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GOFRONT:
Chaii

Gym Instructors be making married men feel insecure about their wives.

This is the reason why ifitness gym got burnt down in Abuja the other day

Loool, LWKMD.

Who told you that the fire at ifitness was as a result infidelity?

bigpicture001:
Mumu read and move on.. must u always criticize... Sh is female period!

Scammer so this is your second account... SMH.

Omotena1:
Had to create this account cause I'm in a tight fix this period and I need to help my parents.
I know you all will start preaching to me but not to worry, I've thought about it.

I need someone to have sexxx with, we might not necessarily be in a relationship but, we can be "having fun". Someone who has money and is currently in Nigeria.
I have just a body count so yes, I'm clean and tight down there.


*Please the having money aspect is important*

*You can refer a friend who is lonely and need someone as well.*

Send me a mail with any of your sm account, where I can see what you look like. I'll msg you myself.

amanduuchechukwu@gmail.com


NB: For those e-mailing please read through again. I can't just drop my number for you, sorry. I'm a lady and I'm more at risk here, drop your sm handle, I'll DM you myself.

For my safety and sanity. Thank you

Yahoo boy don device another format.

Bobodee09:
My wife have open up to the area sis this morning about everything.

The woman last child is a 2yr old boy and he got sick. The boy father got to know and he want to take the boy but the woman needs her permission before releasing him, na where wahala start.

See bro, that girl came to hustle as a street girl on the island.

Because it doesn't make sense to me, if she came to meet a man... Ask yourself the cost of transportation from abuja to lagos, and how much do you think the man can pay for her service?

Life as a single mother is tough, especially if she doesn't have handwork, the only solution is prostitution for them.

Bobodee09:
Around June this year my wife got a job in Abuja which was for fews week. She left on a Saturday to resume on Monday.
When she got to Abuja the person messed up and she had to stay in a hotel , when the person was still not forthcoming about the initial agreement I had to search for a place for her to stay. Fortunately I was able to get a old collegue who linked me to someone.

She is a single mother with 3 kids and she accommodated my wife from Wednesday to Sunday. She was really nice and we appreciated her help.
Since then my wife took her like a senior sister.

On the 21st my wife just called me that the woman is coming to lagos on the 22nd and she request if she can stay with us for just a day before moving to the island. I immediately asked my wife who she coming to see in lagos cos she has no relatives here but she responded she coming to see the mother of her late first baby daddy.
I knew it was a lie and told my wife she coming to see a man.
She came on the 22rd and story change, she beg to leave to on the 27th and that when my wife found out she came to see a man and that one won't be available until on 27th.
This woman dropped her 3kids in Abuja with a area sis and came down to lagos cos of dick.

The issue now is her people in Abuja all believe she staying with us cos she did lot video calls during her stay before leaving. Despite All my wife efforts to get the location where she going on the island before leaving she kept dribbling her.

My wife got a fb message yesterday from the area sister that they want to speak to her cos they haven't been able to get her since on the 31st, we have also try get her since yesterday but she isnt responding to calls and whatapp messages and some panicking as started.

Should i go report at police station or what is the best thing to do at this point cos we don't know this man or his address.

It is better you go and report, because if anything happens to her, and investigation starts, you and your wife are the first suspect.

I no follow, i no follow, 700k go don comot from your pocket.

Ibtxxo:
PleAse I don't know business to start with the money.
Please I need business idea

Buy $ICE & $SNOWMAN coin, and thank you for the rest of your life.

This is a baboon...

lereinter:
Who's bankrolling him?

Politics is too lucrative in nigeria

Na SportyBet dey bank roll Peter Obi, mugu.

yoruboid:
Our favorite content creator is at it again

Expect more skits from him this season

At least he has content to feed you with.

US authorities can file more charges which can extend his sentence by 10yrs.

Ojey1234:
Good morning house, I need your advice, traveling out to a Schengen country or going into a cocoa farming, which is the best,

Please I need advice

If you can get direct link with international buyers

If you are into crypto, make sure you don't move around with your phone.

Goodmarlian:
Omo its just too bad how person wan save money like this?

I bought rice 3 portions = 900
Beans 1 portion =300
One meat 200
lacasera =300
Total = 1700

This evening
Bread = 650
Beans =400
One meat=200
Pepsi =500

I did data for Nairaland =600

Total = 4k

Omo Naija don spoil finish ajee,now how does the common man survive?

2 soda in a day 😳

Sapasenator:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am completely lost and need advice. My name is Olumide Adeyanju(Not my real name), and I’m a 42-year-old civil engineer based in Lagos. I’ve been married to my wife, Tola, for seven years. We have a son together, Jidenna, who is five years old. Our marriage hasn’t been perfect, but I thought we had something solid—until recently.

When I met Tola, she was a divorcee. She told me her first marriage to a man named Dapo Olatunji ended after three years due to irreconcilable differences and I believed her. According to her, Dapo had anger issues and was overly controlling. She said she left the marriage to protect her mental health and focus on building a better life for herself. At the time, I admired her courage, and we built a beautiful relationship.

Last month, everything changed. Tola and I were invited to a wedding in Lekki. As fate would have it, Dapo was also at the wedding. It was the first time they were seeing each other in nearly 10 years. I noticed they exchanged pleasantries, and while it seemed cordial at first, something about the way they looked at each other didn’t sit well with me.

In the weeks that followed, I started noticing subtle changes in Tola’s behavior. She began acting distant and spending more time on her phone, often smiling at her screen like a teenager in love. When I asked her what was going on, she brushed it off, saying it was just "work stress."

Then, two weeks ago, I came home early from work and found her on a video call with Dapo. She didn’t realize I was home, so I overheard parts of their conversation. They were laughing and reminiscing about their past together—things like how they used to travel to Abuja for weekend getaways and the time he bought her a surprise gift for her birthday. It felt like I was intruding on a private moment between lovers.

When I confronted her, she admitted that she and Dapo had been talking regularly since the wedding. She claimed it was "nothing serious" and that they were just "catching up as friends." But I don’t believe her. Her behavior has changed so much. She’s more secretive, and I even found out she met up with him last Saturday without telling me. She said it was a "closure" meeting, but why does she need closure after all these years?

Now I’m stuck. I love Tola, but it feels like her heart is being drawn back to Dapo. I’ve spoken to my elder brother, Kunle, and he thinks I should stand my ground and fight for my marriage. But my best friend, Tunde, says I should let her go if she’s already emotionally checked out.

I don’t know what to do. Should I confront Dapo directly? Should I give Tola an ultimatum to stop talking to him? Or should I quietly walk away and let her decide who she really wants to be with?

Please, Nairalanders, I need your honest opinions. Have you experienced or heard of a situation like this? How do I handle it?

You are writing long epistle, if it were to be me, i wouldn't take this sh!t.

Dangote has forced these thieves to revive government refinery 😂😂😂

Sonnobax15:

My ex was that kind of banny...

But unfortunately,I took her for granted,and now she's being mounted by an oldman old enough to be her father......

See wetin she dey face now.

Deepspirituals:
Senior Man, Good You Advise her .

No Man would hear such and go ahead, the fear and Anxiety would be high.

Nevertheless, There is no distant in the Realm of the Spirits .

Paradventure the Covenants that father had is to have something to do with the Children in the Future it must affects her later.

That is if that is the case.

And Sorry is the case of the man that married her ,there is No how it won't affects the husband in one Way or the other.. In case such as to do with Using children deaths to increase his wealth. If such lady dies God forbids, It would affects the Husband and Children.

I have seen a case of a Lady in Isolo Lagos, This guy got Married to this Lady, Anytime she gets Pregnant, after two Months, She would loose the baby, Serious Bleeding.. This went on for four times. They went to Isolo General Hospital, Doctors blew Grammar upon Grammar, They left with Hopes.
Same thing Happened again twice.. Making 6 times.

Scan says all is Okay.

Her husband saw my Articles and reached me, Almighty God reveal the deep Secrets.

Father was into Occultism, Daughters Pregnancy must drop.
I challenged the Lady what happens to her Immediate Sister, She said its same.



SO MEN,WOMEN , I ADVISE YOU FOR GODS SAKE MAKE SURE, I REPEAT, MAKE SURE YOU CARRY OUT A DEEP SPIRITUAL INVESTIGATION ABOUT THE MAN OR WOMAN YOU WANT TO MARRY BEFORE THE VEIL OF LOVE COVERS YOIR SENSE OF REASONING.

I REMAIN SPIRITUALIST ADE.

Are you a man of God, or you are a babalawo?

Nkemosifo:
Make una manage the English I still dy vex
My friend went for a travel agent professional course after that, she opened a WhatsApp group adding 10girls saying we should get our passport and travel that she will get us a cheaper price. we should make it a girls trip we are all doing well for ourselves including her, I later found out that my only close friend in that group has paid already the other's are no more going and wanted to opt out but later changed my mind and decided to go cos of my friends. after several warnings and seeing cheaper options with planned activities online, when I asked the activities there she said don't worry we will have fun when we get there. On the day we left we found out we landed in dar Salam instead of the zanzibar promised with no activities planned down at all before we were even allowed into that dar Salam we had to pay $100 for yellow fever and visa on arrival for dar Salam, we asked the reason we landed in dar salam instead of zenzibar and she said it was cos we paid late and flights to zanzibar was already 2.something million. Which was expensive that she bought the tickets 1.9M i checked online that 24th and flights leaving lagos 25th of December was still being sold at 1.5M for round trip 10days gap the hotel she booked was at dar salam too when all the activities are on Zanzibar island we got upset and had to look for a new place that same day courtesy of me using booking.com we went there and paid cash cos madam came with her Naira visa card to pay for hotel in Tanzania. She went to Access bank Tanzania with same card and was told there's nothing they could do for her. She came back and was upset that we aren't sympathetic to her plight that how much did we pay that our money was finished and she's spending hers.so i sent her the cheaper flight options schedule i saw online and the cheaper agent options i also got and left using her thinking is better my friend eats my money than outsiders then i said let's calculate how much have you spent after calculations she found our side of money remaining and kept quiet the next day she was able to get someone to send money through western union and refunded me and my friend our hotel fee for 2 days. I told her that is dollar visa card that might work in international settings and she said she brought it so i said show it to me and she said she won't that since i already believe she's a liar i should take it like that. I brought $ 500 dollar extra money for food and tour activities o. MY BF already said that peer pressure and my GFs will kill me someday i no dy hear word inside that my $500 dollar that I won't finish 10days in Nigeria $100 is gone o, still had to spend another $100 for travel insurance and ferry to zanzibar and back to dar Salam for the travel back we got to zanzibar and stayed in 3 different hotels 5 different rooms in 7 nights, 6days nothing me and my other friend eye didn't see we couldn't eat their food so it was only chicken and chips with pancakes every single day we lost weight I had skin burns even with sun screen my face was peeling my skin was burning.this girl did only 2 activities with us in 2 days every morning she wakes up go out and come back in the evening, i asked so this is the fun you promised me leaving me in the hotel room. she comes back after we have slept daily the activities I brought up she will say take bike to round about take a bus going to where you want . Some days she will come back by 4pm shower pretend to be making calls and leave without telling us where she's going, Took us to club a club she has gone with the indigene the previous night left us sitting like idiots went outside to be making calls again i couldn't see but my other friend could she got upset and said let's leave i went outside told her thing's here are expensive let's contribute and buy wine and shisha like we do in Nigeria then i saw someone an indigenous person have told her i don't want to see again cos that guy took $25 from us for showing us where dy sell food something others where taking $5 for.immediately i saw the guy i saw red me that was persuading the other girl we should stay longer na me stop bike i was feeling like a charity case like she brought me here for free so I went to Kenya airways and checked our flight bookings and found that this stupid babe didn't contribute upto 500k for this trip her flight was booked with our money flight was 1.3M and she told us 1.9 sent her the evidence expecting an explanation I got non so I asked her while she was on a call cos she was about leaving again and she said someone bought the flight ticket show us the transaction receipt you sent to that person she said all her WhatsApp messages has been deleted and instead of her answering us she was telling the person on the phone can you hear what my friends are saying. I told her I already know say you go chop my money I use my open eye come this trip but I didn't know you will be so wicked as to take my money and do nothing and planned nothing. After that confrontation the outings without us got worse she wasn't even remorseful.I felt choked up everything I had planned to do on this trip I couldn't anymore no happiness only anger and regret I had to start budgetting me way dy spend anyhow on a norm i had $300 dollar left have to save for food for the remaining days i have here also couldn't tell anyone my sufferings them go laugh me die that's why I'm ranting here small videos I did before this issue came up is what's making the other girls say I for follow una o them no know say na house we dy 24/7. Still in Tanzania in my room writing this on Tuesday we go back to del salam flight back is Friday. Them.say na who know you go kill you I don experience am next time if my friends dy do anything I go remove eye if that my other friend didn't pay I wouldn't be on this trip in all this I'm blaming myself not her cos that's the kind of person I am if to say no be my guy way Ginger me only me for carry this thing for mind. I'm an over thinker in a foreign country alone wanted to be with my friends and left the trip my guy planned for us

You could have used this money you wasted to better your education, even if it is evening class, please 🤲

Why was he running?

The police are licensed to shoot, the young man is guilty of the accident, no case.

ruggedtimi:
Glk 27m?

Yes, depending on the milage and model.

But his model should be around N23m

The cost from what i am seeing e will cost nothing less than N4m

UltraSolid:
Defamation that is civil and/or criminal conduct in all sane nations of the world, with judicial punishment, this unexposed riff raff is terming "tyranny". I'd advise you to stop using words you don't know the meaning of but you are a hopeless case.

Like I told someone above, Igbos thought IPOB should make law for them with Kanu, Ekpa and co being their defacto leaders. Today Igbos are enjoying the lawlessness that is 100% assured when you throw law and order out of the window to replace it with the dictatorial decree of a school drop-outs and an adult who plays with plastic sword who is now in a Finnish jail.

When we are administered regionally, by the grace of God, do as you please in your corner fighting "tyranny" same as lawless Igbos deployed Kanu and Ekpa to help them fight Buhari "tyranny" only to be crying today.

U can't match 2% of Dele's intelligence.

ebijimi7:
Good day guys I need your advise on this issues especially the ladies.
I have a lady I'm dating which I have intention of getting married to and its been 7 months together but the thing is that I'm a very gentle and quiet person that loves peace.
So everything wa going well when we first met until she started complaining of almost everything if we are going somewhere may be we board a tricycle to cover a short distance she woukd almost be fighting the person sitting next to her just because she wanted the person to adjust.
another thing she did that's annoying is the fact she expects me to tell her everything about me which is not possible.
So the main reason I created this thread was what happened last night.
So we were having a discussion then she talked about me not taking her out that I kept saying I'm broke but if it's utility bills now I would pay up instantly and if its to stock the house with food the money would come and yet I kept saying I don't have money for us just to go out and have fun, so I told her where I come from we don't catch fun and go hungry we fill our stomach before going to waste money catching fun.
Then she resorted to saying why is it that its my sister that use to help us go and get food instead of her,them I told her that my sister knows all this things and how to get them done properly why not leave it for her she got mad that I do things behind her without telling her and why are my always running to my sister foe stuff, then I told her I didn't run to my sister and my sister is this type of person that always look out for me since we lost our mum even if I just visit my sister she gets mad that why are my going to see my sister

She is over bearing and troublesome, which would get worst in marriage.

You on the other hand, you have to man up, act like a man, if you continue doing gentle gentle, women will use you and play football.

GistMedia0:
Nigerian businesswoman Oluwatofarati has stirred up conversations online with her strong opinion on DNA tests after childbirth. In a recent statement, she made it clear that if she found out her husband had secretly conducted a DNA test on their newborn, she would not hesitate to take drastic action.

“If I find out my husband had a DNA test done after I just pushed a baby out, immediately I leave the hospital, I’m leaving with my child and serving divorce papers,” Oluwatofarati boldly stated. Her remarks highlight the deep sense of betrayal and lack of trust she would feel in such a situation.

The businesswoman's comments have sparked a heated debate online, with many supporting her view that trust should be paramount in marriage, while others question whether DNA tests are justified in today’s world.

This animal's reaction is one of the reasons her husband should cry out a DNA test.

And if she finds out, she can park her bags and go, when you tire for your papa house, you will come and beg me to come back.

Most Nigerian girls can't fend for themselves, let alone being a single mother, majority of them needs a man to survive ✍️

LordBiden:
Everyone is a billionaire In igbo land.

Just dress well with nice perfume,Post with a nice car,dole out a few change to the needy and you did be tagged billionaire.

If e easy, run am na 🤲

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

Ur emotions shows you are still not matured... Onuku(mumu).

Did you think of the consequences and the disunity you would cause?

You think once you open your mouth waaaa, things will become normal, probably your dad will go begging your mother or something.

Get ready to throw your mother out of your dad's house.

ClassicMan202:
They are all successful industrialist until breeze blow and fowl nyash go open....


Invictus Obi comes to mind 😁

Just like the way Hush Puppy made world headline

Richtaiwo:
By successful, you mean the 6 that successfully beat securities of Asian countries?

Because we all know their real business.

Is Bobor Chicago a joke to you, the biggest and most successful dealer from Africa?

Ellapthia:
So she just sat down in her parlor and was called for the appointment abi?

Una funny fa

Despited the fact that i school on the difference, you are still displaying your ignorance.

Sirchiboy:
Where can I get it..
Trust wallet or bybit

Bitget

EzehFx:
Yours and mine are different then. I'm having consistent painful headache, I've been relying on pain relief

Sorry for that.

EzehFx:
Exactly! What of the painful forehead pain..did you experience it too?

The headache happened only 2 nights

After the 3rd week, something like frozen butter, with black patches around it came out of my nostril.

Omo, everywhere was smelling at home that day.