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Now this thread is more like hyping UK to me.

It should have read, Good news - Nigerians can think of a better alternative.

Why people still flock here's because they dont believe when we tell them Uk is as good as been in Nigeria save constant power n security (but na dat one go build me solid crib for island?)

In the boom years,people lounge mainly on credit. House, furniture, car, school, phone, travel, even food na on credit card.

Now they are in recession, where the job?

screw them, who cares, mshew!!

chipmunkey:
Dude not looking bad, a lil chubby though!

sharap,

@Fstranger,

show face naw, make we judge innit, lol

That guy is flipping loaded, Make he ugly sef, he will wed any babe he wants,

Una think say na fine boy Dakore marry? Money Talks pls.

HATER,

enuf beef in da house o, unnecessary HATE/ARGUMENT,

This dude is tite and Dakore is gorgeous, Most of una wey dem form big girl go open y**sh straight at his sight.

The compliments will prolly not last more than a couple of minutes neither does it guarantee a happy marriage but truth be told, they are both clean.

Make una appreciate God abeg!!

No, i have an A6,

Just EOD,

Many thanks

mark_jac01:
my real babe!

dat your real babe is under-aged my friend,

Tolulop001:
i want a BB Torch right now . . .

or maybe an iPad. . .

or the Jane Birkin Bag ive had my eve on for the past 3 years  

in no particular order! ! !

like Tolu said, the replica of your bag is the cheapest item on that list, what are you prepared to offer in return?

leoebhos:
jewery is not bad, its just that my babe is fumbling right now and i dont know whether to buy her a gift or not. i love her but i dont know about her

hahahahaha, your babe is fumbling, opportunity to peel isnt it? why you dey waste time? lol

like i said,i recently bought an Audi A6 so i know how moving around and the hassle is,

Since its your place of work, i reckon it wont cost anything looking around for one while at the same time checking out EOD's.

If you then find one, take d pictures,

My schedule is tight basically. Just wanna come around, check it out and my friend/brother will follow it up to lagos.

Thanks

se owa alrite sha?

2m ko, 1 billion ni,

big father:
Na wa for people with some kind of funny offer ! Na the engine you wan buy or the body ?

And besides you are suppose to call him and not the other way round ! Haba !

seedord247:
why yu no tell am say make he dash yu.

hahahaha, That is not a nice thing to do i suppose.

This is a marketplace where agreements are based on offer and acceptance.

Its entirely up to the seller to accept the offer isnt it?

kilo kan eyin mejeeji?

Thank you Sir.

of course i am ready.

since cotonou is your base, can you get one first, send the picture to my email.

We can then have a view and bring it down straight.

Thank you.

No problem, thanks for the response anyway.

About your question?

Im looking at 2003 or 2004 end of discussion, i understand it is normally cheaper from cotonou, My friend got me a 1998 Audi A4 for 550k recently.

Personally i wont mind abit of high milleage like 80plus but engine must be sound and other things,

1.2m should do i guess,

do we av a deal?

if u can find one, pls forward the pictures in n out to (damilare31@yahoo.co.uk) and we'll take it up from there, tnx

tunde300us:
Check out the way the movie started with two guys fighting each other and suddenly they vanish into thin air,what is the meaning of that

Then suddenly some ppl running after some ladies (thugs) for almost 5mins nd they wont catch up wit em even if they have a yokozuna amongst them,i think she can do beta.

Ofcourse we re used to wack movies in Nigeria to the extent u say cos funke is in it,then suddenly its the bomb.When u compare her first movie JENIFA with all odas u will undastand with me they re just pure over-do comedy

why HATE unnecessarily.

she's made millions on da movie. she's a STAR.

what have you got to show for your cowardice? typing rubbish behind ur keyboard!

can i get a honda end of discussion for 1.2m from cotonou?

thank you

do you still have the altima?

You are obviously not a good businessman.

This car has got some problems.

Is that not a mechanic workshop?

I strongly believe courtship is necessary but not so important.

Alot of people pretend during courtships.

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is this a joke or what?

virgin ko!!

hahahahahahah

Naijafren correct 100% .

of course NOT if she's also got no problem with her hubby doing same to his ex.

really nice, is anthing wrong with the car? just wan get my mind prepared please,

still available?

Is the vehicle not parked at a repair shop?

hmmn

1.1m my friend,

tensor777:
Well don't judge anyone. Nobody owes you any explanation whatsoever as to their actions in the West as far as they are legitimate.
Everyone has their own life to live.  If you want to live in Nigeria then all well and good , but do not condemn others that choose to live abroad.

You do not actually deserve a reply but just to let you know, you have a serious complex problem.

My analysis was generic so y da tantrum? Na ur wife dey pay ur bills? rubbish

This issue is so simple and straightforward.

We have different categories of Nigerians living abroad.

Some continuosly develop themselves and can wake up anyday and fit back into the system back home.
Some start well overseas and get stuck at some point.They cant either move forward or shift to reverse gear.Always one excuse or the other to hang on here.
Some come in here as the only hope for a better future.They certainly have no stake in the structural design of Nigerians economy.
Some have no ambition.They simply come here to study but end up following the wagon of obtaining foreign passport which will eventually be useless to them.

The plain truth is, either in naija or abroad, educated or not educated, in as much as you can afford the basic things of life and a few luxury,you are successful as a Nigerian.

My point is, we need to be honest with ourselves. I have met Nigerians with less than two yrs in UK complaining about electricity or security back home but they av been in that system all there flipping life before coming here. They end up living from hand to mouth,in an unskilled work, yet forming janded.

We need to face reality, if u r well educated, no matter how difficult naija is, u will always breakthrough at the end of the day. Nigeria is not a write-off.

UK and oda developed economies are at their boiling point. Even office workers cant save. Who can confidently say i am the MAN in my house without the wife's support in UK? There is no need to condemn, lets just deal with the thread and stop been short-sighted. Its not like the developed world is glittering. People with yankee passport sef dey run go Nigeria not to mention UK, mshew(kip fooling yourselves).

eshiema:
marriage is not for evryone,i wnda when we africans will realize that.as long as you not yoruba who attach so much 2 marriage and if u are PLEASE channel your energy towards more productive things,u need to know wats happening out there. ALAWT!!!!!!!!!!
no come hurt urself

Your tantrum is soo unnecessary. You do not have to be tribalistic.

Your point is clear, its all a matter of CHOICE but she wants to get MARRIED so she's got to be worried

Above 30 na yam?mshewww

laughs, i reckon we have more boys than men on this thread.

For the MEN, they should understand what it takes to be a man.

For da boyz, i take God beg una, husstle, work hard, get good correct education or business. Be completely independent.Try and load your pocket and you wont FOREVER, EVER and EVER need to talk too much before having a partner.

Every woman has got a PRICE.

Please use your church mind get my jerk,

Freesia:
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"poster if you're serious about needing a husband, better get to stepping.

even non-naija women in other countries [including developed ones] arent singing this "im happy to be single" song. They're snapping up the naija guys as fast as they [the dudes] can get off the boat.

swallow your pride and re-evaluate your options.

if you have no plans to ever marry, that's different."

@Tpia
I like the fact that you keep it real all the time

For the fact that you are a female, God Bless You a million times. I envy your hubby.

Truth is, if she has got plans to marry, she has to play by the rules. Men too have options, they have wants, not just about you you you cus you are the lady. Career dey deceive dem, you go tay

Pride and Options are a major factor here. 80% positive(dats from my personal experience)

Well, i reckon the ones advising her to go deaf and dumb, ignore the pressure, focus on her career and looks are merely happy at the fact that they have another partner-in-crime cuz all that is vanity. You are trying to push her into living an old age of boredom and frustration. All she's worked for will go to people who never knew how she got them cuz her kids will be too young to claim anytin(if she ever delivers).

Ladies are soo funny, always want to eat there cake and have it. At over 30, your potential hubby has got to live with the fact that the max you can have is 2kids(if you are not over 35). That is his cross. You are approaching puberty (Plain truth). Dont allow them to deceive you. You have got to set your priorities and realise your career and all those is vanity. Learn to compromise too and get someone who is ready to build a family with you. You aint got so many choices left my dear. Money is secondary when it comes to marriage cuz happiness is what counts for a dude. Any guy who wed's for your money will eventually make your life hell on earth at the end of the day.

1) We need to ask her the number of relationships she's had and how she managed them.

2) We need to know what exactly she wants in a man.

3) We need to clearly define what her priorities are.

4) We need to know if she is truly living a life of reality or fantasy

5) How much is she willing to sacrifice to build her family?

I asked this questions because at the age of 30 and counting, she doesnt really need to be pressurized before getting married. If she's got a good career, workplace and social corporate events are perfect. If she is not, university, college, workplace or church brothers are closer. Her neighbourhood is there if she is pretty. Family friends referral is there if her character is sound. loads of avenues to meet men.

My honest take is, she needs to first fight the demon within her. You need to check and judge yourself. Have you been cocky, over-rated yourself? looking for a fully loaded guy? looking for a spotless guy you can use for public pose? Is your attitude worth sticking with?(i said this cuz no sane man will want to loose a decent lady.Trust me, Its not only about your choice, there choice of a woman too counts).

If you scaled through all this with no fault, then your next line of action should be DELIVERANCE from the spirit of hit & run

She maintains regular communication with some of her ex behind me. When i realised, her excuse was ''JUST FRIENDS''.

The last time she had sex before our relationship was a month.

The second day after i met her, we went to the cinema after church and my hands were freely moving around in her panties at the extreme backside we sat.

She gave one of them some money when he needed it (though i advised her to help him cuz i believed nothing was happenning and knew about it when they were arguing).

One of them called her late in the night. Her phone was on silent, i saw the call, told her to pick it but she refused. Said she will speak with him some other time.

We nearly got married but its all over now.

She changed completely when i stopped spending money and had uncertainties around my job (though i seriously scolded her when we had a disagreement n she used d opportunity to change which further annoyed me).

Could she have been cheating on me?

Why would she have wanted to marry me in the first place? Is it possible for a lady to engage someone she knows she cant live with?

Just curious to be honest!

hahahaha :Dhahaahahah ;Daha, my belle aches. cant stop laughing

ya'll aint serious

bunch of comedians, lmao

@ Jenifer

dunno wot is wrong with admin,they wont let me insert quote again o.

Bout living with her uncle. She actually pays £360 pm bills inclusive cuz d bros has been jobless n mortgage bill no stop

However,that was one of the reasons i proposed earlier than normal cuz i thot to myself,if dis girl can live with a relative,then she is not restless and kindda homely.

I remember giving that as one of my reasons for proposing early when having a discussion with the uncle's wife before she advised me to go for my course.

Unfortunately,i was fooling myself cuz koni meaning

@ MzD@rkSkin

paraphrase wot exactly? u r so funny