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[quote author=Brash! link=topic=157234.msg2610766#msg2610766 date=1217923681]@Poster


All na lie!![/quote]meaning, explain plzzzzzz

a jew man?

someone who's naive in a subject matter, be it sex, fraud, love games, etc.

waitin to hear from u.

1984 just as I was burn, from mummy.

topup:
I actually cannot help myself I must say more!

After he came over to chat, he seemed desperate to find a way to regain my trust, since when we broke up I told him that I didn't think I could be friends with him since he'd broken my trust, he asked if there was anyway he could get it back and if we could be friends again and I told him maybe but I needed time. Immediately he cracked a joke and I lost myself and I laughed, when he left he kind of forced a hug which I regret accepting stiffly. About ten days later he messaged me online cracking a joke, and then saying 'its been a while since we talked' I just couldn't understand why he was being so casual, he'd just broken my heart. I ignored it until I was over the anger, when I was I sent him an email thinking we could now be friends, I sent him an email wishing him all the best in his future - we won't be seeing each other around at all next year (different locations). He didn't reply, then I messaged him telling him to read the email and he finally messaged back saying 'thanks' and that he's 'checked it,  x' I was confused by the kiss. I waited for more response, but nothing so 3 days later I messaged him casually too, like nothing happened, telling him maybe we don't speak because he doesn't come online on messenger when I am ending the message with 'and that's how I break the ice' I thought we could start being friends again. But nothing, the next day he came on messenger I thought he was going to speak to me but when he didnt I started a conversation and I just said a casual hello and he didnt reply.  I sent him a nudge and he didnt reply either, and thats how its been since (though I recently messaged him to say congratulations for finishing his degree),

I think I have tried my best, the man doesn't even want to know me right now. If he doesn't reply my last message, I have decided to leave all efforts of a friendship behind because it is stressing me out!

You must have left something out. Breakups don't just happen. perhaps something you did that you ought not to have done or something you ought to have done that you didnt do or was it all about him? I see you'v got the looks so where did it all go wrong? Lets talk.

it will do a lot of good if we come out with bible quotation or is it just an assumption?

comments plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. perhaps nofin one shd be so concerned about but if you not been to heaven, how do u know what happens there? revelation?

@ post,

It piercies my heart but gone are the days.

TOYOSI20:
As long as it takes for both parties to feel comfortable

enough to move to the next level.

Seconded

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Post absolutely flawed in my opinion. Human behaviour can be interpreted differently and so, go back to that website and come back without something we dont know about.

@posta, are u married? if yes, @question No. if No@question Yes, the effect is that you are limitin ur chance of fatherhood.

Brain obviously unlex the brain come last for beauty contest. Then wahala dey. Beauty is not my no1 but at least lets help our children.

HCH3COO:
Hello Thread Star, good to have you here.  Welcome to nairaland!

Please OP, do not read too much into the poster above me's misinformative, absolutely untrue statement.  Sure long distance relationships are freaking hard, but they do work, and unlike most common relationships they require maybe twice/thrice as much work due to the distance and the feelings of insecurity/distrust, lack of physical connection it may create.  The real issue here is, you are going through a very difficult stretch in your relationship.  This is normal!  All relationships have their ups & downs.  In the end it comes down to your willingness to work things out, compatibility, communication and love for your partner.  You still love this woman so please think very well before you put an abrupt end to your relationship. 

There have been a handful of threads created in the past addressing, or geared towards coping, with long distance relationships.  I suggest you read up on them - they might help.

List below:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-469.352.html
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-21621.0.html
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-66244.0.html
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-143655.0.html

Seconded

@ question

Wanna have children and see what it feels like

Ummm

Kissing alone is enough to start the so called demise u are talking about. But I dont think the success of a relationship is dependent on that.

Other fins are involved

@ question

Both. + women deceive men too

not a woman sorry!

Hi folks
Not sure if I am the only one that have heard some men of God saying this.

Apparently, in heaven, there's a crown for everyone and for every crown, stars are fixed according to your work on earth. For instance, a pastor whose work cuts across the globe gets more stars than a pastor who's just a parish/branch pastor, thts assumin they both get to heaven.

Thus, christian/believers in christ are encouraged to take the work of God to another level so they cld have more stars on their crown.

I'd imagine that getting there is paramount to virtually everyone who believes in heaven but can someone tell me something. I'm not sure if I'm the only person to have heard this.

@question,
No

However, I am experiencing a heaven on earth and its al about Jesus.

Just a quick question, Does the bible say anything directly/indirectly about petting and necking, cuddling and pecking,

Does appear to be lust/adultery _{as suggested in mathew} in my opinion but cant be entirely sure as I think the above is possible without lustful intention

Contribution please,

No beefing please. Its ok if u cant contribute.

@topic

A bit of both,

@poster,

why you dey fall boys hand for here?

Dont want to say you are a disgrace but emmm sorry, u no dey try at all.

Was surprised when someone told me this few days ago. Apparently before proposal what you share in a relationship is friendship and not courtship.

Can anyone throw more light on this?

Thnks

dont get this post.

@posta, tell us in one sentence wht love is and stop givin love names such as PITY, Loneliness, Lust etc etc.

@question?
YES

Its amazing how ones desperate quest for wealth could put an end to ones career. The short article in the link below refers to a pal I know so well. Copy and paste the link on your browser to read.

http://business.timesonline.co.uk/tol/business/law/article4296082.ece

Apart from endin her career and givin herself a criminal record, she has to some extent jeopardized the chance of promising Nigerians as well as other aspiring students. I hope by this we realise that as Nigerians, its important we're patient and honest in life.

Obviously, there's no problem with gettin rich quickly but let our quest for wealth be guilded by honesty

Bein givin a second opportunity to work in a reputable company as a University student _{(after working in the company as an A level student)}, one would fink that, the possibility of a third opportunity after graduation would stop the person in question from actin like she did but sadly it didnt and the end result was an end to everyfin she's ever laboured for.

I beg, lets open our eyes and wait for our time.

Cheers.

congratulations

are you gay?

will turnin gay make the difference? @ 25 there's stil a long way to go after all life begins at 40. or doesnt tht stands anymore.

Seriously speakin, she wld be better off go to a church where things happen. if u knw wht i mean. Christ embassy for instance, where you will find so many youths.

@ question

As if its every nigerian men tht lie+ as if nigerian ladies dont tell lies