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my idea of being romantic? darn! I wish i knew. been out of a real relationship for too long.

that was so cool

hmmm, she should just pray that i don't catch her red-haned. she should just keep doing it in secret

ma kitchen and cook her up sumthing she'll never forget in a hurry. i must confess i'm not much of an outdoor type

chelsea for life.

We don start again-o! Up The Blues! Up Chelsea. Barca, get ready for a showdown this season. You mess with the blues you got another one coming.

all chelsea haters should please keep their mouths shut if they have nothing else to say.Up with the blues
@ waddup

hey, i appreciate your being happy for me and all your messages of goodwill but to tell you all the truth, i am scared. the whole thing is just happening so damn faster than my vampire instincts can comprehend

Damn! Here i go again! Finally, I'm in love again and this time it's with this lady I met on nairaland. She's got fire, she's got passion, she's got that coca-cola bottle shape. I just hope she's not another heart breaker on the prowl cos if she does, I'll not hesitate to sink my fangs into her jugular. Her name? That's gonna be on a seperate thread

what a question! there's nothing we will not read on nairaland. anyway, i'll wait for others to talk. oya, over to the house

*sits on a chair with a sachet of pure water* [sup][/sup]

@ casper: sure you wanna do this?

boy, do i like this thread?!

the way this vanicea (or whatever her name is) is going being rash and rude and stuff i doubt if she'll ever find what she's looking for. already, she has started showing the stuff she's made of with all those harsh word. get low girl.

@crabsweet
do not be too harsh in your approach towards the matter. go to it with seriousness but with caution so that she will not pick on you thru your words. do not think you can get the truth out from her using sex as a tool of manipulation. it might backfire. that was the other thing i wanted to say. if she still remains the same after your discussion give her some space for a while. call or send sms at intervals but avoid going to her place for a while. sometimes, girls need to sort out their emotions especially if they have mood swings in this case, they kinda become touchy.

well, i must admit that i did not understand the way you wrote your story. i had to read it over & over again to be able to say this. anyway, i think you are the one who needs to sort things out with your emotions. evaluate your relationship with your 1st girl and the one you are with now. who gave you the better treat? who did you feel comfortable with more? do not be carried away by the love making (that aspect has a way of blinding one's reasoning when you least expect it to). try to tell your self some home truths about the both of them. and finaaly, which of the two girls tries to bring out the best in you? i mean, encourage you to do some thing worthwhile with your time? by the time you are through with these questions, you will be able to tell which girl is good for you.

there's nothing wrong as long as the love, understanding & respect for each other's feelings are there. you aint got no problems bro

you have to be careful with her though. i know how it feels seeing your girl still feeling for the other guy; but i think you have to tell her to make up her mind on whom she really loves. why? i have seen out of experience that na e go soon land na im butterfly take dey enter bush

the 2 of you are committing adultery plain and simple. if he is married like you said and he is a man of God, the two of you should stop it and repent while the time is right. imagine if it's your husband is the pastor and he is seeing another woman behind your back. c'mon, you gotta have a conscience. do not do unto others what you would not want them do unto you. don't break up someone's home. if you feel lonely, get someone of your own and be happy. at least you said someone at the office likes you. give him a try and see what goes from there. if you truely are a christian, wake up from your slumber and do the right thing.

@kioboy, you have a point there sha; but the love making part still cofuses me

i would say that people differ in their attitude approach to things and how they eventually handle those things when the time comes. in answer to your question, shying away from relationship is not only peculiar to nigerian men. it cuts across the entire globe. so that a guy decides to shy away from the responsibilities that his relationship thrusts his way, that is a matter of his own personal choice and not a national issue

@ busta:you think the fear not being able to perform in marriage is enough reason for most ladies to think that unless they sleep with the guy that he will not be able to perform? Is 'no sex' enough reason for a lady to sever a relationship?

help! i can't stop laughing

i love this one

this is really funny. way to go girl

My past relationships failed largely as a result of the fact that I was not willing to have sex. Yes, I know what you are thinking. But are relationships all about sex? Personally I have said 'no sex' till I'm married ; but it seems most of the ladies I've met are having a different idea. Can't one get a lady who will love him for whom he is and what he stands for and be ready to wait for that D- day when she can have him? Please I need answers.

are your friends 100% faithful or can't they find more suitable men out there in 'da states' to hook up with? just take a 2nd look at your conditions? she needs a baby from me, i pay the bills, i show her family, men! your friends should look elsewhere or better still attend church more often for divine intervention out of their circumstance.

how does someone send you his/her resume online? also, the website is designed in chinese language. how can one read and access the site and get the needed information

@ topic: then reality sets in. Sometimes I wonder if falling in love is worth the effort afterall judging by the way people break up these days.

I think the lady has something up her sleeve. Let's not mince words about it. There is a very big possibility that she has started something with someone else behind your back and she is looking for you to make the wrong move (like getting angry and saying or doing something that would hurt her) and she'll use it as springboard to call the relationship off. For now I suggest that you give her some time to cool off then go to her for a real talk. Watch out for her composure. It will really tell a lot if there's something she's hiding or finding difficult to express to you. Oh, one more thing, well, never mind just try this tip 1st

@precious68: when you say free thinking, what do you mean?