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Anabel:
Noooooooo, what i will actually do to that guy is that; since the guy love banging girls i will get him raped. i will look for 5 girls that can do anything to treat a guys mess up and we will each go 3 rounds on him, after that, i wil throw him out

Anabel, I have been a bad boy; I need to be messed. Do you want to know where to find me?

Since she knows that you don't like jewelry, you will be earning brownie points by wearing the band. To her, you changed something you wouldn't do just for her. When you offend her sometimes (which you will do), she will remember the sweet gesture and maybe forgive you.

I think i would be concerned that my fiancee may be doing the same thing with the other prospective in-law; after all, they are sisters.
Apart from that, should not be aiding and abetting such behaviour.

Hazel-eyed:
24 ways to keep a girl does not change the fact that "we don't attend the same church", what it does is to enable u possess the girl body,soul and spirit.then she will decide if all that should be thrown away just because "we don't attend the same church".

"We don't attend the same church" is a lame excuse to break up with someone. If a guy treats a girl badly (by not doing all or most of the 24 things listed above), she is more likely to rely on those reasons than the lame church excuse. When someone (and this includes guys) gives a lame excuse for breaking up with their partner, there is an implicit assumption that they are being treated nicely. And as nice as those 24 things are, only a robot would remember to do all 24 things all the time. That is not possible in the real world.

Gonorrhea:
What are you talking about?
When a woman is fed up, she goes even if she had everything she ever wanted in a relationship!
you can be nice, considerate,caring and all but when the time is up, she goes
in this case, she only needs to pick a small fault! why do some girls leave their guys for other guys? tell me,
i have seen so many good relationship crumble like cookies because both party have had enough and they want to move on!

being kind, nice and considerate doesnt gaurantee u have full and forever possesion of a woman, get that straight up!!

This is so true. You will hear reasons like "we don't attend the same church", "he is too quiet".

How did you get into this situation? Were you dating the both of them? What is the problem with AS genotype? are you AS yourself?
If money isn't an issue, then go with the person that you wouldn't mind being with forever.

This is where I get confused.
I know women say they like these things and appreciate them. But in my experience and the experience of others around me, I have noticed that it isn't necessarily true. Some girls see guys who do all these as dull and weak; whereas, they go crazy for guys who appear manly and treat them not so nicely. If these 24 things are true, why do girls cheat on nice guys but never live bad guys but keep praying that the bad guy changes his ways?

I really get it.

@ poster
Who are you hanging out with? Are you hanging out with 13 year olds? It is a fact that women are more religious than men.

what are you talking about?

@ deepzone

Your definition of jew man is misleading. The reason a lot of people here do not understand its use is because it was used by confra boys to label guys who weren't in any cults.

Morals can not be loosened through the consumption of alcohol; inhibition can be loosened. If you take advantage of someone because she/he is drunk, then you stand the chance of being accused of rape.

rampant:
how come obj is still looking d way he is?

If OBJ offered you 5 properties in London, ikoyi, New york, Miami and the south of France, as well as £500,000 in annual salary, would you still think he's ugly? i know what you are going to say publicly.

rampant:
says who?d fact that they r afterhim does not mean hes so cute?

can money really make a man look good?can it change a mans look?

Yes money can change a man's looks instantaneously. A few years ago while clubbing with some friends in London, a very UGLY (I agree the guy is ugly) went after a chick. She turned him down to the hearing of everyone within an earshot, saying "can you imagine that minger asking me out". After the club closed and everyone was milling outside, the UGLY guy was parked outside in his porshe with music blaring. The girl that nailed the guy said "and he is kinda cute ohh". Needless to say she was the butt of jokes for a while.

tboy1:
To them- yes

Thank you, you get my point.

dobberma27:
hmmm lol yeah we do have ugly guys but at least they do stand a better chance than an ugly girl.

That is so true; even wowo guys with no money have girls chasing after them in the name of looking for raw and rugged. Just go to Nigerian universities and check out the number of fine gals going out with ugly capos

rampant:
says who?

so what about OBJ?

As much as i agree with you that OBJ is damn ugly, do you know how many women run after him and have kids for him? That only buttresses the point of the poster.

Missy B:
Why would any GENTLEMAN lay his hands
on a lady?!Naija men specialises in this aspect
There re over a million ways to xpress anger
nd make d person pay for his/her deed
rather dan BEATING.

I agree with this.

onyinye2:
i sure as hell aint weak if that is what you are asking. i know all the bodies pressure points so don't even try me.

Please come and slap me. ewu. of course you would be saying sorry later after you done emptied the fridge of ice when im through with you.

How old are you?

onyinye2:
I must admit im one of those people who are quick in the mouth. if im offended or feel disrespected in some way yeah ima get loud and start yelling. But you still have no right to hit me. you don't even have the right to lay a violent hand on me. But i sware if a guy even dared to hit me, first i would beat the living devil out of him then deliver him to my father.

Thats just talk; are you assuming that you are stronger than all men? Please be sensible with your utterances.

I fear for the future of this world.

@ poster
look at it in one of two ways
1) If she can't be loyal to her present boyfriend, why would she be loyal to you once you start dating.
2) If your argument is that because her boyfriend is in another university, what happens when you both go to serve in different states? Would you expect her to be faithful to you? Think about it for a second.

nonso3k:
man u right.what did u study?womanology,

lol, no just life's experience

Although there is no good reason to beat a woman, there are thresholds that determine when a man MAY do it. Men with low thresholds (cowards) will hit a woman straight away, men with medium thresholds will do the smart thing and walk away (go out) while men with very high threshold are so strong that they can stay there and listen to all the abuse and provocation without even thinking about hitting a woman.

After marriage, your man should always come first. Before marriage, you should evaluate what your family is telling you.

Meeting on-line is just another medium of meeting people just like meeting people at school, school or through friends. You still have to make a judgement call in this situation as in other situations.

@ poster
Nigerians like to flaunt success
E.g ' My son, the one who schooled in the United Kingdom' or 'My daughter who is the assistant to the commissioner'.

@ poster
I am not disagreeing with the argument that everyone has a perfect soulmate; some people find their soulmate while some date. What I disagree with and what the other dissenting posters disagree with is that how can you tell that someone is your soulmate two weeks to your wedding. If you think someone is your soulmate by just looking at them and without spending time with them, then it is possible to have 100,000 soulmates. That is the reality.