₦airaland Forum

jopretty:
Sorry about your predicament, but let me ask, did you guys date or people brought you together and marriage happened? And again, before marriage, was he displaying these signs and you ignored thinking marriage would change him? If the latter be the case, I suggest you just endure maybe one day, he'll loosen a bit otherwise, you'll just have to manage him like that.

Sant1m:
In the name of hate you and your likes are forcing APC to do what will finally guarantee APC to rule for upto a hundred years. 5000 social security fund for youths will nail PDP coffin, add school feeding programme to it and APC have no rival.
You guys are politically unwise, my Swedish friend said' if these guys are politically wise they won't compel the rulling party to fulfill their promise, you keep it to your chest and use it against them when campaign commences' all i told him was that their leader is known as the clueless one.

hassrash:
Budget 800k with duty papers

doctokwus:
I predicted that Saraki,lesser so Dogara, would not know peace till they vacate their offices and its coming to pass.
Saraki is losing supporters by d day because even those who supported him initially are now coming to see that his is one man's unbridled ambition for power.
Saraki and Dogara can continue postponing the day of reckoning but it shall surely come.
There is no place in the world a man wins a mandate on a party's platform, based on the party's ideals and mantra and then goes against the party, running as an independent for an office that belongs to his party by its sheer majority.
APC would not stand it,those of us that voted for change won't stand it.

philaw:
Was it the visit that we condemned? Nah. we condemned being overly reliant on them.

Coraje:
All u people who are praying in ur hearts that buhari will fail so as to prove that it wasn't Jonathan's fault that Nigeria got into this mess are wasting ur time cos buhari will never fail. Why r u hoping get that things will get worse for ur own country because of ur dislike for the president.
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People never critised Jonathan because we hated him. It was because we all hoped he could bring the change we wanted but he failed us. That was why we complained about his administration and kicked him out.
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Instead of you wasting ur time in looking for the president's fault, I challenge you to step up your thinking faculties and profer solutions to problems in the country at least within your jurisdiction.

Coraje:
All u people who are praying in ur hearts that buhari will fail so as to prove that it wasn't Jonathan's fault that Nigeria got into this mess are wasting ur time cos buhari will never fail. Why r u hoping get that things will get worse for ur own country because of ur dislike for the president.
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People never critised Jonathan because we hated him. It was because we all hoped he could bring the change we wanted but he failed us. That was why we complained about his administration and kicked him out.
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Instead of you wasting ur time in looking for the president's fault, I challenge you to step up your thinking faculties and profer solutions to problems in the country at least within your jurisdiction.

sexyseun:
The truth is what your heart does not long for, don't force it on d body.. Its so obvious you don't like dark skinned girls, if u eventually marry her you will never be happy. Go for what your heart desires, take ur time, marriage is forever

sexyseun:
The truth is what your heart does not long for, don't force it on d body.. Its so obvious you don't like dark skinned girls, if u eventually marry her you will never be happy. Go for what your heart desires, take ur time, marriage is forever

Durchmann:
Op, I think it's a matter of time and chance.

I'm a huge fan of dark beauties and I've always wanted to marry one because I have this belief that it's difficult to dispute a dark lady who's beautiful. However, a light skin lady may be deceitful to the eyes for those who are colour blind and easily cajoled by anything light.

Anyway, I met Blessing and my beliefs seemed to have changed at the time. She was light skinned and the kind who doesn't need to make up before leaving the house and still stand out supremely beautiful. I even went as far as thinking marriage but in the end, we didn't stick after two years of the relationship.

The point I'm trying to make is this: Your friend likes them dark but when time and chance takes its toll, he can make a decision contrary to that choice because of the qualities he may discover in the current lady. Make no mistake on one thing : it's his choice to make. No one has to use his preferences to cajole someone into making a decision. He will live with that shoe and not the the 3rd parties around him.

Finally, life isn't just black or white. There's so much grey involved and that's where the hay lies.

Good luck to him though.


PS: Blessing and I broke up due to some irreconcilable differences and not because of the colour of her skin. I don't regret ever meeting her.

pretydiva:
He should let her go asap. Cos he's gonna end up cheating on her if they eventually gets married