₦airaland Forum

iLoveYouToo:
Now, this is how you should’ve started

iLoveYouToo:
I didn’t become a womanizer, I didn’t lose my innocence by bedding a girl, it’s to turn gay

Dude! Your line of thoughts speaks volumes about who you really are.

Come out of the closet, your family will still love you

NB: I have nothing against gay people

doctorgold:
Rather than establishing everything, can he at least put some finesse and excellence into these establishments? If he can establish 5 or 6 tertiary institutions, it would make more sense to have 2 or 3 but take them to the standard that covenant university is cos last I heard, Madonna is just a glorified secondary school. Even worse is Caritas.

iLoveYouToo:
Madonna University stole my innocence

Savedday:
See this one! She don they think how to go f*ck for outside.

Na the SIMP wey dey want cry because of kpekus I blame.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Ready100:
I'm not the one who cook it, I just love it.
Can someone please teach me how to cook it

Asquare84:
How come the numbers of female is more than males.

slimzybeauty:
You don't use for to resolve issues. The moment FG went to court, the beginning of another problem. It will take ages before the issue will be resolved because it ail get to Supreme Court. By then, Buhari would have left government likewise his cohorts.

Esseite:
Woke up this morning to the ever unending loading page of twitter, it didn't hit at first because i felt it was network while focusing on other things, then boom, other apps worked fine, web pages were opening at the speed of light, but twitter was still in same loading cycle.. then i tried using VPN, "WAHALA" twitter opened in an instant. Then it hit me "is this what i am thinkinh"... i hope its not obviously.. i don't want to be a purveyor of fake news, but i hope its all in my head...

If your works fine, please do let us know.. try VPN if yours can't open without it.

Tenses:
The biggest losers will be the people of Izzi.

They should wake up now and breakaway from the mad governor and his stooge. Three local governments out of thirteen can not guarantee you the governorship.

An Ezza man cannot vote for izzi
An Ikwo man cannot vote for izzi
Many more clans can never vote for Izzi for now
And you are pulling down and destroying opposition campaign banners and preventing them from campaigning in your LGAs.

The Izhi must today start to build bridges across the LGAs in Ebonyi if they are to produce a governor of izhi extraction

Nobody has monopoly for violence!!!

omoadeleye:
They should be in diaspora condemning attack.

Useless bunch of people.

I don't always understand these bunch of abroad refugees, okay you have JAPA out of the country, i don't understand why they believe that their opinions should matter to the affairs of the country.

Decent09:
Emir of Gombe never marry yet.


Emir of Bauchi has only one wife.

God1000:
Why is he marrying too many wives?

I'm beginning to believe that with money you can do just anything in Africa.

uniquelyspecial:
Rally that I didn't any picture or mention of Tinubu or Shettima.
It was simply a rally for APC candidates in the State. At least I saw them moving around the roads of Abakaliki

Bigleaf1006:
Umahi is trying very hard to get a good bargaining position on the table come 2023.....many of us needs to understand how politics works and no need being too sentimental and myopic

Saintinoo:
No, i have been trying to make things work and finding a way to understand her all through those years. But i know better now.

Octopusssy:
I doubt you have ever being in any serious relationship. You sha like talking nonsense

taylor88:
Haaaa

BABANGBALI:
Na true

Interesting15:
Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.


The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.


The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).


There are different things that attempts to compell young people into a romantic relationship at the wrong time and in the wrong manner. There will be members of the opposite gender who wants to pull you into a romantic relationship when it's wrong. Your parents might even be an agent of pressure - trying to force you into a relationship directly or indirectly. Your friends and even the media are also prominent agents. Nevertheless, you must be resolute and be patient enough to do the right thing at the right time.


Now, this is one of the major things pushing many young people into premature romantic relationships and entanglements outside God's Will for them. Loneliness (or the fear of it). Two major things sponsors this: idlness and lack of self esteem (thinking you are totally not complete without a partner).


Even at the basic level, an important solution to eradicating loneliness is getting busy and occupied. Now, I'm aware that some (probably many) young people still feel empty even as they are occupied with several jobs. There are several things to say about that. One is, the emptiness they feel might emanates as a result of neglect of certain important things, such as an intimate relationship with God their Creator (which means, in such a case, the problem is not about loneliness). Also, it is possible to be engaged with several things and still feel inadequate, if you are engaging yourself in things that doesn't bring fulfilment (particularly things that are not God's purpose for you).


Hence, two things I've seen worked for me as well as some other persons I know, are:

1. Being very occupied with seeking and knowing GOD
2. Being very occupied with purpose exploration

A primary function of man is to seek, know and keep exploring God. The truth is, God is very deep and inexhaustible. Even the 24 elders who have been with Him for ages, are yet to know all about Him. And I must tell you, GOD is very exciting, and we can't have enough of Him. Focus on knowing God and you won't be empty. You will get to a stage where you enjoy spending hours alone with God in the secret place, and you enjoy God's presence, always looking forward to the daily experience. The first step is to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.


Finally, get busy with discovering yourself, your talents and gifts and purpose, and occupy yourself with developing and deploying. These things brings fulfilment, and you won't have time for unproductive affairs.

If you are in an immoral relationship with a member of the opposite gender, break it immediately. Receive grace to do so in Jesus Name. Amen.

sundayakanni.com

pocohantas:
This top/dress no be here o.

Total unnecessary display of bosoms.
But what do I know?

Angelfrost:
Liverpool is not serious at all...

Klopp should start looking for another job!

BigDawsNet:
Sacking the manager can really turn around the club.. but we shouldn't expect it.. because Liverpool football club of FSG doesn't fancy "sacking"

We could hav manage this injuries but Mr klopp keeps gambling every match...

If we don't sign in January... we will end in 13th

NgeneUkwenu:
After going through the manifesto of the APC Presidential Candidate today, I NgeneUkwenu, The Great Oracle (Agbara Nwanyi Ndigbo) have decided to support Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu for the coveted seat.

No more sitting on the fence. We hit the road for Asiwaju...I hereby donate the sum of 1 Million naira to this project, as my window's mite.

God Bless Nigeria.

Nifpmod. Mynd44

Saintinoo:
On one hand she is the best, bro if you dont know her well, you can vow to dump you babe for her, but on the other hand she does crazy things. we fight almost everyday, when you do something she doesnt like, then she doesnt mind to start frowning and changing mood till it result to a fight.

Saintinoo:
Good evening nairaland family.
I have never been in such a situation where i am afraid to make mistake like this.

I have been with this girl for more than three years, of courses i promised her marriage, but i have been seeing so many red flags which after doing my findings, takes me to her being a narcissit.

My problem with her:

1. She wants to control and dominate
2. She loses control of her words when angry; she talks to anybody in any manner she likes when she is angry
3. When she is wrong, instead of apologising, she rather manipulate you to take the blame (gaslighting)
4. She appears disrespectful at times, you dare not tell her that she is disrespectful, she will bring up manipulation.

Her good side:

1. She is a type of woman you can call good woman, considering the moral decay of our society
2. She is a virgin, even though am not bothered about that
3. She can go any lenght to make sure her man and family is ok
4. She cares about me so well, prays for and check on me very well.
5. She is contented with the little i give, even if i know she nags about it sometimes.
6. She is always ready to help when things goes bad.

This good sides if hers is the reason i have still not kicked her out, but the red flags are so clear and i would not want to over look that.

Pls advice, because i think these behaviour of hers won't go, and if i marry her, i have to live with with.