₦airaland Forum

careytommy37:
Congrats to your sister but i believe the OP is loking for a loyal kondo.
The problem with most people is that they dont want to make a mistake or be taken for a f00l that we have our guards so up it scares the sincere ones away.
Having high guards has never scared a 'bad boy' player or 'alpha male'.
@OP, you have your minimum standards i.e the things you want in a mind (im not talking physical or material). Don't be afraid to shoot your shot when you find by making yourself approachable (no go toast man o)

If you followed my rant you will know i at one time wasted half a decade loyal to a relationship. So there comes that time when you know you have seen too much to put up with bullsh1t. Also there has to be a stage in a man's life too when he clearly knows what and what he wants in a future spouse.

Lets combine this two together ,at this point in my life, if i am dating someone older than me, you must have grown as a man and not be seen exhibiting the traits of a teenager.And i dont call it "having guards up" i prefer to call it "knowing what you want ".


And bros nor worry ,i never reach the stage wey i do toast man,not in this life time ,cos 100 years from now ,all this wont matter i can assure you that .

agabaI23:
A woman's body does not intimidate a man. What intimidates some men is your level of exposure and intelligence.
It is possible you mingle inadvertently in the company of men that will get frightened by your thinking ability (you read a lot of books?) and your exposure. There are others who will be attracted to such and they probably won't find you where you are hiding like one poster said above.

Get young again and look for love where you belong. Some men are afraid of afraid of catapult pant for your information

lol, i get where you are coming from but the truth is there is no particular place to find a man with "exposure". Even in an intellectual society e.g an educational institution ,exposure is relative. A phd holder can be obselete in current day knowledge.

Having watched alot of documentaries on "mail order bride". I have come the the conclusion that even in the midst of women like "waking into a candy shop" some men still wont make up their minds or spot what they are lookin for.So intimidated or not ,a man who doesn't know what he wants ,exposure or not still wont know how to act even if you throw him in a pool full of women.
Infact there was one guy that made the social trip to ukrain 6 times in 9 years before he could snag a bride.And this is a party where you have 200 single women and 20 men,lol.

And come to think of it, why would intelligence intimidate a grown ass man?shey he wants to have dumb children ni

madridguy:
Welcome development. When you have the pictures, open new thread and please don't mention anything juju or taking her to church talk medically alone. Make sure you're available to bring proof, answer questions that will arise. If possible write your moniker with a pen let your sister hold it, take the picture and post. Am saying this because people don spoil show for genuine help seekers on this forum.

the bolded is a very important proof he must show.

DBestDoc:
Life happens and it's never perfect for anyone.

It's ok to feel down sometimes, but do not let yourself stay down.

When you're too careful and play by the rules, it's kinda harder but you'll definitely get married at the right time for you.

My sister got married as a night newspaper by Nairaland boys standard (at over 40) and within two months after marriage she fell pregnant(without fertility treatment). She had her beautiful daughter yesterday. Different timing for different people.


The Nairaland kids and the educated illiterates littered on the streets of Nigeria will tell you that a 30 year old is already old and menopausal. If you listen to them, you'll commit suicide or at best get too desperate and fall into the wrong hands.

Focus on being the best you can and take it one step at a time. It will happen for you when it will happen.

worded for a good Sunday motivation. Thanks .

agabaI23:
You are very intelligent and a good wordsmith.

Do you intimidate your suitors? Looks like you very smart, probably with a good job and a whole lot of guys can't deal.

lol, me with my small body intimidate anyone . Anyone intimidated by me is not even worth dating to begin with.

Our forefathers didn't fight for independence for this generation to become like that which is why you see men these days wearing make up and putting on gstrings and wigs.

Soulmender:
Lol , what's our business this morning with this foreign affair?

lol, i guess they want you to know that sh1t happens everywhere ,no matter the race.

ednut1:
pos dey

bus driver or keke driver or even tipper or trailer driver will come and use POS abi? You think its only private cars and people using generator that make use of filling stations?

So also some stores makes sales of 3k ,5k small small like that amounting to 500k.The problem here is you think only one customer will bring the whole 500k.

I can understand that of withdrawal,but what i am still trying to wrap my head around is that of deposit , that will only hinder mopping up cash

Lets not also forget how many days it takes to transfer money when network decides to get crazy. Last time i had to send mails, make calls before i received alert in the fourth day.

PrincessB1:
Oh yes it is.

OK will be on the look out for it,thanks

PrincessB1:
Clean every nook and corner of your room most especially your kitchen and store and apply the green leaf cockroach powder below at every corner.

You will be surprised how they will dissapear from your kitchen and some will die.

is it available all over the country?

Mynd44:
Brooms are used for sweeping. Toilets, floors, poop, pee, everything. It is conceivable that part of it will stick to the broomsticks.

Flogging with Brooks sometimes can have the extremities of the broom breaking and sticking into the skin of the victim and each dirt on the sticks get injected into the skin

actually this happened to our former neighbor. Her mum beat her with a broom then,they neglected the hand ,she too didnt care ,it started bringing pus and smelling. It took a year for that hand to finally heal.

I will never encourage anyone to use broom,never.The highest my mum did was slippers but for me i think koboko is more durable and comes in handy, canes and turning stick can break.

pocohantas:
I been wan ask why Yvonne and her crew dey always react. Then I realised it shouldn't be about them, but the post.

It was a very clever way to distract people from the post.lol.

pocohantas:
Okay, I just saw my Safarigirl make plenty sense. Let me take this back

lol, abeg add your 2cents as the saying goes "meat too much for soup nor dey spoil am".

Ego that is the main thing. Two heads they say is better than one but most guys see it as an avenue to show "who is the macho man" and show gender superiority. They think cooperating with your significant order and building together is a show of weakness and leaves no room for them to be "incharge".

PassingShot:
I live in a cashless economy. So, nothing you can tell me about it.

How many people (common masses I mean) carry N500k about?

Reason deeply.

So you think people don't make sales of up to 500k a day?

By the way, how long does transactions as low as 3k transfer take in that cashless society of yours?

Even first world countries still have their concerns about completely abolishing cash and going fully on elcetronic money not to talk of Nigeria.

PassingShot:
Please educate me on why the policy is bad?

go and watch "how cash is becoming a thing of the past" on Youtube ,you will see that Nigeria is not ready for cahsless policy. That one is another story

Now the last time someone sent me money, i sent mails upon mails, until i had to call customer care which cost me #300 in airtime before i was able to get hold of an agent ,this was after three days. And they still didnt credit my account till the next day. Ordinary 3k i transferred to a lady i bought a dress from it took four hours before her account was credits, i had to be calling her to check if she has received alert,cos i nor fit for wahala.These are the issues the cbn should be concerned about before pushing for policies like this

frankmoney:
How many times will this be on nairaland

thought i was the only one that noticed, honestly this forum is just regurgitating junk and it keeps getting worse every day. This is probably the third time this nonsense will be gracing for.

90% of topics on for is either bad news or stupid news like this, or bbn or one yeyebrity that took a picture. Smh

pocohantas:
The shitty thread should be taken down anyway. Goes against the rules. It was sexist.

lol, worse have hit fp before. I think its a norm here on nairaland which is why it even made fp.

pocohantas why did they take the thread down?

This country will be good only "if" and "when" the 2% ruling class decide they want to make this country better. The elites one way or the other have a hand in insurgency and hardship in this country.

Until then ,the rest 98% will just have to tighten their belts and continue to be screwed. Have a nice day y'all.

maasoap:
Imagine that! When wives become suspicious of their husbands around their daughters. There was even one in Ibadan that defiled about five of his daughters up to a toddler while wife was still with living him.

its such a pity.

Rubbiish:
Lol

its not funny bro,its actually a sad situation and something we need to have a sober reflection on. To what stage do we have to get to to be scared of leaving kids with our significant other? Honestly,its very sad.

Cant even trust your children with their fathers,smh

PetroDollaxxxx:
Shut it and stop talking like a fool! You are talking pure crap and beginning to get pissed!

well you should look in the mirror and you should hear your self too.For what its worth,you already sound like a fool, you might as well look like one,lol

PetroDollaxxxx:
Sharaaaaaap! Ghana did it in 1969, nigeria did it in 1983 and 1985. Go and read your history books and stop talking trash! So Ghana did it so nigeria is justified in doing it? I don’t know what is insides you brains. Chai!

so what have i said that you have not regurgitated like a goat? Lol.

PetroDollaxxxx:
Arrant crap! You forgot nigeria deported Ghanaians twice, in 1983 and 1985. True or false? You Nigerians don’t deserve any pity. Nigerians are the most xenophobic people in the world! Who gives fvck about pan Africanism?

and ghana did it first in 1969 go and take some history lessons i dont have time for childish rants from juveniles who know nothing about history.

This is what happens where you have majority as Muslims. All hail the most tolerant religion aka religion of peace.

They will be the first time clamour for minority rights in strange lands but will not think twice to trample on the rights of minorities in places where they have majority. Lol.

PrimadonnaO:
I don't believe all men cheat. That's my stance. And yes, it is the grace of God coupled with discipline that would allow a man to be faithful.

I refuse to believe otherwise.

To each his own,but i dont share that line of thought and i believe any man can cheat,its a matter of choice and discipline on the side of the man and not how much you fast and pray as a wife.

But like i said, to each his own.

PrimadonnaO:
God bless you for anticipating my response. The only name that carries power is Jesus! Not pastor or pope.
I'm as logical as can be, but I know the times when faith and divine intervention alone can bring forth breakthrough.

If logical reasoning alone does it for you, all well and good, dear.

we are not talking about break through but marital faithfulness, and no prayer and fasting can prevent a man from cheating and that is that,even the bible recognises free will.