₦airaland Forum

To say I love my ex would actually be an understatement. Its only a pity things didn't quite work out.

So @Topic, Capital NO,

iykedee:
kiss my ex? No way, I hate the bit**h.

lol. how come you dated if u hated him/her that much.

sleekymag:
Imagine you've resolved not to have sex again till you're married, and your current relationship with someone u love so much strictly obeys that rule. And you get to be around your ex (who never really got over you anyways) whom you had a number of sexcapades with in your then days. Now don't you think it might be dangerous to be in secluded places with this ex, particularly when you know your touch sparks fire down her throat?

I tire O.

I still fink it is not possible especially as her touch sparks fire and thunder down my throat. For those who think it is possible, I would appreciate if u could explain how especially when total avoidance of ones ex is out of the question.

DaPhoenix:
It depends on why we broke up. If we broke up for something major, I don't think he'd still be alive but it was something minor like we weren't feeling each other anymore, yeah I can still be friends with him and if the mood is right and he does or says something sweet and/or sexy, I don't know, I just might kiss him.

In that case, you're indirectly saying its impossible.

@

sylvex:
Yeah! it's possible bt intimate contact should be avoided as much as possible!

How possible is this especially when the chemistry is the there?

Comments please,

Just a quick question plz.

Is it possible to be friends with an ex lover without kissing him/her when you are alone together. The situation is that your split was not acrimonious but cant be explained and now, you both have lovers who you are not ENTIRELY happy with but scared of breaking his/her because they don't deserve to be hurt

I fink it's hard if at all possible. Wanna know what u think.

al the best

show your worth by giving her space,

Is her loss. I'd fink you tryin to do her a favor.

[quote author=frank 3.16 link=topic=130503.msg2243150#msg2243150 date=1210347095]am not botherd about trusting anybody.
i just enjoy relationships while they last and if she gives me a reason to distrust her, then i decide on what next to do depending on how bad her behavior was[/quote]nice way to luk at it.

WLD GO THERE PERHAPS TO CREATE A SCENE.

"STAND UP IF YOU'V GOT STH AGAINST THIS WEDDING" AND YOU'D SEE MR EX STANDING UP ONLY TO EXCUSE HIMSELF FOR THE LOO

Red and black candle. may be white as well.

funny enough,

It worked for me. And its only been less than 4months.

Had a line like "You'v been a pleasure to treasure beyond measure" and the rest, the letter worked,

Long dist relationship though,

_yawn

Posta don fade!

"_Yawn"

Gs its smfin natural. perhaps just to get the conversation going

Guy,

Chop for here, chop for there, food don finisss

Your mind is made up on this already. ~Apz the naija angel wld be the one to pay aftall she's not of too much benefit to u atm is she?

U had to do wht u had to do to survive and out of fear u hid ur secret and honestly cant blame u to savin ur back but then it wasnt the best fin to do.

do wht u hv to do but remember wht goes round comes around and hop tht you get away wv it. But guy, you try O, shd hv seen al of these comin and mayb tel the naija girl to find her level since u love the oyibo more.

None of them obviously deserves to be hurt, they'v both been gud but I'm not to say if u dzv them or not, life is such tht we can only love our neighbours as we love ourself not more than we love ourself

To those who fink the dude shd be crucified, you'd hop neva to be in his position cz u probably do the same.

Gs I'd hv to come bck to read this post.

@ subject

it depends. If God be for you, who can be against you?

Have been really into Nigerian music more recently and wld admit some are really good. The likes of 2face for example. However the lyric by some others are completely awful.

Not sure if you'd al agree wv my comments but is it the feeling that they'v got talent or desperation tht get the musicians/artist into singin cz some no dey try at all.

Sometym it gets really annoyin. wld come bck wv names if necessary but we al knw some artist are just underperformin.

wanna knw wht u fink.

Has to be Pretty woman, Richard Gere and Julia Roberts

To me, they mean the same fin. It depends on the level of importance you attach to it,

,

Good luck to them,

sleekymag:
Love is deep; it is all-encompassing
You can give without loving but you can't love without giving
God so loved that he gave us his son
Love is making d other person a better person
Love is sacrifice; it is compromise for the right cause (not wrong cause)
Love is not self-seeking; it endures; Love is life!!!
God is Love; having love means having God!

Love doesn't get better than this, does it,

God is love, having love means having God.

Keep the comments coming

more comments plz,

What does love mean to you,

@poster

You write so well for me to fink you'd be affected by breakup.

Fins like that happnz but it takes self belief to be strong. ~The only fin tht has ever broken my heart was the death of my mum, yet, the belief that I'd make her proud keeps me going.

What about cases where you leave your partner cz you fink its the best fin to do and you end up being hurt cz it wasnt the best afterall. Tht hurts even more I'd fink @ PRYNXLEX, it doesnt work like tht. May even compound the issue esp when u deeply in love wv the person you splitin wv.

Ideal relationship,

Different people, different meaning.

For me,

an ideal relationship is defined by the amount of respect you have for the ova person. Respects brings about LOVE and the rest if you get wht I mean.

tngtech:
@poster

Have you written down your will. Cuz i can see that you are a dead man walking. _{***signed off***}

This is qte serious brova. Gud u not comin bck here.

@posta

You'r not alone in this. I can assure you.

Obviously you'd see Tina deserves to be loved as she was there when u needed a shoulder. She would tell u she's fallen for you completely and beg you never to leave cz she's already into you and you honestly can't bear to break her heart after makin her believe you love her but the problem is that wv tola in the picture, there's alwz a possibility you'd cheat on Tina cz 2 years is not 2days unless there's no more sexual chem between you both (which I doubt). Funny enough, you cld have a loving and lasting relationship wv either of them in the long run.

Like I said, you not alone in this but this is nairaland and not tales by moonlight. Only a few persons will gv honest advise and no advise would go down wvout you havin to rethink. You have to hope Tina leaves you so you can start al ova with Tola as the situation is such that as long as she's not happy wv her situation, she'd alwz want you. (its obvious she fot she cld do wvout you but now realises its not easy esp if you'r her first love) but how can you out of nofin break Tina's heart? she doesnt dzv it and if anyfin, you'd loose her friendship altogether. Where does that leave you.

In summary,

Stick wv tina and hope she leaves you cz she doesnt dzv heart break esp as you'v made her believe you love her. Its easy to say follow your heart but it's easier said than done. However be warned that you'd alwz stand the chance of cheating on Tina as far as Tola is in the pic.

Al the best.

_{Wld come back to this thread}.

Perhaps barc not pulling their weight enough or mayb madam not pulling her weight. No more g-string and bra and mr man tired of seeing old fashion pants hanging on every corners of the bathroom and washroom

Cant generalz this though. most girls _hate the idea. However, the fact tht they feel in control havin the power to manipulat the idiot is a lure.

tngtech:
they don't fall in love with the married ones, they fall in love with their money. simple fact.

Not alwz the case. Angelina Jolie didnt fall for Brad pitt for his cash.