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dumped her?

I neva thought it was a pride to dump a girl. why the bragging? Anyhow, I think I get wht you mean. Enjoy ur freedom while it last and prepare for the worst just in case cz wht goes round comes around. aldsame,

guy, no be u start am, no be u go end am.

Not all boys. Most times, guys do not tell lies _{in case it backfires} but just don't say the truth in case it hurts reason being that some girls are quick to misinterpret/misunderstand the comments especially if it isn't what they were hoping to hear.

She has a boyfriend isnt? just stay friends and see what happens. She would probably turn to u in the future, by which time, if and only if you are still single, you'd get ur chance.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=141518.msg2365223#msg2365223 date=1213291782]LOL,
is that how u fantasise about a girl wooing you?

Me I woo men all the time oh, they waste too much time in getting around to it[/quote]Wanted to be funny. At least someone got the joke.

4Her:
Eclairs
tell me how you'll woo a girl. . .you see, talk about laughing, most of you men suck in that area.

Sorry hon, nobody uses "i love your eyes" anymore

Woo a girl? Have never done it and would never do it cz I do not think its necessary. I meet a lot of beautiful girls daily and for some unknown reason, some of them fall in love with my personality. I gs that all I need really. After being friends for a while, they feel let down when I tell them I have girlfriend but then, they admire me even more for being honest.

You sure didn't expect me to say "I love more than the love your father have for your mother" did you?

Megafunky7:
SOME DEY LAUGH, SOME DEY CRY, SOME DEY SELL DIA PRODUCT , SOME STILL DEY LOOK 4 CUSTOMERS. SEE MY OWN GIRL COME FROM AKWA IBOM, SHE NO DEY TIRE FOR FUCKING BUSINESS, HENCE I DEY GIVE HER 3hrs RIDE WITH MY LONG NEW CHASES UNDER MY LEG, INFACT NA ME DEY RUN. BELIEVE ME I DON'T KNOW THE KIND OF SUGAR THAT WAS DEPOSITED UNDER HER LEG. I USE TO HEAR AM SAY PERSON FIT F**K FOR A LONG PERIOD, SEE MY OWN DON'T START, MAYBE YOU SHOULD DIRECT YOUR GIRL TO MY BABE. MY BABE FIT TALK SENCE INTO UR BABE.

Megafunky7:
SOME DEY LAUGH, SOME DEY CRY, SOME DEY SELL DIA PRODUCT , SOME STILL DEY LOOK 4 CUSTOMERS. SEE MY OWN GIRL COME FROM AKWA IBOM, SHE NO DEY TIRE FOR FUCKING BUSINESS, HENCE I DEY GIVE HER 3hrs RIDE WITH MY LONG NEW CHASES UNDER MY LEG, INFACT NA ME DEY RUN. BELIEVE ME I DON'T KNOW THE KIND OF SUGAR THAT WAS DEPOSITED UNDER HER LEG. I USE TO HEAR AM SAY PERSON FIT F**K FOR A LONG PERIOD, SEE MY OWN DON'T START, MAYBE YOU SHOULD DIRECT YOUR GIRL TO MY BABE. MY BABE FIT TALK SENCE INTO UR BABE.

His babe doesnt need advise from ur babe anymore, if you were kind enough to read other post too this thread, you will see he's succeeded. I think you should contact him and form a rapport with him cos you have the same priorities

Obviously

Well, sometimes some girls act like they dont need the financial help of their boyfrnds. Even when things gets too rough, you try to assist, give them the money and they try to prove a point that they could do it without your money. This gets out of hand sometimes and the boy folds his hand and look like a "lukosade" as if to say, "make we dey look"

you have the right to love and be loved because love is blind and we all know that.

Apparently, love is colourblind!

Nice article though.

tngtech:
those in relationship should be able to answer this questions.

Blad,

Could date for 3yrs and the relationship is still not stabilised. I gs it depends on your degree of patience cause sometimes stabilising a relationship could take forever.

tope2000:
@Eclairs
Well said jare

Thank u my sister. I find it hard to process these sort of things.

sistawoman:
Answer:

If you woo the man correctly he will think he is wooing you. Everyone knows the woman controls everything we just let the men think our ideas are theirs

ennnnn, why wont u say that?

Tell us then. How do u woo the man correctly? I beg no make me laugh agn, cz I'm already loosing it.

Go and pray about this cz sometimes even the so called Christian brothers are just as bad. But emmmmm, unbeliever? That one hard O, perhaps depending on the extent of his unbelief. you sure dont want to marry a guy that will use ur head for money.

If you've been "patiently waiting", then, your time will come.

[b]@I met this beautiful girl and I didn’t toast her but we started dating i.e. after several meetings and interactions. I knew some other guys toasted her before we met but she rejected them. I love her and the way I see it she love me too. Unfortunately, it’s now 4 months she has refused to allow me make love with her and I’m still wondering if she really loves me. Though, her behaviour proves her love for me. She has never demanded any money from me since then and I have not given her anything and sometimes she rejects drinks from me but will like to buy for me. I warned her seriously against rejecting my drinks while at the same time offering to buy same drinks for me. Now she accepts drinks from me. However, she only allows me to romance and finger her but often shout at me to stop once she is wet. I have been asking her why telling me to stop fingering her, but the response has been “I don’t want you to weaken me.”

Angered by this, I stopped seeing and calling her for a month but she kept on disturbing and calling me. I heard she even fell sick upon thinking of me. Now, I’m back but she still continues with her shakara - nothing for me still. I’m tired of sucking breast and fingering. I really want to have the real thing. She told me that I must have it but the problem is when? I love her but I may find it difficult to be in relationship without sex.


Please, I need your advice – no bashers no matter how this may sound. What do you think might be her problem?
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Thank God for your life. At least she's finally submitted. I hope you don't come here telling us how you've lost interest in her. Guys like you make me sick. I'm a guy by the way in case u want to know.

Now prove to yourself you really loved her and not just wanted to bed her by staying with her for anova one yr without "luking outside".

@I believe we can sit here all day and try to speculate who to blame, but the fact remains that the guy just wasnt right for you.if u find the guy that loves you and you love him back, he doesnt loose interest don't matter how boring you are.(and this goes to all of us both guys and gals). THIS QUESTION used to baffle me too until i decided no matter how hard you try if "he aint right for you then he aint"

Some gals play hard to get,yes but how about the ones that don't.
some gals don't return calls and some do etc
the loss of interest thing happens to us all.
Except the really lucky ones.

Quit trying to figure,just be yourself and pray to God.
But most importantly,if you were to agree to date a guy,do it with fear of God.

NO ONE is to blame not the guys and definately not the girls.
Shit Happens!

Brilliant contribution. 10/10 in my opinion Matured mind.

origina9ja:
true say
even me i need a proper answer 2 that
dey beg nd do all da possible things 2 get u
after u say yes that da end
damn all u need 2 do iz forget them init
because its works both wayz
they show love u show it bak init
if they are waitin 4 me 2 show love and they dnt show it bak
then the boy done make mistake
bigg time, x

Sounds more like a teenage girl. Sorry to say, it doesnt alwz work like that. By the time you are approaching your late 20s, things changes. You show love regardless cz you're reluctant to begin a new relationship especially after investing loads on your present relationship

In my opinion, getting to know the girl better reveals certain things you never knew and so, you begin to have second thoughts.

But then, some girls do not reciprocate the calls and the guy begins to feel used especially when he's getting "nothing" from the relationship.

Meet the man and introduce yourself. Case close!

Next step, tell him u are following him to his house or else you would disgrace him.

I gs he would see u mean business.

Question?

How often do women woo men. Men are suppose to woo women and thats why they are called woo-men bcs they are wooed by men.
Get it?

chrisoml:
yes it's possible. But mind you that no matter how bad u hated your ex-(him/her) both of u would still be attracted to each other. "just like its said that once there would always be there"
d best would be 2 stay off far away from your ex-

Noted.

Fancier:
hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmm u guys are talking about kissing, in my own case my boyfriend ex actually travelled all the way from Akure to Benin for a Bleep. what do u think about this? of which i found them still on the bed

of which i found them still on the bed

What did you do on seeing them? I think f*****g is taking it too far but then, no one can ignore the power of the old flames.

@

tglaz:
from personal experience, i would[b] loudly[/b] proclaim that: this is serious, as a liltle time alone could be dangerous.i don't really subsribe to a close contact with an ex.

You are right but sometimes, its hard to forget an ex especially when he/she is your first and your split wasn't based on a row/argument.

I guess its a thing of whats in the past should be in the past. Easier said than done.

na wa o.

2nd stage: I don't understand it at all. If I'm arrogant, of course I'll introduce myself. I am "Seun the Great", afterall. The man who loves to hear nothing better than the sound of his own name!

lol

@ post. Absolutely no comments. Don't see a point on trying to woo a lady. Its usually the ova way round and most times the whole thing flatters me,

Ready for some serious bashing? Na joke I dey O.

whats special about the names. Its a matter of choice isn't? As a guy, I wouldn't consider divorce. Should that happen, its up to the lady to bear whatever name she wants. If my name is Olokun for instance, I would assume that there are more than one Olokun in Nigeria.

So it doesn't really matter, in my opinion

full depth:
wetin dey worrry the girl sef?
she wan tell me say she never FLABAR any guy before?
all these girls sef, when them don see one maga ,them go wan dey form like say them no no man.
she come dey hold u local with yans say she dey fear to commit herself.kai, why e' no be me??

Guy, notin dey hapen, Pineh this scambo jooooo,
now u are in isreal,make sure u get in2 jerusalem,
but always remember to trunk your cable all the time.

lol

ummmmmmmmm

My guy, there is more to the relationship than what u can see. Sorry to say, the girl's probably using you. I'd advise you enjoy the relationship while it last. You never know, in a few years while she's 27 and you are 24, if you are still together, she would be the one begging for commitment, I mean thats if you are still together,

For now, enjoy it while it last and try not to be distracted from your book. Your future looks promising and I think thats why she dating you in the first place.

Boring?

Not married yet but comments like this scares the hell out of me.
@posta, its only bcs u not workin yet. things are likely to change with time and you can help change that. Instead of sit and feel sorry for yourself, think of wayz to spice things up _{e.g. going out for a meal, going on holidays} with your hubby before he starts thinking he's married a boring wifey, and you know, thats where the problems starts

the Lord's with you

Can u cook? After all these yrs, why is it thats its now u felt u cld complain. I beg talk better thing. My mum dont know how to cook. and so?

dewiseacre:
I just cannot imagine how a lot of people can be trifling over something as sacrosanct as a relationship. See how babes dey yarn non-chalantly about cheating as if say na food wey them must to chop. God! What will ever make a lady satisfied and remove her insatiable desires! I know of a friend who had a perfect relationship, bought her girl a car but she ended up on the bed of the mechanic fixing that car. Women just want a taste of what evryman has got! Na wa o

Men are just as bad.

@posta

It appears you'r tryin to make up for the past. If you are married, its not a problem but if you are not, then wahala dey. I guess the best way out is to keep yourself in check.

You're not a lone in this. The urge will alwz be there but tell yourself you've got integrity and make a stand. May God help you

[quote author=player_007 link=topic=140179.msg2351551#msg2351551 date=1213010564]Are u insane? what makes you think that all guys are the same? for the fact that calabers eat DOGS does not mean that all calabas are DOG eaters.because a guy or girl cheated on you does not mean that all men are the same so please take time.[/quote]Guy make you talk true. Your name alone sounds like you're a cheat, just tryin to leave in denial. Don't mean to be rude and we can obviously not generalize the statement but the post makes sense. It takes just the Grace of God to be faithful.

I've been made to realize that cheating is not just about having sexual intercourse but about doing something your partner wouldn't approve off. I did share ur view at first but we're all humans, we just have to take a stand and do what is right when we realise we're falling short.

peace out