₦airaland Forum

Olive4:
I have some of those attitudes but I am not a lesbian

PeggySandas:
You are a fimicolous cow! Why not confess your intentions of having sexual intercourse with the so-called lady. You miserable cretin with the libido of a street dog!


May carnivorous animals feed on your Father's microphalus!


Ape!

PeggySandas:
You are a fimicolous cow! Why not confess your intentions of having sexual intercourse with the so-called lady. You miserable cretin with the libido of a street dog!


May carnivorous animals feed on your Father's microphalus!


Ape!

kennygee:
Just like the one that used her child's fees for MMM but instead of beating her, why not give her the silent treatment, don't eat her food, I don't know if I'm giving the right advice, but I believe a sensible woman would feel sober about it and not do it again.

Is she not working or doing a business, if she's not, could her husband have denied her money?


When you marry a flashy slay queen, be prepared to work harder to maintain her lifestyle sha, else, na this kind story una go dey give us.

ikp120:
Is it right for your wife to beat you even if she's seriously angry.

I will say it again and again, if my wife or girlfriend hit me, I will hit her back with at least 30% interest.

Izen:
First of all, why would you slap a man? A naija man for that matter? Are you dumb? Can you defend yourself if he decides to pounce on you or is there even a legal system to defend you? Ladies please, let us advise ourselves, it is never a good idea no matter how angry you are.
That said, guys be honest with yourselves please. You are no match for a woman strength-wise. When a woman hits you, she is most likely upset and not necessarily angry. (Check the dictionary for the difference, it is in the context.) She is not necessarily trying to hurt you and there is usually no power play involved. She is just trying to let go of steam. On the other hand, when a man hits, it is usually due to bruised ego and trying to put a woman in her place. Motive is what we should note here. Just like rape is more about power than sex so is domestic abuse when coming from a man in particular. There is not much harm a slap from a woman can do to you than a bruised ego and it is not life-threatening.
Now don't get me wrong, there are women that can be abusive especially when they start caring pestle, knife, hot water, etc. For all it's worth, disarm her with a punch if necessary, run and sue the hell out of her. I will back you up on that. This is only applicable if she hits first. If she is defending herself with any of this, it is still on you.
However, retaliating when a woman slaps you just because your ego is bruised is a no in my book. You'd have lost all moral justification by then.
Just my two cents.

toprealman:
Oga read the piece again!

talktrue1:
Double the slap. Op deserve it

Marinee:
Flowers?
Why would you give me flowers... Should I eat them?

iamrealdeji:
no,she resemble Laura Ikeji

refiner:
I will never send my nude to whomsoever...not even to bill gate son for half of his wealth...