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Isn't it funny how some ladies want everything from guys, from attention, love, material stuff and sex . Even the sex which some ladies claimed to be wat they can offer to guys to compensate for all the things the guy has done for them may end the relationship if the said guy can't satisfy the girl. So most girls want everything to themselves, the only thing some ladies gat true feelings and can sacrifice for is their children. Great Respect to all the men out there because it's not easy to be a man and also respect to the ladies who're supportive to their husband.
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Nigeria's educational sector is faulty due to the problems in pre-primary, primary and secondary education. One who has a faulty foundation in his/her primary and secondary education would find it difficult to assimilate in tertiary education. There are some undergraduates that copied in most of the semester's exams from 100L to 400L. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw a lecturer rendering assistant to some set of students by giving out answers secretly in the course he took for that semester in the exam hall.

virginchaser:
Fear fear. Not all men in trousers are worthy to be called men.

Baba no be matter of fear, if na u also, u go run kitikiti

Las las Man U go win this match...

Forgodsgrace:
If you are one of the affected undergraduate and not from rich family,it’s better you go learn work ,trade or any viable skill for now and forget about this junkies.
As it’s stands now,Nigeria university is not for the poor except you want to waste your destiny.
Go learn work or any skill

True, but to learn any viable skill right now requires money

Go for amplified and simplified economics textbook. It's more better and well detailed than essential textbook

Once shagged, can always be re-shagged.
OP listen to Chris Brown's Loyal

Hmmm , oldies full this nairaland oo.. I drank limca and gold spot though

pansophist:
To conclude, you must integrate your shadows, meaning that to become whole, you must be good, not nice. It is the killing of the innocent naivety that is natural in you, to transmogrify into someone that is grounded. You can't strengthen one, without the other, they go hand in hand. So if you ever wonder why nice people suffer unnecessarily, it's because they lack the ability to be bad, and can only complain without actually facing their aggressor squarely and deal him a heavy blow. We are basically animalistic in motivations, although we wear a nice garment called civility, but generally humans are animals like the wild. If you see the world like this, you'll know how to live well in it.

Wow!! You've made good points...

dhameelare:
Because being nice is seen has a weakness, and nobody respects a nice man

How is niceness towards another seen as a sign of weakness.. people are naturally nice. Eg. Like my roommate here in school, when were we in school hostel, because of he brought many food stuff to school, other roommates took advantage of it , some ate his food, until it got finished and I adviced him never to be over too nice to people

It has become a crime to be honest and gentle in Nigeria. Everyone is looking for an opportunity to outsmart another for survival. It's a man chop man stuff. You're seen as not smart by your friends if you're not doing crime, or if you're always truthful and have other virtues that are attributed to you. How did we get here?

Well I don't blame the good ones who later became heartless towards other people, because we humans like to take advantage of good behaviors.


When someone is nice and kind to you don't take advantage of the kindness shown to you, because  a day will come when he/she will realize your intent and start to act differently towards you and you'll start to see how foolish you're thinking you're smart.

So, the question is why are good behaviors are hardly appreciated in our country.

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Good afternoon.. I've plans on going for my masters in education in Canada after my B.Sc here in Nigeria. What's the chance of getting a teaching job there after studies in Canada

vincentbravo:
Oyibo go say...wow congratulations.
Some of my Nigerian lads go say ...him no be genius, him no get money, him no get child na only degrees, uneducated get money pass am.
Can we learn how to congratulate or cheer up without bad belle .
Bro e no easy.

As in ehn!!!!!!!! I'm searching for a sane comment without derogation

iLegendd:
You must get the vibe before you even start. This is why you should start a conversation with humor and a little naughtiness. Get her laughing the first day if you want things to be fun and for you to succeed faster. That is the key — SMH, Sexual Misinterpretation with Humor.

Most men are too boring in conversation, boring in chat, and boring in bed.

If you were a woman, will you vibe with such a person?

Let me ask you one question. You went to school right? Did you read books to pass exams? Yes.

You go to Church or Mosque, right? Do you read religious books to know your God better? Yes.

You want to marry or sleep with a woman, right? Have you read a book written by a what'sup man on how women work? No, you haven't.

So, if you refuse to study how women work through a book or someone in person, then make sure you're extremely handsome, physically appealing, and intelligent so that women will be the ones coming to you without trying.

Even if you're handsome, it's still good to learn. Start with the book called ChatDîcted.

Download the free version here. https://shop.wetclef.com/download-chatdîcted/

I vibe well with some couple of girls though(those who I'm not interested in dating just catching fun with them), we do chat naughty stuff back den, . Just dat some of these girls I really want don't vibe well with me

iLegendd:
You're wrong. I act poor when I meet people, especially women. I want to see how I'll be treated first before I let you into my real world.

I hide a lot at the initial stage. After you've fallen in love without knowing much, I can now open up.

Getting women because of crib or money is fake love and inferiority on the guy's part. Most men are the reasons for fake love. They start showing off that they are rich on the first day of meeting a woman.

If a woman already knows I'm rich, I see her love as fake, but I play along (while being stingy).

Making a woman love you is easy when you're poor. Just have a sense of humor, be intelligent, be naughty to an extent, don't have mouth or body odor (use a good fragrance), don't brag about any achievement, be unpredictable and not always available. Learn psychology and how women/human work.

Most importantly, don't invest emotions first. Just be free and easygoing as you keep the conversation fun, humorous, and naughty. Don't forget to keep her wanting more. (It's attractive and it builds emotion which turns to love.)

This means, end the conversation when she's enjoying it the most. Always put her in a position to anticipate your next conversation with her. Keep thing intrigue and unpredictable.

Finally, don't profess love (like Ozo and Saga) even if she does and don't ask her out — just start acting as her boyfriend from the first day without proposing. Tease her and don't be focused on outcome, but the FUN. (You're already her boyfriend from the first encounter, so why ask her out or ask her if she has a boyfriend?)

The problem broke guys have about women is inferiority complex — they think it's all about money. Money and fine boy is a bonus, but confidence and humor is key.

Also, most men/boys don't work on self-improvement — they focus only on making money fast at all cost to avoid being oppressed by Yahoo boys.

Wise men/boys take their time to handle self-improvement and they don't chase money or women — they attract them with wisdom, knowledge, and confidence.

Unfortunately, not all men are wise just the same way not all women are wise.

Wow!! Nice.... What if u're trying to get close to her but she's not giving u back d vibe....... Like u always chat her up first, call her, always wanting to be with her but she's not feeling d same.... I do back off from such girl, because I gat self respect for myself

Mood11:
I waited for a second to see if I'll understand what was happening but it seemed as though I was the only one not running so in order not to be sorry I quickly joined the race.

One reason I do run also, to avoid stories that touch if truly there's something causing them to run

Skyfornia:
Happened once while I was living in a hostel off campus...around 1 or 2 am, in the middle of night, one of the occupants started shouting fire fire fire fire fire..that's how all of us woke up and started running out, including those in the adjacent buildings. Na that day I know say 90% of ladies doesn't sleep with their clothes. Cause majority woke up at the sound and didn't bother to grab their clothes, they dashed out in the process to save their lives first.

But later, we realized it was a false alarm...the date was April 1st.....April fool's day.

The dude nearly collect beating from us that day shaa, what saved him is because he was a popular guy.

Chai!!!! Lol, so annoying. God save dat guy, I can't imagine d beating he would have receive for disturbing one's peaceful night

Lalasticlala

Juliusmomoh:
Yes during election

Gist us abeg

Last night, I was in a class gisting with a friend about life when all of a sudden, we hear people running from different angles like war is about to happen. Without wasting much time the girl and I also run away from the class with my phone on my hands n bag in d class to avoid being trapped in the class should it be that some bad boys are operating. When I reach outside, I discovered it was a fire outbreak that made people ran.
By the time I get back into d class I felt embarrassed as people were laughing at me for running away even while I was discussing with a girl.

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Oooh!!!

Helping friends during exams isn't a big deal for me because I want them to pass also, not until I jokingly asked one to teach me Yahoo, d words that came out from him has made realise he's jst friends with me because of exams; he said ' if he teach me Yahoo, who will he copy from during exams' that words really touched me because I felt he's using me to pass exams......so ever since then I've a rethink in helping people during exams n in other things because most people after they have gotten what dey want from u, they discard u. One reason I don't like helping again.. people take nice gestures for granted

Please nairalanders, does anyone know about BECO logistics. I was informed by a friend who paid over 25k to be inducted as a full member, I just hope that he hasn't been scammed. He made me understand that it's a good organisation where one can make as much as over 40k monthly. I want to give it try by attending for the interview even though I'm kinda skeptical about the organization.

But some part of d country allow older men marry girls who are not up to 18... I'm not in support of d boy's action though.. Statutory rape should also go along with no girl child marriage in d North

Nice write up, but I can't keep friends who only remember you when they need something from you and also friends who never want you to make money like them

Boma's laughter is kinda annoying n funny at d same time

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