pocohantas:


Hahahahahahahaha.
Gele? They do that to a child too? Lmao!



Lol. Are women even attracted to fair men?
Why would a brother choose to de-market himself na? Maybe he is doing it for himself.



You and this woman again?

i am still trying to know why guys bleach ,smh

Vision 2020

Me sef wan know wetin dem do ?

kinokano:
Not only bleaching, some men even apply make-ups

lol thats a topic for another day.

kinokano:
Yes, men are also into bleaching

I see them around , in town , i just shake my head, there was one i had to turn back and look well, see feet looking like roasted plantain a guy for that matter.

FrLukas:


My God!

This is so disheartening.

Can't people see the beauty in a chocolate and coffee skin tones?

The government should ban the importation or production of bleaching creams in Nigeria.

Unfortunately, NAFDAC is dead and buried. They should have led the fight against bleaching chemicals.

I agree, state governments should start an aggressive campaign against bleaching.

And follow up with a legislation to criminalize it.

the thing is fake creams too are another menace ,there is this coco butter product i used to buy, it was very good, this year my customer stopped selling,he said fake has flooded the market that he doesn't want to sell it his customers, to think its for the same price o.

A product like that that can be faked ,i wonder what they do to these lightening creams

kinokano:

some will mix movate gel and carotone ,lawd! Even guys too

My neighbor uses carowhite for her kids, i told her its not too good for children, but you know we can only talk, if you talk too much dem go say make you go born your own ,lol

bdchange:
@biGDhAp.... The speed in which you guys use this word "OLOSHO" is alarming...tagging every lady with a contrary opinion is wrong usage of it. That is why most of them call us dogs even when i know i am not a dog or behave like one.

lol ,you see how i ignored the demented fool.some people are better ignored. Lol . This is why i advocate that women have to raise their sons better, cos most of them were not raised properly.

I let people play out themselves,and a sane person can see they are just foolish .

"Let me come and stay with you small"

,oga if you nor get money,get shame small na


They are both working, security na job too but what i see here is lack of self worth, low self esteem and lack of manner of approach. Many guys just think its all about the money, how you carry yourself matters alot. He came from the money angle instead of probably complimenting her on how he thinks she is a nice person with a good heart and all that . And then he said he wants to go and stay with her small, what does that even mean? Lol

firfinch:
True. Religious leaders have a lot to do. Those teachings to restore hope and courage in times of trouble and most importantly leaning on God when trouble comes. May God help us.

in my opinion religious leaders are the biggest contributing factors of this menance.

This so called religious leaders have given people false hope that all they have is to hid behind the Illusion of that hope. You tell people that all they have do is pray hard enough and all their needs and wants will be met. Infact i hate testimony time in these churches,it makes you think oh well maybe i dont pray enough ,maybe i should add more fasting. Lol. No God is coming to miraculously wave a magic wand ,but people have been made to believe and become frustrated and deluded when it doesn't work out.

What we need is more attention to mental health. How many therapist and psychologist are known to Nigerians? Many Nigerians believe you have to be raging mad to visit a psychiatrist.

Nicklaus619:
Nice info.
Thanks op
You forgot to add razor, incase of accident and entrapment

that is what a life escape tool is used for

firfinch:
He's probably not aware of the promotion. This is why it is important to make plans known to beneficiaries, to avoid things like this.

But there are people way below him who are not even considering suicide. In my personal opinion i think some people's serotonin levels decrease more than others when exposed to the same level of stress which makes them more prone to depression. Same way some people are more prone to psychosis than others.

Laeroy:


OH.....thanks for clarifying this once again.... Gracias

uwc.

alexola20:
A big deal for Mr.A might be a beer parlour talk for Mr.B.
People are different.

hence my question, just like people are more susceptible to psychosis due to schizophrenia.

Is there any possibility that some people are more susceptible to depression and suicide than others? Cos it is said he was about to be promoted, to think there are people below him who are still holding on.

truthsayer009:


LMAOO if she only knew that above average people live comfortable in a one room self contain in Germany for 800 euros. The room interior is decorated that you would feel so cool inside.

Na because Nigeria dey cheap to live na.

true, i follow tiny house movement and living big in a tiny house ,you will be shocked how functional a small space can be with Clever designs.

Laeroy:


In Nigeria or where I haven't been to?

my first comment says "only that in this country" which means i wasn't talking particularly about Nigeria.

Laeroy:



Are you for real?

from cottages to lane way houses ,to tiny house on wheels,to micro apartments ,clever and functional things have been squeezed into small spaces so yes i am for real.

I am tempted think that genetic makeup makes some people more susceptible to depression than others just like schizophrenia

Restroom:
If you enter a vehicle and your passengers suddenly start arguing about money,diamond or business or how to share money....under no account must you open your mouth and add one word to their conversation.

Just shut your mouth up if you do not want to be kidnapped

It is an old trick that dates back to the 70s
Don't be a mugu o

Once they start talking, and try to make you contribute by asking questions, all sorts of questions, shut up o
And quickly and calmly stop in the nearest bus stop

If there is no nearby bus stop
Tell the driver to stop stop stop

I forgot something
He will stop and get the hell out of the midst of kidnapped who would take you to their abattoir and harvest your body parts

Don't let greed kill you before your time

i experienced this on a sunny afternoon two years ago ,boarded a taxi from upper mission junction in aduwawa, they were two at the back, i was seating on the passenger seat in front,one of the passenger came down at big Joe, that is how the driver and the other passenger started arguing about who owns the bag in the boot, saying he thought it belonged to the other passenger that came down,and that they will have to renegotiate price,at this time the driver has not moved ,na so i jejely come down, even when they were asking "wetin happen,you nor dey go third again?" One word i did not utter. That is how they zoomed off.

Scarcity of boyfriends is about to hit this country

Omar09:

[s]
Tell you what, I give up. I give up that you saw a direct question and all you chose to talk about is his assumption of your age. I give up because admitting you don't have an answer to that question pansophist asked you and you trying to answer it will make you come out as a doubled standard fool, is difficult for you. Like he rightly said, look for that weak man that will accept you for you and do those rubbish you have in mind. [/s]

twisting words of people isn't a question but an accusation.

As for me getting a weak man,there is definitely a man for every woman,so long as his rod works,his pocket is stable and he doesn't drill asses in the closet ,he is a real man ,lol, i hope you get the one that fits you too.

There is the popular line of "lets see how it goes".

This way there is no ground for holding them to their words ,after all nothing was promised and nothing was assured .

That is how time will fly by and will not see the going cos you are still seeing how it goes,lol

somehow:


Hence the reason NIMC is being pushed rigorously for that purpose

lets hope that it pushes through then.

Welcome development,however if we had a national data base , things like this would have been easy to integrate, as all a person's records will be accessed in one click.

pansophist:


SO explain to me why you are passive and didn't call her out when she wrote this nonsensical as quote below and even went further to challenge my corrections with lies such as men placing their value only on being the provider?

cos i understood where she was driving at, it is you that is taking her words and trying to twist it. Till now you have not said where she categorically stated that women should deny men access to see their kids or that woman should relegate men to being just providers .

She started the thread with the popular saying that
"Women have nothing to offer but sex" , "the only thing women are good for is popping out babies".
Which lead to the other parts of her write up.

In a typical marriage setting ,how will a woman even deny a man access to his kids? But it seems the only relationship you have in your head is the distorted version, which is the baby daddy/baby daddy.

You are just bent on twisting this thread and making it look like anyone said men should be denied access to their kids when in actual fact no one even mentioned it, you even went as far as copying a comment half way to twist the meaning , Na wah for you sha. Believe what you want ,i nor fit talk .

pansophist:


Hit me deep lol park well jare.

If you noticed, I didn't reply to you for over 24 hours ago, I have free time now hence, I decided to reply to my mentions. Checking a man-hater out? Olorun maje. Tufiakwa. I had to check your profile for inconsistencies, as I couldn't believe you could be passive about the rubbish spewed with your fellow man-haters.

Go sleep. You are inconsequential.

inconsequential ,lol how contradictive.


Manhater,lol, nothing person nor go hear for una hand,so me telling women to raise their sons better and to teach their daughters to have self esteem makes me a man hater ,lol OK .

pansophist:


My kid will grow up in a loving home, with his/her mum, the dad (me), in the best of the luxury of opportunities life can offer. You seriously believe that I am a baby daddy even if I vehemently preach against single parenthood? Now convince me that you are not daft

then what is your problem,lets talk ,cos you seem to have one, lol. First you make stupid assumptions, then you throw accusations ,there is a problem with you, cos you sure took out time to check me out ,it means what i said must have hit you deep. What is your issue?

pansophist:


Who cares? If you mention me, I will wish you luck in your marriage, you are nothing but a faceless moniker to me here on nairaland. I don't care bae. Although, if truly you represent the nonsense you wrote here, then I already feel sorry for him. Perhaps, lots of weak men abound everywhere.

oh you do care, atleast it ust have taken you hours to go through my thread lol, to even keep repeating my age with all certiainty like say na you help me sign my birthday certificate. Lol ,i literally had to laugh at that tho, it was such a foolish assumption.

My dear ,you dont have to feel sorry for him, maybe you should be thinking of how to keep your own home ,cos i suspect you are one of those baby's daddies na im make the thing pain you reach bone sotey you dey make up things for your head. No one is denying you access to your kid o,you better go and make peace with your baby mama .

pansophist:


Lol, e pain am.

So why did you put your age there if it is not your true age? see, you can keep running around circles, spinning the hamster wheel as fast as you can, but it doesn't change the fact that you are a man-hating bigot and deserve no good man. You are so daft, to the point that you cant sit back, reflect on your stance, and take necessary measures for corrections.

You quoted my first reply to ladycewhy and didn't challenge her on her stance of raising a kid without his/father, you still went ahead to blame men for being responsible for women need to prefer a financially stable man. It is also a man's fault you are searching for a husband. Idiot, no sense of responsibility, accountability, and maturity. Meathead.

i never put my age anywhere, lol ,oh now i see where this is going, well i will just have to add you to the list of people i will mention when i tie the knot ,lol .


But in all this you are yet to point out where it was said that women should deny the fathers of their children access to their kids to bond tho. Do well to quote the comment .

Omar09:


Answer the damn question. No be by going in circles, writing nonsense baseless facts that are short and literally represents how much of an IQ you have.

Assumptions is for fools for him to even assume my age because of my thread ,it just shows how foolish he is .And if you see it as baseless,its actually your IQ talking . i cant help you with that.