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mpowa:You are very right though, maybe what the electorates and APC in particular should make noise about now is that it should be conducted by an independent organisation or media outfit, if you ask me, I can beat my chest to advocate that a media house like channels will do a very good job, I think I would suggest we start looking towards that direction if the time and logistics will still permit, instead of people and APC now looking forward to cancelling the whole idea, America the almighty father of democracy still does it, so I think it would be worth emulating.. |
Elections getting interesting by the day, I must confess I'm having n catching fun from the various news that's been trending about campaign for a while now, different bombs and RPGs being thrown from one political camp to the other..at least I can say that people are getting more inclined and exposed politically by the hour. However, big events to me like the upcoming debate shouldn't be handled with hands of levity by way of trying to shy away from the debate by giving us unreasonable reasons why a candidate can't participate, for crying out loud, this is an open debate that Nigerians are longing to watch live from the corners of our rooms, we want to hear from the horses' mouths. Regardless of whoever organised the debate or however it is being organised, GMB should come out and participate in the debate, I want to believe the judges would be fair and unbiased. Mai vote still goes to GMB though,bur we need you to add some swag to your strategies and addresses..we just can't afford another 4yrs of dulling.. |
I do not want to believe this news as to be true, Don Jazzy has never been a badmouth of and to anybody ever since we have come to accept him as an ever constant hit maker, this is just another news just to make the gullible ones to be deceived. Moreso I have never heard of a situation where these guys would first release lyrics of singles of their song first before the single itself so this also makes me believe its fallacy, its just a publicity stunt to create an unexisting controversy..the camps of both parties I believe are doing very well.. And To remind you, Dbanj has always been a trending name and brand regardless of him not really making any hit song-wise, he's loved and he's still called for shows steadily example is the just concluded BigBrotherAfrica grand finale show, you should also check the records of how he has gotten endorsements in recent times, the Africa agriculture project, he headlined as the ambassador, you should remember beats by dre deal lately and I still heard him for glo advert recently on a radio fm..so that guy being broke is far from it, for so many years he's been trending steadily even without hit tracks per se, kudos to what I call an uncommon grace on some pple, plus he's a sharp dude and that makes me believe he has various other businesses he does that we do not even know or have heard about.. In conclusion, Don jazzy has never released lyrics before a song itself so I don't want to believe he will start now and that he will now start with dissing his long time friend and ex-partner, and from his records he's not the type that has flair for fighting this and that, he's way more matured than so many, all of us know that a lot of our artists' lyrics are so watery with very little to write home about and their secret is in hiding those lyrics behind the banging beats..so I hope whoever wants to start this unnecessary controversy should just keep it up.. |
A house divided against itself.. |
They should investigate the case thoroughly with total certainty, then the accused or the guilty should be dealt with accordingly with no sentiments attached..this would serve as deterrent to others and everyone would learn a lesson, that is how to move a nation forward.. |
Well you still didn't give us the HOW..but in my own opinion, I think you are right with your analysis of mo cheddah, and same may likely happen during the time tiwa savage travels to USA for some months for birth delivery as usual amongst celebrities which I think is good for the unborn child, Yemi may hit the spot Tiwa leaves behind and takes charge of it before she gets back to Nigeria. BUT I also want you to know that same once happened with Omawumi that also left for America to give birth even for months and by the time she came back, she came back hotter with fire and still claimed back her spot even with a huge difference. Also was Naeto C that left for masters in Uk, returning back he gave us ten over ten and re-introduced himself as the only MC with an MSc which trend for a very long time then other hits followed suit.. I will conclude that I believe Tiwa and her team are doing a great job and they would have foreseen this coming up and prepared well ahead for it, so I don't see her loosing that spot, true they may both become big competitors together but they will still both be very much relevant, I would only just see it as an opportunity for Yemi to add more blaze to her fire and that would enlarge her fanbase maximally BUT not at the detriment of Tiwa's career..they will both live and let live.. |
Well, I believe this should not be a sudden news or something new to Nigerians..the USA don't feel threatened hearing Boko haram because America is not Nigeria's friend right from time, so in other words, they are either happy or indifferent about the situation, the only favour they grant you comes with their personal interest, and if that interest isn't there, forget it..I would say America is like Satan, you know when you approach satan for a favour, he would gladly give you a well polished and packaged one at that, and trust me he would come back seeking 10 from you and you dare not put him on hold.. Another reason I feel USA may not show interest is because they have not yet seen the zeal and serious commitment to fight BH from Nigeria, as far as they are concerned Nigeria is okay and can manage the killings which can be deduced from the body language mr president sends to the whole world, and who does that if its not GEJ. They say in yoruba omo to ba ma je ashamu..kekere lo ti maa maa jenu samu samu..ok for you guys that decipher that, it means a child that would be very SHARP and proactive in future, it is right from being an infant that he would have been chewing and eating food like he's being chased..you guys needed to watch the way France fought tirelessly with the terrorists the day they were killed, I watched the whole long hours events on CNN live, they soldiers, policemen, swat teams, press crews were on standby after tracing and cramping the terrorists to a point of no escape..all over the world, everyone was watching and they would not let it go till they got to the roots of it, you guys know the eventual conclusion of the whole event, so technically it will be unwise for any president not to associate himself with such high spirited fight and resilience by the brave law enforcers and country as a whole, even our GEJ too also attached himself to the event. Terrorism like that of BH is not what our president will fold hands at his back and just address as one of those issues and tell us every country in the world is facing same and also have our first lady come on air to shed what I call disgraceful tears..it must be fought ruthlessly and with utmost sincere and aggressive determination, and the whole country should be carried along on live updates and events..that way in no time we will get maximum results and discover better intelligence and also ways and how to improve..if this can be achieved, trust me the whole world would offer help in ways they can, its just about standing alone and letting them know we don't need them, trust me it will be a time for them to have a rethink..and gladly offer to help. |
It has been said times without number that you should do what works for you and what you confidently agree with, if some people have not complained of giving first fruits and tithes I don't know how it is some peoples' business to worry about it..I want to ask, is it the Pastors you have feelings for or the members that does the giving? If I give my tithe and I'm happy doing it I don't know why it will become someone's headache to start worrying about. And lemme remind you, Mal 3v10 says bring ye all tithes into my household so there will be meat in my house, I used to say it and I will keep saying it, before you do a thing, ask yourself if its what you want to do or you're being coerced into doing it, you cannot lie to yourself, if your answer is yes I believe in it, then go ahead, and if not you backout, because God will not even accept an offering that doesn't come from your heart, it will be share waste of time/money/offering, I recommend you read IICor9v7 pls. If you feel a Pastor is worth too much and doesn't deserve your tithe-giving to his church, its very simple, change your church, I'm sure nobody will arrest or harass you becos of that.. Again, I repeat, there's no need criticizing anyone for their actions, leave the Pastors to God, pay your tithe and first fruit if you believe in it; on the other hand, keep your money and spend it on yourself if you don't believe in it, life is al about choice, its as easy as saying APC..not a campaign tho bur my vote goes to GMB to remind you..before we change topic to politics, I wish you all a Happy Sunday.! |
AutosBay:Lol @ur comment..in other words..Obasanjo..everywhere you go.. I love the man die, his ways are funny, you never get him, you never know what's next he ll do, he's always relevant, u hardly fight him and win, u can only win for some time, and d funny thing is dis kin pple nor dey quik die, even as a lot of pple wish him to be gone..I guess we re sha stucked with the old man.. Ride on Baba Iyabo! |
GEJ should save that piece of trash for himself..if anyone thinks that's the way to curb corruption through IT..such person is either not just willing to face reality or likes being deceived..because the same whitemen that made pencil also made eraser.. Out of 100 for instance, you notice nearly all are corrupt, do your findings and investigations, and let's say you eventually got 5 caught..prosecute them and send them to where they belong..trust me, the rest 95 will not even think of following the same path again because they will know where they are likely going to end up..that's the most simplest and easiest way to curb corruption.. Its about sending a msg to everyone to awake their conscience and consciousness..not about one silly IT idea!so GEJ shud save his piece of shit idea and learn..make some the scapegoats and the rest will learn a lesson..and dats it..! |
FFK is mai boy..give him food..he will eat..and then sing for you..He's such a smart boy. - OBJ |
Mr 2shotz..coming here to rant about what happened is the wrong thing to do, and if I ask you about the incidence and how you have managed to improve on such situation and make sure it doesn't happen again, you will tell me you have written on instagram..the right thing for you to do is post the names of the involved police names and their police station, or better still, write a letter to the commissioner of police, copy the IG and make sure it gets delivered, then if nothing is done about it, come back online and post it, make it go viral on social media with the kind of entertainment personality that you are, trust me, it will be duly addressed and something will be done about it..when they sack few of those policemen, I'm I'm sure other police men and the whole police station would desist from repeating same again..its as easy as that.. |
Collynzo9:Lol you can't be funny at 54pple liking your comment..you should go back to history and check your records..he never kicked IBB out of office.. |
I do not want to doubt if the story is real or not from the poster's moniker but at least whichever way it will definitely meet someone's need somewhere. The first thing I want you to know is that what you are going through is quite normal and you have a hope of brighter end, every marriage would go through its own challenges at a time or the other, it is what I call REALITY and those challenges if managed well strengthens a marriage. Now the next thing for you to do is to stay away from that your aunty that's planting a seed of divorce in you, early withdrawal from her will stop such seed from germinating in you, and you will be happy for it at the end, these kind of wrong advices are what crushes a home beyond repairs and jeopardizes hope of reconciliation, and pls don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you should fight your aunty, all you need do is just keep a distance and DO NOT seek advice of this kind from her again. Then to the main issue, I believe all your husband needs is just further understanding about both of you and how often he needs to satisfy his wife sexually, he needs to know that its not a sin or bad to be doing his wife every now and then, my dear, it is God ordained, its a basic thing in the home, for a marriage to work, it is a machine that needs to be greased often. This is how I would advise you to go about it, you should know that its not a bad thing for you to have such urge every now and then, its better for you to have it often than not to be having the urge. Please you need to be closer to your husband, you need to show him extra care, be involved in almost all his endeavours, I emphasize again that you should show extra care and be open to each other, he might just be going through some things, and trust me sometimes when things don't go well especially financially our di. cks may not be hard, because its a psychological state of mind and once its not balanced its not also balanced down there. Lastly I would urge you to pray about the situation and pray for him also, in however language and religion that you can, it is a fact that life is spiritual, so to tackle a problem, sometimes we need to explore all possible angles to it, and if it remains as status quo which is likely not, I can tell you that you both should see a marriage counsellor, everybody needs help, there's nothing like a perfect person, so one way or the other we need to seek for further knowledge and guidance in handling some issues, they say a tree does not make a forest, so in other words, we may not live a fulfilled life if we don't help one another, I believe if you try this, they would definitely work for you and just be positive minded. I hope this piece helps a great deal. Bless! |
I must commend the actions taken on the supposed order to go on leave of the police officers, it clearly shows that for every action one takes, you will be held accountable for it, this is what I call an ideal situation; in a situation like this I do not think the young man should be isolated when it is obvious he needs medical help urgently as no sane man would go ahead and fight about three police officers at a go and even still cause more trouble at the police station..so logically the superintendents or officers got what they bargained for and I hope that Nigeria will get to that level someday where every public officer and everyone as a whole could be held accountable for their actions.. |
philips70:There were so many flaws in his flag off speech yesterday, if time would permit me I could start listing and anaylzing them one after the other, but my aim is not even to insult the president or his supporters, my intention is just for everyone to put on their thinking caps and reason, leave out sentiments and whatever attachment we have with GEJ and just think if its worth continuing with the present administration..for example in the agricultural sector, he has done very well and some other areas too, bur the basic one we can't afford for it to be left behind which is the safety of human lives and properties, that's the first and primary duty of any reasonable govt, so its obvious that the cons do outweighs the pros..let's purge out the fear of how would Buhari do? We can't be very sure until he occupies office..so I feel that's enough justification to do the right thing. |
Well..In as much as I want to say quite a lot, I will try to make it short as possible as I can. I watched the presidential flag off yesterday and saw the president spoke. I must say from the few lines I can remember, they were very poor and lacked articulation from a president on campaign as I still did not see that campaign emphasis like this is what we have done, this is where we are and this is where we are going in his speech, it is not about attacking the opposing political party, well maybe some of our politicians are either not educated enough or they just lack how-to-campaign-education. In his words "I know Nigeria does not belong to old men like us, because I know we have failed already". What the president is trying to let us know is that he has spent 6years in office and he has failed us, so giving him another 4years MAY BE an opportunity to make it right. The question is, why will I give an opportunity to a self proclaimed failure who has perceived himself as a failure to rule me for another 4years, definitely if after 4years, the situation is still status quo or gone worse, I should not ask him why and can't hold him responsible if he fails because from the on-set he said he was a failure and didn't give any clue or hope of how to even succeed or improve on the present situation. "I apologise to the workers who were not paid december salaries, what happened is that some govt ministries' officials tried to act corrupt by adding up some funds to the regular salaries but in the process due to how scientific the IP system(which automatically pays salaries) works, it brought up a red light and shut down, so now we are deviating to another new system in order to avoid these corrupt people so they will not steal your money". Now he gave credit to himself because deep down he felt like he had curbed that corrupt practice from that end. In my own take, I think its obvious our president runs away from tackling and facing some problems squarely, if the system had made this attempt, why not trace these govt officials, investigate the incidence and actions, and bring some culprits to book, that sends a strong msg to the whole country that you are fighting corruption. In an ideal situation and country, its very simple, if you are corrupt and caught, you will go to jail, automatically your subordinates will not make such attempt in future..it will send a strong message to the whole nation and that oga no take nonsense..and to a large extent pple would have a self consciousness in their minds that if I steal na jail, trust me it will go a long way in changing peoples' minds. That's just the few two points I would like to discuss, there are still some I remember vividly but I do not want to bore the readers, let's say thats it for now. From my analysis of the speech again, it was quite unlike GEJ, he spoke out of anger, out of reaction and out of emotion and I think a little desperation in his countenance, it may not be enough to just read manuscripts online, because some times a writer has a perception, so I can advise that before giving an analysis or passing judgment or nailing Buhari or Jonathan, kindly go online and watch the video, it is just about 30mins - 40mins, carefully observe and pass your comments. I hope we will choose our leaders rightly by not being sentimental, its not by age, or by ethnicity, or by education level if I may say..it is by having a well articulated ideas/solutions and clearly cut out vision. I hope we can get it right his time around. God bless! |
synergycom19:Well I'm not surprised the way you just reasoned with your comment, it shows how angry and unnecessarily hostile you are to graduates of private universities, its not needed, pple like you only cause e-fights on NL, but I will not get down to that with you..to remind you, Nigeria's educational problems are not limited to private unis..its the same way it cuts across from states unis to federal univs..so your assertion is baseless, I need not remind you that mr president and his wife are graduates and of cos not from private univs..yet their english flawless-ness so to say is as obvious as you can see and hear..the question we should be asking NUC is that all the various fundamental issues militating against education in Nigeria that they have identified recently and in times past, what have they done about them, how have they proffered solutions to these issues, ofcos the blame would be transferred to either govt or one kind of university, they will not accept their failures.. So to cut the long story short, always get your facts right and know that education in Nigeria needs to be given top priority &focus generally, from the primary level to the tertiary level, and you should know that trading the blame game on private universities would not bring about any positive change.. |
Mr Buhari, I salute your patience and courage in coming out with these action words of promises, but sir, I think you need to take it easy, Nigerians are not really interested in this kind of promises anymore, what they are interested in is getting the job done, so I suggest you just save the promise in your pockets..talk less and act more..that's the watchword in addressing some issues, remember also that you said at a time you won't probe past leaders, so as not to contradict yourself..try avoid speaking like this..and yes you still have mai vote.. GMB for president..! |
delishpot:I was thinking of what to comment and suddenly read your comment, I believe you said it all, there are still some good gurls that values intelligence and average guys out there, by their fruits you will know them, you can trust me on this, the materialistic ones won't come your way and even if they come, you two won't click..and that way you can now discern who's who and who's not.. |
Oh well..I think that serves the wife right, but if she claim she doesn't want a divorce, can't she still understand that she has to change her behaviour and ways for good? Its very clear, I don't want partying and for us to stay together, you must quit partying, and while the case was ongoing before giving the ruling, she didn't deem it fit to know that for her to still be the wife, she has to change her ways, so why would they not part ways at the end, there can't be two bosses in a home, one boss has to lie low for the other.. It serves her very right, she got what she deserved, and to our brothers and men in the zone of marrying..marriage will not change a person's character if such individual does not show any traits of wanting to change, to think he/she will change after marriage is all fallacy..it doesn't work that way.. |
Esdb3:You're very welcome..I like your expression though..I just feel that the world would have more rest and peace if some pple would just close their mouths shut by way of not making unnecessary preposterous comments.. |
Liability:I still don't understand how and why english is too complex for some to comprehend..its very simple, if u feel its wrong to pay your tithe..ignore it and don't pay..or these pastors that you're mentioning, how many of their members have come to you to lodge any complain ?or how many times have the pastors forced tithes out of their member's pocket?where did you read from above that its a do or die affair..pple like you should just watch it and stop unnecessary propaganda all in the name of I must comment.. |
Lemme quickly comment before I head out for church.. Well I must say that when I see sense that's is uncommon I quickly recognise and identify with it..this man has ideologies and methodologies of maybe not how to run the government(because I've not seen him run one b4) but how to tackle government issues with very clear cut and defined vision that will positively affect an average Nigerian..its very simple..he has the very good and practicable ideas..he would sell it to Buhari and once Buhari buys it, they both get to work..its as easy as he has said it,once the determination and the strong will to do is there..the possibility knows no bound.. I'm sure if you ask either GEJ and Sambo common questions like this, they will have to stumble very hard before they get their answers and ofcos you and I know that those answers would ofcos not pass the little room because once it comes out of their mouths..those answers disappears into the thin air like it never came out..what we need are leaders with determination and very strong will-power..and not those with good minds and intentions..let the conservatives go and rest and the liberal ones take charge of power.. You should also know that I don't personally like Buhari but weighing the two options we have on a scale..Buhari weighs much more than GEJ..ok now, Nairaland I will see you later, have to head out to church now..all of una reading..have a blessed sunday! |
I knew this was coming next, just barely about 24hrs, sometimes we do not even know which and what to believe..I hope that one day some day these issues would be addressed and we would be having authentic news on nairaland front page..possibly be verifying news before moving to FP..I hope our mods are reading this..its a way of not having some of us misled, imagine a reader that read only for yesterday and didn't open the FP for the new update today..below is what I shared yesterday We will get there sha.. https://www.nairaland.com/2071593/nigerian-army-dismisses-203-soldiers/2#29415193 |
abbey621:Bro..I understand your points clearly and I think the way forward is what should be suggested to her, as I did on the page 4 of this thread.. and still to me your claims are not logical enough..reasons below..: 1. So does it mean that she should be the one to fall into such trap of being deceived? If she had said no I'm sure she would have saved her head and be happier today, every woman should wise up..if she was wise enough she wouldn't have fallen for that bait..its very simple..he's married, don't go near married men..this is the kind of result you may end up getting.. 2. You need to re-read the story all over again..she only did her IT for few weeks at the man's or boss's office..and they grew close which is normal..and immediately after completing the IT..she left..and they met again somehow..to tell you he didn't use any form of office threat or force on her.. 3. Well being a friend, developing feelings and going into marriage are different things, what you should understand is that life is too delicate to pity someone for marriage..enough with sentiments..to me that's doing things for the very wrong reason and we both know that once the foundation is destroyed..there's apparently nothing anybody can do about it.. |
Well I have to say I'm quite sorry about your situation and I hope things would turn around for you real good and soon. From my analysis, you will permit me to say that you are part of the problem that befell you, what God has joined together..let no man put asunder, I'm sure the other time he came to you, you neglected the investigation you were supposed to diligently carry out about him and his family, leaving everything to hope, faith and fate..sometimes we just have to be responsible for our actions..well, this is not to make you feel bad but ofcos its just a reminder of d past because it is what gave birth to the present situation..mind you, this is not where we are going.. Now back to the matter at hand, I think the solution to this situation is not to start feeling piteous and miserable, it has happened yes, they say there's nothing new under the sun, so yours won't be the first or the last on earth, what I would advise you is to get yourself up, get a job, start a trade, keep fit and look happy, that way you can take stress off your sleeves and take proper care of your kids the way you want, who knows, another good suitor may come your way, that's for later though, your primary focus now should be yourself and the kids..and as for the man in question..trust me what goes around comes around, this is africa where you don't get away with some things, because they would end up hunting him some day, he would definitely come back someday and beg you for his misdeeds..he would shed tears lyk that is the only hope he's got..then you would have a choice to forgive or not..these are things that we see happen everyday.. In conclusion, this should serve as advice and lessons to all our ladies within the about to marry zone..never allow a man to push you in between his home so you won't befall such peril in future..and if there's anything unclear or too clear about a relationship likely heading to marriage, kindly pray diligently about it till you get answers and convictions..do your homework also..and why I said too clear about a relationship is because we men can act perfect for you..and they say if its too good to be true..its probably not true..so don't be carried away..mai fellow readers..be wise..marriage aint no joke..hope mai story no too mussh.. |
Firstly, I would like to say that we do not know how authentic and true the story is because this is naija where the next spokesman would deny and dismiss such claim once its gone public, but I would make my comments based on what I have read..I would like to say that the court martial may be right in doling out the accorded discipline or punishment to the soldiers..because they say a land with no law means there's no disobedience..maybe that's the right thing to do, ofcos every soldier knows the do's and don'ts' of the army, and also the Army operates with strict codes and conducts..so meaning that before you disobey an order, you already know the next punishment that will follow.. However, I'm of the opinion that these court martials should thread carefully, with the way they have been sentencing soldiers in recent times I think is alarming..in as much as they think they are doing the right thing they should also think about the multiplier effects of now and of the future.. in the sense that how will you just dismiss 195 soldiers together at a time without any benefits, no shelter for their families..and u think they would just let it slide just like that, and not think of a way of retaliating?well if yes or if no, they should brainstorm on that question. Why I'm raising this issue is to avoid another sect of boko haram gathering up to hunt innocent Nigerians as payback for their dismissal..these are soldiers that already know the weakpoints and areas of strengths within the Nigerian Army.. In conclusion, I feel there should be other ways of punishment for this kind of offense and not an outright dismissal because the eventual outcome may be more weighty than the dismissal, I hope they would remember that an idle hand is the devil's workshop.. |
Hmm..I must say its funny how people think..I lyk 2face as a person and I'm also a strong fan of his..but my observation isn't based on any of the two aforementioned features..now For someone like 2face to have allowed his wife to dress that way I'm sure he's very much aware of it and he approves of the dress. What you people should realize is that these people are celebrities and to maintain that lifestyle, you have to be dynamic and always make the news..if the husband isn't pleased with the dress trust me we won't be talking about tuface on here.. And to those of you clamouring and ranting that this is Africa ofcos we know and we/they don't need to be reminded..to me I don't really see anything all that bad about Annie's dress..and if that's the dress that makes the couple HAPPY..I think we should just let them be and we face our own businesses.. Human beings sha..we sha can never be satisfied..if she chose to dress by wrapping up all her body now.. I'm sure some good people so to say on nairaland would still call her names like SU and pretender....chai God dey o.. I'm very certain that if 2face were to be reading this thread 2nite, he probably would be laughing and having fun at the comments..members weh don vex abeg mke una tke am eazy o |
I'm watching closely how people here have turned this solder into a laughing stock and little minds would think its the best thing to do to him, for crying out loud this is death we are talking about, fine he did what is not right and he's getting the supposed result of his action, but come to think of it, nobody has raised or talked about the reason for him disobeying orders. Ofcos its no news today that boko haram is well equipped much more than our soldiers, with that single point alone is enough to kill the morale of a soldier even before going to the battle front. Also, Whoever is saying "who send am make e go join army"- I would like you to know that if its not for the bravery of these set of people there won't be a country called Nigeria where most of us wants a white collar job where we want to go to office in the morning and come back in the evening because a nation's defense lies in the strength of the Army. In my own judgment I understand that the soldiers deserve what they got but I think they could have been given a very severe punishment for their offense instead of killing them like fowls. Nigerians should stop acting like hypocrites, its no news to everyone that these men do not have the necessary toys(weapons) to fight boko haram and the government is doing little or nothing about it, if we keep thinking like this, this country would only get worse.. I hope people can decipher the analysis from my point and I'm open to more suggestion and corrections..thank you! |
Hmm..that first picture though, well I don't have any comment on that #SayNoToGay That second picture honestly I believe it is very true, there was a time like that on this thread that such was discussed, I think its one of those things we do that only we know, we I mean I'm guilty of it too, come to think of it, for me it is the very best place for me to think, that's someplace I get inspiration from, dunno maybe its not normal o, can't say really but I love it cos I think deep, differently and much logically there..As 2face once said "if love is a crime I'm willing to be hunted" this one too, if its a crime then you people should continue nailing us ooo.. In conclusion, really for those of you who haven't tried it, you'all should give it a trial, I'm sure you would have something positive found out to discuss, sha come back and give testimony.. #bows out.. |
Firstly, I would like to say that I don't base my judgments on one side of a story, and I also have to say that your husband MAY be doing the wrong thing which I am made to believe that something must have triggered a man to go to that very extreme length. However, from what I have read so far about your illustration, I think you are using the very wrong approach to handle an already wrong situation. They say two wrongs do not make a right and I think he's wrong and you are as well wrong with the curses you have been raining on your husband.. Now to my question, I want to believe that a man would not just wake up in a day to marry someone else, the question is, what has been happening all these days without you being sensitive to? Who has your husband been rolling with in terms of friends lately? Now to you, I want to believe that the marriage hasn't been working for a while now and you refused to do anything about it, for your husband's family to wake up one day to unseat you shows that you have not had a sound relationship with them for a long time, for crying out loud, this is someone you have given birth to three children for, so any forces from relations to crumble the marriage MAY be baseless because this is africa where you have to give birth to children for your in-laws to be pleased with you.. So my conclusion is that you played a significant role in pushing your husband out to another woman's hands and now I guess you are paying for it dearly, I understand that I may be wrong but something tells me I'm being just and fair with my conclusion. Now my advice for you now is to just be seeking the face of the Lord, pray HARD for God's direction, miracle may suddenly happen and it may also mean that you may have to move on with your life and children because dragging the kids to this kind of matter may be harmful to them and to their future..May two cents for you, I hope that you will take the right step! |