₦airaland Forum

Klass99:
You both have options;

1. She declines the new job and sticks with the 400k plus job.

2. You let her go to Abuja and you both visit each other like she suggested but that's not very cost effective, especially if you're running two homes and that 1.5M may not be so profitable at the end of the day.

3. Speak with your bosses and request a transfer to Abuja, so you stay together as a family where you can be actively involved in training your kids - women make sacrifices like these for their hubby's and hubby's career and for the sake of their families as a whole, why does it seem so hard for you men to do so for the same reasons women do?

400k + 600k income is not bad for one household, just make sure you don't increase the number of kids, because life is not going to be less expensive as we all grow older.

That's we men for you. Lol

The truth is everyone knows Nigerian women hardly respect their men when they earn better. So, we men have to always up our game. This doesn't mean we shouldn't support our women for the good of everyone though.

Him going to Abuja means he will be at a disadvantaged position. I wish I can advise him though.

This is tough oo

annayawchee:
Confirmed sha.....

Dude house was right beside my own in the village ...

Wonder who led them there cos it's way out of sight

Out of sight but not hidden.

See the way people idenfied and 'fished out' Tinubu's companies during the ENDSARS protest.

As for me, I think this madness should end already. Destruction of lives and properties won't get us anywhere.

For the Bigot, it's always cows over non-Fulanis.

I can't wait for 2023 to be here

Emmaneul

May his soul rest in peace

Like for Chelsea, Share for Villareal.

As for me, my sky will always be Blue

Watch as some Mumus drag Isreal into this.

Wetin concern 'Fears' and 'Tension' for this matter na? Abegi

The new Oil

Is that the reason for creating a new account and spamming the entire Nairaland? This isn't reasonable at all.

The Banking industry has a similar grading structure. Why not see this promotion as a bargaining chip and opportunity to move on to the next grade elsewhere?

Your destiny is not tied to EcoBank so stop whining. Lets learn to make Lemonades with the Lemons life throws at us.

Be wise!

captainamiedi1:
Baba don cash out. Na he working place be that

You are a wise man

FalseProphet1:
Flee to the hills and mountains my people for Buhari is forcing the nation into another civil war, I see Nigeria breaking into 3 different countries.

This I have seen.

You are truly a false prophet. Breaking into 3 countries is not possible. Definitely not less than 5 countries.

Sheik Gumi... Officiating minister
Garba Sheu...Chairman of the occasion.

Geezz

This country is dead.

May God heal our land

They are one and the same.

We've never been this divided as a nation. This is what you get when you elect and still support a tribal bigot like Buhari.

The solution to Nigeria is booting out the Cowlord.

Easyincome24:
This isn't about being a black man. It's obsession with car just like some love their pets etc.

This act may look stupid to us but we can't hurriedly judge someone else unless we are in their shoes.

Hey Dhar Mann fam!

Evil dwarf

Moferere:
They have sacrificed them. May we never be unfortunate

Anu Mpama

Nikolaa:
Is buhari not ashamed
Macron is old enough to be his last child
Yet there is day n night difference in their competency

Buhari of all people. Nigg* ain't gat no shame.

Nigeria is a business venture for Fulanis.

They've 'Fulanized' our lands, oil wells and all juicy MDAs.

The Summary

Anywhere you see addresses like;

Beside 123 supermarket, behind ABC bookshop, Opposite XYZ cyber cafe etc... Commonsense should tell you to flee. Na big time redflags.

BTW, you didn't apply for a job but you wan go for the interview. Make una dey reason na.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

You've been released. Heard EFCC raided your hood

Naija Police don mad finish I swear. This is the funniest shit I've seen this month

Two fools

Stop giving these guys cheap publicity.

Buhari's government has impoverished a once progressive nation.

Even if you are promoted every year at work, the ever increasing cost of goods and services will continue to dwarf your earnings.

His mental health keeps deteriorating. His family should do something about it fast.

Uche really needs help. It's now or never.

aspabay:
Soon someone will ask if they are provided alternative.

Why will government provide alternative for illegality. If you do not have somewhere legal to stay or do business, go back to your village.

I agree with you

OYO is your case if you make that mistake for this Buhari regime