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Jadekitana:
properly groomed? Lol

yes oh. The first three men who sleep with a lady after virginity defines how her body will always respond to sex, lady who right from inception exchanged sex for money, you could put ur entire arm inside sef or pound for hours with all skills and she will be looking at u with no sign of arrival. Same applies to some rape victims, molestation victims etc their sexuality isn't in sync so why waste all effort. Rather you do ur business and get out instead of sweating unnecessarily. That Is why I like masturbatory girls or bisexuals. To make them come involves little effort thus u get to enjoy afterwards without fear of blackmail

Well some women aren't properly groomed to come normally. Some are so boring in bed and stiff, that extra attempts at pleasing her seem futile. Though a true man should make a woman come.

Yes of course. It's why a man's cheating is forgivable unlike the female

davide470:
@Eddygourdo,

Romance section is one of the cashcow's of Nairaland, hence it's moderate supervison and very little rules per se.

Let the kids be..

have done so. Though I thought politics was the money spinner. Might be wrong though.

BenBruce4Presdt:
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Tunde please remind your brother who the cowards are again..

ok let's make a bet, on the said day nothing will happen, Nigeria won't be crippled and kanu will still be in jail. Who is thus ridiculing himself or themselves. Ipob isn't a wise initiative and everyday they prove it with their empty threats

Forget those empty threats. They are cowards

Maybe you should start treating her in kind. Never apologise, be high handed. If she complains simply brush it off. The day day it come to a real head, thrash it out by pointing exactly how u feel when she does same. Many people learn from experience

Hmmmmm. Funny but true

Well it's the sordid story of men. That's why the victim card played by feminists annoy me to the marrow. Every individual deserves a right to be protected from abuse, irrespective of sex or the form of abuse.

Are you male or female, plus where in osun u at

As far as I am concerned gays don't exist. It's all propaganda. No man could desire another man. It's not possible

Oga they are just lucky. Forget any other story

Suigeneris93:
I don't get He met me a blogger and will suddenly want me to give up social media so I'll not cheat like I said before its not even an option

oh not for the blogging part, that's money ur making na. I meant idle active social media. People who are Facebook, dating sites and the like obsessed. Not a blogger who is doing a passion and a likely business. So far it's kept professional I don't see why not.

Jesus came for the salvation of the world, he is interested in ur soul after death. He is interested in if you lived justly and loved thy neighbour as thy self. In his abundance of riches is he preparing an abode for the worthy. My brother jesus has no business with ur 10 percent. I will pay no tithe and if I am a just man, will go to heaven. Tithes and seed sowing is a manipulative gesture frauds use to fleece money from their members. This doesn't imply that one who chooses to pay should not. But I put it to you that it's not a necessity. It's a choice to pay your tithe or not to.

Suigeneris93:
Oga op oya give up social media so your marriage will be happy, as for me that option no follow

you aren't married yet, you likely don't know Wat u will give up or retain depending on the spouse you end up with. So cool down

ExperTrait:
matured minds understands that people attitude, believe, reaction, philosophy are different and should b respected...matured mind knows whats he want and where to get it, if he aint getting it where he is, he knows how to work out quietly, matured mind dont involve in e-wars, matured mind understand the phases of life and knows every one goes through them, matured mind does nt rubbishes people image .In my opinion anyway

there is Wat is known as public decorum. They say when a child ties wrapper properly, he could sit with elders and even a fool who watches his tongue could dine with the wise and not be given up for the fool he is. No matter ur level of life, there is decorum. In the work place everybody isn't same age, yet there are work ethics that must be adhered to by all. Thus same applies here. No matter ur phase in life, no matter your story, no matter ones opinion you can't go about cursing and e bullying people because it's a faceless forum. It is wrong. Simply because Nigeria is a country were youths don't learn anything nor have interest in learning anything doesn't mean all decorum should be lost. Maybe till someone is hunted down here and taught a life lesson would people learn to behave decently. Whom you are is not Wat u do when we see you, it's how you conduct urself when anonymous.

I believe many are destined to be single, many desire to be single, many who never had the joys of youth during their youth, find adulthood a time to display youthful exuberance. Please husbands cheat, wives cheat. To cheat today is the easiest thing to do and yet we all hate it when we become victims of it.

The mafia place strict importance on honour. They kill for honour, they fight for honour and most importantly they live for honour. When one cheats on his or her spouse we dishonour them. Most importantly we dishonor ourselves.

To not cheat is a very difficult task that only the honourable can sustain. Thus many people create room for that and yet blame the devil. I will share with you the opinion from a pastor Co worker on how he and his wife managed faithfulness for 25years.

- they ensure that they were teachable to their spouses. Whatever A didn't know how to do, B took time to teach and upgrade and vice versa.

- all friends of the opposite sex where cut off asides family friends and even at that the ensured a joint meeting of friends together.

- they discussed everything openly to each other, including flirtatious behaviour of others. Talking about it allowed their partners react to all likely possibilities that could emerge.

- they were contented and happy to be unique. They refused to compare themselves to other people and took great joy in whatever methods they employed even if it was wrong.

- they had no spare tyres or escape plans. It became clear to both of them that if this marriage fails, both parties will sink with it. Nobody had an escape plan and thus felt the more need to work harder.

- they were sexual in every way possible that could suit their partner. Thus they were sexually Compatible.

- when social media came about, they remained old school and refused to jump into it. The social media is a quick and easy temptation element that encourages concealment, anonymity and thus likely bad behaviour.

- they put an effort to be the best for each other. The man hated excess weight, the woman starved herself many times to Acheive it, the woman hated a pregnant man, and the man almost died many times while doing sit ups to please his wife. They never said to themselves LOVE ME THE WAY I AM.

Many of us who cheat, would realise the folly after the deed, that Wat we dishonor ourselves to experience is no different than that our partners offer. It's just a case of different packaging and performance. The most important of all I have said is thus that, you belong to ur partner and ur partner belongs to you . You should do all you can for him and he should do all he can for you. You must learn to understand that no marriage is perfect nor are they all the same.

The model for family A would be different for family B. Create a model with your spouse, ensure compatibility in all areas, be teachable to ur spouse, enjoy ur youth at the right time lest you be a youth old man or woman who behaves dishonourably. Hopefully you shall find marital bliss

Not easy having to deal with such issue. Great he is turning out a well balanced individual. Kudos

refiner:
suit urself den!


boify is fine....children nko?

fine thank you, urs?

refiner:
oga landlord*....how ur wife dey?.


a whole landlord* like u,wetin u dey kukuma find for romaceland?

there are younger ones here who could truly need relationship tips. Even me myself do polls here to change my short comings. I just feel this should be a place to teach and learn. People should be able to express themselves. Instead of bullying. It's wrong. Wifey is fine. Ur boyfriend nko

Sempumping:
LMAO @ Breast all over ....But really that skinny 1 isn't a choice o

I swear, if one forgot she is on the bed with you, and you wake up in the night to urinate, if u see her face in the darkness, you will faint while releasing the hot wee wee

firstking01:
nah, you gotta be a free spirited being just as i am without one plea , you sef, you serious pass suarez for pitch, you in dey throw ball, cross coner, take free kick, infact even when barca dey win 5 0, you go see suarez run go pick ball for throwing, he been dey do am when he dey liverpool, same with sanchez and you

hahahahahaha make barca fan catch u. I don't wanna sink to that level. I made an easter resolution to act as God destined.

firstking01:
You are still around enyi, you are experiencing the fun i was talking about ba?

dianyi na post I go post, will rarely respond to people. But I will never open a thread again

DemiGoddess:
The skinny gal can get flesh but for the fat one to slim ehn...

my dear I can't wait for the flesh, would have vomited many times. The fat one has breast all over, you could form breasts on her Laps, stomach and from Wat am seeing there even cheeks sef

They are not ready for him to speak . The sight of a hot rod about to disvirgin his terrorist anus will change his mind

Definitely the fat one

Well in this age of equality, she should spend at least six years he spent, 2 additional years for wickedness

jayloms:
Very true indeed! Much respect to Messrs. Explorers and co.

What can we do in a world evolving as fast as it's loosing it's morals and values, truly, what can we do except to be responsible for ourselves first, and then lend a helping hand to others.

You could actually create anti-cyber bullying threads to help d weak amongst us. All the same respect sir!

thanks bro. I like the anti cyber bullying thread idea. Will post that once in awhile to create a safe place for people to air their views on issues, irrespective of how stupid it sounds. It's their God given right to express it without fear of attacks or bullying.

Lady1m:
Oga Landlord what's all these gnashing about your tenant's "disgraceful, Unreasonable, and bad behavior"? You sha get your own too oh! because its obvious you like amebo so much to assume the widow is using juju and entertaining side talks from a so called 'reliable source,' rather than engaging your supposedly good tenant in a man to man conversation to hear from him.

There are no facts here. You have only written on assumption why he hasn't paid you.

You no dey run things or cut small shows with 'okpeke' apart from your wife? So your tenant should be judged and crucified because his own is obvious to you abi?

NO MAN IS PERFECT.

DEAR LANDLORD,
In responds to your mail,
Do you want advise on how you should recover your unpaid rent or, go about his eviction without hurting his wife and kids?

Or, are you indirectly bringing up his promiscuity with a widow for us to judge him here? Do you like the widow too?
Best Regards
Moi.

listen I am always of the opinion that if a man cheats, keep up with ur responsibilities to ur immediate family. This is my house, I don't need fighting or murder when the wife finds out. This is a struggling woman who would likely react badly. Now I can't call him because it's am admission of gossip, which actually I didn't do. Except that those who didn't want to go tell his wife directly, proffered to tell me in hope I can resolve the issue. My anger was that he paid the house rent of the other woman and is still owing me. I was being nice thinking he is having challenges. Now I know that is not the case, let me ask you. Maybe I should have kept quiet till he abandons the family, who I will be too emotional to send packing because of the little kids and thus the stay longer in my home without payment? Or I call him and the woman decides to attack her in law who came to make the report. I need my rent, I was willing to be patient with him, but can I remain patient when he pays rent for his runs?

krattoss:
in as much as u want to quit.. but bear it in mind that their heir also sane ones out here who contributes diligently to topics and discussion..

in so far as this is a faceless forum. their will always be trolls and all sorts of races.. and that's what brings the fun out of it.. this aintvreal life,as half if not most people that spoils rubish here can't try that in real life..

so don't take anything here personal. then if u feel u can't cope with the atmosphere and attitude of others.. then u might start by deactivation of account.

I have related with sensible people actually here, that's why I still drop by. But soonest the devil's will fight and bully the sensible ones and they will leave. Then all we are left with are fighters and the likes. Anyway will start ignoring alot of them. We aren't all born the same and with diverse upbringing. Just that it's very hurtful when a person insults you and tells you he is a millionaire. Only in another thread to Complain how his jamb score is too low. And he is seeking help. It's sometimes disheartening.

jayloms:
Sorry bruv or sir some or should I say most romancelanders have ASS (Attention seeking syndrome) and they'll do just anything and I mean anything (trolling, bullying, throwing infantile tantrums, engaging you in pi arguments and the rest) to get that attention.

When I get a mention from an ugly soul I do d following: I read the mention, type a proper reply, smile then delete the reply without posting it because I'm not gonna surrender my strength to an ugly soul.

One's mental strength is measured sometimes in these circumstances. Refusing to respond to deliberate provocation is a required strength in politics cause people will always come for you.

So boss sojourn with your boys, here in romanceland

that is a good way to handle things, I do that most times. But it's really just a bad way of life. There are people whose monicker I don't see anymore because of the abuse and attack they get. Such things can destabilise an already unstable person. The art of bans by seun doesn't mitigate them as they simply get new monicker.

The truth is that since I joined and started commenting, I haven't learnt much here nor gained much. If you wanna learn immaturity or abuse then here is the place. Why do you think threads like explorers threads are always treated with high esteem. Because you actually learn something from it. Romance land should be about the same. Rather kids have made it an unpleasant place to either teach or learn.

Op please. Some people were created never to be in a pair with another. A contentious woman isn't supposed to be married. If a man notices he married one. He should pack his things during the day and escape during the night. They should be left alone and sent away