₦airaland Forum

ttmacoy:
Irrespective of how you feel about the topic, there are many many depressed people in Nigeria. Because they are not walking on the streets naked doesn’t mean people are not suffering from mental issues.

yeah ,i know that ,but i don't think i fall into that category.

pocohantas:
That is still afternoon newspaper, sis. When it gets to evening I will tell you

lol ,no p sis

hisexcellency34:
Stop listening to Nigerian news

this forum alone can kill your good vibes, there are some days all through front page is nothing but bad news .On those days i head to Pinterest to watch happy pictures just to dillute the bad vibes i got from front page.

I wasnt depressed but was greatly bothered until watch documentaries on historical monuments and realized there was nothing new under the sun and 100 years from now what you have or don't have will not even matter . That was how i got over my worries. Might not be the same for you,but that was my moment.

What you need is know the exact reason why you are depressed,if you dont know why ,then it will be difficult to get over it.

ThothHermes:
Did the guy give a reason for jilting you?

i guess he got used to the relationship half a decade is a long time to be with someone with no major commitment and i guess he got bored,who knows. Honestly ,i don't care what his reason(s) is,humans always have an excuse for everything they did or didnt do.

Insecurity ,that is the only issue.Many men know what they are capable of so they project that insecurity onto their wives. Most of this type of men are randy outside.

fyneguy:
popularity?

Jeez! are there so many illiterates in Nigeria

no,just many people who have been conditioned to reason a certain way no matter their level of education.

KevMitnick:
The issue of cultism follows a waterfall pattern. If these boys start naming their patrons who were all active members during their hay days, you'll be amazed. Most of these guys in power and politics are cultists just on a different level and they happily breed these young guys who will take over their mantle of leadership in the nearest future. This is why cultism is a vice that may not be easily eradicated.

True. Its deeply rooted than what you see on the surface. The day i was opportuned to be around the area where a political party did their ward meeting ,that was when it dawned on me. Even the police guiding these politicians are all cultists. Am afraid cultism is an evil we will live with for a very long time cos the patrons are in every sector, from drug dealers to yahoo boys to police to politicians to lecturers and so on.

They should leave non-cultists out of it, thats my own. Other than that ,they are free to carry on and kill themselves.

My own is how many eligible and sensible bachelors will be remaining after this storm.

kingJoya:
I'm serving in Gombe and things are cheap here
. So I don't doubt her

how much is a kilo of chicken and turkey in gombe where you reside?

Aladdin1:
How can? obaseki is trying but you cant say you find him a better governor since ogbemudia.thats a biased and untrue statement.truth be told,obaseki have not excelled 50% of oshiomholes performance.

your opinion, i dont see it that way.Obaseki's impact can only be compared to that of Ogbemudia,if you think other wise ,its OK ,but your cup of tea doesn't have to be mine.

They are ignorant. I personally find him a better govt since Ogbemudia.

sylve11:
don't mind them jare.

i am very interested in knowing o, the people that claim food is cheap in the north should first tell us how much a kilo of chicken and turkey costs in the north so we can start from there. Lol.

Akpacha:
Where in d north?

its a general question to the person i quoted, if you live there ,you can start by telling us how much it costs in your area.

babyfaceafrica:
true,foodstuff is cheap in the north...with 1500 pot don set

so how much is a kilo of chicken and turkey in the north?

TempleHouse:
How do you think that will save their faces or what difference will that make
They will be a poster boy of the new Biafra State and you can imagine how the World will accept that !

it will make a difference to those who think the ibos are ruining their reputation abroad. Atleast the tribal warlords will have less tribal war to fight, I dont know how people don't find it exhausting to continue the blame game of this tribe is this and the other tribe is that.

As for you worrying about "how the world will accept that" ,i honestly think you should leave that to the biafrans cos by then, that will be their burden to bear not yours.

meobizy:
...and when Nairalanders insult me situations like this is why I pity them other than getting angry.

lol

uvie66:
perfect your English language first before you comment, what do does y'all mean?

Y'all is an informal contraction which means "you all",if you knew your english at all you would have known that. Also take note of my correction so you dont use it next time.

And with this the "you all" is referring to the resident nairaland tribalist warlords whom i has asked to "hold their horses".

GavelSlam:
They've long bolted out of the stables.

Just watch them run....

Thank the heavens a raging horse can still be tamed.

Hold your horses people!

Before you tribalists get your itching fingers to typing as usual ,isnt it time to divide this country already, i mean lets look at it this way, y'all claim they are always the ones giving this country a bad name, then take them out of the entity ,just saying.

koboko69:
Pele oooo.
U have joined them...
Learn to read beyond silly modified headlines by foolish silly people pushed forward by the mods before insulting someone older than your grandfather!

This is the body

lets talk about effects of climate change that buhari wants to "reverse".

Higher temperatures
Change in growing seasons of crops
Rise of water levels.etc

So how does buhari intend to reverse this ?

We can't talk of the effects without tackling the cause, in a country where gas flaring is still a huge problem, generator fumes from houses is a menace, a large population still use firewood, vehicles that will not pass standard safety tests still ply our roads and so on. Any reasonable person will know the president is just talking for the sake of talking.

Coolgent:
Pls tag me whenever he done that, I will assist.

i think you should @ the OP himself so he can tag you when he shows proof.

Meetmeat:
A man who want to lead must first lead himself. Research has shown that the dominant trait of a good leader is being intelligent.A man who is emotionally intelligent will be able to be incharge without any problems.

True ,but hey, i guess not many people see it from your point of view ,they are too busy making it a struggle for gender superiority.lol

agabaI23:
lol
Three decades is the beginning of life. Hold your ground to get what you want. Just be open minded. You hèar me grandma from the north. You should have learnt that you are what you believe by now. Focus on you. Be grateful and forgive yourself. Forget the past.....be the chirpy 21 year old.

Yes I like Amebo shaa

lol ,thanks Jor ,na correct man you be.

raybaba97:
Glo. network is epileptic in my area, so I bought Airtel a few weeks ago.

Broke my MTN sim too.

thinking of getting startimes right now.

everything for my country.

if just 20% of my brothers can imitate me, I swear SA go calm down

why not port your Sim instead of breaking it?

omenka:
Dude, this is untrue. Lying to ourselves doesnt solve anything. A time might come when a network overtakes mtn, but as we speak, mtn tops all networks on terms of assets, innovation and spread.

That is the home truth.

since 2005 that i owned a phone ,never used MTN,so he is right

Leave while you can. That might be your last pay check.

Meetmeat:
Any man that is intimidated by a women intelligence is a dullard,a man who is conscious of self development should see an intelligent women as a plus,I am a sapiosexual myself

not necessarily a dullard but i think the true reason is fear of "not being incharge". Its more of a gender sizing up. An opionated woman will likely see things from a different vantage point and wont be shy to let you know how she sees it. I might be wrong tho.

agabaI23:
I don't know if anyone has told you that a 25 years old girl is older than or the same age with 35 year old guy.

Women mature faster in terms of psychology. This is a popular saying which I tend to believe it is true. When you a man older than you are must be wiser, think twice.

I notice you pay too much attention to this your age instead of who you are.

Meanwhile, what are the thuggish ish you referred to in second paragraph? I like amebo. Please describe with examples..

you go like gist o.

OK, you see i had the spare time to go through some red pills( every pill has its side effects ,pharmacist will tell you that ) they have been dishing out on this forum and even had encounter with some of the adherent followers who actually think they are doing you a woman a favor ,infact one was in my inbox trying to pull off their alpha male mumbo jumbo on me, totally allienated from ettiquete, feel they are next good thing after a combination of unsweetened yogurt and straw berry,just an inch away from being narcissists.

Yes o, i will talk about my age, i am three decades old and according to the eye of society i am old lol, some typical uncouth male nairalander will even classify me as "evening news paper" .lol

So i would rather be logical and lay all my cards on the table. I will even tell some of them if i perceive them to be juveniles that i am old enough to be their grandma if i was from the north.

agabaI23:
It is an individual thing sha. Do women really know what they want? Often they don't.

There has to be compromise. Nobody can treat you the way you like. Even yourself disappoint yourself often.

But then close your ears. Answers like, is your husband looking for a second wife can help keep them mouth shut. Do you want to give me your daughter or your son? Is your brother...

lol ,i once told an aunty to help me put "husband wanted, apply within " on her gate.

Compromise sure, no human being is perfect but there are some traits that are just recipe for disaster and i think the male gender is at a disadvantage when it comes to relationship and being husband material ,i mean like who really teaches men how to carry their family and have sense of responsibility? So when i see some men with no manners ,crude and behaving thuggish and being a brute thinking that is what being a man entails all i do is think of how to train my son not to turn out like that.

So in the end, at my age ,there are certain things i expect someone older than me not to be found doing. I mean there has to come a time in life where you just have to grow up and if a man older than me has not grown up, sorry ,its a waste cos i cant come and be advising you like a teenager when we should be on another level of conversation.

agabaI23:
It is the problem of excessive self preservation combined with low self esteem.

Well, one can meet a soulmate even in the loo. Why do you think millionaires often marry themselves? They meet in their own circle.

please i am laughing here. Self preservation of what? Lol.

They say women are confused and dont know what they want , but men are worse. This same "self preserving people " dont want a typical block head slay queen, don't want a gold digger ,dont want a ugly yes sir type ,dont want a beautiful intelligent one either , do want an independent one, don't want an opionated one either, abeg the matter tire me ,lol