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HND Graphic Design, Federal Polytechnic, Auchi, Edo State.

when you call and call and call and call like your life depended on hearing him/her pick up so that you could settle the differences since he/she did not give you even the slightest chance to explain;yet he/she did not pick up the phone and the line went dead or finally switched off
when you text and text and text and text and he/she does not reply any of your texts for a long time.
when at last unexpectedly he/she picks up your call after one desperate try and he/she says to you 'why are you so immature? can't you read the handwriting on the wall? it's over between us!' that's the time to let go!!!

See, this is taking one's sexuality to the limits. Well, it's your call and I believe you know that sometimes the past comes haunting us like the bad taste that comes from eating 'soured' soup. @ Anuli: Just pray you covered your tracks well and please find a steady relationship fast before this become becomes one habit out of hand.

The qusetion in this thread is directed at the guys in the forum but ladies can still contribute cos i have come to discover that many ladies in the house make candid and useful contributions.

This is how the question goes: You are hurrying back to your apartment after a very busy day in the class. The sky is dull and heavy as it is preparing to rain any minute. Suddenly, a very attractive lady stops you and asks for your help. She tells you that she was travelling to a certain place but that the vehicle she boarded developed some mechanical problems and as a result, all the passengers had to disembark and find a place to shelter as it was obvious that the journey could not be continued not only as a result of the faulty vehicle but also because of the bad weather.
She pleads with you to spend the night at your place as she cannot afford to pay hotel bills. You agree to help as she promises that first thing in the morning, she'll be on her way.
You agree to share your 10-spring bed with her as sleeping on the floor would not be advisable because of the cold.
Deep into the night, the lady curls up to you and in that flimsy see-through nightee of hers, presents herself to you and coos into your ears that she is in the mood for love making.
Haba! my fellow members if you found yourself in this position,what would you do? Would you go ahead and 'butcher' the babe as she offered herself to you or would you play the gentleman and decline the offer? What would you do|?

Genuine answers are required please and no 'forming' in the house.

But in truth, girls find it hard to give out their number unless the guy asks for it. What is wrong with the girl making the 1st move and see what becomes of her 'investment'.

remind me of the times at the NYSC orientation camp.secure every or else,

this joke is dah bomb

Good question girls. @topic: who be dis ya wife? na man too like you?

;d ;d ;d ;d ;d you too much kuntakinte

Found myself in the same issue once. Met and fell in love with this girl. Darn! Was she something! We went on for a while until finally she told me she had someone else and that they had been on for like 6 years. man! that hurt! I tried to move on with my life but it was not easy. She and me had been through a lot together and it aws like having a part of you yanked off. But I had to let reason prevail. She's with the guy now but I try not to contact her. The memories come flooding back each time I do.

where are all the brothers in the house? please say something

My guy, like iice said do your thing. If she loves you in return though

Many would say physical beauty; but as for me i'm a sucker for an intelligent woman anyday. They give you that drive you need to stay on top[b][/b]

I once dated a girl cos she could talk. Her voice could send me to sleep. Pity the damn thing didn't last

Taurus in the house. Make way or get gored by the Bull. We gat the drive to excel

People and their wants. So now it's 'half-caste' he wants? Very soon, someone will need a cross breed.

Is she worth it?
Dear fellas, I really need your help on this one. Seven months ago, I fell in love with a lady and I did not hesitate to tell her how I felt. She told me in response that she would think about it. For three months, she was 'still thinking' about my proposal and any time I raised the issue, she would say that she was still 'thinking' about it.
Sometime in the middle of last month, she called me to tell me that she was not interested in an affair with me. Hear her:

GIRL: I have thought about what you said and I want to tell you that I am not interested.

ME: Really? So you have finally thought it over?

GIRL: Yes; and let me tell you that I am disappointed in you. Right from the first day you told me that you were in love with me, I have been disappointed in you.

ME: Ok. I heard you.

GIRL: Are you angry?

ME: No. Why should I?

GIRL: We can still be casual friends.

ME: No problems.

That was it. Personally, I felt I should not chase the case anylonger. I reasoned that one cannot force love on another person especially on a lady. I laid back and faced other issues.
You can imagine my surprise when I received an sms from her yesterday. Here's a rundown of the message.

'Now I know that all your calls before is because you want something. I must say that I am disappointed in you. Thanks for your co-operation.'

Later, I responded with this sms:

'Thanks for the text. Twice you have said you are disappointed in me. No problems. It's just that I am begining to see something in you that I never thought was there before.'

This morning, she sent another one:

'It's good that you are just knowing about me; but as for me, I have known long ago that you are a hypocrite'

Now my dear members, please tell me if I commited a crime by letting her go? She said she was not interested in starting a relationship with me and I let the matter ride. Why then is she 'haunting' me. Please tell me what do I do? Is she worth the trouble?

There's no prescibed antedote for regaining lost love. Love comes just like that. I suggest you just be yourself and wait for the right time. Don't try going around with the aim of impressing any girl you see in sight cos you are trying to regain your 'appetite' for love. Be your best self and before you know it, some beautiful girl somewhere will come 'tripping ' for you

@pkrix
Your tips are not only outdated but a quick and sure way for a guy to get embarrassed in public. Do more research before you start giving out tips. Who do you think the guys on this forum are anyway? Dumb?

@dudu1
Bro, you are not alone in this stuck-in-the-middle thing. Just don't lose faith.Ok