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well it's not that bad,
some guys might not mind.
but really if u intend to marry a full blooded african (not 'westernised' african)
ability to cook will add to the quality of a wife u are.

but u'v said u dont want to get married anyway, cos u r still young

it's so sad that life now does not celebrate virginity,

what's wrong with being a Virgin if u are yet to marry,
apart from from religious reasons,
cant moral reasons be relevant enough,
abegi, allow them,

shd b a pride.

2fine4u:
why would u want a virgin guy? look for the one that's experienced and knows all the tricks instead of one that will be askin u how to wear a condom. a virgin girl is easy to find and the guy won't mind teachin her stuff.

i feel u, u aint ready to teach

maki:
i like ego, by that nigerian presenter, i don't even know his name but i like him, cute guy

the guys name is Djinee

even if u settle with a Nigerian, he just might not mind your retaining ur father's name,

but if he was like me,

svs:
no with one guy

so u dont want to cook,
u dont want to get married,
u dont want to have children,

but want to have a lot of sex, hahahaha
with one guy,
and hope he too wont get married nor have children,
just enjoy your "sex" live girl,

but still learn cooking plssssssss

iice:
svsI so know what you mean, I totally agree with ya

u agree abi,
u ladies are just enjoying f, king alone,
or u too dont know hw to cook,
hw old are u?, o

not knowing hw to cook i believe isn't "lady-like" (my own view o)

Mukina,
well, that ur opinion, maybe u r fortunate or unfortunate enuf to meet only gluttons as frds

and Svs,
it's so unfortunate that u are already tinkin like this at ur age, maybe it's owing to ur environment, such tots maybe not help u,
u r african, mind u, u have a culture and tradition

Desiree,
so u are even yoruba,
anyway, like i said it depends on the guy
and mind u, u dont have to change your names on your certificates et al.
just d name u use regularly, put nee, (for example: Mrs Ngozi John (nee James))
that will cater for the records,

u sound like one tough girl, kilode.
u really dont have go do all the tedioous tasks,
maybe u dont even wish to settle down wit a Nigerian (cos u aint in Nigeria) talk less of a yoruba.

desiree:
I would still like to keep my maiden name after marriage because of the complexity of changing names on documents and records.Any man would surely understand that.

u cant just conclude like that, well i realy dont know where u r from, but generally, men from my part of the world (Nigeria- Yoruba precisely), except exceptional guys wld understand. cos i personally dont see dat as an excuse (complexity of changing names, ) when u pay dowry uv paid for all including name.

COCO29:
honey when i got i did not even change my name, more over i never used his (WHAT FOR)

well really it really depends on him, happy for u, but i still appreciate the fact that from u use my surname(if i were him).u said what 4??.same it's my culture

i think it has a lot to do with your cultural backgrd. and ur personal opinion.

why do pple have to start talking about Bra in this thread?

last week,




wwtlt u spoke ur native language.

there are 6 standard plots of 120 X 60 in 1 acre.
i.e. 1 acre = 6 plots
1 hectare = 15 plots (2.5 acres).

and Lekki too is good for investment and much cheaper anyway, especially the built up area.

if u are talking of investing in ppties, then u are probably talking of purchasing,

then buying a ppty, in V.I, then u shd be prepared to pay about N200m (yeah that expensive),
then u can get rent of say N5m- N8m annually,

this is for 4/5 Br detached hse/Duplex,

all things are created by God, right


but we need to be careful about whom we seek help from.
cos at times what one pays back in return may be worse off.

some Babalawos are even better that some so-called pastors (whom we dont know the true source of their powers.

there's a misconception that Babalawos are demonic, (not all of them).

., i'm not one o, i'm a christian who just has an open mind towards all religion,

my answer to this is that individuals shd seek for their own direct link to God and u'll b surprised how things will work for you, most of us make our pastors almost equal to God.

church romance is Ok, but it's always good to remember God,
u shd hope to lead such to the altar not just for fun

most of us christians, commit a lot of sin by "fighting for God"
which he himself has not sent us to do for him.

Judge not so that thou shall not be judged.

, i'm laughing my head out, in fact my stomach is paining me already,

but mind you, the sabbath still remains saturday, it hasn't change to Sunday,

, i'm curious, what job does this your friend do?

he's a foolish fool.
how can a sane person be testing God.

he must have really teken marijuana, mixed with cocaine and washed down with probably paraga.

God rarely forgives suicide.

well, i think numerogoly is real,
it tells the significance the numbers,
maybe it can also be called science of numbers,

it really doesnt necesarilly have anything to do with religion,

Sweet,
i can imagine the way u feel , but like u said it's life, in ur locality, it's either u are black or u are white, but remember evn the white might frown at marriage to those in from the middle east. it has to do with religious beliefs, way of life etc amongst others,
hope that helps a bit.

Chy,
i very much agree with Twinstaye, the earlier u tell her mother the better.Time is more unfair to the woman.tell the mother early, so that u get the "no" early.
You guys could even go see someone she respects and listens to (say an elderly person), tell that person, convince that person, You might even eventually take the guy to that person.
this elder can even talk to her mother before you guys.

mind you if the mother says no!, tell her not to be rude about it,
let her not to be proving that she's old enough to decide bla bla bla,
u have to be diplomatic about it,
and surprisingly, the mother could okay the relationship.

OUR PARENTS.ESPECIALLY MOTHERS KNOW MORE THAN WE DO
THEY WANT THE BEST FOR US,
SHE WANTS THE BEST FOR HER.

pls guys take it easy with yourselves,
it's her own opinion,
maybe she hasnt calculated what $5m will exchange for naira,
but everybody is entitled to his/her opinion,
abeg spare the babe,



$5m, (FIVE MILLION AMERICAN DOLLARS)?
HABA!!!!

the nigerian political arena is very unprdictable.
it's better for those not in politics to just stay out and not mind the politicians
was it not after Abila's death that we were hearing that Kola was going out with one of IBB's daughter that they almost got married.
till today, Kola allegedly enters IBB's house at will, and they are very close, yet you so-called Abiola supporters are their critisizing IBB., while a lot even died during the struggle for june 12 (cheap deaths)

the other time, when, Gov. Fayose and Gov.Tinubu had a clash in Ekiti state, a lot of supporters died. some Tinubu sopporters even threatened that if Fayose shd come to Lagos, he wont go back alive,

who was there when they settled?, and Fayose, comes to Lagos almost everyday, yet some people who heard the story are still sleeping on feasting on the initial disagreement.

i believe politicians are just full of deceit.
we shd all stay and watch them do their dance of shame,

afterall, either u vote or u dont vote,, ur vote rarely count.

nice of u.
guys pls apply if interested.

my girl friend of course!!

listen to the ladies o
as if, if they were in her shoes they will refuse such juicy offers.
abeg, who no like money,

they said the lady has been refusing until, d efizy,
abeg allow the girl enjoy her life jare,
why is she into music, is it not for money?

he's d son of a dictator, mass murderer
is he the dictator or the mass murderer?
even if he was, is LOVE NOT BLIND?

abegi,
for the ladies, if she was ur frd, wont u want to go out with her at least as hand-bag
for the guys, if she was ur sister, , wont u go look for contract in his country or make him pay for pre-dowry

abeg life is short, she's catching her fun, and i'm sure she enjoying it,
she is not a preacher, nor preacher's daughter, and she does sing gospel music,
let her enjoy her life, life is very short. abeg

never heard of 6ft plus neither,

na wah o!
actually, i've been hearing about it
that the guy was given $5m,
had to go watch the film,
in fact the "African Queen" sang in the film didnt last for up to 2mins
and it was played briefly about twice,
even "Danfo Driver" is among the other soundtracks, which nobody has talked about, i think dem Kenny are just using that to market themselves and not even 2Face,

$5m!!!, infact,.i no go sing again

it goes on,