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muslimahsameera:
Assalam Alaikum, My name is Ijara from Ghana, founder of Muslimahsameerah.com
Great to be here, Joined nairaland in my search for Nigerian Muslim partnerships (business-wise).
Jazak Allah Khair

cool site.

olumbest:
Thank God u know how hard it was to get dat one. It's tougher for everyone without a link.
Jus find a way to sail through ur responsibilities bro. If u use d rush you might lose ur job. Easy man. This present job will give u experience while u develop yourself.
Me, I have responsibilities but no job. No link sef. Now, weight the two of us.

We've all got responsibilities.

Take a chill pill and figure yourself out (u don turn man).

Thanks Bro. Sigh
I pray it turns out well for us both. God Bless us all

Am a graduate of masscommunication. I jus got a job am managing ds January.salary 30k

My family are already kindof on my neck to get a Job with a better salary Figure.. I Dont even know where I want to start from cus I Remember all the little fuss, I went tru searching for Jobs with no Luck.

Honestly I gats responsibilities - dues I gats to pay mehn and also big plans for myself too.

The 30k job I have now is just a Job that came miraculously.. Allhamdullahi

The Job is cool but 30k is small... I need a Job with better figure. Na Beg I dey Beg.


My email: yusufhadaydoyin@gmail.com

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Rashduct4luv:
Yes, you have to do the ablution again.


The things that invalidate the prayer are well known, but the number differs according to differences among the fuqaha’. They are as follows:

1 – That which invalidates wudoo’, such as breaking wind or eating camel meat.

2 – Uncovering the ‘awrah deliberately. But if it is uncovered by accident and what is uncovered is only a little, or if a lot becomes uncovered but he covers it immediately, then the prayer is not invalidated.

3 – Turning away from the qiblah to a large extent.

4 – Presence of najaasah (impurity) on one's body or clothes, or in the place where one is praying. If he notices it or remembers it during the prayer and removes it immediately, then his prayer is valid. Similarly, if he does not find out about it until after the prayer is over, his prayer is still valid.

5 – Excessive continuous movement during the prayer for no essential reason.

6 –Omitting one of the pillars (essential parts) of the prayer, such as bowing and prostration.

7 – Deliberately doing an extra pillar, such as bowing.

8 – Deliberately doing some pillars before others.

9 – Deliberately saying the salaam before completing the prayer.

10 – Deliberately changing the meaning whilst reciting.

11- Deliberately omitting one of the obligatory parts of prayer, such as the first tashahhud. But if a person forgets, his prayer is valid but he must do the prostration of forgetfulness (sujood al-sahw).

12 – Deciding to stop praying.

13 – Laughing out loud. Merely smiling does not invalidate the prayer.

14 – Deliberately speaking. If one speaks by mistake or out of ignorance of the ruling, the prayer is not invalidated.

15 –Eating and drinking.

See: Daleel al-Taalib li Nayl al-Mataalib by Shaykh Mar’i ibn Yoosuf al-Hanbali (p. 34). And Duroos Muhimmah by Shaykh Ibn Baaz.

And Allaah knows best.

Jazak Allah Khairan

Please if you cant stay off dem earplugs for a sec then I advice..

To be rather safe than sorry.. I recommend using only one ear to listen to your songs when you are outside/going out/busy roads while using d other ear to Listen to d environment.

[quote author=Rashduct4luv post=65664439]Assalamun 'alaikum,

I have been trying to post this for over two weeks now and the post gets hidden/taken down the moment i submit it.

So i have to post only the conclusions...whoever wants to read the evidences should go to the reference below

Question:
I go to Jumu’ah prayer, but every time I enter the prayer-hall of the mosque, I say salaams and the other worshippers return the greeting, even those who are reading Qur’aan. When the khutbah has begun, some worshippers come in and say salaams, and the imam return the greeting in a low voice. Is this permissible?

Conclusion:

Those who attend Jumu’ah prayers have to be silent and listen attentively to the imam. It is not permissible to speak whilst the imam is delivering the khutbah, except in the cases indicated by the evidence, such as speaking to the khateeb or responding to him, or in cases of necessity such as saving a blind man from falling and so on.

Greeting the imam with salaam or returning the greeting of one who comes in also come under this prohibition, because there is no concession allowing one to speak with the imam except in cases of need, which does not include giving or returning greetings.

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen said in al-Sharh al-Mumti’, 5/140:

It is not permissible for the imam to say anything that serves no purpose, rather it should be for a reason connected with the prayer or other suitable topics. But if the imam says something that serves no purpose, that is not permissible.

If there is a need, then it is permissible. For example, if a listener does not understand something that the khateeb says in his khutbah, or if the khateeb makes a mistake in reciting a verse that alters the meaning, or if he omits a phrase from a verse, and so on.

Other reasons in which the imam may speak for a purpose include problems with the loudspeakers, in which the imam may speak to the engineer and ask him to see what is wrong.

And Allaah knows best.

https://islamqa.info/en/45651[/quote ] quick question. Does going to pee invalidates Wudu?, even after cleaning the area according to sunnah.. Do we still need to re- do the ablution?

ariesbull:
Jamida Beevi created history by becoming the first Indian Muslim woman to lead the Friday prayer for a mixed-gender congregation at a public place. The 34-year-old led around 30 men and women in namaaz inside a hall at Vandoor village in Kerala’s Malappuram district.

The person who leads namaaz is called imam and, traditionally, he is a man, unless it is an all-woman congregation. The first woman to break this tradition, in recent memory at least, was Amina Wadud, an American professor of religion and philosophy, who led the Friday prayer in New York in 2005.

But while Wadud was hailed as a revolutionary, Beevi has not received much support.


https://etimes.com.ng/muslim-woman-leads-prayers-receives-death-threats-round-world/


The decision to organise a Friday prayer led by a woman was taken on January 23 at the state committee meeting of her faction of the Khuran Sunnath Society.

“We wanted to spread the message that Islam never prohibited women from leading prayers,” Beevi said. “We have decided to continue this practice.”

Beevi hopes her decision “will inspire more Muslim women to preside over prayers”.

what absolute nonsense is this!. This one is an obvious innovation.. This is 100% against the Truth of the Quran and the sunnah of our holy Prophet Mohammed (s.a.w) she and the Jamma dat prayed behind her should sincerely seek for forgiveness from Allah S.W.T The most gracious and most merciful.. I Pray Allah Forgive us all for all our shortcomings. Especially me.

Allah knows Best

Juliette05:
there is no serious relationship

I sha no dt mentality

Na bad market.. I pray I never end up with somebody wit ds mentality.

faradexs09:
When it took him 8freaking years and a baby to propose... Who wanna wait for this marriage when d planning might take another 10years....mtcheew

some dudes are just scared of d marriage concept thingy.

Am very sure she has passed all d test and doubts.. He probably was having!..

Appreciate a Loyal woman when you see one abeg.. No dey give al ds girls out dere excuse to dey hoe up and down!

A Loyal woman who believe in her man ryt 4rm day zero.

God Bless al em Loyal woman out dere #Respext

Even if all this ish ds dude posted is true and she dey Bleep around...u think say davido na saint ..I Laff.. A popular international Artist that's travelling all over the world. Meeting diff type of groupies....

Even if you wana follow Davido talk as per bros always watch out for bros. This is never the way to do it

This is just childish, attention seeker attitude- u just turn urself to Bleep boy. 4get whatever rep you think you get

Even if all this ish ds dude posted is true and she dey Bleep around...u think say davido na saint ..I Laff.. A popular international Artist that's travelling all over the world. Meeting diff type of groupies....

Even if you wana follow Davido as per bros always watch for bros. This is never the way to do it

This is just childish, attention seeker attitude- u just turn urself to Bleep boy. 4get whatever rep you think you get

dairykidd:
So u are saying u will marry a hoe with ur eyes wide open... No let me call ubunja for u

baba no put talk wey I no talk for my mouth o.



I can not answer for anybody... I just dey talk my own as per under d scope of " Everybody can not b d same .
People are different..different believe, opinions , feelings etc.


Me personally no what I want and what I dont .let's end it there

Sigh..we should be careful who we marry.. If dere is no peace, Love and Mercy in ones marriage. .dere is problem o! Just look at what ds particular wife just do! And she go claim she love her husband.

No you dont Love ur husband. You loved only urself
And d way I read this story. D wife was a bad one. Nigg shouldnt be wanting a new wife so woon. She was a Bad wife and she has shown her true colours to the whole world now..good luck getting a new husband

And I trust Hausa people. D stigma stays with you- u go learn ur lesson well!

hedonistic:
Yeah, as long as it is 'imaginary' body count with random guys from the distant past that you don't know and will never know.

But when you're dating or married to a girl and then you find out that this dude, that dude, and that other dude that you know personally (e.g. your friend, neighbour, colleague, biz partner, or even your bitter enemy) has spanked her ass, it's only certain that you would begin to view her with disgust and the so-called love would die quickly.

oga dem no dey married.

Plus na hoe d person marry ni this ur post strong gan.. Even if sef.

As long as at d initial beginning
She confessed her kind of hoe life at d beginning and d person agreed to go ahead.no matter what he finds out later.. He should be cool.cus he already knows em

But if she no tell am and kasala cum dey come out later ..na deir d Love go turn ultimate disgust

The Babcock's boys that brought this out. Dont have sense ..

This is balderdash, low, childish, immatured and just plain stupid. As in dem suppose lie una down dey flog una for this bullshit..

oliviacute:
I give it to female because when in love they can do absolutely anything for the guy even when it's morally wrong and otherwise
But the bad thing is the guys takes them for granted
Hmmmm

it goes both ways..

I dont know why..

Most people fall for the wrong ones..

If u hear sum niggas stories. U wont effn believe it

Juliette05:
body no be firewood, the thing no dey read meter

What are intimacy gadgets for? Definitely e go dey find ow to squeeze cum satisfy your needs once in a whike..im body sef no b wood..

Buh in sum situations a serious relationship
And d dude wan go Yankee small -and im even do marriage for u b4 leaving ..just to show u how really committed .. He dey..

Anybody with ds kind of ur mentality can never be faithful.

This kind mentality. I repeat na Bad wife material..

pooozeee:
I don't trust any fvcking bitch, even my wife, I can't fvcking trust her..... I can't trust any lady, they all sleep around and pretend, I av dem plenty in my area even the married ones, shebi my neighbour's wife don come meet me b4 say make I 4urk am, she wear boom short with singlet without bra only me and her in my flat.... Who go see nipple wey prick no go rise
Even my ex girl Frnd has once double dated while I was dating her, can u imagine I fvcking my ex almost everyday and yet she went to fvck anoda side guy all bcus of money
I also no how a lady around 9:00pm on friday called her original boy Frnd on phone and spoke with him for about 40mins, when she was about to end the call, she told her boyfrnd that her phone will soon go off he might not be able to reach her again until she charges her phone 2moro morning and that nite, I was driving her to an hotel in lekki, I just say mo gbe oooo for my mind

and sum people will come and cari deir yeye mouth and tell me .. I av trust issues!

Truth be told..I can be fooled easily sef as long as you dont start acting out buh its not gona be a walkthrough
Cus am very observant to d last detail When am really into someone. At ds stage of my Life... I no want any corner corner girl.. I no get tym 4 games... Just imagine d wife issue..u posted. Chai


To all the single dudes out dere..we need to b very very careful wit d gurls we wana marry and hell yeah. I dont even want my babies coming out from no hoe... If we are together den we are together and if not..let me know

And if its all games let me know.. My life simple.

Life / Nigerian is hard enough for somebody - Dan to now start fucking up one emotionally again.

Juliette05:
availability depends on proximity

then u are def a bad gf/ and would be a bad wife too. DTS a low excuse!!

thrillOG:
Edakun Please pardon my blunders oo...I just had to pour out my happening so i can move on..

She served in PH, and stayed a little longer after service year to gain working experience.

We met in Jan 2017 after she got back to Lagos and became friends, every time I ask about her relationship status, she'll tell me she had a briefed one there and they stop talking as the guy is the busy type who works with an oil and gas firm.

She setup up a business and I help with ERP Software and we became attached.
I noticed she's usually lonely and in thoughts, I'll call her everyday and make her feel loved and that was how we started.
I ditch my current girl, snubs my niggas just to impart the missing Love.

Everything seems awesome and the dream seemly becoming reality, until I noticed one traits..'Her WhatsApp status is usually ONLINE at odd hours'.

I complained many times but the excuses are 'I have sleep disorder'. And she's met with different Therapist to no avail..I took that with a pinch of salt and I was watchful..

One day, we had plans to meet, and I called her I was still busy with a Client and don't think I can come over that night unknown to her, i was on my way..I arrived 40 minutes later and found out someone was with her. She opened the door and dashed to the lavatory.

I saw the guy was so uncomfortable and I left, minutes later she was calling begging to please come back and I did after discovering she was sobering up and just to hear her out; ' He was a Family Friend, he had issues with business and blah blah blah blah.. I took that cuz I Love her, I understand they've been together before I came into the picture.

The midnight WhatsApp Online status continues and I was curious to find out who she usually chats with at that time.

One day(Yesterday) I was with her and after some romantic discussions, I told her I needed to check Fiverr for some approval and I'll love to use her phone as my phone battery has drained(that's the scope I used), she ask that I use my Laptop and I told her the battery is low, she wanted to put on Generator and I said 'why can't I check the internet with my girl's phone??.

I collected it, and scroll through her WhatsApp and there, I got the greatest shock of my Life...

My girl wanted more of 'Mr Family Friend' d*ck than every other thing in her life.. How they've been fvcking and how she wanted it right now now..

Another shock of my life was when I was scrolling up..I saw where my girl was telling him that he should come and deal with the stupid computer boy(me) as he's disturbing Mr FF girl oo, she said she's tired of computer's boy disturbances and he reply, 'give me his number lemme curse him..

Èmi Computer boy

Peeps, not only that chat oo, I saw many different amorous Convo's from some other guys she told me was her cousins, church members and friends that has got me in thought since yday...
I have never checked her phone before in our 1year Plus relationship... I was happy I did that yday and thank God I did..

Bro just run for ur life..dont look back.. Dont allow ur feelings for her blind you.. You can do better! There is somebody out there who is going to appreciate you as her man.. Move on


Personally for me i really dislike . when a girl.. Who is supposed to Luv me o, has to many online guy friends and regularly chats With emm- 2) always online at odd hours and it ain't me you chatting with or u delay in replyn my chats during dt odd hours and u are still showing online..


It means dere is sum other dude who you find more important/ interestn Dan me thus ur feelings for me dwindling while u are afresh with a new found flame.

This is not a matter of having trust issues. Its simply the truth.
!! Karma..


Look at OP story. Am 99.9% sure. .she had been showing all ds traits alreedy tey tey b4 kasala Burst. Girls like ds will always find it hard to b Loyal to only one person.

Well I think I developed Pneumonia last two years or so.. just to avoid the unnecessary crazy hospitals bills, A neighbor (NURSE) recommendation- she claimed it was the same thing she did for her own Mom and it went away.

Drink mild Hot water constantly

Find a small thick empty plastic with cover like the " oil fluid plastic used for Generator"

put water on Fire

put the boiled water in the plastic- closed the Lid

Find a thick cloth to hold the plastic cos of the Hotness

Also wrapped the hot oil plastic up in a cloth

Put the " wrapped Hot Plastic" on your chest till you are satisfied- keep repeating this procedure- suck it up



I did it for a while and felt relieved oo then stopped - which i was not supposed to anywais... she said it should be a continuous process- daily life ..

NigPatriot:
you see to have adept knowledge on this issue, cann you enlighten about Jinns.

Am a Muslim.Quran and the sunnah of prophet Mohammed (s.a.w) is my guide..

If you want to know more about jinns on your own .. Google Jinns..

CastedAyo:
A beautiful South African lady has revealed how she met her aunt who passed away when she was way younger. She shared the story on her twitter page, and it has since gone viral.

She wrote;
“My aunt died when I was still in primary school. She was like my mom, I truly love her. A few years after she died, I got into a taxi with my aunt in it. I was scared to tell people about this because I knew they wouldn’t believe me. It wasn’t a look alike, it was her.”

“We didn’t chat you guys, I was 16 and was seeing a dead person. I was scared but I was also heart broken. I love her so so much, I was with her a week before she died. She is like a mom to me.”

“She was sitting in front of me (2nd row), I was right behind her. Ngidlulise imali kuyena, ngabheka phansi (I handed over money to him, looked down.). She got off first. I can’t put it to words man, I was torn.”

“I’m not trying to scare you or anything. I just wanted to know if anyone else has ever experienced such. My own mom doesn’t know about this. That’s how freaked out I was.”

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/lady-narrates-taxi-aunt-died-years-ago.html

Ghosts do not exist..once you are dead you are dead..u proceed to the other realm.. U GATS no business in the Living world any longer.

What's she saw is a Jinn... U may know em as demons.. And dey have ranks..Jinn can take up any dead appearances..dey are gifted with extradionary abilities... All this Magicians, herbalist out dere use deir services.
It is highly advisable you dont go about looking for one.

They are good Jinns and they are Bad jinns...

Exket:
hey

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Just re read ds post and pissed AF

OP.. If ur intentions for her was really a good one..

Baba. No worries , no blame on You.. You dint give any consent to have the twins aborted!

Just leave her and the Family alone.

Let Karma do the rest..

Wiseandtrue:
The people wey panelbeat them kind self

Them for burn them!

no matter what, crime is not justifiable

omo u are wicked faaaa

Burn dem bawo.

Take it easy oo.. Not everything/everytime is justice ,justice, where you leave Mercy na.. A fellow human being like you.. You want them to be burned to death just because of mast..meanwhile your politicians are out there churning trillions of Naira of our money and you are doing suffering and smiling there oo..

Abegi calm down jor! Av you forgotin about ALUU 4

Trustme2:
Bros chill
Na joke I dey joke o

good.

Trustme2:
You no thank God say you get your certificate collect?
Abi make dem convert your certificate take pay your salary?

werin you dey talk? Werin I dey talk?

You sef read ur question.
Is dere sense dere

Rauf Aregbesola...smh

Errant nonsense
I regret serving in your state sir- very stingy thing
1naira no commot out from state govt for us. Just a lot of Empty promises. Bastard!

DJ cuppy and the mod dt bought this to FP is Mad
Most of the stories on FP this days are stupid/dumb posts.

Seun spend the money you have and higher people with brains as Mods!