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mysaviouralive:
Hello Admin pls move this to the front page and I will be in the comment section reading.

Pls I want to take a boldness step and I will not mind where it can lead to. I have to open an account now to post this. My wife is also a guest of nairaland and she will be seeing this post.

It happen that I got married to my wife over Nine yrs ago and we only have a Kid. I was working in a big company then before the new management came in and change the policy of the company and I was laid off. I was idle like 3yrs before I got another job. she is working in one of the biggest bank in Nigeria. Like 5yrs ago I noticed she will be smiling whenever she is chatting with one of her male colleague. I ask what are they normally discussing, but she told me that it was their office issue that they are discussing. I know the guy and his family and the guy has came to my house not more than four times.

It happen one day that I demanded to give her phone to browse because I was having problem with my phone. she gave me the phone around 10:30pm and I noticed she has has cleared all their chat. This make it look suspicious and I asked her immediately that why did you deleted the chat, but she told me it was a mistake. I think over it for sometime because I trust her then, but on the other hand my mind was telling me to find out more. As an IT expert I connected her phone to my system and do some forensic research on the phone, alas what I discovered was bad. My wife and the guy have been having an affair and chatting and sending their nude to themselves. I called her immediately and demanded to explain the pixture but she denial it and was telling me another story that she snap the pixture and to show me how she was Hot so that we can have sex that night.

she said I should show her where I got the nude pixs and before she came back from the office she has wipe all the pixs that I showed her thinking that I cannot recovered it anymore and I asked her why should you do that but was just begging me. I recovered all the pixs back and the chat she believe she has deleted and I have more proof that she has been cheating on me.

So I asked her to tell me the truth what is going on with the guy and her but she was just begging me. But I told him I dont want her to do or have anything with the guy again that if I catch her again she will not like what I will do for her, with the hope that she will change. Recently I noticed she stil chatting with the guy again and I rake on her to stop it but she told me that she was just explaining office issue she has when he (the guy) not around because she is the one that relief him on work.

This week they are still chatting late in the nite cos I always seen the chat, though she will delete it as soon as they chat finish but I always have the chat and also today they have chat alot to the extend that my wife was crying when she expecting good reply from the guy but the guy fail him and I noticed she has intimate with the guy rather than me her husband.

My wife can lie and so Promiscuous. I have called her severally to change but she did not, recently I heard she was talking with one of her online friend from Abuja when the guy told her he will be coming to visit her this coming week, and I expect my wife to tell me but uptill now she has not saying anything on it. This make me not to have much trust in her again because if she tell me something I will still think over it like five times again before I accepted.

So my plan now is to call the wife of her colleague and explain everything to the wife and I also planing of arresting her colleague because I still have the proof and dont mind what can come out of this, because I tired and cant continue like this anymore, ever since I have caught her I did not enjoy my home anylonger and I tried to erase it from my memory but not get it wright.

Pls save me and save my marriage if possible.

Thank you.

Nothing kills a man faster than having an adulterous wife. Report them to the said Bank they're working. when both loses their job, their brain and destiny will reset.

if you keep forgiving and unearthing more evidences, one day she'll plan with the said colleague and kill you.

Report them to the said Bank they're working. when both loses their job, their brain and destiny will reset.

na wao

When I do my MSc in clinical psychology, I'll get to know many and more of these disorders.

I'll even theorize the Z0mbie disorder syndrome suffered by many Nigerians.

Crystolexy:
So it begins

Video that I can download free from xvideos.com.
Mtcheeww.

wearing desert camouflage in a greenish environment. I tire For Nigeria soldiers Ooohhh.

Why did the open the gate?
does it mean that they don't communicate with the headquarters to know when reinforcements and deployments are done. Don't the have activation post?
So many questions that needs answers.

NA lacks military efficiency.

Many project and thesis works in Nigeria higher institutions are not published, how the software detect plagiarized works?

it'll only catch those who copy works online.

See boobson

Blackfire:
Unfortunately there is mathematics in all this subject..


Psychology is pure mathematics

Statistics not Mathematics.

Battered woman syndrome. the man is stupid and deserves what he received if he truly battered his wife as stated by the woman.

SoapQueen:
Oh! Lol.

I get but make una no dey act Janus faced.
The girl is obviously not bothered about the insults. Nigeria will soon have pornstars.

Na wah.

you've not heard about freethinkers before?

the produce Nigerian made porn videos.
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directonpc:
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bettercreature:
500 naira should be enough to make a very delicious Egusi soup
Egusi 80 naira
dry pepper 10 naira
fish 100 naira
snail 150
veg... 20 naira
beaf 120
I think i can manage 450 naira mind you it will serve us for 3 days

not now Egusi is N300

RIP to the Dead

yazach:
Welcome Idea
Many developed nations use their mother language
China still use Chinese Japan use their language North Korea USA UK Italy France

USA? are you kidding me?
So English is USA's local dialect?
you're confused

dainformant:
see more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/04/nigerian-catholic-bishops-meet-with-pope-francis-at-the-vatican-photos.html

Bishop Lucius Iwejuru Ugorji of Umuahia Diocese always stands out. handsome fair man, 2nd person by the right hand of the Pope.

Eweduristan Stars representing

thesicilian:
Though there's no difference between the cattle and their rearers (they're all animals), I still believe if he wasn't driving too fast, the impact of the collision might not have been enough to kill him.

so someone should be driving slowly in a freeway?

do highways, carriageway or freeway have speed limits?

instead of you condemning the herders activities, you're here spilling trash. God have mercy on your soul.

RIP to the man.

OkoYibo:
If you make an Igbo man God and he's speaking Igbo on judgement day, other Igbos would complain that he is Wawa not speaking their dialect.

Igbos in Mbaise fought with the Pope. This is because the Pope selected someone from outside Mbaise to be the Bishop of Achiara diocese in Mbaise. They said that the Pope was marginalising them and persecuting them.

Igbos in Ipob fought with Jesus Christ. They said since Jesus Christ is the Lord of all those marginalising and persecuting them, they'll boycott Jesus and start praying directly to Chukwu Okike Abiama (the God of all Creation).

If Igbos can insult the Pope and keep malice with Jesus Christ, you all would realise that they should just lock down the entire Igboland and conduct mental tests on all of them.

Ewu, what is Achiara diocese?

Andyblaze:
No jokes... This gentleman just came to his babe's POP and popped the question

Oga did you pass out too today?

I was there when it happened, buy I was still struggling to collect my discharge certificate.