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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 9:14am On Aug 29, 2019 |
princfred:two mentions. I see. |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 9:22am On Aug 29, 2019 |
princfred:catch bullet for ,oh please don't be dramatic ,such a drama king, lol . still don't know which you don't understand the "help" or "mate" . For you to revisit a comment you have mentioned with a robost comment before, like seriously, whats up with you? Why are you this pressed? 2 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by princfred(m): 9:59am On Aug 29, 2019 |
Duggedised12:Only two. Take that as bugging until you do the needful. |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by princfred(m): 10:59am On Aug 30, 2019 |
Duggedised12:I did wisand don't and you evil but pointed the evil that naturally comes with your orientation if you interpret it otherwise, blame your brain and comprehension capacity. |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by SamOyovwi: 11:58am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Don't worry. Pray to God. You'll get married soon Duggedised12: 1 Like |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 5:58pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
SamOyovwi:Thanks!. |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by agabaI23(m): 10:39am On Sep 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12:You are very intelligent and a good wordsmith. Do you intimidate your suitors? Looks like you very smart, probably with a good job and a whole lot of guys can't deal. 1 Like |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 11:05am On Sep 22, 2019 |
agabaI23:lol, me with my small body intimidate anyone . Anyone intimidated by me is not even worth dating to begin with. Our forefathers didn't fight for independence for this generation to become like that which is why you see men these days wearing make up and putting on gstrings and wigs. |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by DBestDoc(f): 11:47am On Sep 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12: Life happens and it's never perfect for anyone. It's ok to feel down sometimes, but do not let yourself stay down. When you're too careful and play by the rules, it's kinda harder but you'll definitely get married at the right time for you. My sister got married as a night newspaper by Nairaland boys standard (at over 40) and within two months after marriage she fell pregnant(without fertility treatment). She had her beautiful daughter yesterday. Different timing for different people. The Nairaland kids and the educated illiterates littered on the streets of Nigeria will tell you that a 30 year old is already old and menopausal. If you listen to them, you'll commit suicide or at best get too desperate and fall into the wrong hands. Focus on being the best you can and take it one step at a time. It will happen for you when it will happen. 18 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 11:50am On Sep 22, 2019 |
DBestDoc:worded for a good Sunday motivation. Thanks . |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by careytommy37(m): 12:58pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
DBestDoc: Congrats to your sister but i believe the OP is loking for a loyal kondo. The problem with most people is that they dont want to make a mistake or be taken for a f00l that we have our guards so up it scares the sincere ones away. Having high guards has never scared a 'bad boy' player or 'alpha male'. @OP, you have your minimum standards i.e the things you want in a mind (im not talking physical or material). Don't be afraid to shoot your shot when you find by making yourself approachable (no go toast man o) |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by agabaI23(m): 1:40pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12:A woman's body does not intimidate a man. What intimidates some men is your level of exposure and intelligence. It is possible you mingle inadvertently in the company of men that will get frightened by your thinking ability (you read a lot of books?) and your exposure. There are others who will be attracted to such and they probably won't find you where you are hiding like one poster said above. Get young again and look for love where you belong. Some men are afraid of afraid of catapult pant for your information 1 Like |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 1:50pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
agabaI23:lol, i get where you are coming from but the truth is there is no particular place to find a man with "exposure". Even in an intellectual society e.g an educational institution ,exposure is relative. A phd holder can be obselete in current day knowledge. Having watched alot of documentaries on "mail order bride". I have come the the conclusion that even in the midst of women like "waking into a candy shop" some men still wont make up their minds or spot what they are lookin for.So intimidated or not ,a man who doesn't know what he wants ,exposure or not still wont know how to act even if you throw him in a pool full of women. Infact there was one guy that made the social trip to ukrain 6 times in 9 years before he could snag a bride.And this is a party where you have 200 single women and 20 men,lol. And come to think of it, why would intelligence intimidate a grown ass man?shey he wants to have dumb children ni 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 2:01pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
careytommy37:If you followed my rant you will know i at one time wasted half a decade loyal to a relationship. So there comes that time when you know you have seen too much to put up with bullsh1t. Also there has to be a stage in a man's life too when he clearly knows what and what he wants in a future spouse. Lets combine this two together ,at this point in my life, if i am dating someone older than me, you must have grown as a man and not be seen exhibiting the traits of a teenager.And i dont call it "having guards up" i prefer to call it "knowing what you want ". And bros nor worry ,i never reach the stage wey i do toast man,not in this life time ,cos 100 years from now ,all this wont matter i can assure you that . 3 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by agabaI23(m): 2:11pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12:It is the problem of excessive self preservation combined with low self esteem. Well, one can meet a soulmate even in the loo. Why do you think millionaires often marry themselves? They meet in their own circle. |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 3:25pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
agabaI23:please i am laughing here. Self preservation of what? Lol. They say women are confused and dont know what they want , but men are worse. This same "self preserving people " dont want a typical block head slay queen, don't want a gold digger ,dont want a ugly yes sir type ,dont want a beautiful intelligent one either , do want an independent one, don't want an opionated one either, abeg the matter tire me ,lol 1 Like |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by agabaI23(m): 3:34pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12:It is an individual thing sha. Do women really know what they want? Often they don't. There has to be compromise. Nobody can treat you the way you like. Even yourself disappoint yourself often. But then close your ears. Answers like, is your husband looking for a second wife can help keep them mouth shut. Do you want to give me your daughter or your son? Is your brother... |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 3:51pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
agabaI23:lol ,i once told an aunty to help me put "husband wanted, apply within " on her gate. Compromise sure, no human being is perfect but there are some traits that are just recipe for disaster and i think the male gender is at a disadvantage when it comes to relationship and being husband material ,i mean like who really teaches men how to carry their family and have sense of responsibility? So when i see some men with no manners ,crude and behaving thuggish and being a brute thinking that is what being a man entails all i do is think of how to train my son not to turn out like that. So in the end, at my age ,there are certain things i expect someone older than me not to be found doing. I mean there has to come a time in life where you just have to grow up and if a man older than me has not grown up, sorry ,its a waste cos i cant come and be advising you like a teenager when we should be on another level of conversation. 2 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by agabaI23(m): 4:02pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12:I don't know if anyone has told you that a 25 years old girl is older than or the same age with 35 year old guy. Women mature faster in terms of psychology. This is a popular saying which I tend to believe it is true. When you a man older than you are must be wiser, think twice. I notice you pay too much attention to this your age instead of who you are. Meanwhile, what are the thuggish ish you referred to in second paragraph? I like amebo. Please describe with examples.. |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 4:15pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
agabaI23:you go like gist o. OK, you see i had the spare time to go through some red pills( every pill has its side effects ,pharmacist will tell you that ) they have been dishing out on this forum and even had encounter with some of the adherent followers who actually think they are doing you a woman a favor ,infact one was in my inbox trying to pull off their alpha male mumbo jumbo on me, totally allienated from ettiquete, feel they are next good thing after a combination of unsweetened yogurt and straw berry,just an inch away from being narcissists. Yes o, i will talk about my age, i am three decades old and according to the eye of society i am old lol, some typical uncouth male nairalander will even classify me as "evening news paper" .lol So i would rather be logical and lay all my cards on the table. I will even tell some of them if i perceive them to be juveniles that i am old enough to be their grandma if i was from the north. 2 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Meetmeat(m): 5:22pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12:Any man that is intimidated by a women intelligence is a dullard,a man who is conscious of self development should see an intelligent women as a plus,I am a sapiosexual myself 2 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 5:29pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Meetmeat:not necessarily a dullard but i think the true reason is fear of "not being incharge". Its more of a gender sizing up. An opionated woman will likely see things from a different vantage point and wont be shy to let you know how she sees it. I might be wrong tho. |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by agabaI23(m): 6:44pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12:lol Three decades is the beginning of life. Hold your ground to get what you want. Just be open minded. You hèar me grandma from the north. You should have learnt that you are what you believe by now. Focus on you. Be grateful and forgive yourself. Forget the past.....be the chirpy 21 year old. Yes I like Amebo shaa |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Meetmeat(m): 6:44pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12:A man who want to lead must first lead himself. Research has shown that the dominant trait of a good leader is being intelligent.A man who is emotionally intelligent will be able to be incharge without any problems. 1 Like |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 6:53pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
agabaI23:lol ,thanks Jor ,na correct man you be. |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 6:54pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Meetmeat:True ,but hey, i guess not many people see it from your point of view ,they are too busy making it a struggle for gender superiority.lol |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by agabaI23(m): 7:03pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12:Tankio |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Achimela: 10:22am On Sep 26, 2019 |
Duggedised12:Chat me up on WhatsApp. Click on my WhatsApp link below |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by ThothHermes: 11:30am On Sep 26, 2019 |
Duggedised12:Did the guy give a reason for jilting you? |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 12:22pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
ThothHermes:i guess he got used to the relationship half a decade is a long time to be with someone with no major commitment and i guess he got bored,who knows. Honestly ,i don't care what his reason(s) is,humans always have an excuse for everything they did or didnt do. |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by ctleurocollege: 2:43pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Duggedised12: Dress well, people will respect you 1 Like |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
@ op come an be my side chick. Ride me well and you may become wife no2. I have seen it happen [s][/s] |
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