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ubunja:
to a desperate man even grass is food.

As far as we are happy and fulfilled, your thoughts are null and void. cry cry baby

ubunja:
it's not our fault you are an evening paper is it?

Men will always favor youth because that's when a woman is at her peak fertility. Your teen-age years are your most fertile years dummy.

a proud 42 years old woman who gonna meet her man and give birth to beautiful pumpkins -:* -:* that's what I am. Don't die on my behalf.

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ubunja:
stop telling us who to fvck. Demet.

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Lancarrazi:
Funny enof the OP fit don disvirgin o

No be lie my brother, am now a grandma
on fair note, this is what I tell my younger sister and was also a guide to me while growing up. valentine comes with temptation for young girls who are still immature to take care of themselves or get hold of their emotions.

Don't waste that money on top wedding, after wedding comes marriage.

Uwaeromosele:
off the Topic though
U mean Riding a Keke and Hustling is a Bad Job for someone?

Okwu na-epute okwu. Oga. Every reaction is provoked by some action. I don't jump on every thread to go off pôint unnecessarily, am not that stupid.

Riding keke for a man of his calibre is shameful owing to kind of he lived and how treated peopl.
EOD

Raalsalghul:
We heard this over and over again.
At the end of the day still doesn't matter.

It matters to those it concerns...

Yigiyaga:
May it never be well with ur menopause encroaching barren years.

I wonder what attracted nwanyiakwaetiti to you?
Manner- 0
influence- negative
Emotions- Blank
Maturity- 0


May your infertile balls remains so till eternity.

nwanyiakwawtiti, u Dodged a bullet.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
OH Sweet Jesus. God will Judge you for this lies. See fool wey even done name the children finish now wanna blame me? Please don't even try shit with me. Desperation? You lucky I've wiped all the SMS sef.

Ignore the baby adult you hooked up with. If you will agree with me o. Replying him isn't worth it.


You are in public o and the man no get shame.

Yigiyaga:
She twisted facts which i wasnt ok with.

When she made that thread, were you tagged? is there any indication on that thread that point to you?

Emotional maturity should be the next quality you should possess. you created your thread she jumped and passed. but pettiness couldn't let you ignore hers

you will count yourself as men with strength. odi egwu.

DanDeeBoss:
La breast la squeeze well well...

Lol,
Close ya teeth. Stop squeezing breast

Admin401:
Condoms?

No sir, Teenage girl shouldn't be your preference. There are ladies that handle issues if things go south. Go for them. Don't introduce any young girl to pills.

Before you pull down pants, read this funny illustration. It's funny but it conveys a powerful message..

Before you pull pants, go to parks and bridges even on streets you will see so many children without proper care and education and vision. Children who are left to survive on their own without parent care.
Would you be proud to have your child in same circumstances?

If you love yourself, your child and have ambition be careful with uncle that comes with mouth watering offer to lay you. He has none of your interest at heart. He just want chop kpekus and flee. If you finally contact STDs or he gets you pregnant he will dump you and move on or introduce you to DC. If start DC at this age till when will it stop? Don't be victim of a sorry circumstances. Better be late than sorry.
Whatever you can't afford now, give it time. Sometime later you will get it. Time is a great healer. Just be contented.
Valentine comes every year, Be wise

Eberechi24:
To me a weak man/woman is who has no opinion of his/hers. One who can easily be manipulated.. they swallow every opinion without synchronisation. They're always afriad to air their opinion on any issues becauseof fear of rejection or condemnation. They just want to fix into certain standard-good In other words they are caged.

quote author=canalily post=75422658]yet you have not told us what it means to tag him weak man[/quote]

canalily:
ebere, weakness is weakness, no matter your definition.

No, dear. My weakness is not your definition of weakness. Go the first page of this thread, you see that most pals tagged foolishness weakness. A man who buys things for a gf at the expenses of his family is foolish not weak.

canalily:
good talk, but do mothers really see weakness in some of their male children or the real person such child is?

We all have different definition of weakness, my definition of weakness is one without opinion. So it depends on what you term weakness.

pocohantas:
You are wise. What is there to give?
It is just a gadamn phone.

I remember when I was in my final year, I paid sch fees for one guy. He went telling his friends that I am small without sense. I approached him in his department and told him, "I couldn't watch you miss your final exams and spill, please do not think I am not stupid". It has been some years and he keeps trying to reestablish contact. I no need am for anything again.

You did right Poco. He may think it was his smartness that made you pay for the school fees but it was your kind heart.

I always give no matter how little, as far as I can help, I do it and forget it. Why? I started fending for myself at the age of sixteen, Asin I hit street without mission or vision and through these years, AV been meeting people who have been helpful. Who help me without counting if am their girlfriend or daughter and I am forever grateful to them. Reading some comments on this forum makes me forever indebted to them.

My little way of showing appreciation is to extend that Iove to another.

I keep telling people being in need isn't honourable, it makes you vulnerable.

FRoosevelt:
Exactly. You call it foolishness, I call it weakness. My point is; any man who is easily manipulated based on emotions is a WEAK man.

when it comes to manipulation, we are victims of it. our mothers can cajole us to their advantage, they can influence us to their advantage. every one has his/her weapon of manipulation. people's manipulation should not interfere with our principles.. we should know when to say no and stand on it-very important.

FRoosevelt:
What you do not realize is that manipulation mostly invoves playing into one's emotions to make them do things they wouldn't wanna do without giving it a THOUGHT.

It's only foolishness that would make one to do things without giving it a thought. Let's say am playing on your emotions and asked you to set yourself on fire. Would you? I don't. Why? Because you are rational being with your sense intact. There is difference between foolishness and manipulation.

canalily:
your first paragraph is disturbing our thinking faculty. we are yet to learn what your first paragraph means

Men should stop using women to measure their strength and weaknessess. They should stop using women as a point of reference.
In their place of work, what influence do they have? Their daily communication with people, is fair and favoured? They should form opinion outside women.

The definition of weak man they know is one who buys for his girlfriend gift. They display their strength and weakness only on women. No wonder, they won't hesitate to beat up their wives/girlfriend to show their strength

To me a weak man/woman is who has no opinion of his/hers. One who can easily be manipulated.. they swallow every opinion without synchronisation. They're always afriad to air their opinion on any issues becauseof fear of rejection or condemnation. They just want to fix into certain standard-good In other words they are caged.

StandingDick:
stop this bro, I was seeking for solutions to placate the harm already caused not causing more!!!
And how does killing myself help the cause? Will it solve everything like nothing ever happened? Use your head na brother.

If someone had told you before now to have self control, discipline at least self worth,you will shut her down with men are polygamous in nature, pussy is meant be Bleep bla bla bla. You are not different from the girl you bleeped, no matter how your fellowmen want to exonerate you and paint the girl black.

Oga you mustn't bleep anything in shirt that comesas a free gift. Bro code-Have self worth

Frankicent:
bad belle all you ladies know is collect nd wouldn't give. Am not talking about sex...

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I give not because I have but because I have been in lack and know how it feels to be in need. People who play smart when it comes to giving are people who haven't experienced life, they are living in luxury, almost in illusion. They don't know that somewhere this time, a family is praying to see #500 to eat this night.

Nobody enjoys being needy or enjoy receiving all the time except leeches. They want to give. Begging is not honourable.

pocohantas:
Lol, this early morning

Lol, Poco you are a trouble maker

That man no dey eye see threads about girls and gift. I will always drag him, he's my brother

He wants to discourage me from begging him and it won't work

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Any lady who is in a serious relationship with a man should m.

Help anyone base on principle that suit you best. I frown at string attached to assistance esp sex.

I don't consider accepting gifts from my friends( my bf may see as a stranger) as crime. If a friend give me a harmless gift that have been yearning for, I will accept not to spite my Bf but to solve my needs. Its become a crime if i hide it from him. If I show you gift a friend got for me. You don't have to be paranoid or have a negative thought about it when I have not given you reason to distrust me
Its become disrespectful if I go around begging for something I can get for myself.

As someone who look out for me. You advise me, saying something like this " Be careful of men that gifts o" won't hurt you.

Seeing it as crime is synonymous with "instead you succeed lets die in mystery. You didn't give her and got angry help came her way.

Odi egwu.
Kudos to you on your foundation.

For married woman, she can solicit for harmless help outside her relations when the need is urgent if they (relations) are not coming forward with it and husband is trying. It becomes disrespectful if she is doing it to spite her husband.

lefulefu:
my darling happy new month to u too

labanj1:
So I should buy phone for a lady whose fiance is stingy. I can help a lady, but not with something as basic as a phone. If she needs a loan, to buy something for her business/something important that would be fine but phone. No.

you can help a lady with what you are comfortable with. I frown at people who use sex as yardstick to help a girl.

Give what you are comfortable with.

lefulefu:
u can for anyone u like.it doesnt necessary have to mean it has to be a girlfriend and besides wat is phone?

Happy new month Sweetheart,

JONNYSPUTE:
.. So after helping out a lady who has no one to help her,I should also extend the help to the one that has a fiancé? Or is it that you people did not understand the question asked by the op? Nawa o.

You are the one who don't understand the question asked by op. Because once you see a thread about girl and gift, your three leg become restless. Does it mean you are sex starved or what?

What if the girl who has fiancé needs help nko, she shouldn't be helped because of her fiancé?

What if the fiancé in question belonged to your crew who believes a girlfriend shouldn't be spent on" aka aka gum?

what if the the fiancé doesn't have to help nko?

Even Married couple(woman) at once in time needs help, she shouldn't be helped because she has husband who Bleep her?
Oga your mate set up Charitable foundations without microscopicing who's fucking recipients!!!
I wonder who enjoys being in need or helpless.