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I DONT HAVE ANYTHING AGAINST SENATOR TINUBU but until otherwise I would rather stick to Labour Party in Ondo State, ACN in Lagos State and wished Labour or ACN take over the presidency soon. But Honestly, I think ACN should canvass for votes without unnecessarily overheating the system and let the people of Ondo State decide....

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Just as this kids cannot serve Nigeria due to their inexperience ...Some people serving in various capacity from the top to the least are just like this kids struggling to serve when cannot serve.

dannysoya: LOL this s a complete joke. A landlocked country that will have to deal with Boko Haram on their own. FYI just because you want to declare a country does not mean that the physical land is now automatically separated from everyone else.

Secondly, you're going to have to start from scratch forming a new government, drafting a new constitution. You can sure that there will be a lot of infighting and you are doing ALL THIS while bothering about the threat of Boko Haram.

Finally, I am not so sure that many countries will recognize the republic of Biafra. Only four countries recognized the "republic" the last time they tried this nonsense. The big boys are also dealing with separatism in their countries ( UK is dealing with Scotland, US is dealing with Alaska, Canada is dealing with Quebec, China is dealing with Tibet, Russia is dealing with Chechnya). If they recognize your country it will mean that they are supporting separatism and will start up a shitstorm in their respective countries. I urge you to think twice before trying this. It is most likely that this will not end well.

We are all in this together. We do not hate the igbos (like most of them like to think). Trying to run away will do you NO FAVOURS. It will just compound your problem. Let us fight Boko Haram together.

I am impressed at your intelligent post. I am glad that a Nigeria can provoke a refined taught as this. Our problem as a people is not tribalism but our lack of commitment to the well being of one another regardless of our differences. As individuals, rich or poor, what values have we added or are adding to our nation Nigeria? Why would India and Albania have engaged in a row over where Mother Teresa's remains should be buried? because she added value to both society alive and even in death. Most of us live a selfish life, me myself & I - kind of lifestyle, our men think that life is all about getting a decent job, a car, a house, marry, have children, take care of them etc.

Until we begin to live our lives for each other, and empathize with each other as human, until we all begin to build a personal brand around values based of humane principles, until the Police man (Igbo, Hausa,Itshan, Urhobo, Yoruba...or not) begin to do their work right, until the custom officers get it right, until our judges get it right, until arm robbers stop finding excuses for engaging in their act and find solution to a soceital problem for which they can get paid and earn legitimate income, until our lawyers and law maker gets it right, until our preachers in mosques and churches get it right, until our school proprietors put the education of their pupils first ahead of pecuniary gains, until we stop forging documents and falsifying records, until our governors perform their constitutional duties with sense of duty and not with the feeling of helping the masses, until the President gives "a damn" about every citizen, until we mean what we say and say what we mean...Until ALL THIS IS DONE...If you like CREATE BIAFRA REPUBLIC, ODUDUWA REPUBLIC, AREWA REPUBLIC, NIGER DELTA REPUBLIC, RIVER NIGER REPUBLIC, PLATEAU REPUBLIC etc. The result you would get in each of this republic would be same as the one you get in the present Nigeria.

We as a people should demand responsible leadership ONLY after being responsible ourselves. Check out the lifestyle of each member of this group and you would not be surprise if they lack personal integrity...check out their responsibility to their wives, children, their community, and you would be shell shocked of what you would find...I rest my case

This Nairaland Bible Church is the Church I like to attend, not because I need it help but because their thinking, I mean it members resembles that of Christ

how much would you pay for this?

NNEKA2015: Have been married for 6 years to a pilot and we have have three kids my marriage isn't working anymore , there is no love or trust in the marriage again, my husband gets angry at the slightest thing i do and then goes out drinking and and doesn't come back to sleep in the house until i have gone to work. He only says he loves me when he wants to sleep with me , he complains about everything from my , shoes ,dress to my hair , my food and now that i am not improving in making love. he showers me with gift once in a while but claims i don't make him happy, i have tried and tried but he is never pleased, I don't want my kids to grow without their father because they are just getting to know him but at the same time i can't take it anymore and neither can he as well. please married or divorced women advice me on what to do i can't concentrate at work , i know he loves me and i feel something for him but i can't continue like this. please i need sincere advice on what to do.

From your posted you said your marriage was working until recently.

It means somethings have change probably necessitating this sudden change.

You need to walk it back. 6years ago you were a babe (A Romantic Partner), are you still a babe or you are now just a Madam and Mother of his Children? If he complains about shoes, then get the types he likes and admires, dress like a babe and not a Madam because he says he doesn't like the way you dress, check the kind of hair you make, do other men compliment you? Do a soul searching. If he complains about your food it means you might need to step up, if you cook the same kind of food for him in 6 years he would get bored, try other types of food, buy a cookery book, learn from other women. You must make him happy, that was why he choose you out of the thousand ladies around him 6 years ago.

For now forget about the consideration of your children, even though positives, you were 1st his wife and not the mother of his children. You must strike a good balance between the two. 20years away from here these children would leave you and go with their wives or husbands. If you know he loves you then strive to please him.

Proverbs 5:15 to 20 Advice women to give good sex in bed to their husband. KJV use the Word "Ravish" Be Excellent in Bed.

Only Few men would disdain their wives if they have the virtues of the Godly-woman explained in Proverbs 31. Please read it again.

Even Extremely Bad Men Appreciate Their Godly Wives even when they don't openly admit it.

Only Few men would disdain their wives if they have the virtues of the Godly-woman explained in Proverbs 31:10-31 See the list below.


10 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. (This is Personal Branding - 2 Countries are fighting over the dead body of mother Theresa, a woman like us, while our husband are finding it difficult to appreciate us.)

11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.

12 She brings him good, not harm,all the days of her life.

13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.

14 She is like the merchant ships,bringing her food from afar.

15 She gets up while it is still night;she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.

16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17 She sets about her work vigorously;her arms are strong for her tasks.

18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.

19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.

20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.

21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.

22 She makes coverings for her bed;she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.

24 She makes linen garments and sells them,and supplies the merchants with sashes.

25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;she can laugh at the days to come.

26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.

28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:

29 “Many women do noble things,but you surpass them all.”

30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

31 Honor her for all that her hands have done,and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

queensmith: Lol, did you get a spiritual vision on my life? Oya tell me what is happening. Try the envangelical pitch on me lets see what you got!

But not before you pin point exact places in the scripture where it says a ordinary women warrant disrespect from thier husbands, and where it then says men should disrespect thier non super wives and abuse them to gain super status. And then where it details non super women should be called into councilling and the husband left to his bad attitude.

Oya!

I am glad you want us to discuss now.

Men like Women can be very annoying no doubt.

Any failed marriage is the result of failed compliance to the word of God.

There are no such things as Church, Mosque, Court or Traditional Marriage.

Men and Women get married because God wanted it and instituted it.

So its is God's Marriage and not Blue or White Wedding/Marraige.

Men and Women in marriage have responsibilities.

Divorce doesn't solve failed marriage, it is just the begging of the continuation of a failed marriage with lots of consequence on the children,

friends and relatives of the couples and even their immediate community and the nation.

queensmith: ^^ is this also the word of God? The superior productivity of the almighty? Please tell me i really want to know, are you going to provide the op with scripture examples of where the bible says it is fine for a man to abuse his wife? Or do you have places marked in the bible giving super wifely activities for women not super enough to earn respect from thier husbands? Have you concluded from the Holy Book that a disrespectful husband is the product of an unsuper wife? Please tell me these places i completely miissed the memo!

Did you read from the bible rebels live in the jungle? Last time i checked rebels rule libya but younno, the bible you read probably doesn't cover that!

This explains just why your life is in this shape. Think about it, Think about it again.

Your life would definitely be better than what it is if you can change. Yes you CAN.

jennykadry: Is it just me or are 90% of Nigerian men really going mad?

This explains just why your life is in this shape. Think about it, Think about it again.

Your life would definitely be better than what it is if you can change. Yes you CAN.

queensmith: ^^ WOW is this what the church is now telling people? Dear lawd end times are definitely coming. So she is the cause of her husbands attitude because she is just ordinary? WOW I'm actually speechless, this is a new one, even from RCCG!

Doctors don't bother about the relatives of a sick person but the sick person on admission.

However, they (Doctors) get concerned if the symptoms reinvent itself after being discharge.

I think it is not your problem, its hers and she needs a solution. Give her the advise if you can or quietly leave this issue and move on the

forum/topics that suits your critical and unproductive mind. Let me remind you that "REBELS" only live in the Jungle.

gboss4sure: More revelations about what really happened will be out soon but for me i believe it was shot down cause North Korea i know cant Fuk dat kinda up. But wait ooo why is it the in every country the North is always the problem and at last they always lose and the south wins. for example.

Sudan - North is the problem

Korea- North is the problem

Nigeria- North Is the problem.

I always asked myself is everything about North cursed?

But is North America caused too?
Is North London caused too?
Is there any problem with Ghana North too?

It's not about locations but people and values.

You said "but I can't continue ..."

That is not True. You can if you want.

Men can disdain everything about their wife...beauty, sex, food, just name it BUT THEY CANNOT DISDAIN her prayers because they cannot disdain their maker. Please pray for your husband, pray for his likes, his passion, his conversion etc.

I suppose you are an ordinary wife and that is why your marriage is at this LEVEL. To bring joy back to your home you must be THE EXTRA_ORDINARY WOMAN.

If you don't fight your husband but don't add any value to his life, if you make plastic-apology whenever he corrects you, If you are the mother of his children -Baby Making Machine-, if you don't add to him and you don't take away from him, if you are help-to-eat wife instead of being his helpmate, then you are just an ordinary wife and that might explain why you are at this level in your marriage.

I would like to have a counseling session with you. If you don't mind meet me at RCCG-Josephs Palace, By Apple Junction, Amuwo Odofin GRA. Come on Sunday after church service in your church. You can come around 12noon and ask for Pastor Felix Oni.

Thank you.

Would it affect Lekki-VI-Island?

Sanusi is confused. The worst CBN governor ever.

its true

You are the problem here and not your child bicos you are expecting the wrong thing you would find in the right boy. For instance, kids about his age dont have good table manner and would not sit at the dinning table like an adult. Your child most certain would annoy if you expect the unexpected in him. My advise to you is visit baby center online and register your childs date of birth to get a weekly update of what to expect from him and how to react. cheers.

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sheyguy:
Oga beaf, so the soldiers for carry box of chocolate go give the community abi. Next time they shld look b4 leaping, Obj never ordered the killings, it is just that in any proffesion u av some unwritten laws/ code of conduct. U guys av condemned the killing so far but nobody is criticizing the community for their acts.

GBAM!!!

Spot on!!!

We don't hide criminals we expose them.

If OBJ is found guilty - let him be convicted and jailed but if not let the spirit of the dead hunt those who use their homes as shelter to kill our

soldiers and police men in cold blood

Long Live Nigeria.

God Bless Nigeria.

afam4eva:
This is not about ethnic bigotry. Even if the shoot-at-sight was targeted at his blood relative, he should be brought to book nonetheless. You must be ethnically bigoted yourself to think that this is about tribalism.

Would you initiate the process? also do not forgot to include Abacha (For Killing Ken Sarowiwa etc.), Gowon (For Genocide on Iboland), OBJ (For Genocide on TIV Land), Yar adua-Jonathan (for killing the Kanuris) etc,

Beaf:
I wonder who is worse between alj haram and sheyguy? How can people be so vehemently loud in their unintelligent and immoral arguments?
Damn!

If you add yourself, I think you the worst. Who defines what is an unintelligent and immoral arguments?

thehunted:

u are so right. i have been pointing this out on nl. obj sent the soldiers to kill the citizens of this country and some people are justifying his action. Pathetic!!! some people would support any sh,!t from their kingsmen and would never support good things from other tribes. OBJ must account for the lost lives of those people. jonathan removed subsidy,u guys were calling for him to die,obj killed almost all the male in that community and u guys dont want him to rot in jail. senseless bunch of eediots

You cannot understand it if you don't taste it - Is an old slogan of a beverage advert in year 2000. If there was a genocide, those who experienced it should voice it out and cry for justice then others would support you. You don't expect others to feel what you feel if you dont cry out. All yoruba haters please would sombody also drag the following to ICC?

Major Gen. Aguiyi-Ironsi & His brother Emeka Nzogu for the genocide Against the Hausas in the 1966 coup in the North.

General Yakubu Gowon for genocide Against the Ibos during biafra war

General Sani Abacha for genocide Against the Yorubas

Umaru Musa Yar'Adua & Goodluck Egbere Jonathan for genocide Against the Kanuris in borno (Please see link below as reported by Aljazeera)

http://www.aljazeera.com/news/africa/2010/02/2010298114949112.html

thehunted:

u are so right. i have been pointing this out on nl. obj sent the soldiers to kill the citizens of this country and some people are justifying his action. Pathetic!!! some people would support any sh,!t from their kingsmen and would never support good things from other tribes. OBJ must account for the lost lives of those people. jonathan removed subsidy,u guys were calling for him to die,obj killed almost all the male in that community and u guys dont want him to rot in jail. senseless bunch of eediots

If there was a genocide, those who experienced it should voice it out and cry for justice then others would support you. You don't expect others to feel what you feel if you dont cry out. All yoruba haters please would sombody also drag the following to ICC?

Major Gen. Aguiyi-Ironsi & His brother Emeka Nzogu for the genocide Against the Hausas in the 1966 coup in the North.

General Yakubu Gowon for genocide Against the Ibos during biafra war

General Sani Abacha for genocide Against the Yorubas

Umaru Musa Yar'Adua & Goodluck Egbere Jonathan for genocide Against the Kanuris in borno (Please see link below as reported by Aljazeera)

http://www.aljazeera.com/news/africa/2010/02/2010298114949112.html

nakedall:
and also OBJ should answer for the Ibos he killed during Ojukwu war.  

Was he the president of the nation then?

You cannot understand it if you don't taste it - Is an old slogan of a beverage advert in year 2000. If there was a genocide, those who experienced it should voice it out and cry for justice then others would support you. You don't expect others to feel what you feel if you dont cry out. All yoruba haters please would sombody also drag the following to ICC?

Major Gen. Aguiyi-Ironsi & His brother Emeka Nzogu for the genocide Against the Hausas in the 1966 coup in the North.

General Yakubu  Gowon for genocide Against the Ibos during biafra war

General Sani Abacha for genocide Against the Yorubas

Umaru Musa Yar'Adua & Goodluck Egbere Jonathan for genocide Against the Kanuris in borno (Please see link below as reported by Aljazeera)

http://www.aljazeera.com/news/africa/2010/02/2010298114949112.html

Goddex:
I suggest licences of the following media
organisations be withdrawn for deliberate
misinformation, outright lies and mischief,

1) Sahara Reporters,
2) The Nation Newspaper,
3) TVC, Lagos
4) The Nation Magazine,
5) Radio Continental (Lagos)
6) Daily Trust Newspaper

Plus all others EXCEPT CHANNELS TV

goshen360:
Am compiling a book on tithe and the truth your pastor is not telling you. Tithe in the church today is fraud and it is not a way God blesses people. Pastors have hammered more on that cos it suites them. Jesus rarely talked about money to his disciples. I will upload my comprehensive details after am done with the research. Willful giving is what the new testament church is based on.

we are waiting to see your heresies.

Guitarlife:
It is quite revealing that prominent posters on  this religious section have chosen to abandon this informative  thread. I have watched helplessly as pastors have misled a lot of people aided by their own laziness. I want to ask all the pastors who collect tithes from their congregation to answer this questions.

1. Did Jesus collect tithe?

2. Did the apostles ever collect tithe? (having it in mind that the only form of giving as exemplified in thenew testament is the act of giving willingly remenber ananaias and saphira gave without being instructed what percentage they were to give. )

3. Do you know that the original tithe was only foodstuff and not money despite the fact that there was a legal tender at that time still money was never tithed it was only food crops because the aim of tithe in the first place was to make sure levite's did not starve(meaning they were expected to be noble and in no way affluent otherwise the tithe of money would have being requested ) .

4. The book of malachi chapter 3 that we always quote stipulates that tithe should be stored in the "store house" not the "synagogue" or "temple". The reason is that tithes are perishable in their forms hence they were stored in the store house.

Why will the Church having all these facts choose to still preach  the  gospel of tithe beats me. It's quite easier to defend polygammy than to defend tithe but because tithe is a monetary issue people have chosen to ignore it. SMH. read my other post on tithe. . . .
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@topic the problem of most christians is laziness they find it difficult to read. Rather they prefer to listen to som one expantiate the word of God to them. Them most important signal that the church was given thata a new christian order has commenced with the death of our lord Jesus christ is the tearing of the veil seprating the holy of holies the implication is that it is wrong for anybody to stand in the Gap for you as a christian. Infact you and your pastor are equally anointed he may appear more annointed due to the fact that he is more knowledgeable of his spiritual rights or he is brainwashing you. So how can a fellow levite like myself constitue himself as a tithe collector. The fact that anybody agrees to collect tithe means that they are nullifying the new order and they must also stop wearing clothes made with polyester and wool too.
 A whole lot of things is wrong with this present church please check this list out and prayerfully meditate on them.

1. bringing the dead into the church during burial ceremony.---The bible affirms that after death the rest is judgement therefore laying a dead man in the middle of a church is just not concievable.

2. Making wedding ceremony in the church compulsory for couples as a condition for the legality of their marriage----was mary and joseph wedded in a church. The marriage Jesus attended in canaan if it was in a synagogue it would have been stated .

3. Establishing of business empire sure makes the kingdom message secondary if not to the founder but to the members who are still nurturing their faith.

The earth is God's and the fullness thereof.

God is the owner of our Time and Resources.

Your Time is your life.

You trade your time for your salary. You are paid your salary for the time you spend at work which is given to you by God.

If your time gives you money when properly used it is right to give back to God what belongs to him - as the owner of that time he to you as life.

You money is not your money because you use God's time allotted to you to make that money.

Back to your questions.

1. Did Jesus collect tithe? The Money in the purse kept by Judas was it from business by the Disciples? Matthew 23:23 , these ought ye to have done, and not to leave the other undone. Jesus her approve both tithing and the act of mercy.

2. Did the apostles ever collect tithe? Paul wrote to the Corinthians "Now concerning the collection for the saints, as I have given order to the churches of Galatia, even so do ye. Upon the first day of the week let every one of you lay by him in store, as God hath prospered him, that there be no gatherings when I come." 1 Cor. 16:1-2

3. Question 3 & 4? Either cash or stuffs, pay your tithe and leave others to pay their tithe. It is commanded.

4. Others: Therefore judge nothing before the time, until the Lord come, who both will bring to light the hidden things of darkness, and will make manifest the counsels of the hearts: and then shall every man have praise of God. 1 Cor 4:5

Thank you and God Bless you

Integrity is defined as "The state of being whole and undivided: "territorial integrity". How many of us can boast of this on NL?

1. Have you ever slept with a lady/man you are not married to?
2. Have you ever cheated in an examination?
3. Have you ever falsify your age or data to get an unmerited advantage?
4. Have you ever make some financial gain against the rule or ethics at work?
5. Have you ever cheated on your wife?
6. Do you behave at home/work or in business the same way you behave in church/mosque?
7. Is God not separated your from Business or work Ethics?
8. Have ever given Bride or take bride from someone?
9. Have you ever lied? Even when it is not necessary?
10. Have you ever participated in any electoral fraud?
11. Have you ever taken what does not belong to you?
12. Did you not cheat to pass you WAEC? JAMB? etc.
13. Have you not  granted unmerited favor to anyone simply because he is from your village at the expense of another man from another village?
14. Tell me you never stole? Fought? Cursed? etc.

The list is endless

When you accuse others you might just be as guilty as them if not more.