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Umbrateeth04:
long time back again

Your perspective is quite interesting but yet again not above criticism

1.How do you beyond reasonable doubt convince sexist men that think superiority is only characterised and measured by physical strength, financial independence, social status and being the

I am anticipating your feedback

Roycemadeit:

You are both getting it twisted.

Go and watch babies and children, do you see any boy feeling superior to the girl?

No!

Why?

Because both are equal.

However, when does the superiority start?

You would see it is in the things that they have done.

Even among boys, if a boy is a thief, all other boys who have never stolen will be superior and 'better" over him.

Same thing for a girl.

And the reason why women are lesser than men is because of they oloshod.

Go and check it a virgin girl is always equal to a boy and she is even better (superior) to guys who fornicate around which is why we all say "you no worth her'.

But because women become olosho, they lost many of their natural rights, just like the thief or rapist and have become lesser beings.

That is what happens as no one respects an olosho as with a rapist

purples25:
I'm glad you touched on this. There are emotional and mental reasons for taking decisions, aside the calculative and clearly selfish ones. We cannot exclude those reasons because every normal human being has numerous feelings that lead to decision making.

Acknowledging this helps us to understand the pattern and perhaps note where to curb it. It also doesn't negate the ladies that took the decision from taking responsibility for their decision.

But one thing I don't like is men trying to insist that those other contributors, the mockery and all, shouldn't be mentioned because it's not realistic. Those ARE pushing factors. We can't ignore them simply because men don't want any bit of the blame. I repeat, it doesn't negate the responsibility of those actions being on the ladies themselves.

You already know it that men are not bad like you people for men do not easily have bad intentions unlike you people. So our comment are nearly always bona fide and truthful and are spoken based on the what is in front of us. We are not saying it to make any one feel bad.

It is just like you see all of us describing the guy who was beaten into looking like ninja turtles so is it when we see something wrong like small back, or breas with no back or breasless chest etc. It is all free comments born out of wonder.

And the only reason why you women go cannons over it is because you can see that it tells you that your olosho plans are not going to be fruitful.

If not, you would have been like dwarfffs and men who have irregular legs who are still happy and normal knowing that na so God create them. You don't see them desperately trying to correct it.

All these is because your oloshoing is threatened

advanceDNA:
Women who do bbl do it to exploit men’s desires for financial gain ……virtually all of them are highclass prostitvtes charging milions for hookup…

Are u aware pple now sponsor bbl and charge interest the way they sponsor your gender to italy ??

.madam …it has never been about bullying from men…..it has always been about greed…

Lol… yall never get tired of this victim card playing…. I mean … una nor dey tire?? it’s nauseating…… i have never seen a woman own up to consequences of her decision with her full chest….

Don't mind her. She knows.

This is just a ploy to keep men down.

Check it, you will see that there is a pattern when after a period of peace one woman somewhere will always raise something about men that is not true to harass, annoy and make men feel uncomfortable and bad. It is the same personal manipulation of men cept this one is global manipulation of men

Fiscus105:
The largest customers of butcher are women and women like free gifts, so, they are using meat as a bait to lure them to bed.

Besides, some women most especially in "face me and face u" like to compete with one another, for type of meat they use to cook soup, meanwhile, they don't have resources to get the meat, most especially single mothers, so,many of them using their body to get free/cheap meat, in which they are using to brag for their Co-tenants at home.

Go and rewatch that thing. It is not the butchers who lure women rather It is the women who lure the butchers because they want free meat. The same thing for tailors, taxi drivers, landlords, lawyers, pastors etc.

It is women who initiate sex and lure men. But what happens is that after that first trap has worked, then the man starts running with it which is what you see.

Because everyman is tagged a womanizer they tend to stay away from women so women have to draw and lure men.

ChrisIdada07:
Hi...
My name is chris idada Esq, I will like to publicise my case, its a case that affects the society, its a case that involves an attempt to sacrifice me the claimant to an idol through occultic and nacromancy means and no doubts, its going to bring a general awareness to the prevalence of law and order when dealing with each other whether as a church and as a family.
Here is the caption for the case:

Nigerian lawyer Chris Idada Esq slams Living faith church aka Winners chapel and Forward in faith church aka Zaoga ministries with a 1 Billion Naira law suit for coniving with family members trying to sacrifice him to an idol using occultic and nacromancy means for personal interest and financial gains.The case filed at the Fct Maitama highcourt is slated to 13/04/2026 for hearing.

Come and gist us what happened?

Christmyhope:
Thanks 🙏🙏.... they have made up their minds to lead people astray...

That is why I always counter them whenever they do that

Jakarta:
If she is not your wife, daughter, or relative you have no business with however she choosed to dress. Must you look? even if you must look must your dick be activated? Spiritual journey man wey no fit control him dick.

Not when she comes outside. And the bold is a stupea.. like saying a person should not smell, nor smell food in the air and not remember that he has a stomach to feed.

If only Moses waa here, dem no una for behave

Is it that all the ships in the world are in the straits of Hormuz?

Clear proof someone is controlling the world

Christmyhope:
Please,Which denominations of church do you belong?

He is jw.
That is why I said "those 2 jws..."

And unless you give him an answer that he cannot answer he would keep asking you questions forever until you give a "wrong" answer. Then he would then fallaciously say "ehen you are wrong, so everything you have said is wrong". That is one of the jws tricks.

Christmyhope:
God bless you, my brother. Let continue to hold to our trust in Christ Jesus because his coming is imminent.......

Very much close now!

Kingsley1169:
How and why is it the worst thing you can tell a girl? Is the question, you are yet to answer it

I have explained it but if you don't get it, then experience shall be your teacher.

Christmyhope:
Why did the scripture call Abel,a righteous soul? I think you also know where the righteous ends

The scripture also says "Do not be like cain who belong to the devil. I think you also know where those who belong to the devil end.

And this is where I have pointed out that cain is not even Adam's child

https://www.nairaland.com/7929942/math-7-16-shows-us#127297866

Christmyhope:
Ok.. To answer your question clearly, I said those who die apart from the Christ Jesus will be held in temporary abode ( hell) and the devil will be held down during the millennial reign of our savior, Jesus Christ in hell( temporary abode) until final judgement when the devil, the people who have been held in hell temporarily, the people who never exprienced physical death but never believed in the redemption of Christ Jesus, the present heavens and earth and death itself will thrown in hellfire, unquenchable fire..

Those 2 jws are committing serious fallacies and changing the goalposts. Don't let them do that and you would see they won't have anything to say again.

For instance your point is that lake of fire what people commonly call hellfire for short is the destination for all followers of devu, including death and hell. Which is what the Bible Said and of course it is a just judgement.

That is your point, so it is an invalid and off point for him to ask you whether Adam is enjoying there.

Of which Adam is the only one got complete dusting. All others have only physical dusting while their souls remain in sleeping for righteous souls or in hell for unrighteous people

Christmyhope:
You see am not surprised when I see someone who is well versed in the scripture and using his knowledge about the scripture to lead others astray. They are the one apostle John in his letter to believers called anti-christ. They are doing the work of their father, the devil himself, who is a liar and deceiver from the beginning.

If there is no hellfire for the devil and those who follow his demonish teachings, why did He burn the inhabitants of soddom and gommarrah to ashes making an example of what will happen to sinners at the end of the world? God is just,sin must be punished but in his infinite mercy has given us a new birth and escape route in jesus Christ resurrection and restore humanity to what we were before the fall.

My dear friend, do not let anyone take away what you have known and become in Christ Jesus. He is our wisdom, confidence, shield, new heaven because these present heavens and earth are reserved for destruction by fire together with the devil and his followers.

Thanks Dtruthspeaker

Thank you my brother for resounding the Truth.

For, nature has shown that sin is always punished and punishable. And it is always sinners who wish to sin and es

correctguy101:
My brother, as long as you are happy doing what you do. I wish you well...

Stay blessed

Same to you my brother

Karlifate:
These are old threads o

Imagine the degree of deterioration in 2026

Bros, we are looking at it oo It is most horrible

Christmyhope:
After saying everything was good, why did God regret creating man? He even wanted to erase humanity from the surface of the earth until he saved one righteous man, Noah and seven others. Yes, God is love but he does not withhold his wrath towards sin and its agent. He burned soddom and gommarrah to ashes because they were sinful making them an example of what will happen in future to sinners and their father, devil himself.

Also ask the lieing jw , when God Said everything was good, was everything not good?

Is it good today?

As he is here lying and trying sell lies, is it good?

Ah! God should come and end all these rubbish and show all these bad people that His Words must always be fulfilled

Wiredbugs:
Can you dump your own child into a furnace of fire just for disobeying or dishonoring you?

Is it just a simple disobedience of don't touch my car keys or a simple dishonoring of not washing your clothes?

What If that child murders , rapes and steals free your other well behaved children are you going to still love him and call him your own?

Are you not going to disown him?
and if he touches one of your other children after that are you not going to strike him hotly?

It is even said that a good child belongs to the father, so, there is no way that if you are bad, you would not have to be thrown there

Jman06:
Forget what the woke generation might be saying, in marriage, the man is still expected to provide for his wife and family.

Even the holy books have it recorded that a man is the provider of his home. Women generally don't joke with that part of the scriptures and that is why hypergamy is a thing for all of them. So, just make peace with that arrangement and stop worrying yourself about being with girls who are your age mates. The good thing is that the older you get, the more beautiful girls are born. So, by the time you're ready, you'll definitely find yourself a girl of your choice.

Everyone can see that marriage is a partnership and not a sole providorship.

And the word partnership means that everything is shared.

So as a man is already having a duty to provide for himself, so also does the woman have that same duty too.

Which is why we made the mistake of toasting our mates for by nature we know that things would get better if boy and girl cooperate and of course there would be equality and fairness and original friendship.

So, it is actually wrong to say that a man is expected to provide for his wife (like she is a child and children don't have rights) and that she cannot provide for herself nor provide for the man either.

In this regard, then it is clear that like Muslims you are still practicing child marriage as a wife is supposed to be an adult who can take care of herself and others too just as a man does.

So, no man/husband has that obligation to turn a full grown adult into a child, even the Bible shows that.

And sorry, i am more than 20yrs happily married so I am not missing anything but I'm just wondering and pittying how people completely miss this great thing called marriage.

And now I can clearly say that hypergamy is one of the causes of bad marriages.

Jman06:
That is how nature made it!
Those girls date/marry older men because those are the men that'll easily provide for them and their offsprings without questions. It is very easy for me to want to provide for a younger girl than for my age mate.
My age mate may be at par with me mentally, academically and financially, so I'll feel like I'm being shortchanged if I'm to provide for her, but if I'm dating/marrying a younger girl, everything flows naturally.

So op, it is hypergamy at work and there's nothing you can do about it other than to wait until you get to that level where you become a spec for younger girls.

First, marriage has proven that there is no provision without questionings.

Secondly, you now prove that it is a lie and wrong to teach that "couples should grow and do/share everything together". For in this arrangement the man has provided everything like Airbnb so the woman is just doing pack and enter. And this is where I laugh at wives when they complain that there husbands do not see them as human beings but as properties. And I say to myself, what did you expect?

And today, men are complaining what is a woman bringing to the table?

So again i ask men, what do you expect after all you say that it is your duty as men to provide for her?

And clearly you ran from your mate because with a younger girl you hold all the aces where you get to do as you like and get away with it meanwhile you are not expecting that she must plot to reduce your advantages over her.

So how do you people expect that your marriages would be good with all the schemings and plannings of power tussle like apc vs pdp vs adc? You 2 elephants are already having a silent fight and both of you are enemies in this your hypergamy arrangement

Meanwhile, it is funny how you have very good relationships with your peers because of the mutual respect you have for each other.

Now i understand why married couples look like enemies and behave like enemies.

https://www.nairaland.com/5920943/why-couples-claim-love-engage#90584167

I will never forget the shock when i was little when I heard and saw my neighbours gbas gbosing themselves to bleeding and even tearing of clothes and i wondered how enemies got married.

Only to grow up and see that marriages start with lovy lovy.

Then, the worst one is how the man may throw her out with nothing or that at his death the property belongs to his children (males and not females) even after all those years.

The phenomenon shocked me for years.

But now thanks to you guys saying hypergamy is good and normal like this guy i now can say that hypergamy causes bad marriages.

Jman06:
That is how nature made it!
Those girls date/marry older men because those are the men that'll easily provide for them and their offsprings without questions. It is very easy for me to want to provide for a younger girl than for my age mate.
My age mate may be at par with me mentally, academically and financially, so I'll feel like I'm being shortchanged if I'm to provide for her, but if I'm dating/marrying a younger girl, everything flows naturally.

So op, it is hypergamy at work and there's nothing you can do about it other than to wait until you get to that level where you become a spec for younger girls.

First, marriage has proven that there is no provision without questionings.

Secondly, you now prove that it is a lie and wrong to teach that "couples should grow and do/share everything together". For in this arrangement the man has provided everything like Airbnb so the woman is just doing pack and enter. And this is where I laugh at wives when they complain that there husbands do not see them as human beings but as properties. And I say to myself, what did you expect?

And today, men are complaining what is a woman bringing to the table?

So again i ask men, what do you expect after all you say that it is your duty as men to provide for her?

And clearly you ran from your mate because with a younger girl you hold all the aces where you get to do as you like and get away with it meanwhile you are not expecting that she must plot to reduce your advantages over her.

So how do you people expect that your marriages would be good with all the schemings and plannings of power tussle like apc vs pdp vs adc? You 2 elephants are already having a silent fight and both of you are enemies in this your hypergamy arrangement

Meanwhile, it is funny how you have very good relationships with your peers because of the mutual respect you have for each other.

SpencerForbes:
Female dynamics are broad, but a "bad boy" with potential will always win over a nice guy. Remember when we were kids? I had a remote-control helicopter and all the best toys—the girls were always around, and being smart was just the cherry on top.

But as we entered our teenage years, "Civic Education" and "Social Studies" taught us to be "nice," and we became boring. As boys, you could be rough with a girl and she’d still come back—that’s the nature of the attraction. In adulthood, only a few men can tap back into those "boyhood feelings." Hypergamy is real, but if you can master "Advanced Boyhood," you won't even care about it. A bad boy (≠toxic) doesn't care if he's handsome; he just triggers a woman’s deep-seated instincts that he needs to be cared for, and she’s in.

That is because you define win in terms of fornication and yet, here you are finding it difficult to marry a girl exactly how girls are now desperate to marry even if it is second wifing.

So, both of you still lost as you never married the girls you fornicked with meanwhile both of you are here plotting how to marry.

So, its a case of winning the battle and losing the war.

Diamond098454:
There are a lot of good girls out there.

If there where threads like this won't be popping up

https://www.nairaland.com/7463478/very-hard-meet-good-girl#118884524

https://www.nairaland.com/6287371/it-hard-find-good-woman#96575017

SpencerForbes:
Damn... a million and one things I have to experience. I’m always the one who initiates the breakups. All these good girls keep falling for a broken boy like me, thinking they are my paracetamol—only to realize this boy is beyond redemption. I always fall for the good ones, yet I’m always the villain. Just like sugar: the doctor warned them, but they just couldn’t resist🤦‍♂️

Yes!

And this was another phenomenon we all saw even in secondary school: that girls seem to love bad boys. (And na here God love me for as a bad boy, girls no still come near me, even though dem dey go for my guys who worse pass me).

However, i also remembered that in primary school and in the days when they were good, those same bad boys were the same people they hated and avoided relating with them. Only see them smiling and fornicking with them.

Men, i had to study it and now I know, hence why my post always exposes women and make them very very uncomfortable.

correctguy101:
That's just life.

Never truly with a happy ever after. You go sweat join.

Not when you have have walked with The Lord,
In the light of His Word,
What a glowry He sheds on our way.

While we do His good will.
He abides with us still.
And with all who have trust and obey

Trust and obey
For there is no other way
To be happy in this life
But to trust and obey!

Kingsley1169:
8

How and why

Because by her fault, a woman is less than a man and she has lost many rights that you still have even though both of men and women are supposed to be equal. So she naturally hates men, however she finds that life is very cussd and terrible for her. So she needs to select and choose a man who does not have sense and who will let her sense prevail over him even if it is bad for him. But as long as it brings good to her she would be fine and she shall choose you

That is how they calculate and why she is calculating.

Equality and fairness does not suit her because God cus. her for her sins, so she needs a man who will give her both the yam and the knife and the pot and the cooker.

So, if you are looking for equality and fairness, forget it, no girl will date you. They don't want guys who have sense, they want seeem.pps

franchasofficia:
Olatunji, when you grow up, you will understand these things better. What you described has nothing to do with tribe, it's nature at work, it's Biology at work. Women date and marry up, they don't date down. If you want to date your mates as a guy, then you must come from a rich family or you must pray and work harder to become financially buoyant at a younger age, that's the only way your mates can find you appealing to date.


Folake, Sukurat, Funke, Monsurat and Laide also do the same thing. So it's not just your Nneka that does it.

And your thread also proves that you are a very immature boy with the reasoning of a very childish boy, which will make it even more difficult for your mates to consider you attractive or appealing to date.

The solution?

Focus on your academics, or your handwork if you are learning work at Baba Dimeji workshop, so that you can have a financial life and be prepared to handle women and their several responsibilities.

You can use Google or chatgpt or grok or Gemini to ask:

"What is hypergamy?" and read more about it to broaden your narrow mindset

I agree that girls date up but before they did, remember that they ran from people who were older than them and it is with us that they did mummy and daddy with technically "dated" in primary school.

And some of us swore that we shall marry them as our "relationship" of mummy and daddiness feeling stlll continued with us to secondary school.

So we all knew the girls who liked us and who were going to date us if we went for them.

And that was confirmed when we truly went to the girl and truly dating had started and was going very well until .. those girls started grumbling and complaining about our togetherness and closeness (relationship).

And you know, another thing that proves that girls do date their mates is the fact that somehow, somehow those same girls came back to date and even fornicked with us later in ss2/year 1 or even after school and in nysc, after uncle older has already over finished using and dumping them..

So, now i do not agree that girls don't date their mates for I now know that they do, just that in their usual tell of lies, they are just keeping it as a secret weapon to man pullate men knowing that we would be surprised and happily accept them and that we would not remember nor care about their wayward living.

And this is not to even consider that they even date and marry younger men.

So, this is where you see that those who say 'you dey believe woman?" are very right for between 95% - 99% of everything women say are Lies!

SpencerForbes:
What is Dtruthspeaker even writing this morning

It is completely devoid of logic; I genuinely had a headache trying to make sense of your article. You have officially won the award for the most confusing post of the day 🏅🎖️🏅

You truly have a long way to go.

hehehehe jus say that I have made you remember that very painful day of that decent quiet girl in secondary school whom you felt was a good girl and you went for her and she was already falling and falling for you.

Only for those jealous wiked girls wey no send am before to go and talk to her and after that everything scatter and the girl changed and became a bad spoilt girl.

I know you got it.

It is now i just understood how and why she changed her mind as I could not believe that she could change so easily. Plus, I was wondering what those girls told her. So now, i know so now I know how guide my daughter