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Pootle:
just know its over for you no jokes both if you in nigeria or abroad, you see that last part of you busy you cant go with her na there your matter roast

Even if he go, she is still gonna go.

If the guy was smart he should throw her out now now now as i dey talk for she has told him already

Samantha125:
Nothing is as unattractive as an insecured man...😒😒😒

Exactly what the Mayowa lamba said to her husband

I pity any man wey dey believe woman

NotOfThisWorld:
What is the big deal? When I'm at the gym and get hit on, I ignore. Most men at the gym are respectful. If anything, they just stare and I just ignore and act like they don't exist. There're people at the front desk if one needs help but I find more men are well-behaved, but I can't speak on how gyms are in Nigeria sha. In any case, let her live. Unless you don't trust your wife, you shouldn't be worried about anything.

Ehn, i believe you.

DuttyChuks:
Stop them before they stop you. Hold your wife or let her be going strolling every evening after work. Its terrible in gym house; guys are not smiling and if your wife come get money na you sabi. Or you can get her some gym equipment at home.

Ekpo did it. Mayowa still go sit on another dic

Divorce her now now now make she free go do as she like.

This is her warning you that she needs to wore like Mayowa lamba did to her Calabar man.

Free her now make you no come shock cry like Ekpo

Theawakensoul:
Let’s talk about something many people feel…

But are afraid to question.

👉 The fear of hell.

Be honest with yourself for a moment:
👉 How much of your belief is driven by love…
👉 And how much is driven by fear?

Because for many people…

The idea of hell is not just a teaching.

👉 It’s a psychological control system.

From a young age, people are told:

“If you get it wrong, you’ll suffer forever.”

“If you don’t believe correctly, you’ll be punished.”

“If you question too much, you’re in danger.”

And without realizing it…

People don't talk about because they can feel it everyday as they know that they are qualified to be sentenced there.

Then those like you who know that you MUST go there try to rationalize and downplay it.

Hell does not need you to believe it but when you are near death you would know that it is real and everyday death caresses people with its wake eg when you are sick and vomitting your life out or when okada almost french kissed a trailer with you on top or when you thought the plane was going to fall from turbulence. At that moment you don't need believe to tell you that you are going to hel

And when its time, you would just be going there straight whether you believe it or not like the people who have just died in hospital today and their occults could not send their souls away from it

Theawakensoul:
🌿 THE HIDDEN TRUTH ABOUT THE MAN CALLED “JESUS”

What if the version you know…
Is not the full story?

Let’s begin with something simple, but powerful:

👉 The name “Jesus” was not the name used during his lifetime.

Historically, he would have been called Yeshua....

Are you aware that you not the first person to tell us that His Name is Yeshua?

If so, now that you said that His Name is Yeshua, has it changed anything?

So, you see, you only confirmed to us what He told us which is that you anti Christs shall come as a sign of the last days.

O Lord, come and pour thy wrath on thy enemies

DeepSight:
Does watching the many extreme infirmities, indignities and vulnerabilities of old age not take away in many cases the joy of living a long and ripe life and lead many to question the mercies and intentions of our creator?

You don dey feel the heat abi? You ain't seen nothing yet.

To the post, it is only cus people who complaining about old age. And they are the same ones who life for them was already bitter even when they were young.

And this is in addition to the fact that since you people have fallen for Satan's trap, so more cuses of diseases have fallen on you people unlike in the past were 80yr olds still went to their farms

So, you don't bring God into this matter but it is the result of you people's increased sins. So, you are just lamenting about the various ways God has set life do deal with you ivu pips

Theawakensoul:
I think there’s an important distinction that needs to be made here, because this conversation is mixing interpretation, assumption, and projection together.

Let’s slow it down.

You’re suggesting that what was said to Eve automatically translates into a permanent condition for all women, that it justifies how women behave today and how society responds to them.

But that raises a serious question:

👉 Are we reading the text… or reading our interpretation into the text?

Because when you look closely, many of these conclusions are not explicitly stated.

👉 They are inferred.

And inference is not the same as truth.

For example:
Saying “your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you” can be read in different ways:

👉 As a description of a broken human condition
👉 Or as a prescription of how things should be

Those are two completely different things.

One explains what happens in a fallen state…

👉 The other justifies it.

The danger is when people take a description of human struggle…

👉 And turn it into a divine approval of inequality.


Also, connecting modern behavior of women to an ancient “curse” is a very broad generalization.

👉 Human behavior is shaped by culture, environment, psychology, and personal experience, not just a single interpretation of a text.

And bringing in statements like women “don’t deserve respect”…

That goes beyond interpretation.

👉 That becomes a personal conclusion, not a spiritual one.


Because if we’re being honest:

👉 Respect is not something a group “deserves” or “doesn’t deserve”

👉 It’s a reflection of one’s own level of understanding and humanity


Even within the same scriptures, there are principles of:

👉 Love
👉 Mutual respect
👉 Equality in value


So the question becomes:

👉 Are we using scripture to understand humanity…

👉 Or to justify our assumptions about it?


Because the same text can either:

👉 Open your awareness
👉 Or reinforce your bias


It all depends on how it is approached.


This is why questioning and deeper reflection matter.

Not to reject anything…

👉 But to avoid turning interpretation into absolute truth.


At the end of the day:

👉 Truth should bring clarity, not confusion
👉 Understanding, not division
👉 Awareness, not judgment

That’s the level this conversation should be happening on.

📘 https://selar.com/christ-consciousness

The Awaken Soul (TAS)
Awareness Over Belief. 🔥

You forget that interpretation, assumption, projection are what we use to read and keep up with the activities going on everyday whether at home, school or office.

Even you too here are giving us your own interpretations, assumptions and projections

And the most important part about interpreting and all is the presentation of your interpretation to the person or public for correction or confirmation, hence why we have laws of arguments and evidence and proof to ascertain the Truth from the lies.

And what you may not know is that we all first saw what things happened to women first even before any of us heard what God had Said in the Bible. And this is where I remind you that the first time you heard the word "barren" you asked why would a woman be barren. And if you want the Truth, you would remember that whenever women are answering that question they are always uncomfortable, that is if they do not answer you "what is your business?"

And no, it is not a modern behaviour but as old as time eg David prayed for the barren to conceive a fact you also happened to Rachael, Sarah and Rebecca. And if you read old novels like Jeffrey Archer's "only time will tell" you would see that women today are exactly like 1939.

And on respect, we all know that respect flows only in the direction of people who only do the right thing always. Even you won't respect woman whose work is to fornicate with men and women for money nor can you respect a rapist.

And this is where the Bible adviced that we should only do the right and honourable thing.

So, i am saying what we all have seen and that is the same thing the Bible also commented upon and explaining what was going on, even predicting what must happen and given its own advice to any who wants a different outcome

budaatum:
You can't seen to reflect at all or you'd see how guilty you are of all you accuse tctrills of. But what's funnier is you thinking others don't notice.

The lying thing you see neither tctrills nor any other unbiased person did not say so, rather he bent to other manipulation antics. And everyone saw that hence why you came to lyie

bestman09:
Fear women. Her offence is now double. Knacking another man and exposing her body to the world. Even this Diamond098454 wey I dey eye and respect seems to be part of them o

Ooh, so you no wan gree say diamond na her sister?

SpyMaster1:
😂😂😂 the brainwashing and indoctrination is truly pathetic with you 😁😁😁

You’re laughing like a clown because you have no real answer left. Instead of dealing with the text, you hide behind “hahaha” and claim victory while dodging every single point.
Let me make it crystal clear for your heavily indoctrinated mind:
The Preacher says "Vanity of vanities, all is vanity" literally, repeatedly, for chapter after chapter.
He says death makes the wise and fool equal.
He says injustice rules.
He literally questions the afterlife: “Who knows whether the spirit of man goes upward…?”

That is not inference. That is the plain, repeated message of the book.
Your so-called “inference” that the whole book is Solomon secretly confessing “I rebelled against God and now I admit defeat” is pure religious delusion. The text never says it. You invented it because your brainwashed mind cannot handle the actual bleakness and skepticism.
You laugh and call it “impenitence” when someone refuses to swallow your twisted interpretation. That’s not intelligence that’s ignorance and deep religious brainwashing talking.

You keep saying I’m repeating myself? 😂
You’re the one repeating the same weak “inference” nonsense like a broken record because you have nothing else.
So stop the clown laughter 🤣 and answer this directly, without dodging or hiding behind “hahaha”:
If the main message was really “I rebelled against God and failed, so fear Him,” why did the writer spend 12 chapters describing despair, futility, and doubt, only adding your precious religious conclusion in the final two verses like an afterthought?

Why does your “inference” require so much mental gymnastics while the plain words of the book scream “everything is vanity”?
Keep laughing if it helps you cope with the cognitive dissonance 😂
But your indoctrination is showing badly.

Your persistent abuse only makes you look bad and pho0 as Insults are the arguments employed by those who are in the wrong. Jean R. Jacques.

And you are only making noises because you lost and now you are trying to rage bait me into arguing with you.

Lose hope boy for from the very beginning you knew you had lost the argument hence why you hung on to repetitions until you fell for the trap i set for you, which you must fall for for there is no valid argument against the Truth! 🤣🤣

So cry all you want, it won't change the fact that you lost 😁😁🤣🤣

Gabrielshow26:
Yeah, typo. Not knowing good and evil brings about innocence as found in babies.

That is the same conclusion i found too

So since you appreciate that the absence of the knowledge of good and evil is innocence, then in this light what did the presence of good and evil? (And i believe it must be a thing that is the opposite of innocence)

Clearly, Babangida's plan has been fulfilled and Nigeria is now ready for Islamization.

E be like islam na the antichrist prophet

HacheNoire:
Years of mental slavery passed down over generations.

Religion was used to conquer their ancestors and it conquered all of their reasoning, judgement, tradition, religion, culture, diet, ethics and psyche.

The chains is being passed down to the future leaders of tomorrow! They also have started reading the Quran and Bible.

All of their loyalty will be to those books. They will no longer have a mind or brain of their own.

Says the one impaled in the mental slavery of anti Christism and who can never see otherwise even after reasonable people have been convinced.

The Truth is you don't even know that you no longer have a mind or brain

Another rubbish post from devu

Devu, always giving lies and evil under the cover of asking people to seek Truth.

As if Truth loss.

How else antichrist go take get customers?

No vex, no vex, no vex i just read am

https://www.nairaland.com/6429032/number-1-man-china-beast

https://www.nairaland.com/8183572/see-all-plagues-ate-china#131478438

kppo:
I think to be one with nature means:
1. you get food from your natural surroundings just like animals without having to sweat for it; and
2. females don't have to labour in pain before they give birth like is the case with animals.

In short, to be one with nature would simply mean no more experiencing of the curse God put on man and woman.

I thought as much and righteous men and women experience these things even though they know good and evil.

Interesting. I never saw this thread, yet my eye landed on China.

"Everytime atheists would be shouting China, chima, china!

In china this, in china that....

Apparently, china is the atheists capital and the atheists heaven and.so we can now see why they suffer one disaster or the other from time time.
CLEARLY, GOD IS ATTACKING THEM AS HE DID TO PHILISTIA.!

And they cannot answer back!

In 2023 they thought they had seen the worsest flood,
https://www.nairaland.com/7787642/video-deadly-flood-overtaken-chinese#124822614

This year they got a new record.

https://www.nairaland.com/8183572/see-all-plagues-ate-china#131478438

Merry100:
You are the one being inconsistent here. You keep shifting the claim from "every woman" to "majority of women" to "gold diggers." You are simply dancing around the actual point.

There is no contradiction in what I said. Saying women should be financially prepared is about personal responsibility in relationships. That is not the same as labeling women as gold diggers. You are mixing two different ideas to avoid addressing the actual point.

And whether you say "every woman" or "the majority of women," it is still a broad generalization about women as a group, which includes me.

To make a serious claim, you need to have actual evidence, not assumptions. Random forum posts are not data, not research, and not proof of anything beyond individual opinions. Selective links from biased discussions do not establish any population-wide conclusion.

If you want to be taken seriously, provide actual evidence; not all this fanfare 🤣

See dis one is looking for who to have useless argument with. 🤣🤣🤣.

Gabrielshow26:
->As for the effect of knowing good and evil The effect was innocence, not ignorance. Genesis 2:25 tells us they were naked and 'not ashamed.' Shame only entered the world after the act of eating.
Probably, why we see Jesus making the assertion that we must be like babies, innocent and pure!

Do you mean to say "not knowing good and evil"?

Gabrielshow!

Another indicator.

In Genesis 3, we can see that though the fruit is mentioned, there was nothing like "plucking".

Unlike when the Bible was truly referring to a physical fruit it used the word "plucking". Eg Leviticus 1:16, Deuteronomy 23:25, Mathew 12:1.

But, again in Genesis 3, there is nothing like plucking of a fruit

And so the question is how did they eat a fruit on a tree without first plucking it?

Gabrielshow!

Another indicator.

In Genesis 3, we can see that though the fruit is mentioned, there was nothing like "plucking".

Unlike when the Bible was truly referring to a physical fruit it used the word "plucking". Eg Leviticus 1:16, Deuteronomy 23:25, Mathew 12:1.

But, again in Genesis 3, there is nothing like plucking of a fruit

And so the question is how did they eat a fruit on a tree without first plucking it?

Gabrielshow26:
I appreciate your focus on 'natural observation,' but we must be careful not to confuse human experience with biblical exegesis👀. If we allow our subjective experiences to dictate the meaning of the text, the Bible ceases to be a standard of truth and becomes a mirror of our own imaginations🤔.

The bible is always talking about human interaction and showing us how we behave which, in Truth, we all behave the same way. So, there is no mix up.

And it is not subjective as we present our individual experiences and assessment for objection or ratification. And the Truth is that it is ratified exactly like all the other phenomenons we present.

Gabrielshow26:
To address your points:
-> You suggest that 'as people acquired more experience, they began to see indicators of sex.' However, the Bible warns us against adding to or taking away from the Word (Deuteronomy 4:2, Revelation 22:18-19). If the text says they ate 'fruit' from a 'tree,' but your 'experience' tells you it was a sexual act, you are no longer interpreting the Bible; you are replacing it.🤔

C'mon man, this is not True and you know it. The bible is not even literal or plain. Eg it said "unless a man be born again..." and you can see when the literal interpretation was given, God corrected it by using
"inferences". Same thing for "unless a seed falls down and dies' or the one Christ is called The BRANCH". Don't tell me you went looking for a a tree's branch. Even you corrected the pupular anti Christ Muslim guy when he tried twisting the scriptures to say that Christ made us carnivores going by the literal plain interpretation.

Gabrielshow26:
The 'indicators' people claim to see are not found in the text, but in external mythologies and Gnostic traditions🤧 that have been projected onto Genesis.

The indicators people got are all from the bible itself. I even specified my own routes and if it was not so, i believe that you would have come to correct me.

Gabrielshow26:
-> If the sin was a sexual act between Eve and the Serpent, God’s original commandment becomes incoherent🤔. In Genesis 2:16-17, God tells Adam not to eat from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. If this tree represented sex, it would imply that God was forbidding the very thing He commanded them to do in Genesis 1:28 ('Be fruitful and multiply').🤕

I got that covered by pointing out that fornication is prohibited (i believe you already know that) and that fornication is what takes place between unmarried couples; as different from whkredum which is the transactional sh3x between unmarried people; as different from adultery.

https://www.nairaland.com/8179397/fornication-first-sin

https://www.nairaland.com/7480650/knows-greatest-highest-commandment#119158248

Gabrielshow26:
->The 'Serpent Seed' doctrine falls apart in Genesis 4:1, which explicitly states: 'Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain.' The Bible attributes Cain’s paternity directly to Adam😁. To suggest otherwise is to call the scripture a lie. If the Holy Spirit intended for us to know that Cain was the seed of the Serpent, the text would not have credited Adam with the conception.🤔

Everyone saw the bible say Adam knew eve and cain was born.

But, did Adam kill? No
And who was not surprised when cain murdered Abel? Everyone.
After that murdering who did not ask who born dis kain pikin?
And that is where Mathew 7:16, John 8:44, Genesis 1:11 answers showing us all that a murderer must give birth to a murderer.

Adam never murdered anyone but Satan murdered them and their unborn children.

And Satan was seen with female Adam aka Eve.

So, 3 scriptures correct the impression in Genesis 4:1

Gabrielshow26:
->As for the effect of knowing good and evil The effect was innocence, not ignorance. Genesis 2:25 tells us they were naked and 'not ashamed.' Shame only entered the world after the act of eating.
Probably, why we see Jesus making the assertion that we must be like babies, innocent and pure!

Please, clear this up are you saying that the effect of NOT knowing good and evil is "INNOCENCE"? (You did not say "'NOT" )

Gabrielshow26:
If the act itself was sex, and sex was the sin, then the biblical theology of marriage—which defines the sexual union between husband and wife as 'holy' and 'undefiled' (Hebrews 13:4)—is destroyed. If sex was the 'original sin,' then humanity was born out of an act of evil [/b]rather than a divine blessing.

I got that also covered and David also reconfirmed it in saying "i was conceived in sin" even though we see his father was married to his mother and we all wonder how he was conceived in sin.

This thread explains why he said so
https://www.nairaland.com/8179357/adam-eve-never-got-lawfully#131400803

Gabrielshow26:
[b]The strength of a doctrine is found in its alignment with the whole of Scripture. The 'Serpent Seed' doctrine requires us to ignore Genesis 4:1, contradict Genesis 1:28, and rely on 'private observations' rather than the plain word of God. The fire of the Fall wasn't a sexual spark👀; it was the cold rebellion of a heart that wanted to be its own god🤕.

All these has been addressed above

Tenrack:
leave that one. E go learn the hard way. Dem no dey tell person.

I don waka leave am

Its like another wave of blasphemers has been allowed to flow

Amarachibaby:
@Dtruthspeaker ,stop attacking the op he didn't force you to read or believe, people are free to express their beliefs and opinions.

I thought Christians are accommodating, rather than insulting the op, focus on yourself,open a thread and preach your own version ✌🏾✌🏾

Did you not see that he is the one attacking Christianity and Christians, continuously?

Why aren't you telling him to respect our beliefs?

So, it is even ridiculous and Wike.d for you to say that I am attacking him when he is the one doing all the attacking.

God should come let all these rubbish end let us see those who are going to the lake of fire

Another rubbish post from devu.

Do people not first question a belief before taking it up?

Another rubbish post.

Do people not first question a belief before taking it up?

HeatSeeker:
Have you questioned what you claim to believe in?!

As in.
It is only other people's beliefs that are wrong.