Hmm!!!!! So finally them don burn my grandpapa house....una well done ooo
Ookamuuukaa Nig limited!!!!

I see my people....make I nor call names here!!!!!

She's fine joor!!!!! What's the difference between this lady and people like Kelly Rowland and Gabrielle Union? The hairstyle is awkward,that's all.

Lol....NL dey shack the guy like pikin wey get new toy

Please what's the local name for MACA ROOT ?. Can I get it from local agbo sellers? Saw it on konga,the price almost faint me

The problem I have with avocado is how to select the one that will not be bad inside,sometimes I end up wasting my money

*thumbsup*

Meanwhile the banga rice I eat this afternoon still dey my brain.... jollof rice dey learn

And this was how I step into lagos back then. (Begger, the front gate of Eko)

Na wa for una for this NL sef o, instead of people to constructively analyse the symbolic meaning of the statue,una just the quarrel upadan.....Na wa for una! Na real wa!!!!!!

roik:

Being an Introvert Can Help in your Job - Experiences


I realized I was an introvert around the same time I started my first job. The relief of finally acknowledging my introversion was offset by my concern that it would hold me back in my job and prevent me from reaching the level of success I desired. When looking for a job, I noticed the emphasis firms placed on soft skills such as communication, networking, and teamwork—qualities I associated more strongly with extroverts. However, over the next year, as my confidence and familiarity with work grew, I realized that being an introvert was not a disadvantage at all but, rather, something I could use as a strength.

When it comes to working with others, networking, and communicating, introverts can often take a less conventional approach but one which leads to meaningful business relationships and creative solutions to problems.

Here’s what my first year of work taught me about how introverts can “take back” qualities more usually linked to extroverts:

Introverts can remain calm. Busy work environments create stressed employees, which reduces productivity and causes tempers to fray. Although introverts can be accused of lacking vigor, their subdued demeanor is actually beneficial when it comes to problem-solving and overcoming challenges in a demanding setting.
Introverts provide balance and diversity. Companies are waking up to the benefits of a diverse workforce, and this diversity should extend to the extroversion-introversion spectrum. The thoughtful and calm approach provided by introverts can act as a positive check on the more zealous members within a team and ensure that a range of ideas is considered before a course of action is determined.
Introverts value meaningful relationships. The financial crisis has created backlash against the hard sell. In its place, people are looking for smarter and more considered business partners. This works for introverts who prefer investing time in quality and long-lasting relationships.
Introverts are good listeners. Good communication is as much about listening as it is speaking, and many introverts are excellent listeners. This is an advantage when networking because it means introverts take time to understand what others are saying and, as a consequence, can identify areas where they may be able to work with others.
Introverts have good ideas and make valuable contributions. Introverts generally don’t say something unless they believe it will be a valuable addition to the conversation. What’s more, introverts have a penchant for creating and developing new ideas, which means they can offer a unique and alternative perspective on an issue.
Focusing on these qualities helped me transform daunting situations into opportunities where I could display the great attributes that come with being an introvert. I no longer look to be the loudest in meetings but aim to offer smart and authoritative opinions. Similarly, I now view networking as a chance to initiate a long-lasting and prosperous relationship rather than a time to “work” the room. All of this has helped improve my confidence in the workplace and allowed me to make a greater individual impact and a larger contribution to my team.

While they may not shout the loudest or be the most noticeable, many introverts have a sharp brain and a quiet determination to succeed—which is why we will continue to see the Zuckerbergs, Gateses, and Buffets at the top of their respective fields.

It may have taken me a year to realize it, but I will succeed in my work because I am an introvert and not in spite of it.

You garrit!!! *thumbsup*

pkang:


You know, i have been trying to define these two words and finding where i fit in.
I for a person cannot hold a conversation no matter what. I can't even with my parents, brothers or sisters. I find it difficult to find what to say.
Also, i have had some few female friends but they all left because i don't keep conv. with them.
Well looking at women's eyes are a big problem i avoid them because as soon as i do, i have negative thoughts.
Now i cant tell if this is shyness or introversion. I can hardly stop someone one the road be it a guy or a girl.
And what the Bleep, one of my friend always tell me that my talks don't have meanings although my Father told me that i can say what ever i want to say that is on my mind. But socially, i don't fit in a group nor do i like going out.
It kills slowly sha.

Introverts feel energised when they are alone,they yearn for alone time....while shy people often desperately want to connect with others, but don't know how or can't tolerate the anxiety that comes with human interaction.
Shyness is when someone feels awkward or apprehensive when being approached or trying to approach other people,like you've explained in your post. So I'll say your problem is shyness.
My advice: Tell yourself you can change..it is not a disease but a "trait" and can be changed,set it as a goal that everything you mentioned there,you are going to do the opposite. Confide in someone close to you that can assist you, someone that can roll with you ( crash parties,attend events,seminars,conferences,trade fairs ,exhibitions etc),read books,go on google and type "dealing with shyness" there are 1001 suggestions there ,take practical steps, with time you'll see positive results.
Caution : Too much of everything is bad e.g over confidence is bad..everything should be balanced.

ephi123:
Being an introvert doesn't mean you can't have strong social skills, the only difference is you choose when and when not to use those skills.

You would naturally prefer not being in large gatherings but if you have to be there, you can carry on a conversation and hold your own. The same applies to interviews. You can be introverted and confident, let's not start using being introverted as an excuse for shyness or a lack of confidence.

Introvert-ism is not the same as shyness, I think people tend to mix the two up.

Thank you o!!! You nailed it.
Shyness and introversion are not the same thing,an introvert can adopt an extroverted demeanour when the occasion calls for it and then recharge in solitude.
Shyness on the other hand is fear of social disapproval or humiliation,while introversion
is a preference for environments that are not stimulating. An introvert stays home from a party out of preference but a shy person out of fear.

JustCalMeDBoss:
Well me am not an introvert but I do stutter when I talk especially when neverous. This has forced me to be introverted, Omo I don't just go for interviews and I have settled for a very low paying job. Most ppl see me as forming but am not. Coupled with the fact my aspirations are far higher than my colleagues. I always have nothing meaningful to contribute to their discussion.

Look for practical ways to develop yourself. My kid sis was very shy ,I had to step in ,got her materials to read e.g. "Questions young people ask,answers that works"Vol 1&2,you'll find questions such as_"How can I Boost my self confidence?","Is it wrong to want some privacy?"(ask any Jehovah's witness around you they can make it available).
And I always set her up(lol...she will say you are weekid)...,I take her to the middle of the sea,abandon her and watch her rescue herself,today she's very loud,sometimes I smh and beg her to keep quiet in public and the funniest thing is she's is an extrovert while I am an introvert but I am not shy

PaulSteve:
She should have ended it earlier but no,she kept pushing till wedding day before 'embarrassing everyone'. Well better late than never!

From her story she did not push,but her loved ones kept pushing her..pressuring her against her own desire...they must have trapped and choked her with their nagging leaving her with no choice,for someone still depending on her parents it must have been hell for her. Generally people will judge the aftermath but not the journey itself

abdulkayus:
OP, I am 168 to 169cm in height and weight 55kg, age 30 years old. Am I underweight? I have been trying to increase my weight for a while now but nothing. I do eat. Someone told me to go and get married, that I will increase in weight.
Pls, tell me how I can increase in weight and also if possible in height also.
Thanks

Check your BMI (body mass index),you can run the calculation online

silibaba:
Bro. So jehovah witness members they wear swaggish wear
I think say na similar dressing with depper life

We dress to fit occasion but it must reflect modesty.

doskie:
what happens to the babies

Maybe they are handed over to her family or orphanage home

flakeStar:

I know quite a number of folks who have had good results from both products but the fact the Bismid makers do not list their product ingredients is a major source of concern to me.

Some of them are listed e.g the 24karat soap I got is listed but the shirley is just plain

benuejosh:
some people can be so delusional in thinking. How do you think the man impregnated her while she was mentally unstable? what if the woman took in before the mental issue came in? Our prayer is that God should protect the baby and not all this "i must" comment to make front page mentality.

There is a mad woman in ughelli south that is always pregnant year in year out,if that woman nor enter menopause she will keep getting pregnant. Things dey happen o

Please!Pllease!!Please!!! (I'm pleading because I hardly get answers on this thread) ...I need reviews on the Bismid range. I just got the 5days Shirley and 24karat soap,got dark spots on my face

Sunday sunday tonic

O.Y.O is another title for first-borns,I must carry the load of everyone,but no one cares about me,no one asks if I am okay because whether I like it or not I must be strong.
When our parents died,I couldn't even wail and cry because they'll hopelessly look at me like "if she's doing this that means we are finished"...I was depressed,no one noticed, but God helped me scale through.
#Jahismystrength

Debbie Rise looks like Kenya Moore.....with makeup ,the diff is always clear sha

And you are sure she's not feigning ignorance and innocence? Some people are like that naturally,they can play dumb or act a fool but they know more than you can imagine

Bead represents virtuousness in my mums village. Virgins put on the multicoloured beads and graduate to coral bead after marriage.
So yes! I wear waist chain because of its symbolic significance,my hubby got no problem with it.....its just like the wedding band.

Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.

Donbabajay12:

I want to say a big Thank you to all this Strong Efenation warrior ,We really fought a tough battle to emerge victorious .I pray God in his infinite favour bless and guide each and everyone of us,may God almighty surprise us all with Efe kinda of grace.Our pocket would never dry ....
Ts Nice working with you guys ,U ar all awesome..

#Wefinishwork #CongratsIgweEfe #CongratsTeamEfe #Jahbless #Peace

Area don scatter.oooooo!!!!!!bb....Everybody out in the streets jubilating. See me hugging peeps I don't even greet on a very good day!!!!!! #EfeNation #Congrats #Wefinishwork

Area don scatter oooooo!!!!!!....Everybody out in the streets jubilating. See me hugging peeps I don't even greet on a very good day!!!!!! #EfeNation #Congrats #wefinishwork

Area don scatter Ooooo.!!!!!!!

"Is she really worth the wait" ? Who is "she"?

hakeem4:
what's the meaning of " based on logistics " ?

Factors involved ; activities
required to set up or establish a plan ; based on the many many(gbogboyen) things involved .....