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angel72:
i have a long distance relationship and i know it isn't that easy. Especially if you live in 2 different countries. The most important thing is that you trust eachother and have daily contact in some kind of way. By phone,sms,email or chat. And if there is a day that you can't get in touch with eachother, don't think the worst, because there is always an explanation. If you start thinking the worst you will not have a life. Try to see eachother by webcam if that is possible. Because if you can't see eachother for a long time it's taking a lot from your relationship too.

And if you really want to be with eachother forever, then make plans together to make that happen, so you have something to look forward too. Both!

good luck!


PS: i disagree totally that you should have a second choice nearby. Because when you do that, it only shows lack of character. That your not willing to do everything to make it work!

wait-o. but let's ask ourselves a small home truth. how many long distance relationships have both partners been FAITHFUL each other COMPLETELY?

well, matching panties & bra don't really bother me sha-o. my main concernn is that they are neat, sexy and the colours complimentary. imagine when a girl with dirty inners near u and wants u to hug her! just also imagine a girl wearing a red bra on green panties! she wan serve ogun?!

we have a local saying that goes thus 'dem no dey use guy man dey swallow poison even if dem serve am for take-away plate'. if u don't feel right about something, then, to me-o, it's not right.

no wonder its called a forum. u are free to spit whatever comes to ur head all in the name of creating a thread.

*whistles in surprise* so this thread is still alive? even the person who started it has even forgotten. na wa-o. man & woman issue is a strong thing o.

wonderful thread! keep it up. please o, this should be a clarion call to all those hopeless runs girls and their protegees plus mumu married men who can't control their 'equipment' when it gears up in preparation to running amok!

notime:
@dvampire, believe me when i tell u, ALL GIRLS ARE JEALOUS, ALLLLLLL. The questions u asked now, i tell u, no girl will be comfortable with dat. NO GIRL.

u see? not until some ladies learn to appreciate the fact that what is good for fried turkey is also good for fried chicken, relationships are bound to still be having problems.

depends on the institution employing u.

1. always make sure ur phone/phones are constantly charged/recharged with credit because u will have to be making a lot of calls both day & night.
2. develop a thick skin if she does not pick ur calls after dialling 10 times as this does not mean she is moaning under the thrusts of some guy.
3. trust her always in ur mind's eye and learn to believe everything she tells u even if 99.9% of them turn out to be lies
4. send her text messages a lot as reminders so that she does not forget u quickly.
6. practice the art of phone intimacy. u'll sure need it in those long romantically cold night when ur hormones can't just take ii anymore.
5. finally, find another babe, one who lives close to u or in the same city where u live as insurance, just in case u begin to hear rumours of her infidelity or both of u just found out that keeping a long distance relationship is a tough job, or when she gets married without telling u.

u know, issues like this one makes me wonder. i just read the posts by the ladies & a good number of them are saying 'get over it', 'deal with it', 'control ur jealous tendencies' etc. now, let me ask, how would a lady feel, if she walks into her guy's home one beautiful morning and finds another woman there and she gets the explanation that 'the girl is my best friend' from the guy. how do u think she would feel? or better still, how many girls are comfortable when their main, i mean their main- the- main guy gets up close & personal with another girl?

my fellow brothers of nairaland, leave all these ladies alone. no mind them. someone said that men are just figure heads to women, imagine?! have u guys ever witness wedding preparations? who dey carry the big day for head pass? if men don't complete them, why do some of them go to the extent of consulting juju priests to mix concotion for them so that richard, james or whomever they are dating to propose? how many times una don hear say guy go visit native doctor so that im babe go gree?
babes oya to una!

yes o. too much sex really puts me out. i once dated a girl who loved sex just the way i loved egusi soup. it was another story entirely.

pls don't ask o. watch her from a distance. remain friends. don't pry too deep into wanting to ask her out again so u will be able to investigate her & find out her motives. when a cat strays away from home for a long time and suddenly shows up, u keep a keen eye on it because u never can tell if it had transformed into a wild cat during those days it went missing.

@KOKOYE
u just proved my thoughts about u right. u are indeed an ass-man.

but seriously, i have a feeling it's small

my brother, love is not like rice u measure with galawa. if madam has those striking qualities that please u more than they sadden u, marry her. life is like a winding road u never can tell, tomorrow it might be the other way round

y me:
@Dvampire
says who

do u have a flat & small bum?

having a good looking bum is big business for women. in fact they cry secretly if their bum does not attract.

how do u deal with a leaking tap? do u wait till it leaks and floods the entire house with water of u fix it the moment u detect it? dearie, the guy is cheating on u and cheating on the girl as well. he is 2-timing, plain & simple. sometimes, its best when u love with ur brain & not with ur heart. in this case use ur head. its obvious he loves his other girl and has told u so. i suggest u move on and leave him to sort himself out. u might just save urself a nasty heart trouble

i have noticed that the guys have stopped contributing to this thread as the ladies have hi-jacked it. some are even contributing gba! gbo! gbii! without even weighing the facts behind their contributions. women, una don win o! una complete! in fact, over complete dey worry una.

well, a similar thing happened to me this morning at the office. there was this lady in standing in front of me with the mother-of all-arses plastered right on her backside. i mean, these twin mountains were so huge that they literally rocked whenever she walked. even the lady's there could not help staring.

touchmeder:
everyone is complete on their own. both male and female at least you decide to be complete on your own
in my opinion you dont have to be married to be complete
what is d defination of this completness sef?
is it wealth, happiness, fufillment, or a husband or wife (whether it is a cheating swine of a man or a lazy nagging woman)

me i see my self as complete in my single state, but part of being fufilled in this life is for me to be married to a good man and have wonderful children i can call family. that is my personal decision
i dont think some people want that, should i now say they are incomplete for that decision they made
what of the priest and revrend sisters who dedicate their lives to God? Are they incomplete?
what of the widows or widowers who decide not to remarry are they suddenly incomplete again.
some of us just keep quoting the bible again and again
was our lord and saviour jesus married? can u dare say he was incomplete by that reason alone?

like i said before, ALMOST all the ladies that have contributed here are suffering from 'menophobia'

ammamat:
@JJyou quote me right, I did not say all men, I said most men please,

u guys still arguing?

are u not the same guy who started a thread with his phone number 0803 something something?

yes, when she finally rus out of runs or can't keep up with the demands of the runs.

people with inferiority complex garnished with pride see it as a let down should they apologise; but a peace lover with the milk of human kindness apologises first irrespective of who the aggressor is/was.

shilling:
@ y me
Gud idea, I'll think abt it, I'll be honest, dont think I'll be able to. Put yourself in my shoes, he screwed up big tym , y do I ve to be the peacemaker?

until u stop looking at the effects of the misunderstanding and start looking at the effects peacemaking & forgiveness irrespective of who initiates the move, i'm afraid all our suggestions might come to naught

michelin89:
Ahahahahahhah! Fertilizer indeed!

u doubt it?