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Kondomatic:
I can't relate to this.


I come home around 7pm everyday. Before I go finish resting, taking my bath and eating, e go don be like 9pm then I will watch movies or read or browse and then crash.


My problem is that I have become too comfortable with my loneliness and that will be a problem some day.

Don't you think you should do something about it already, rather than allow it fester

sisisioge:


From a veteran....
1. Enjoy work and take some home
2. Get interested in professional developments/certifications....very time consuming
3. Fall in love with quora....you would read a lot of actually interesting real stories from real people who are mostly sensible
4. Love your sleep....lawddddd
5. Definitely have a boy that is allowed to call you from time to time....makes a lot more sense if he is several thousand miles away from you.
6. Find a dance school close to home....been trying to sort this cos a friend is having a blast learning salsa.

Irredeemable singleton....it gets tiring fa

Dammit! Forgive me, but you must be a very boring lady.. And who da heck is d veteran?

MeghaneMorgane:
You’re right. The secret is being busy. Ok I’ll send a message. But I take work home sometimes hoping to keep busy but then I don’t do any work.

Try get a pet too if you do pets.. It helped me in the past fix the loneliness.. thing..
Cats, Dogs, snake .. anyone

Adegbemiro11:
Check my first post.
If you meet my requirements we can start something meaningful.

LMAO, imagine!

myfantasies:
I am used to it to the extent that I am afraid of going into another relationship.

You resemble Lauren Hill..
Don't be afraid o..push your Lauren hill look alike behind..

MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.

Go Amala joint go hang out, make some badass, cream, clean, cute ass, Guys weh get nerve fit approach you..
On a serious note, go out socially more often... and Guys would approach you..

All these S.M shits mostly always boils down to nada.. except for the shagging part..
You may also be exceptionally lucky to get something sustainable on S.M.. GL

bukatyne:
Where did you see virginity? Abi do people lose their virginity gradually these days?

I thought the phrase 'pop the cherry' means it is a one-time thing?

Read my point 6 to Khnoifer; that is the corresponding of nectar for a man.

Okay! Sis!

miracle98:
Hi all!. This is my first post.
For the love of veg. noodles!
Ps:I'm a student

This is what I call super-duper noodles..
Very cool for a maiden post. Thumbs up!!

YoungDaNaval:
Nice one sapa

Bro, if you aren't mean, then u gast to invite me to relish this kind of delicacy some day..

What more can a native man ask for?

Legitdimple:
Smokey party jollof rice
Plaintain
Chicken

Nice one! I guess the other serving is mine..Thanks for serving me..

Bring water..or just juice.

Akposy:
Cocoyam pottage

This is my first time eating cocoyam. My dad forbade it in his house. It tasted delicious though. I will try this again soon.
First pics was shot indoor. Second was shot outside.
Thank God it's Friday!!

Why is that @ the emboldened..
You always know how to make wonders with any kind of food... This looks appetising as usual.

bukatyne:
Disclaimer: This is Bukatyne's thread

Nectar is a sweet liquid that is secreted by the nectaries of a plant (flower) and is the chief raw material of honey. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/nectar

Every girl has nectar inside of her that is supposed to ‘sweeten’ the life of the man she marries. It is the freshness of body, soul, and spirit she brings to the table in a relationship. That refreshing laughter that echoes in one’s mind after it is over.

Unfortunately, this nectar is gradually lost per sexual relationship and if not deliberately kept, is dwindled when the lady (grown girl) is ready to get married. She is no longer the sweet, warm, trusting, fresh girl anymore; she is now a woman carrying the baggage of several wrong relationships and have no nectar to offer her husband who is the right recipient of it.

She is not in tune with herself anymore and can’t choose a good man. If she unfortunately chooses a good man, she does not have that nectar to offer anymore. She has become bitter, mistrusting, and unable to provide warmth to her man (husband).

Sadly, this nectar is hard to replace once finally lost or depleted and takes very conscious effort to replenish. Unlike other qualities (I will call them ‘what qualities’ e.g. education, career/job, physical comportment, home keeping, etc.) that are tangibles and can be easily worked on, this nectar (‘who quality’) is part of your make-up or your core from birth.

Keep your nectar for your husband, it was put in you to bless him!



On a lighter note, this thread should enter the contest of one of my shorter threads yet

P.S.: A conversation with GeneralPula on another thread has given me the corresponding of nectar for men: passion/strength/drive.

Sister, I am not trying to glorify promiscuity in in gender here. But as for LADEIS, the nectar thing doesn't really play a very important role in the final analysis, even spiritually. For,as long as a lady still has her uterus and ovaries in place and she is healthy, she is not a broken vessel and can be as good for any man.

Virginity is overrated. Moderation is key.

Humanoid01:
Aha!

That guy you're attacking is clearly not the problem, you are.

Bro, end time messages is a very bitter pill to swallow. People don't wanna hear such
messages.

Go and read the prophesy of Melchizedek to understand what is happening.

So when you see such reactions, you can only have empathy.

Righteousness2:
"The World is in Total Shambles"
The brother above hit the nail of the spot.

We are Currently living in a time JESUS referred to as Birth pains.
JESUS Likened the Last days events like to a Pregnant woman in Labour. As the Days of Delivery comes close, the pain increases in both Frequency and Inrensity, until the baby comes.

So it is in these Last of the Last of days. As we get closest to the D-Day, the Earthquakes, Draught, Famines, Floods, Fires and all the birth pains will be more Frequent and Intense. All the signs are Manifesting around the World right before us.

There is Nothing more Important to the World Inhabitants today than the Gospel of JESUS Christ. JESUS is Coming!
Whatever we are witnessing now is "Testing the Mic" to what will be here After the RAPTURE.

Make your Choice for JESUS thisday. The Choice is yours.

I agree with every other part of your post except maybe the emboldened part.

It's true our earth is in convulsion and it's heading towards a global collapse.

I think you should try and make your messages to encompass other faiths as well. I don't have anything against Jesus the Christ or his message, but be advised not to sound like a Fanatic, cos a fanatic is as bad and hopeless as an atheist. There is only a very thin line dividing them. An extremist has no foundation.

what hope do you give to people in other valid religion like Buddhism and Hinduism or our brothers in Islam.
Well, I would like to sum up your post into one word- repentance!

musicwriter:
More authentic and verifiable sources about? Please kindly provide me such verifiable sources as long as it deals with the subject of the article. I really need it.

https://glorian.org/books/hell-the-devil-and-karma/the-devil?

There are several articles but this, in my opinion, is the most concise.

Drwinz:
Eiya .....it wasn't funny thou. Hope your car is okay now?

I have been fixing it since Friday..
Wld be done on Monday..
Thanks.

Righteousness2:
Anyone who doubts what BABA did in the times of Noah should repent and ask for Mercy.

Folks! What we are seeing now all over the world is " Testing ! Testing" GOD is testing the Mic all over the World.

If you Have hope on Government, technology, your Pocket or whatever, you are totally missed it!
This Ship is Sinking !
The Life Boat is JESUS Christ.
Just as Noah and his family were Saved in the ark. JESUS is set to Harpazo His Children outta here. If you are left behind, it is unfortunate.
All that is Needed a Genuie surrenderness to JESUS Christ.

Bro, Jesus Christ can not save anyone the way you are putting it..
Only genuine repentance can save a soul, be you Hindu, Buddhist, Jew, muslim, pagan whatever..
The almighty God respects all religions, cos all religions are stitched into the same fabric that clothes divinity.
It is Simple. Anyone with much positive spiritual values in their soul would be taken, the rest would be left behind.
Jesus or no Jesus, Buddha or no Buddah.

Pardon my French but you need to quit sounding like a fanatic.

Drwinz:
It was a disaster as most areas of lekki phase 1 were nearly engulfed by flooding which emanated from the heavy rain that fell on Friday 16th of July 2021.

People's home, properties and the major road which leads to ajah, lekki free zone and epe became dangerous for motorists and even the pedestrians.

It is no joke that the power of water knows nothing about high building, bungalow, luxurious hotel and cars, or neither does it respect individual status.

Some European countries have recently recorded numerous death resulting from the incidence of heavy flooding. May we not have such experience this year coz it seems the raining pattern of this year might be very unfriendly.

I agree with you that the power of water knows nothing about...bla bla bla.. esp with very poor drainage on roads.
Cos that Friday was an unfortunate and unforgettable day for me.
As I drove through ozumba Mbadiwe headed towards toll gate, my car got submerged in the flood that the water seeped into it, reaching to almost the gear level...

The earth is in a convulsion wth this kind of rains and floods..

musicwriter:
I am not surprised you're hearing it for the first time because what I just told you is the biggest secret in the world. All you have to do is read the details in the given link and you'll understand if you have the intellectual capability to handle the truth. Both bible and historical sources were provided, so follow them and reach your own conclusion.

Well, in life, one can never know more than what they have read about in books etc, and your IQ.
What is the intellect? The intellect is a subjective source for truth.
You don't swallow everything you read hook, line and sinker without atleast applying dialectics or meditation.
Lest you fill your intellect with a heck of garbage and assume you are very knowledgeable.
Meanwhile, there are more authentic and verifiable sources of knowledge than what you refering me to..

SyIvalord:
You can’t keep a wild snake as a pet even if it’s non venomous. You should let it go

I suppose them get domestic or recreational snakes..

For your information, not all snakes are bad.
There are good snakes, I mean the ones that do no harm to humans. Plus snakes are highly psychic animals like cats and dogs. So some kind of snakes can also be kept as pets.

While they are psychic, they know and perceive many things that you or any common human being don't know. They are elementals and many elementals are very helpful to humans.

musicwriter:
There's nothing devilish about the snake. It's just like every other animal. And indeed it's one of the most friendly creature.

The Adam and Eve story in your bible is an allegory not a real event. The snake represent an advocate for new knowledge not evil. However, White people misunderstood the story and used it to blackmail black people as evil. And that's the origin of our problem as a people. If you're a black, the bible was written to blackmail you and you don't know!!

The character called Satan is the first and only real savior and was represented as black. Christ is white man's version of same thing but theirs is fake.

For details, see what is Satan? What is Lucifer? https://www.africason.com/2021/07/what-is-satan.html?m=1

I concurr with your take on snakes and your take on Adam an eve.. But for the rest, seems you are convoluting concepts here..

ifedohlahpoh:
Came home yesterday and saw this on my doorstep. I researched and found it's non venomous. I wish to keep it as a pet.
Any advice?

Lol.. this is an eel na not a snake.
Yes, you may keep it, be nice to it..

I think it's an evolving elemental..

But, someday, you may have to let it go..

jaelz:
I have always been a player and hardly ever really believed in love as I felt it was just a parable, but being with this my current girlfriend really opened my eyes to so many things with one being the day she truly proved her love for me.

That was the day we went out on a date and we got stopped by police men at a certain junction in Jabi, Abuja, the men started harassing me unnecessarily and when I couldn't take it any more me maself start dey change am for them o, it was at this junction one threatened to shoot me and corked his gun, omo if you see the way my girlfriend ran out of the car that day and stood in the front of me to shield me from the bullet by taking the bullet for me using herself as a shield, asin she was ready to die for me.

That was the day I realized that this girl was for real and nah her I go carry go see my mama.

So guys how did you find out that your woman truly loved you and was for real?

Bro, that maynot be a very good sign of her acclaimed love for you.

One rule of thumb to know if a lady truly loves you is when you are damn broke and appear as a nonentity to the world.

Now, if a man finds such a lady, who's love is soul deep and unconditional, then she must be a special gift from the Gods and must be cherished eternally.

Many LADIES are hypergamous in nature and venerate money and material things just as many men are pussyhunters and venerate pussy like crazy.

Mariangeles:
Well, almost every lady who grew up watching fairy tales as a little girl wanted a big wedding and the running into the sunset, living happily ever after with her Prince Charming.

For some, the dream remained, and for others it changed depending on the kind of person they grew up to become.
For me, considering the fact that I don’t like publicity, I’d say I prefer a private wedding then again, it wouldn’t just be all about me.
One must consider others (family members) involved as they (their opinion) matters too. (If you value them)
One cannot just be totally selfish about what concerns two families, because it’s not just about a couple getting married, it’s the marriage of two families. (The both of you did not fall from the sky)
Your dad becomes my dad and my dad becomes yours, as my mum becomes your mum and your mum mine, all the way down to siblings. (Addition to family)

You know what I think? In our traditional setting, the wedding (ceremony) is truly for both families (especially the mothers ), while the marriage is for the couple.

I concurr with most of what I read here..
And the idea of a private weeding is so cool.

But weddings are in my opinion, old fashioned and over-rated.

For me, I no dey disposed for any fanfare.
If anything formal must be done and if I am on same page with her, well, just do the necessary low key introductions, carry schnapps( pardon my french) give the girl papa,and get the parents approval and blessings..

I am very unconventional in many things and a serious nonconformist.

cococandy:
Yam/plantain and Pepper sauce

Coconut candy what happend to the palm of your hand..cos that's all I see, not the food you holding...

Twoclans:
Akposy please can I be your neighbour ?

Packs my luggage and moves to Jos.

Ada, you be USA o.. @ least post tuwo let's see..

mariahAngel:
Suya ragù! I said it!

Served with pasghetti. Delicious❤

Is there Suya pepper inside? I think we can wash this down with Bancado juice...

I would send you the recipe for Bancado fries soon..

Mariangeles:
Super moist chocolate cake❤

I so Miss this Moniker. I like the energy and vibration it emits on this food thread and its reminiscent of very fond memories on this food thread.

Meanwhile, let me send you my address, so u can deliver some of them moistness to my crib..

mariahAngel:
Double chocolate cupcakes

Me gusta ❤

This looks scrumptious to me.. Muy bien Hermana

Petyprincess:
Late dinner.....

These are one of the reasons I prefer to be gone from here for long.. Nona all these folks wld care to invite a humble and hungry plebeian to their sumptuous feast...

Only pettyprincess...

Akeem79:
Come join us @whoever is hungry

Nna biko, if it ain't late and you in Lag, send address.

Odika, na only you and person like that pettyprincess dey recall say some people 4hia dey starve..

Ka nmadu li kenu nke bu nni..

Aleora:
but atleast na to appreciate God work�

If it's you on the profile.. U fly too..