₦airaland Forum

Don't worry after you born two children all that high self esteem will leave you

And you still went on to stalk her

Obviously tribalism was there... Akwa Ibom to Yoruba lounloun

Abeg move on

locabobo:
I would suggest you rather apply to be a cleaner in the Bank than Petrol Station.
Petrol station is time consuming and small pay; in most Petrol Station you resume 6 am and close 9pm, and salary 10k maximum 15k. Note that 15 hours of ur precious time daily and if you are lucky you get 2 shifts in a week.
A Cleaner in a bank resumes 7am and closes 4.30pm and salary 16-20k minimum. 9.30 hours of work.
I'm talking from experience.
The choice is yours.

Yes

Even accumulated inhalation of fumes constantly cause defects in someone's body

One bed room ke

Or

Face me I slap you room

Why do Nigerians like to exploit themselves..


500 naira for information on Google.

You a thief I am sorry to say

shogsman:
You people with your overly right attitude,let me give you and isntance,you have a Samsung s8 and an iPhone 11pro max and you got another 11pro max as a birthday gift ,would you continue to use the 3phone knowing how much it could Fetch you just because you want to prove a point

Please stop explaining your reasons

You owe no one explanations

Hardworking
Smart
Faithful
Pleasant for me to look at
Ongoing

Ineedtoheal:
Thanks sis. I'm praying for the will power to do that. it's as if I am powerless when it comes to him.

You need to be strong to move on

Another name for RAZZNESS is this his current wife Seyi Edun

Abfinest007:
this girl is another version of tonto

Real wannaabee

Fake gurl

It is well

emeijeh:
Guys, should we tell him?

Yes na. That he is about to be maga...ed

Please run HIV test.. Hepatitis too sef...

Uncle get a calabash... Load it with sacrificial items.. All those agidi and co
.. Mark the calabash with colored chalks... Tie a red wrapper... Once she's deep asleep in the middle of the night just wake her up, let her see the calabash and ask her to say the truth... I am sure the *DNA* of the child will come out that night... No need to wait till when she deliver t9 do DNA

Melian:
Don't mind all these mad people saying nonsense. They're thieves like the guy you lent money to.

Thank you very much

At least you one of the few people who understood.

Thank you

alexola20:
Sometimes those ungrateful assholes need curse.
A very bastard I lent 2m for business hasn't paid me a dime for more than 3 years now.

Na wa... I don't understand how they have peace of mind...

PotatoSalad:
The wailings of a chronic debtor.
Stop trying to justify your shallow mindedness

You mind am ni

Some people roaming on Nairaland are animals. Reason why I ignore them..

GogetterMD:
Story of my life. It hurts more when it's even friends that you never believed could do such. They could send you into financial ruin without hesitation

Yes... Reasons why after my lending lending upandan I learnt my lessons the hard way.. Now I only give money I can forget..

francesawesome:
you pray for am?

Yes I did... I had actually started praying for him on the phone when he broke down crying and prayed for me in return... He apologized and all.. When he suggested refunding the money when he has, I told him not to worry... And since then he immediately disappeared into the thin air..

Chidonc:
OK, I understand, you didn't lend him the money to travel out. he just borrowed from you and traveled but you should still have prayed for him.

He was actually abroad when I sent him the money... Said he needed it to balance his schoolfees... Then an emergency came up and he needed to come to Nigeria.. So he promised he was going to refund before leaving the country.. When he eventually got the surprise call yes I ranted.. Because I remembered how I cried back then.. Thank God I had a backup savings account.. I did pray for him.. And when he talked about refunding it.. I told him not to bother..

Dewze:
Probably if you had prayed for him or let him be rather than curse him, he would have done well and maybe eventually payed back like the OP's case. Instead you cursed him, now he is doing badly and you did not get your money.

Loool

doggedfighter:
Wait, you lent him money and swore for him? Helper from hell !

And mind you, every single person that I asked after this incident made me understand he was a chronic debtor..

Chidonc:
So what did you gain after you swore for him not to make it. What did you gain as he returned to Nigeria.
Brother if you must help a fellow brother, give him your blessings as he goes, life is not really easy even outside there brother. He may have it in mind to pay back but still trying to settle down, family, debtors, accommodation, jobs, etc. All this these don't balance in a day. May God never send helper like you my way. If the op has sworn for that guy all these years, would he have known that the guy has been struggling and even saving up to pay after 5yrs.

You can say all you want to say.. What happened has taught me a lesson not to help strangers.. That money was also important to me.. I just lent him thinking he will refund when I was ready to use it... Only for him to call me that he was at the airport and he was sorry..

doggedfighter:
Wait, you lent him money and swore for him? Helper from hell !

When he didn't return as at when promised... Back then it was money meant for something important.. Then he went on to block all avenues of reaching him.. It was like he disappeared into thin air in the abroad

At least he called you and promised to fund your account on Monday...


Mine.... I made sure I swore for him.. He eventually called me seven years later.. saying it seemed he was cursed, nothing was working for him.. He even had to come back to Nigeria.. He actually needed me to pray for him..

smogup:
So you mean Ogun state doesn't have commissioners as of now
Incredible.

I tell you..



The state is as stagnant as the Atlantic Ocean

Jubal01:
AUDIO!
SCAMMERS!
NA UNA CHILDREN FULL DIA NA.
BITCHY KARMA!

Beef

Nigeria ke..

When will this start on the Mainland

I don't understand why your fiance is getting worried... Is he getting married to your face

Something is not right....


Money and benefits have swapped both hands

Investigator

. Boys can we tolerate and date a broke but funny girl