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pls don't play with your health, you ought to be in doctor's office by now.

biko visit any reputable diagnostic center to ascertain if you are okay internally. its not just about rashes to go but to be medically sound to avoid stories that touches the heart in future

Sonoflord:
I should continuing enduring being a house maid for 3yrs from now while my mate are out there hustling building customer base.

customer's base is very important here am glad you pointed it out.

if your boss settles you but you have no experience with the market force, dude the settlement is partially useless

the best time to let go, is to let go.

ubunja:
i check my girl's phone anytime i want and know all her passwords. but she's not allowed to touch my phone.
i dont run a democracy. im king of my castle. if you disagree dont let the door hit you on your way out.

if the table is turned, men can never swallow half of silly pills they shoved to women's throats.

wow! this is threatening. if you can't get to the root of this matter I would advise you quit.

this is deep, really deep.

Don't sacrifice your life on the altar of affair

noble2faith:
And we go dey cry sey make corruption leave dis country. Wetin mods of Nairaland dey do na corruption oo. Na me get dis thread. I post am 3 or 4 days ago. I think sey mod go put am for fp. Now sumbody repost my own post una put am for FP. This is unfair oo!!!

See proof sey na my post d guy copy.

https://www.nairaland.com/4516726/8-urine-colours-what-each

jtjohn, if you must repost someone's topic do acknowledge that person to avoid paying damages.
Intellectual theft is a crime

Sonoflord:
Yes there was an agreement we made sir

talk your boss first then, remind him again your reason for being in his house, if he care-less then you involve your parents.

if they are in need of house help, they should get one.

don't play with ur prime age

nuelyoyo:
Pls try to understand the OP. He has clearly admitted that things are tough for him right now. In life, you can't give what u don't have, u don't expect a man who is struggling with finances to live a life of excesses. How can the man of the house eat with a piece of meat and in-laws who came visiting will be eating with two pieces? It may sound irritating to you coz u have enough to throw around, but others may not be in ur position. In all ur replies to the Op, u never showed that u even understand his situation. Learn to show empathy.
Cc tbanj07

I understand him perfectly well and I sincerely sympathize with him but dear dwelling on our shortcomings just because things are hard is draining. Remember he never accused them of wastage but going to pot without permission.

my dear if we start paying attention to everything just because things are hard I bet you we might end up not wearing clothes just save money. ln life we just have to happy with the little we have that's where we derive our satisfaction not amount of food we eat.


I still wish OP Blessings

tbanj07:
Ma,please try and understand that times are hard and we are only managing, I'm not uncomfortable with their visit...I'm just saying wife should be in the best position to talk to her siblings on how they handle things in the house due to the present situation...the whole house isn't full of supplies of what we need...I also have 3 kids.

Example: Reason why she was scolded was the fact that I came back home from work last night only to meet 2 of her sisters eating with 2 piece of meat each when my own kids only eat one as well as myself.

I wasn't joking when I said we are managing...was I wrong to scold my wife for that so she would know the best way to handle the house so they can cut it down?

there you go ägain, pieces of meat? sir, you are worrying yôurself over nothing. pls hold yourself you have a long way to go in life. I pray that things turn around for good so that you will have a good laugh over this thread you created.

your wife is trying to talk her siblings but maybe they dnt understand her. you knw she is the one on the fence. she is protecting you as well protecting her siblings, there is a way she will go about it, it will portray you as a bad inlaw. pls don't be too be hard on her.

if possible try and hold yourself cause you might catch themwith the last beverage in the fridge.

I know things are very difficult but learn to overlook something in life especially these food ish.

tbanj07:
My family knows well enough not to go near our kitchen...im blessed to have a mother who doesn't care if my wife even serves her only water....and if any of my fam visit they enter d kitchen to wash and assist her...not dish food.

As for being agree at wife siblings...no i'm not but we've talked about this before and she still allowed it was why she was scolded this time.

P.S- my inlaws are not hungry folks

P,S- my in-laws are not hungry

am glad your in-laws are not hungry because if they are, I wonder what will be their fate.

Sir, am sorry to say this, you are very selfish. you cant give up your comfort for another to benefit, never! cause you are the man of the house.

Oga, loose some slack. man shall not live by bread alone.

if you ain't comfortable with their visits just stop them from coming cause you don't expect them to come to their sister's place and behave like strangers. your siblings aren't doing same because your wife isn't their blood.

but Sir, learn the act of giving selflessly, if do, I tell you sharing your food with others would be least of your worries

ever heard of givers never lack?

stay blessed

pls one should quote me whenever his trad pictures surface online
thanks

Happy birthday ma'm

kimbraa:
It's pride. She couldn't see herself seating down among those who don't have so in order not to be looked down on, she decided to join those who had to make pledge.

Don't give her, and tell her to learn how to live within her means.

When I don't have, I go to church on empty hands 'cause God knows I don't have as the pastor is mortal who can't search the heart of people. I remember going to one church on campus and when it was offering time, the pastor made it seem like if you don't have offering you shouldn't be in church but I didn't care provided God knows I don't have I can't steal nor beg to put offering.

I agree with you on this, pastors should stop manipulating us into giving, they are indirectly telling us to get money by hook or crook.

tomorrow, they stand on pulpit to condemn prostitution, abeg I can't come go and kill meself.

I could remember one Sunday I went church, after normal offering which I managed to get, pastor came up with up another another special seed offering, hmm where I wan get that one ni? I sat back jeje but the kind look we pastor give me ehh e no be here

most time when you see people drop empty envelope or tore money in offering box don't blame them coux nobody want to be tagged an enemy of progress in church or stingy

Abbeynomics:
What of chikwado , I dnt knw the meaning

God's support Chi- God, kwado- support.

start like a baby "find yourself and don't let the environment defines or shapes you"

congratulations

my dear, don't dwell on those words, she said that out of frustration and am so sure she really regret saying those words


tomorrow when atmosphere must have be calmed, tell her how her words really hurt you she will apologize and bless you instead.


my mum behaves like that sometimes, she will tell you to die, you are this, you are blah, blah but when I look at her I understand that it's frustration trolling her

on normal day, she blesses us and can give up her life for us.

to avoid issues like this, don't give what you can't forfeit in a relationship weda it will lead to marriage or not.

be on a safe side, guard your heart and use your head.

end result of giving is happiness not reward, marriage not even award.

life is full of ups and down. Sometimes you cry, other times you laugh. All these challenges are what makes life beautiful.

rice= not even half garri= 100 bags or even more