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fntekim:
una no de tire?
i think say this thread don die?
wow! Finally i'm the last, what a relief.

im as stunned as u r bro.nairalanders no dey tire at all.
lucky me sha!!!im d last.
more relieved.

darew:
That's crap.don't ever believe that.It doesn't work that way at all.If nthe guy doesn't love u in the first instance,giving him sex won't make him love u.U'll only be helping him to accomplish his motive for dating u.SEX!!!!!!!!

ehen

luxoire:
I think both your statements are untrue,

A guy doesnt need sex to fall inlove, where as for some guys 'good sex' might be an incentive to stay and get to know the person better. or good sex might seal the bond, bad sex would just force him to look elsewhere

and trust me, i have met girls who will screw u because they can. Not because of love or bla bla bla, if they are Hot and don't want to use a vibrator (ir they want an actual human being), they'll pick up their black book and call the ghot guy they met at the club last weekend and hook up with him. after that, they need/want nothing more from u - its funny to see how some of these guys feel hurt, esp if they had been wanting a bit more, or a repeat performance sometime soon.

Are they sluts?, i don't agree with the practice, but i shall not judge anyone, just because their moral values don't match mine.

quite an intelligent contribution.

Seun:
Speak for yourself. To the ladies: it's a matter of choosing the right guy who appreciates the real you.

mayb sha.

crazykid:
Ok miss know all.

you can go ahead and become a professor if you wish to.
it's your life. But there's one thing i want you to know, guys hate women who have too much degree because they brag about and let that common paper get into their head.

tnk u jare my guy.
i don tell d babe say na overskill go kill her monkey!!!

IBDat:
Only a guy that is trying to get into yo pants will tell u that.

No guys don't need to have sex before falling love! Some (me) just wouldn't fully commit unless they get into those undies.
Just like a car - u can fall in love with a car from looks and specs alone, but you don't splash out yo money on it before taking it 4 a test drive

wats ur conclusion pls.

to my understanding,
sm guyz wuld nid to get down wit d gal to REALLY fall in luv.In that case,he wants to b sure he's gettin d maximum satisfaction 4rm wat he's sticking his ass into.

On d other hand,sm galz wuld want to get laid wit d guy to test his capabilities.

my point,
sex strengthens so many relationships(though we might want to shy away 4rm reality).
its builds so many homes (though a true n undiluted luv is neva based on dat).
SEX cant just b ignored for a relationship tp b very very strong.

ajayi1:
MASE GBO TENI KENI MU IFE RE, By style plus. So be careful, don't get annoy with her. only if you catch her red handed.

bros u yarn correct jare.

desorlah:
Na wah o! What have you been doing for the past six years

Maybe He'll tell you his mind when you're 30 and we'll starting searching for husband for u.

Use your brain.

is that an advice?
na real waah 4 u sef!!!

c her korokoro b4 u dcide now!

LanreDaMan:
Oh God,
this is an ancient Playa secret
How dare you put it out here
Please disregard the advise and be emotional
Girls love wimps (sorry caring men)
Please Administrator Clear this post

man,,i 2 pity u.

Aproko:
@ poster,

6 years is a lot of time for you to be able to read your boyfriend and know his psyche, my dear proposing to him will not make him appreciate you more, it will only make you sound desperate and that may put him off.

but if after all this while, he is comfortable and seems in the right frame of mind to settle down and yet he hasn't said anything to you about it, then i think you should start shopping for another basket to carry your eggs in because he may not see you as wife material and may not know how to tell you.

so look inwards, do what your head and heart tells you to do

xactly my point.
e may not b cn u as a material.

check what u think he admires in married women that u seem not to have.

when it comes to taking decisions bout gettin married,its entirely a different ball game.u have to b able to meet up wit his standards of marriage life in its literal meaning ooooooooooooor mayb its MONEY MATTER.

moondust:
I don't think the Lady is finding this funny

ehen!!
ha, make the lady no bgin rack me 4 here oo(no dis-respect intended sha).
pele

puker:
Some women can be said to be educated and not most of them. Seun, what am saying is that only very few who are educated are ready to be humble in their homes. I know of a family of three women and they are all lawyers. Men! get close and see how women misunderstand education to be a right to lord over men. Their attitude is so repulsive that they slap their boy freinds at will. Tell me the husband who has to contend with that.

oh boy!!!!
dats serious.

moondust:
wow! nothin like a girl who plays hard 2 get
I concur because I'm straight 2

Forming hard to get doesnt really make any meaning bro!
she might just b scared of u cn her st*****g hole.

ebong4waz:
@ femo a,
this is a risk o!! always have it in mind that its marriage that you are after. I pray that the end justifies the means for you both. Be optimistic about the whole 'project' & please do not take little details for granted about the whole thing,
Watch & pray, Watch & wait & have it in mind that no-one is perfect.
Free your mind & take/make the best decusions. (please whatever d case, make sure u sample the congo!)
Cheers!

wetin u dey yarn?

Has:
o boy i can't hold it but i have to comment on your statement that d damsel is so beautiful, why don't u say the girl is of good and outstanding character ,wit this i will b rest assured that u are sincerely hooked.Over and above according to the title of your piece, i thought u people have married already. Anyway please don't delay the real thing[marriage] because the beauty is yet to b born. i wish u the very best.
HAS

Bros,
i think beauty n attitude shuld flow together.

labyrinth:
@ opelovely
infact after all the response i saw urs was the best. because u hit the nail straight into the head. i would like 2 knw u better someday if fine by u. see ya soon

haba,
do u av to dissent to pple's view because u want to ask someone out indirectly?
na wa 4 u o.

laudate:
Gba o! You hit the nail on the head. There are some men who don't care how many PG degrees a woman has, as long as she makes them feel good. And there are others who feel intimidated, once they see you have more than one degree attched to your name. A massive inferiority complex kicks in & they run for their lives.
They feel inadequate & think that their weaknesses would be revealed for all to see.

How sad.

hmmm,
u galz r making a lotta mistake.
u got it all wrong.

SNL:
Here is my pics

New member anyway

Andre

welcome to nairaland.

babyosisi:
I didn't know I was addicted until I got banned for bad behaviour and went through serious withdrawal symptoms.

I've met many smart,funny and also not so smart people here.
It's been fun.

yea.NAIRALAND HAS BN FUN.
ITS A GREAT HOUZ TO BELONG TO.

hot chic:
Cos guys av got it in their head that are the leaders and are bound to rule and they don't want a lady who's got it all and challenge them.

xtremely wrong impression u got dear.

Seun:
If you tolerate a bully, it emboldens the bully. If you dump his worthless ass the first time he hits you, he will learn.

bros u dey vex oo.
y not encourage allowing a second chance or more.
u neva can tell, d guy might change

hot chic:
There are some stages you should attain,age wise i think 16 17 is whats reigning in Nigeria now but its got a lot do with maturity,a 17 old girl may be more matured and more intelligent than a 19year old girl,but if you find the right partner,you just fall but thats definitely not by relying on looks and dressing because thats whats most young ladies do.

ur conclusion please!!

neelsel:
This a fact. I have had similar experiences in the past. I once dated a guy who wasn't only intimidated by my supposedly intelligence but even went as far as informing one of his friends that he was jealous of me.
I noticed that he would always try to outdo me in every aspect of life. He made sure he bought the newest cell phone out, he traded in his car when I bought a new truck. He switched his major twice in college aiming for a major that would yield a job paying more than mine.
Having said all of that, this problem is a two-fold dilemma since there are girls who also run away from educated men.
I guess when it is all settled, it's just the mentality of humans and not so much a gender issue per say.

very well said.
u r intelligent n composed really.

ThoniaSlim:
any guy who does this is a complete loser

meaning?

mubowa:
can you explain more to me because am won't quit my education because some idiot, stupid, inmatured, fucking, frighten, annoying, local, crazy, nonentity, preposterous, vile, ridiculous, mentally disorder, arrogant, mere looking fool is running away from me. who do men think they are any way. if educated man started marrying illiterate, then, illiterate men will start dating educated women oh oh oh oh oh eh eh eh i don enter wahala oh oh

na overskill go kill ur monkey

@topic
wat sincerely do u think wil make any right thinking guy run away from an educated woman?
she carry fire put 4 head?, nonsense talk.

too bad.
not encouraging really.
its not gud 4 a guy to beat his girlfriend.

psychologically,
one wuld know if he/she is ready.

absolutely right.

check urself man.