can only fight when one has children.
In the days of old, winning battles depend on numerical strength, which is decided by number of one's children and decendants.


Some had interpreted "Azu" to mean support, they are right in a way, since children provide support, but children do more than just support provision , so the interpretation of " Azu"as support, is not an encompassing one.

NB: I don't consider myself an erudite scholar grin Maybe I could become one, one day cool. The above description, however, was the explanation my now late grandfather gave to me, when I asked him of the meaning of the name "Azuka".

I also understand that same name might hold different interpretations, depending on part of Igboland one is from. This reality might also apply here.
ProgrammingWhy Are Nigerians Under-represented In Silicon Valley by Dremca(op): 11:42pm On Dec 21, 2017
Despite the brilliant tech genius Nigeria has produced including the likes of Philip Emeagwali and Chinedu Echeruo yet we've never come accross tech startups founded by Nigerian(s). Could it be that Nigerians is not interested in running tech companies or that Nigerians can't be trusted or that silicon valley is reserved for the whites only, could there be racism in silicon valley. Indian who are science/tech inclined are making waves. Microsoft and Google CEOs are both indians. What actually could be the problem. Let's hear your thought from those who reside abroad or have experience.
Cc: Lalasticlala, Mynd44
TravelRe: Getting A Green Card By Adjustment Of Status: My Yankee Experience by Dremca(m): 10:37pm On Dec 21, 2017
fikayor2:
I was following Frank thread then someone mentioned a guy to create a thread just like Mouth Gig, Frank and macky. I searched bj and that was how I started following this thread.

I just finished reading from page one to the last page. I've been gteatly inspired! Plese I have one question.
I'm a graphic designer,working daily improving my skills, and also a freelancer. Would I be able to get job in printing or design firm considering I'm a self taught designer without a graphic design cert. Please take it easy with me if my question sounds somehow. The thread is derailed already, please see this post from someone in need of help. Thanks.
You can get a diploma certificate from edx.org
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 6:46pm On Dec 21, 2017
Phut:
I beg to differ. Support is Nyem aka - Literally to give a helping hand. Azuka as in the case of the name means past/history. The opposite of Azuka is Nkeiruka (Nkeiru being the future). Let me call the erudite scholars to come expound on this matter

cc: Tochex101, Pazienza, Probz, Scholti, Dremca.
It's going to be an interesting lecture. I've booked the front row seat waiting patiently for the erudite scholars.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 5:50pm On Dec 21, 2017
somcherry:
Azuka actually means support is greater.
Giving someone a back can literally mean supporting someone.
Hmm, am learning but phut said Azuka means the past or history is greater. Could it be it can have 2 meanings. Thanks for contribution, am grateful.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 5:48pm On Dec 21, 2017
Phut:
Yes, Afa yi efuna, my dear.
BTW; Yi is my Oguta dialect coming through. We say Yi and not Gi. grin
And it was my pleasure. Chi gozie!
Gracias
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 3:57pm On Dec 21, 2017
Thank you all for your contributions, am most grateful.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 3:56pm On Dec 21, 2017
Phut:
Well you can do that - use your native name as your last name and keep you English first name (that is if you dislike Nweke so much)
However, a better alternative even would be using your current native name as a last name (that way your children answer it as their last name as well) then you pick another native first name for yourself.

Best of luck in everything you do, nwanne!
I've decided to scrap "Nweke" and use my native name as my surname and keeping an english name as my first then probably adding another native name as my middle name. Just as I said from the begining, I want to read meaning to my names not an ancient name that has no clear definition as a surname. You're really one in a million and very grateful for your advice. I will simply say "AFAMEFUNA." Dalu!
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 2:02pm On Dec 21, 2017
Phut:
Yes having an English last name will contribute to you and your future generations losing you identity. You are voluntarily, watering yourself down. You previously said you have an Igbo name (which maybe your middle name for all I know. So you definitely have an English name (possibly your first name) and now you want an English last name as well? Biko, chegharia. Have a rethink and retrace your steps. All your names (first and last) should be in your native language. If your parents gave you an English first name, you should try to remedy that in your children as opposed to making it worse (giving them an English last names).

Between the First and Middle name, the first name takes predominance. So those Nigerians that move their native name to the status of a middle name, are just deceiving themselves. Of all the names, the last name is most tied to your heritage. Changing it to an English name bu aru (abomination). Did you know that when the slaves where brought to the America’s they were forcefully stripped of their name and their last name was made to denote whose slave they were? If you see a black American family with the last name of O’Neill, their slave owner was most likely Irish. Manigault = French. O’Malley = Irish. Stewart/Stuart = German.
There wa physical slavery and now there is mental slavery. Break free.

Biko, chegharia!
Wow. Thanks for this insight. You're very correct with my first name as english, middle name as native and wanting to make my surname english. What if I convert my middle name which is native to become my surname, then I'll be having only two names: first name to be english and surname to be native, no middle name. I really don't have problem with a bearing a native surname but the meaning of the "Nweke" which to doesn't have any origin and deep meaning aside "Nwoke amuri ubochi eke." Can I do without a middle name. Thanks so much, I'm very much grateful for your responses.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 11:56pm On Dec 20, 2017
Phut:
Nweke is an absolutely beautiful name and you should not change it. It means child born of Eke day. If igbo’a had no concept of time and did not count the days, it would have been used against them as a sign of incivility. And here you are working over time to denigrate said culture. Just like Ghanaians name their child after days of the week: Kwame, Kojo, Akosua etc, is the same things Igbo’s do.
Nweke can never mean child of a python. Igbo names are not literal so trying to give them a literal translation is a deliberate miseducation of the masses. Also Igbo language is tonal. One word can mean several things depending on the tone in which it is said. A good example is, Akwa. So when we know what a name means metaphorically or in the context in which it was used, it is disingenuous to swap it out for similarly spelt but tonally different words.
When the colonialists came, one of the ways in which the suppressed our culture was by insisting that people be baptized with English or Latin names. The colonialists have physically left our shores but some of us are so brainwashed that we willing carry out the masters work with gusto and try to be more Western than the westerners.
What does Lawrence mean? Man from Laurent? And how is this a better meaning than Nweke?
If you are going to change your last name, change it to another traditional Igbo name. There are plenty of good Igbo names. If you choose an English name, it would be very clear what you are doing. In one or two generations (tops) your descendants through your doing, will probably be bearing English first and late names, and the Conquest would be complete!
When you live abroad and see people that have been stripped of their heritage, past and history and how bereft and rudderless they feel, it becomes all the sadder when you see Nigerians willing throw their away, for no good reason
I've really learnt one or two things here. Can you suggest a native name that relate to "Nweke" with a deep clear meaning.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 11:51pm On Dec 20, 2017
Tochex101:
Your message is beautiful, cyrstal and clear. Onye nwere nti ya nuru........#those who have ears let them hear.
Thanks for your input, I will still appreciate if you any information about the origin and the deep meaning of the name "Nweke "
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 11:48pm On Dec 20, 2017
Chommieblaq:
Thanks Sis, you nailed it with your post.

Don't lose your identity because one foreign name, you don't even know the origin.
Thanks for your input. Do you think having a native name in my names will make me loose my identity.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 11:45pm On Dec 20, 2017
Phut:
Christianity and Islam were used as a tool of imperialistic expansionism and we can see the result here.
But I don't think you're a traditional worship as a way of not accepting the white men imperialism and also to preserve what our fore-fathers left behind. Having said that, do you think still having at least one native names in my name will make me loose sight of where am coming from, does it make much difference. I look forward to your kind response. I really appreciate.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 11:39pm On Dec 20, 2017
Phut:
It’s a shame that you are intentionally misinterpreting Igbo names. Azuka never meant and will never mean that backwardness is greater. Azu in Azuka means the past. Azuka means the Past/History is great (and accordingly should be given great reverence). It’s almost like saying that you have to know your past to appreciate your present.
We are great because of our ancestors that came before us, from the 2nd to the 10th generation and beyond. A r. Let me ask you this? Do you think your ancestors are in hellfire? And do you think you are so much better than them and all that they represent (because a Whitman came with a new religion and told you so?)
I so much appreciate all your comments and I glad if you can tell me more about the origin of the name "Nweke" and deep meaning if you have any idea.
PropertiesRe: The Making Of A Low Budget 5 Bedroom Duplex (with Costs) by Dremca(m): 8:02pm On Dec 20, 2017
spyder880:
It's also my hope. The kids are asking to travel tomorrow to stay in this house. cheesy

We hope to clean it up before they move in.
It will be a memorable xmas for them.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 7:02pm On Dec 20, 2017
Chommieblaq:
A million like for you.

Most of those English names, do we really know their origin and deeper meaning.
I will so much appreciate if you can educate me on the origin and deeper meaning of the name "Nweke"
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 6:40pm On Dec 20, 2017
MrBottle:
This really shows you lack understanding of Igbo names. I wanted to let the nweke stuff slide but this....Azuka...kai. come on . And nweke is not son of a python, in short what did you score igbo language in your WAEC cos I am seeing an abysmal lack of in-depth meaning of Igbo words on your part.

You can answer whatever name that suit you but don't plunge my language into abyss with you. There is wood, bush, waters, winters and the rest of them "English" names you can chose from.
If you read my writeup very well, I said Nweke means "Nwoke amuri ubochi eke" meaning "A boy born on the eke market day" while literaly (syllabically) it means son of a python. So one is direct meaning while the other is literary meaning. I will appreciate if you can educate me more about the name "Nweke:" origin, deeper meaning and any other information about the name. I look forward to your response sir.
PropertiesRe: The Making Of A Low Budget 5 Bedroom Duplex (with Costs) by Dremca(m): 5:51pm On Dec 20, 2017
Hope the kids will move in to their news house this xmas.
TravelRe: Getting A Green Card By Adjustment Of Status: My Yankee Experience by Dremca(m): 4:25pm On Dec 20, 2017
Bede2u:
wow i like yours... u explained wat i can do with the visa i am issued once we are officially married. Nice one. From ur explanation it seems i'd be able to work once we marry even without greencard?
If we divorce, i dont intend to overstay my visa and bcom illegal. I will leave once am out of status and restrategise on how to return. Every must be done legally.
Gulf is an emerging region and am keeping it close...however America is where d heart is
Why hoping to divorce someday when you can marry for love. Good is not enough, the best is yet to come. Search for the best and safeguard your future.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 4:17pm On Dec 20, 2017
delishpot:
Pope killed a lot of Christians back in the day, but today it is a blessing to become the pope in some religious groups. Priests raped kids but today families still send their kids to become priests. Many people were still called Judas even after the death of Christ and no took it personal. Parents don't give that name due to sentiments of people not because the child would betray another Christ. So basically they don't want others to judge the child just the same way a white man can judge you just by your skin color even tho the name and the color doesn't define your character. So yeah, if you feel the name doesn't portray you in a positive light then by all means change it.
You have a great point. Imagine a man from Nigeria bears the name "Emmanuel Judas" invents the cure for HIV/AIDS. Two things are involve here: the man's name and what he invented. Such person will certainly dominate the headline in mainstream and social media for a long time even becoming the "PERSONALITY OF THE YEAR" in various media. All these would happen because of contrasts, many would even name there children Judas just as some did when Obama became the president. Former perception/definition of the name Judas was a "traitor" and new perception/definition will be "world problem solver." But as for mine, is a generic ancient name associated with deity which could be spiritual with no clear meaning and no relationship to the modern day era.
TravelRe: Getting A Green Card By Adjustment Of Status: My Yankee Experience by Dremca(m): 3:58pm On Dec 20, 2017
Bede2u:
Nice one...she is working sha...a homecare worker, earns 41k usd. She works 2 jobs (same type of job, different agencies) and sometimes strech to 24 hours non stop working ( sometimes 48 hours). She says she needs a working man to help pay bills so she wont have to work long hours. She also says i can remain in middle east until paper is sorted so i can be able to work. (Is that possible?)
Me really no mind marry her for real. Naija matter weak me. As far as i live and work legally in u.s and working towards citizenship, i no too mind who i come home to everyday (as far as she isnt violent or sick). Macron's wife is 24 yrs older than him and she no even fit give Macron any kids. So a high flying guy like him cant even leave his legacies to kids cos of who he marry.

If u ask me to choose btw living in nigeria and marrying a sexy Nigerian girl my age for d rest of my life or living in u.s and marrying an older fat lady for d rest of my life....i will choose the later

However am open to advice and suggestions smiley
I really understand you bro. Your action is not different from that of an average Nigerian girl who would fall for a man and accept to marry him because of the size of his wallet. Gulf region is an emerging market where you can be opportune to meet even younger American ladies in events who would love you for who you are not for your wallet. Having said, Americans are extremely emotional people, she can wake up one morning and seek for a divorce. PS: Be informed that you guys ought to be married for at least 2years which gives you temporary green card from the time of marriage, after which the condition will be lifted in the second year and you get get your official green card. Then after 3years of marriage, you apply for citizenship. Your temporary green card is more like a premium visa (premium in the sense that you enjoy the priviledge other permanent resident but stil temporaral because is valid for 2years) and if you guys divorce before the 2nd year in marriage, you stay out of status at the end of the 2years in order words, you will be an "ILLEGAL IMMIGRANT." So my brother think twice considering who have had several affairs. Have you asked yourself why she don't last in relationship and the average time she has lasted in a relationship. Does she have any criminal record, because if she does, you could be indicted in the future for what you don't know because you're her spouse. Yankee love dey sweet but no be for tokumbo like this. THINK TWICE.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 2:45pm On Dec 20, 2017
delishpot:
Okay, I feel you and like I said, no one can feel how you feel in other words he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches. Every religion has gone through renovation. If human sacrifice was not a part of Jewish ancient custom Abraham would not have taken Issac to be sacrificed, women were stoned to death in Jesus' time, kids were stoned if they were considered disobedient(The source of the commandment honour thine father and mother so that your days shall be long on earth), virgins were captured and raped as what the right hand possessed in war, Slavery was allowed and slaves encouraged to obey their masters and serve them well. But did all that make you hate Jewish God? I will not stand for a God that asks for human blood no matter which God. If you wanna kill, do it yourself.
I really love your point. In as much as I don't condemn any religion, am only against the bad practises in it and names related to them especially onces with no clear meaning. I believe you won't name your child Herod or Delilah due to the events that brought meaning to those names. Imagine someone bearing Judas Iscarriot, The first thing that goes your mind will be, "could this person be a 'traitor.' " So every religion has it's own bad side either in the past or present, but I still believe meanings matters. I really appreciate your input.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 2:14pm On Dec 20, 2017
Please guys, I still need more of your contributions.
TravelRe: Getting A Green Card By Adjustment Of Status: My Yankee Experience by Dremca(m): 12:35pm On Dec 20, 2017
lionlee216:
She inturn asked me for std/hiv results which i editted my friends work and gave to her but she never talked about her own.. who even get her time, 6 kids, she's jobless lol.

She's White .
So all those guys dey do hit and run. Na confirm bonaza she be. Bros no vex, if she come born too much maybe upto 10, shebi the children go turn to Almajiri. To all my naija guys wey do "money for hand back for ground" for naija girls, go get your visa and come and eat free food.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 12:19pm On Dec 20, 2017
delishpot:
So Igbos should also worry about a market day named after a deity? Go learn about the deity if you want to know about it na. If you aint comfortable sha, change it. ONe cant feel your feeling. I dont know the meaning of that name from market or deity angle sha.
We are all here to learn. Ancient people did alot of evil deed in the past including killing of twins, killing of albinos, sacrifice of virgins et al out of ignorance and I still can't figure out what these deities represent. This is 21st century, and I believe we ought to be well informed of our past, present and future. Even up til this mordern day era, some tribes in remote places in africa still practice some of those things and you will be suprise to find out that such ill practice still exist (NB: Am not trying to condemn traditional religious but the bad practises of it). I wish to read meaning and I will appreciate more of your contribution.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 12:02pm On Dec 20, 2017
Zonacom:
If you must change your surname, please pick another tribal name as surname. A Lawrence as surname for an Igbo person ain't palatable to me biko.
You're right but my grand-father has only two names: one native name and one english name. I also have my own local name as an ethnic identity. Thanks for your concern.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 11:58am On Dec 20, 2017
KardinalZik:
Why must his children adopt his surname as theirs? His first name ought to be his children's surname.

SURNAMES ARE PROGRESSIVE, NOT STATIC.
Certainly my children would adopt my name as their surname. Thanks for your input.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 11:55am On Dec 20, 2017
delishpot:
Thats why I was looking for a terrible meaning in that name na. I no see the bad meaning till now o
I earlier mentioned that the name is associated with a "deity" responsible for counting days of week in Igbo. I don't think I will be comfortable associating my surname with a deity I know nothing about. These deity were there before the coming of the white men. I will so much appreciate if you have different meaning for the name.
FamilyRe: Should I Change My Surname, Please I Need Your Advice. by Dremca(op): 11:49am On Dec 20, 2017
duduwest:
we are in the same line cos I Bear my grandpa which I don't no surname and all my siblings are using there own name for there children but the reason I stick to the name is because I love the name and I have even modernise it to my own taste. Salawudeen to Solahudeen
Is good to know you love your surname maybe because of the way it sound or the meaning but I pay more attention to meaning. There are funny Igbo names I can't give my children. Name like "Azuka" (back/backwardness is greater). It may sound nice to many but the meaning is awful. Same applies to names of other tribes.

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