₦airaland Forum

Ekugbeh:
Rejecting the gift was your choice and there's nothing anyone can do about. They can go and complain. You bought them gifts and they gave you food which you ate.

When you're in Rome, you behave like Romans. It's wrong in the African settings where he's residing and wants to get married.

koning:
You gave them "Shortcake and juice". You did not see where they sell Hollandis or lace in Lagos. You gave your future mother-in-law Biscuits. You're an Ijiot. You must be a Yorooba guy.

You should have accepted the bread anyway.

So according to your tribalistic demented mind, Yoruba people don't value their in-laws and elderly ones, the same set of people that prostate for elderly ones as a sign of respect is who you're trying to ridicule because of your lack of sense. Dey play.

BeigJawnson:
No need of any broader opinion... Needing a broader opinion still shows that you are still trying to justify yourself that what you did is right..

The idiot that said he came here for broader opinion in that his comment has later said that those criticizing him are foaming in the mouth.
Poor man with zero sense, wey still get big pride to cap it all. Yeye dey smell. 😂😂

pius49:
You did the right thing because actually you supposed to buy bread and them gifting you bread doesn't go well. Are they expecting you to go back to Lagos with bread? Don't they've something like garri

Which right thing did he do, somebody that gave biscuit to his elderly in-laws did the right thing in your book?
You and the OP are birds of a feather.

Confirmedzombie:
Exactly. They don't do proper work but at the end they blame Tinubu and the judiciary.

Watch how the headless mobs and Ipob will invade this thread with their hate and bitterness.

The reasons are clear. It happened to APC in Zamfara and Bayelsa, APC accepted the verdict and moved on but the headless mobs whose candidate the Pandora lying machine from Agulu, the social media president lost will still showcase their dumbness and bitterness.

Obedients and IPOB crying more than the bereaved

Your zombie status is truly confirmed. 👌

AbuTwins:
APC and PDP just dey share am!

Nothing for LP, the saints party!

Is there any ongoing LP case in any part of the NW or NE?

How Obi won in those state will be computed by the next generation of AI!

And you think voting by party alone is the way to rescue and lift up the country out of the abyss where it's wallowing right now?
What am I even saying sef, people like you don't care about the good of the country as far as it's your favourite party that is power. Let the economy sink to any level, let insecurity and several other problems continue to deal with the country, as far as it's your favourite political party that's in power then you don't care. May God help you laidis.

mabea:
That one na gift. Lol

😂😂😂

ValarDoharis:
What did your family member that accompanied you say?

He said that the family member actually told him to collect it, yet he was adamant in his ways. He decided to come here looking for validation or justification for his deed. He's still arguing at length on what he did, you don't reject your in-laws'gift irrespective of whether you needed it or not. He should have collected it and then either give it to a beggar or trash it on his way home. The funniest thing is that the same guy that was talking about the symbolism of gifts actually gave biscuit and juice to his in-laws. Maybe dude was expecting to be given Ferrari in return, yeye dey smell. 😌

emmyt2:
Since you stand to be corrected. I will correct you.
He travelled all the way from Lagos to PH to visit his potential inlaws. From the narration. I think he travelled by road which is a long journey. So, the bread would serve a purpose.

Another point is. Probably, both of them are from different tribes. So giving him the bread serves as him being welcome into the family. That is a sign of being loved by the gf family members.

No. I disagree with you because every tribe in Nigeria has its own local delicacy that are peculiar to that region ,they should have gotten something of such in readiness for the would be inlaw and not Bread that is very common in the town no matter how expensive the bread is .Even if it is something of #100 once it is local it is most appreciated by me.
Bread is a NO NO AS far as I am concern .

You still don't understand things at all, a lot of people give bread as gift to others not because the beneficiaries aren't financially buoyant enough to buy bread themselves but because it's a gift. You're to show appreciation for every gifts given to you by others irrespective of how small it is, you don't dictate in a scenario like this.
The guy that you're defending even gave biscuit and juice to his prospective in-laws as per say they're small children, yet they collected his gifts without any complaint. That's how things are supposed to be, if he doesn't want the gift then he should have collected it and given it out to a beggar on his way home.

SenecaTheYonger:
Gift are not symbolic at all. You're just throwing words you don't even understand around.

Since he wants to tell us about how symbolic gifts are, maybe he should tell us how logical it is to give ordinary biscuit and juice as gifts to his prospective in-law. Shebi na pikin him in-law be na. 😂😂

tosyne2much:
All this woke generation sef.... Your in-law offered you a gift you deemed the gift inconsequential and you even had to show your displeasure in your countenance... Imagine! For the place wey you wan pick wife.. You never ready to marry bro!

There are still some things you're yet to understand about marriage, culture and relating with in-laws

Soon you will know it!

This is the same person that saw nothing wrong in bringing common biscuit as gift for his in-law fah.
Wisdom is truly profitable to direct. 😂😂

mabea:
He ate the food oga

So the bread that he rejected is not a food bah?

emmyt2:
Question ❓
1. Did they know that you were coming?
If yes, Bread is a wrong gift to give to a prospective inlaw while leaving the house.
2. Did you tell your girl that you were going to see her parents?
The food they served you should have been enough gift from them .
Why bread ?
Is a NO NO FOR ME.
I STAND TO BE CORRECTED.

So are you saying that you are the one that will determine what you'll be gifted, especially in your in-law's house?
To start with, can you take biscuit and juice to your in-laws' house as a gift on your first day in their house? Yet they collected it from him without hesitation and complaint.
Say his in-laws na children wey deserve biscuit and juice bah?

Afamed:
Ajaero, this is where he should be more active

Since Enugu no be APC state, they can do and undo

So it's wrong to protest injustice in a state controlled by APC??

Somilat:
I'm not a pedo. You're slandering me. I'm making a record of this.

Why are you making a case for people that are having carnal knowledge of underage girls then?
It's either you're engaging in it already or you're yet to engage in it but will gladly do that if given the opportunity. 🙄

Obakoolex:
You don't have to kill a plant before you make food out of it

Yet you've killed several plants for the sake of food. Eating fruits is synonymous to indirectly eating the offspring of some plants too, so the best way to stop hurting any living thing for the sake of food is to stop eating altogether. By the way, I still ate fresh vegetables last night sef. May God bless the plants wey provide the leaf. 😌😌

wunmi590:
Baba 😆,

Nah the aroma dey push me go there everytime oooo, investing 300-500 to buy suya Monday to Friday no be small thing my brother.

Atleast the aboki nah my customer, I still dey get close to 15pieces 😆 🤣 😂 😹

Ehnn, e cheap like that for your side o. Over here, I'd rather keep the money then buy 4 or 5k suya at once for enjoyment instead of buying that amount. Yours is called mini-enjoyment sha. 🙄😂

x123xlolls:

Insha Allah... GAZA will rule one day one time.

100yrs back there was nothing like israel on the world MAP.

But today they are here killing Muslims in the name of land grabbing.

I tell you, those of you christians supporting this Devil animals israel, one dey they will come for your head.

Thats why a christian, Hitler, killed 3/4 of them.

Bookmark this!!!!




Increase your volume, it's true!!!



Exactly



InshaAllah. One day one time....




What ever it is, Palestine will win one day one time...

for sure....



Adolf Hitler 2 >>>> karma....



Sir, with due respect, this war as you are trying to point out is not about religion, its about humanity, any human with a working brain will never SUPPORT israel.

But christians are busy hailing them for nothing.

I don't know why!!!

Why are you contradicting yourself, you said that it's Muslims they are targeting and killing, while you also started later that it's not a religious war. Which one of your fallacies should we face laidis?

JASONjnr:
Omo, I pray I receive this type of transfer.


I will disguised totally.


I will bribe my way to NIMc and create a new account with new name. Open a new BVN and change account details by force. Change phone number and use POS to withdraw the money and pay it into my new untraceable account.


Then travel out to Ghana or another African country with my new name and then from there to Europe. The spending go too make sense.


Like this, God go don do am for me.

You will still wake up later in the day and refer to Tinubu and the rest of leaders as thieves, while you're without a single conscience or accountability. We're truly a reflection of our leaders, dey play.

wunmi590:


I can use all my salary to eat kilishi...

Even the suya man at lekki phase1 gate always collect 300-500 from me every night when I'm going home from work, I always purposely wait for him to come before I close from work..

₦500 suya ke, that one no go be more than your thumb na. How ₦500 suya go satisfy person, a grown up adult at that. 🙄🙄

kestolove95:
My only problem with her is that, she's ugly

Who told you that she's a model who enrolls in beauty contests or pageants?

WannaHowzit:
Iran should do the needful and blow up the knesset💣💥 and wipe Israel off the face of the planet. I can't wait for that day.

You go wait tire. 😂😂

cathodekazim:
It's so sad that majority that called themselves Christians are nothing but hypocrite, religious bigots and people filled with ignoramus mind. It's so sad how we Christians celebrate and rejoice at the death of many in Palestine. Some even quoted bible to back up their acerbic celebration. The bible is holy and will never condemn the killing of another, let alone the killing of innocent children and women. We all condemned Russia invasion of Ukraine, we back US for helping Ukraine defend themselves but we same lot are the ones rejoicing over the killing of innocent Palestine. Sad sad sad. Yes we condemned the heinous acts carried out by the Hamas militants but the question is does everyone living in Palestine members of the Hamas group. This humanitarian crisis has to stop. This genocide has to stop. For those quoting me, I'm a senior Apostle of the Christ Apostolic church

Lol brother Kazim, the senior and most apostle of the... 😂😂

lordphenom:
The same 200k covers my 3 bedroom apartment with security, electricity and environmental bills in Akure for a whole year

You can make the same 200k in a day in the U.k, depending on the sector you're working.
Those making 200k in a day in Nigeria are at the top of the economic food chain here or some self employed individuals with booming businesses.

Chinjo2:
If you find out very well, you will discover that he even voted for APC in the last election.

The regime no favour him and his family again?

And you think that it is only those that voted for Tinubu alone that are feeling the harsh reality of Nigeria's current economic downturn?? How dumb can you be.

Zxcvbnmghtr:


Another frustrated Nigerian who doesn't know that going to school is about training your mind for life challenges. .

They likes of them are proud to be washing toilets in Europe.

It goes far beyond that though, if not everybody should have gone to study philosophy and other related disciplines since schooling is only about mind training. Dey play.

IjebuWarrior:
He's NOT a Nigerian, abeg. He's a British.

How they love to demonize us whenever it's for the wrong reasons.

If he's indeed Nigerian, he'd have been deported straight-up!

Not before serving his jail term sir.

Obakoolex:
Imagine the numbers of chicken reportedly murdered on a daily basis

Humans are so wicked!
No other creature murder another in that number daily

Become a vegetarian

Hope you know that plants are also living things/creatures too. Hence, why not desist from eating altogether?

Raskimonojendor:
Unhealthy preservatives infused deep fried greasy chicken.

Even apart from the added preservatives, deep fried foods contain acrylamide, toxic alkanals and so on, which are harmful to our health.

BOSSkesh:
Losers and vultures
Anybody that tries any nonsense strike any body that wants to deliberately beggar this country just know that your time is up
Tinubu does not have time for nonsense ohh he will crush you

But it was right for Tinubu and the other thieves to shut down the country alongside labour leaders in 2012 via the #OccupyNigeria protests, but wrong for anyone to even complain about the current rate at which the country is sinking right??
E be like say brain dey pain you people.

iwaeda:
I don't think Onanuga have children that can advise him. Same people that pulled GEJ Government down.

For far less o.

Raskimonojendor:
Why chose to strike during the election campaign in Imo...you went to Imo to cause undue election interference, and political thugs now gave him wotowoto.

Hope Uzondima still won the election and out of anger, NLC called a strike. If Achonu had won, they would not have gone on strike and Imo civil servant would have still be owed salaries.

The funny thing is Ajaero collect beating because of LP even though their Principal, Peter Obi, is anti-union.

Wait, are you saying that it was right during Peter Obi's time as governor but wrong right now because it's your favourite that is in power?
You are truly delusional.