₦airaland Forum

Some of us are afraid to raise a family. When we remember that marriage is one of the necessary box
we are going tick in life we become afraid/ discouraged.
Share your fears/thoughts on marriage, someone may have one/two words for you.
Married folks come in for encouragement.
my fears;
am afraid of failing as a mother
am afraid of failing as a wife.

I want to give my kids the best in life; empower them in/from their early lives
I want a happy home but what if
there is no resources to empower them (kids)? this is one question that eats me up.

I don't know what to say but accept my condolence

Amberon:
You were not there and don't know wether or not they decided to have a baby. Wizkid after the third child bragged that more were on the way. He has never said the lady "trapped" him so as a spectator in this case it is not good to assume such.

No, you are wrong. They had the baby together so the on us lies on both of them. They had their baby in America and by American laws the father must pay child support and fufill his obligations to him.

celebrity problem is not my concern. I don't defend/excuses for them.
I don't make babymama ish sounds so convincing for younger folks.
if you must have pre-marital sex with a celebrity or not, be prepared to accept the risks/responsibility associated with it.
As a woman, the onus is on you, so be smart and behave. if you must have a baby outside wedlock see that you provide the 70% of the baby's need,
Ask Linda ikeji

Telling them its not necessary, no need to but if it's then I guess the best time is when they have grown/independent or even married

Amberon:
Lmao, what did a grown up man like wizkid think would result from diving raw? Or was he raped ?

They have a baby together and wizkid "MUST" fufill his obligations as a father or face grave consequences. America is not a zoo like your country.

MUST


when she consented to unprotected sex she was hypnotized?
when women understand that onus of unprotected/pre-martial sex lays on our shoulder More than the men folks, we behave.

Amakababe:
Why not just pick both. Three heads is better than two.

no wonder, tuface could not stay.
hehehe

shey, we can vote through ATM?
it would be nice innovation to vote through ATM. it will help curb election malpractice

iLegendd:
I think you went through a tough heartbreak and this has made you to harden your heart. Son, soften it and peace will come. Trust me.

don't mind those men attacking you, they are to blind to learn. trust me, majority nairaland men want to learn, look at number of viewers on your thread.

ignore/nonchalant stop picking calls/calling stop replying messages
lack of communication kills relationship

There is fire on the mountain. Run run Run A big big fire... Run Run Run
if you chose to stay, don't create another thread to disturb us pls

some men's insecurity is intimidating

[quote author=Obdk post=71117731][/quote]hehehe

Amberon:
Why should she take full responsibility?
Didn't they both make the baby together?

was the making of the babe consensual?

this is a grown woman we are talking about not a teenage girl.
I don't make excuses for smart less ladies,
so many single mothers are working ass off to take care of their kids, they should not be exceptions
♣before you take an action, weigh your options.

gloria34:
go ahead pls

the Truth they want to tell you is that the guy may not faithful in his side. the lady on hs dp maybe his new catch.

be careful,
ppa matter tire person.

don't yield to his sexual advances, if he is serious he will stay, if not serious he bounce

I didn't read the post but getting pregnant for a man just to hook/rope him is not worthy-not a life insurance

I don't pity her/them.

they should go and hustle and train their kids. you can't eat your cake and still have it.

93Miles:
never praise urself. Let others praise u.

am not praising myself. am defending myself.

hkidola00:
but my girlfriend said all dis ur narrating,not until she traveled and cheated with her cousin, don't u think dat can wreck a man

eeyaa, sorry for your experience.

iClef:
Favorite song?

no, favorite currency

This is not true abeg, haba!

while for hoping the best, prepare for worst. theory of life
not all Nigerian girls are bad- am an exception

OneCorner:
Onyeka bad nigga. I salute u bro
Afonja don enta real gbege

are you for real? encouraging scamming/scammer?
don't let tribalism block your sense of justice.

he change we need in Nigeria is not APC, is not PDP. The men in these political parties are the same recycled old men with same motive- to milk Nigeria dry.

The change(s) we need in Nigeria politics;
• Revolution (Rawlings factor)
• A complete restructuring

♣ Revolution (Jerry Rawlings approach)
Ever wonder why Ghana of seems to be good shape politically, Economically, with low case of corruption? The answer is Jerry Rawlings. This man sanitized Ghana. He saved Ghana's reputation internationally.

when Ghana was craving for good governance and government just like Nigeria is yearning for
when Ghana was dependent on other Nations financial aid just like what is happening in Nigeria now
when Ghana leaders was diverting public funds to their private pockets just like what our politicians are doing now.
when citizens of Ghana got tired of these manipulations and left their country for greener pastures just like our youths today.
At crucial moment, Flight Jerry Rawlings, a junior Socialist Military dictator emerged in Ghana politics. His aim was to clean up and punish both soldiers and civilians who contributed to ruins of Ghana economy through bribery, corruptions and other malpractice.

In Nigeria, we need Rawlings Revolution. we need to eliminate, clean up/flush all corrupt politicians who contributed to Nigeria ruins both military and civilian irrespective of their tribe, party and political stand in society.
from these present government to past administrations, they need to be sacrifice on the alter of Nigeria progress.
WE NEED FRESH AIR IN NIGERIA POLITICS
WE NEED NEW FACE IN NIGERIA POLICTICS!!

eezeribe:
OK

good evening sir, pls I need the book- ebyvicky95@gmail thanks in advance

chuksanambra:
Harrysong should shut da bleep up. He seeks excessive attention like a kindergarten kid. When he was mentioning Kizz Daniel in his madness and that one refused to answer him, he's now making noise about suicide.

They closed 3rd Mainland bridge 3 weeks ago but have opened it so that Harrysong can go kill himself.

Let him die and his album would sell wella like Fela and Michael Jackson.

Childish nonsense.

could you please shut the hell up!

stop chatting with her for now. if she is interested, she'll initiate communication