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PoliticsRe: “Go To Hell!” Governor Al Makura Tells Family On Highway As His Goons Beat.. by EdCure: 4:34pm On Sep 12, 2015
Executive rascality. The governor is yet to be purged of such pdpian tendencies.

That said, the entire write-up reeks of a sponsored campaign of calumny. The authors are unequivocal in their quest to cause public disaffection for the gentleman.
PoliticsRe: I Will Name My Cabinet On Oct 1st - Buhari by EdCure: 8:20pm On Sep 11, 2015
No more delays, Mr president! The country and economy is hurting. We need seasoned administrators to handle our sensitive ministries.
PoliticsRe: NDLEA Arrests Notorious Drug Pusher At Lagos Airport by EdCure: 8:13pm On Sep 11, 2015
He should be jailed and the key of his cell thrown into the Atlantic.
PoliticsRe: Works On Lagos-ibadan Express Way Resumes Sept 30, Flyover At 'RCCG Camp by EdCure: 7:14pm On Sep 11, 2015
absoluteSuccess:
GOOD NEWS
Good. They should extend the good work to the Benin-Auchi road.
PoliticsRe: Apology Latter To The Igbos From South Southerns by EdCure: 1:25pm On Sep 11, 2015
Blah blah blah!
Another so-called "WE The South-south" ...Contunu.
PoliticsRe: Why Is This Happening To Japan? Who Else Has Seen This? This Is Terrible! See :( by EdCure: 8:29am On Sep 11, 2015
We in Africa are blessed...or should I say, lucky?
PoliticsRe: Biafra An Oline Country by EdCure: 10:44pm On Sep 10, 2015
Exactly!
They rant, boast and claim territories online but fail to face the realities on ground.

My people talkam say: "na who no dey house na im dey kill polis" cheesy
PoliticsRe: As You Are Typing This.... Do You Have Light? by EdCure: 4:03pm On Sep 10, 2015
No lite
PoliticsRe: Muslim Refugees Attack Police, Injure 17 Over Torn Quran In Germany by EdCure: 12:42pm On Sep 10, 2015
That is how these mucking fuslims start. Then, Europe with its ultra-liberal governments, will make more concessions and grant these barbarians more special status.
Those guys are ungrateful nuisance...the world can do much more better without them.
PoliticsRe: 78-year-old Landlord Rapes Tenant’s 9-year-old Daughter In enugu by EdCure: 11:39am On Sep 10, 2015
Despicable predators and perverts lurcking around in human skin.
All child rapists need a hole in their head.
PoliticsRe: Shocker! President Buhari Picks Femi Falana As AGF (6th Most Powerful Person) by EdCure: 10:02pm On Sep 09, 2015
StOla:
In every country in the world governed by LAWS except Biafra that only exist on pirate radio, the Attorney General position ranks as top 3 influential/powerful portfolios.

Not everything has to be about "come and chop". Juicy doesn't equate to influential/powerful.
Don't mind the malcontent wailers. Looting is the essence of everything to them.
RomanceRe: 4 Signals A Friendship Has Gone Wrong (and What To Do Next) by EdCure(op): 1:56pm On Sep 09, 2015
mubarak001:
...am still thinking about what led Op to this thread, someone has checkmated your king of late...my best guess!
Don't be too sure smiley
I stumbled upon the work on my favourite site, and felt I should share it here cos everyone has had an experience of the kind of friendship.
RomanceRe: 4 Signals A Friendship Has Gone Wrong (and What To Do Next) by EdCure(op): 1:49pm On Sep 09, 2015
Captainswag225:
nice one o.p, at this stage the best thing is to say good bye to that friend and go your way.
Yes but how easy do you think it is? Your mind tells you to let go and move on, but your heart/emotions dictates otherwise. Most times we follow our hearts and the lopsided relationship keep draining our energy.
PoliticsRe: ‘$1.5billion Badagry Dockyard Not Owned By NLNG’ by EdCure:
Thuogh it is good to clear certain controversy and doubts, what this country needs at this moment is more industrialization for job creation and economic growth. It doesn't matter who owns what.
PoliticsRe: Why Did Biafrans Bury Ojukwu With Nigerian Flag by EdCure: 10:38pm On Sep 08, 2015
This Debo guy is a relentless nuisance to the biafrauds. One can only imagine the expression on their face whenever he creates a topic cheesy
PoliticsRe: Jonathan's Clueless Endorsement Speech Of Dickson In Bayelsa Today by EdCure: 8:21pm On Sep 08, 2015
saaedlee:
Sheer studpidity displayed by an ex-president
I actually thought his cluelessness was caused by the overwhelming task of running the country (which was way beyond him), but I didn't know that it was "factory-fitted".
SMH!
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Breaks Protocol While Visiting Buhari Today. PHOTO by EdCure: 8:00pm On Sep 08, 2015
He didn't.
They both have military backgrounds. And for security reasons, you don't stay in front of the person that you're leading into a room.

Ask a policeman or prison warden for explanation.
RomanceRe: 4 Signals A Friendship Has Gone Wrong (and What To Do Next) by EdCure(op): 7:40pm On Sep 08, 2015
Lalasticlala, this needs a bigger audience
Romance4 Signals A Friendship Has Gone Wrong (and What To Do Next) by EdCure(op): 7:35pm On Sep 08, 2015
Relationships are the human form of economic systems at work. While we may not be consciously aware of the rules of the exchange system, sometimes we may feel we come up on the short end of the rewards of a friendship or romance. When this happens, it’s important to honor our insight and, if needed, take action. We may need to restore the balance to a relationship that's no longer working, or cut loose and let go.

Here are 4 signs that a relationship is out of balance:

1. You feel worse after spending time with a person, rather than better.

Friendships and romance may not always run smoothly—in the best of relationships you are comfortable enough to "be yourself"—but when bad feelings consistently outweigh the good, it may be time to revise your relationship investment strategy.

2. You find yourself wanting to ignore texts, emails, and calls from a person you previously jumped to answer.

When you begin to feel that you are too busy, too tired—or too happy—to respond to a person's requests for your time and interest, ask yourself if this is a pattern in the relationship or something going on in your own life. If it's really you, maybe you need to alert the friend about what's going on for you in your life. If it's them, maybe you need to be more up front or let your silence indicate your level of interest in continuing the relationship as it stands. And if it's the relationship, maybe you need to check in with this person and see if the feelings are mutual. Chronically out-of-balance relationships require the input and effort of two people to continue.

3. You regret the things you do when you're in this person's company.

When you're with a particular friend, do you gossip too much? Drink too much? Spend too much? Make decisions that you regret later? If you are losing self-respect or self-direction in a relationship, it's a sign that you are giving too much, and allowing the other person to expect too much.

4. You find yourself asking, "How did I end up in this relationship?" or, "Why do I let this go on?"

These are signs that you are keeping a balance sheet in your head and you are recognizing that the relationship is taking more energy than it should.

Know your Value
Reflect on your level of self-respect and the resources you have to offer. We all have the choice to set our boundaries and communicate our limits. What are the gifts that you are bringing to the relationship: Emotional support? Energy? Time? Loyalty? Faithfulness? A willingness to provide favors and instrumental support when needed? When you add it all up, do you still believe the relationship is worth the investment?

If you are making choices about what you will invest in the future, acknowledge where you are over the limit in your behaviors and cut back on giving that is taxing, not sustaining you. If it is really the other guy who is encouraging or guilting you into doing more than you feel comfortable with, then it is time for a "friendship detox" or "friendship cleanse."

Here are three questions to ask yourself if you are on the fence about a relationship. If any of them raise red flags, dig a little deeper and see if you are ready for a relationship cleanse:

1. What am I getting from this relationship?
2. What is the emotional debt I feel I am owed, but am not seeing fulfilled?
3. What is the toll that this relationship inequity is taking on me personally?

Only you can decide the next steps. Weigh your decision carefully. 
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/lifetime-connections/201508/4-signals-friendship-has-gone-wrong-and-what-do-next?
HealthRe: Man Dies After Lodging With Two Women In A Hotel In Delta by EdCure: 8:13am On Sep 08, 2015
The leaf wey dey sweet goat, naim dey kill am.
CelebritiesRe: Emeka Ike To Pastor Chris Okotie: You Are An Anti-christ by EdCure: 8:10am On Sep 08, 2015
He said nothing and made no sense at all. Just drooling in sentiments.

Is he now claiming to be more popular than Chris Okotie?
PoliticsRe: Governors, Ministers Must Declare Assets – Buhari by EdCure: 8:00am On Sep 08, 2015
mccoy47:
So according to PMB what he did was an asset declaration?
smh for this government.
For the nitwits about too tag me a wailer. go back to the annals and see late. president Yar adua's declaration ( precision of assets and liabilities is the watch word here) then compare it with Shehu Garba's announcement (PMB asset declaration) and tell me the difference.
Why not give us the so-called "precision" of Jonathan's assets and liabilities declaration as president? He was your most recent president.
PoliticsRe: Governors, Ministers Must Declare Assets – Buhari by EdCure: 7:45am On Sep 08, 2015
Way to go!

But disclosure to the public should be made optional. Not everyone is comfortable with disclosing their complete worth...but it's a price they must pay.
PoliticsRe: 6,000 Jonathan Campaign Groups Disappear (dailytrust) by EdCure: 7:43am On Sep 08, 2015
Is the election not over?
PoliticsRe: Real Reason I Resigned From Gej's Govt As SURE-P Chairman-christopher Kolade by EdCure: 10:38pm On Sep 07, 2015
It is common knowledge that corruption was the norm while decency, integrity and accountability became the exception under Goodluck Jonathan. Jonathan always frowned at the good guys while empowering the worst and morally bankrupt in the land.
PoliticsRe: What Has Nairaland Done For You by EdCure: 12:21am On Sep 07, 2015
It stole my reading time. I still buy books though, but i hardly read them.

Almost made me a tribalist. It gave me a wrong impression about people from a particular ethnic group which i considered as brothers prior to my joining this forum.

In all, NL has been counter-productive to me. Though not without some very good laughs.
PoliticsRe: Presidency Debunks Aso Rock Chapel ‘closure’, Releases Pictures From Sunday S.. by EdCure: 10:56pm On Sep 06, 2015
OZAOEKPE:
"PMB is a terrorist", Quote me anywhere.
Since when did you enlist into the bandwagon of TANoind crassness?

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