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Religion / Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Reacts To Rape Allegation By Busola Dakolo by dyze(m): 7:59pm On Jun 28, 2019
timmyoj:
So for the first time, I would comment on a YouTube video and I think it is worth my time.
Seen the interview and read quite a number of comments and as expected all series of hatred and hell shots at the accused person.
And as expected once a Church or a Pastor is involved, there is never 2 sides to any story, the man must be judged and crucified with immediate effect... But be that as it may, I am not responding to defend the "man of God" who I only hear of on Social Media and know nothing more about him or his church.


My few concerns are more towards the Media Outfit that granted this interview and the website they are selling which I just checked out (http://notinmychurch.ng/)


So first of all, a celebrity's wife found no other means to express her pains (of a matter her family and her husband as she says has been aware of for years), but on an unpopular media outfit that one may easily suspect may be out for some publicity moves.


And I am in no way saying that she may be lying (which in fact she may - we never know - maybe for now), but suddenly after years there's now a need to speak out and like I said, I do not know the Pastor neither do I stand with him or anyone for that matter (life is deeper than we often think we know)... Indeed there is every possibility that the pastor indeed committed such a crime against humanity as much as there are many false preachers out there today... And just maybe his past or even God's judgement has finally come for him and surely it has come in a very hard way that I cannot tell how the drama will turn out.


Be that as it may, my most concern asides justice for the poor lady (if indeed she went through such a violation from someone who she thought she could look up to), I have a question or 2 for the media outfit propagating this idea and as the one-page website (I checked) reads in part (with a Bible verse to back it up):
"...For those who have been abused - mentally, physically and emotionally - from authority figures in the church, you are not alone.
Tell your story, speak out, get help. You deserve to be whole - our God would have it no other way..."


So I ask whoever runs this campaign: WHAT EXACTLY IS THE AIM OR VISION OF THIS MOVEMENT? Because if this movement was started by a so-called "Christian" (of which I doubt), I wonder on what basis it was started...
'Cos asides raising further attacks against "The Church" that is already under attack (notice I did not say "a pastor"wink, and fuelling hatred towards preachers in the hearts of many who are gullible and not spiritually grown enough to manage their emotions, a hatred that would definitely extend to both the guilty and the innocent alike... I do not see what healing that any such victim can attain that cannot be achieved in a less catastrophic manner... 'Cos in your so-called quest to do "God's work" by fishing out the "bad golden eggs" (which is not a bad idea per say), but looking at the bigger picture, you are actually tearing down God's work much more than helping it... Moreso I am not sure there is anywhere in the Bible that adviced that authority figures must be brought to the public place and flogged for their wrongs in the name of God's work (but of course I am not God either to know how He chooses to judge anyone)...


And just a general point of note (especially to those who are Christians): Again I state clearly, I am not defending nor standing with any man / woman, I know neither of them and I cannot make comments on a matter I do not have a full picture of... But believe it or not, judge the matter or not, God's love and forgiveness is deeper than man would ever understand, and sorry to say, but this same accused man may meet you in heaven (thats if you are sure of making it yourself)...


And I said that on a general note, not on this specific matter... nuff said!

Wow!! God bless you for this thoughtful write up
Romance / Re: You Belong To The World’s Rarest Personality-type If You Have These Abilities. by dyze(m): 10:51pm On Jun 27, 2019
What is infj?

Next time start with the meaning

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Romance / Re: Man Dances With Lady Who Snubbed Him 35 Years Ago In OAU by dyze(m): 10:48pm On Jun 27, 2019
Andersonjr:
Quick question was it worth the wait? undecided

E nor make sense

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Romance / Re: Rate My Tattoos by dyze(m): 9:56pm On Jun 24, 2019
Julietcutie:

Lol lwkmd grin easy abeg lol is that how much u hate tattoos ...

Hello, you at abuja?
Romance / Re: Its Cold And I'm Alone by dyze(m): 7:56pm On Jun 22, 2019
SweetBuns:
hmmm

Na another thing you wan hear? Oga do as he has advised

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Romance / Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by dyze(m): 6:27pm On Jun 05, 2019
Be determined to stop it and you will. Might seem hard but it is very achievable.
Celebrities / Re: Odunlade Adekola Vs Ibrahim Chatta: Twitter Fans React To Comparison by dyze(m): 12:06pm On Jun 04, 2019
Timmypromise:


Watch Orisun
For new Yoruba movies
Which channel on dstv please?
Romance / Re: Do You Think You Are The Most Beautiful Girl On Nairaland? by dyze(m): 7:15pm On Jun 02, 2019
Nice boobs
Celebrities / Re: Alibaba Shades Tonto, Writes About Ladies Who Make Fathers Look Like Monsters by dyze(m): 8:50am On May 12, 2019
AliasJoice:
Tonto: if the world will end in 10 minutes,what will you do
Churchill: I'll have sex with you
Tonto: what will now do with the remaining 9 minutes

Abeg check my signature...... I'm minding my business grin

9minutes 20 seconds

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Celebrities / Re: Alibaba Shades Tonto, Writes About Ladies Who Make Fathers Look Like Monsters by dyze(m): 8:45am On May 12, 2019
Wiseandtrue:

The hypocrisy in Tonto's case stinks

Why is no one condemning Churchills acts

Where were these I too knows when Tonto Dike was praising Churchill upandan

Did any of them ever praised her All of a sudden everyone seems to have found their voices undecided

Was Churchill honest with Tonto

When Churchill was oppressing, abusing and shaming her did he think about his son

Didn't he publicly say Tonto is a drug addict even when she was pregnant

Why is everyone suddenly thinking about their son

Oh so Tonto can endure but Churchill cannot take the clap back

You are not in her shoes, you don't know how it hurt so quit judging her!!!

Bloody hypocrites!!!

Na woman go tall this mumu thing o.

You see!!! I am right. Them no dey get sense angry

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Romance / Re: Twitter Slay Queen Who Cheated On Boyfriend With Twitter Slay King Trends Online by dyze(m): 11:07pm On May 11, 2019
Candiesramah:
That's my obligation to him for his birthday, but it will still not change anything. Don't assume I've never asked, but since he won't say the truth and won't get caught in the act, I refuse to be loyal.

Madam, go Bleep who u like abeg. U dey use assumption as reality.

Who does that?

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Family / Re: Drama In Morgue As 4 Women Claim Body Of Man Each Knew As Their Husband by dyze(m): 8:01pm On May 08, 2019
grin

Men. Na wa oo. Shebi the secret don leak now

"what must be known eventually, must be known immediately".

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Romance / Re: She Is Threatening That If My Mum Is Not Locked Up She Will Leave Our Marriage by dyze(m): 7:38pm On May 04, 2019
HyAccent:
Your wife is the one that ought to be in charge of the house especially when you are not around.
She said she does not want your mom around. You should have listened especially as you were not around.

Your mom has no right to cut the child's hair.

If your wife did indeed beat up your mother, then she went way, way too far.

This matter is beyond what you can handle.
Invite elderly ones that both your mother and wife respects to settle the issue.

Oil dey your head. Follow this advise

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Celebrities / Re: Actors Guild To Sanction Tonto Dikeh Over Marriage Saga by dyze(m): 1:25pm On May 04, 2019
festacman:
Doesn't Tonto have a true pastor to advise her?
Doesn't Tonto have a qualified lawyer to advise her?
Doesn't Tonto have a close family member to advise her?
Doesn't Tonto have conscience to prick her?
Is Tonto above every moral regulatory authority around her?

Why is she being allowed to destroy herself and eventually become a social outcast?


She go gree listen to advise?

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Sports / Re: Iker Casillas Suffers Heart Attack During Porto Training by dyze(m): 7:01pm On May 01, 2019
visijo:
Once upon a time the person reading this quote was a virgin ... the rest is history
grin na so we see am o

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Romance / Re: Lady Makes Jest Of Her Husband As She Video Him While Sun Drying Her Undies. by dyze(m): 9:07pm On Apr 21, 2019
vanida6:
My boyfriend onces wash my undies for me cheesy



I tell him if he did not do so I will end my relationship wit him.

Is that one boyfriend or a goat?
Celebrities / Re: Olamide Reacts To Police Brutality In Nigeria by dyze(m): 2:52pm On Apr 19, 2019
Burger01:
Police Arrested You And Collected Your Phone, A Text Message Came In Saying; "Abeg If You Dey Come... Buy Me One AK-47 And 4-Bullets Make We Take Do Night Things".

How Do You Explain To The Police That Your Friend Meant A Vodka(AK-47) And 4-Energy Drinks (Bullets).

To Make Matters Worse, Your Friend's Name Is ROBERT But You Saved It As ROB-1
What Will You Do To Convince A Nigerian Policeman

grin just follow them go station and judge urself straight
Romance / Re: Pre-Wedding Photos Of A Slim Man And His Plus-Sized Fiancée In Bayelsa by dyze(m): 8:43pm On Apr 05, 2019
Kalashnikov102:
This kind thin guys na lala snake dem dey carry walka

grin
Health / Re: "I Swapped Close To 5,000 Babies In 12 Years" - Zambian Nurse Confesses by dyze(m): 7:40pm On Apr 05, 2019
themonk:

It's very difficult to swap a baby because both births have to be about the same time. Since it is about 500 births a year, we are looking at about 1000 births whereby two people gave birth about the same time and the circumstances permits her to swap successfully. Since there are two genders and she must swap a boy for a boy and a girl for a girl we are looking at a much harder probability. She is either mad or the bloggers are insane with the figures.

Cc Nbote ken6488

Romance / Re: Lady Blasted For Rocking A Musician On Stage by dyze(m): 9:43pm On Apr 04, 2019
tendingNews:
Lalasticlala

Why you dey call am? angry

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Romance / Re: Plus Size Lady Accidentally Leaks Picture Of Her Boobs Online by dyze(m): 9:40pm On Apr 04, 2019
grin

Every thing scatter

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Health / Re: Help!! Weed Has Damaged The Brain Of My Brother. by dyze(m): 5:21pm On Apr 02, 2019
internationalman:
As for Me weed was the best thing that happened to me.

When I was having trouble sleeping it made me sleep like a baby

When I lost appetite it made me eat like a glutton

When I was feeling timid it made me brave..

All these things happened with zero side effects..

Lastly no matter the amount of hatred I had for you, weed would surely make see you as my friend.. This reason is why Blackface matter tire me

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Celebrities / Re: Oge Okoye: Why I Visited Pastor Alph Lukau by dyze(m): 9:43am On Mar 29, 2019
Dorlovito:
some people still believe in God to heal them

And He does heal them. All you need is believe.

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Crime / Re: Graduate Commits Suicide After Being Dumped By Girlfriend. Graphic Photos by dyze(m): 7:28am On Mar 23, 2019
OKOATA:
You are the foolish one. She's saying the truth, not ass licking or anything but guys of nowadays are now too weak.

Sharrap. Wasn't talking to you. Woman-wrapper
Crime / Re: Graduate Commits Suicide After Being Dumped By Girlfriend. Graphic Photos by dyze(m): 10:02pm On Mar 22, 2019
Babyforever:
Watch your mouth

Get a gateman to watch it for me. Ode

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Crime / Re: Graduate Commits Suicide After Being Dumped By Girlfriend. Graphic Photos by dyze(m): 9:20pm On Mar 22, 2019
Babyforever:
I thought men are been brought up to overcome any circumstances that comes their way why this giving birth to a male child in this modern time is a waste of time because the grown ones are all useless

Ode ni e

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Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by dyze(m): 3:48pm On Mar 20, 2019
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Family / Re: Tanitoluwa Adewumi Has ‘Conquered The World Of Chess' At 8. Chased By Boko Haram by dyze(m): 7:08pm On Mar 17, 2019
donestk:
He no run go lagos

grin I tire o
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Everton Vs Chelsea (2 - 0) On 17th March 2019 by dyze(m): 7:06pm On Mar 17, 2019
Denikayan:
Sari Out!

DJ Cuppy in!

Who be DJ cuppy? grin

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Family / Re: Lady Blasted For Teaching Nigerian Women How To Lock Cheating Husbands In Bottle by dyze(m): 7:00pm On Mar 14, 2019
Tupacc:


Pelu Eja kika, Ede gbigbe ati Dodo dindin elepo.


Two of una just make me dey laff inside traffic
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Arsenal Vs Manchester United (2 - 0) On 10th March 2019 by dyze(m): 7:24pm On Mar 10, 2019
Why are all man u players behaving like thugs on the field today?

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