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Aboki99:
They did it b4 and lectures held smoothly nah.

That is because other unions make concessions and allow their essential workers . I wonder how a university wants to operate without laboratory technologist for ela ,, doctors ,nurses, pharmacists not available especially during a pandemic,clearance. Engineers, technicians not available to supply light and water (for the hostels and residential qtrs housing staff) , porters will lock without a place to collect keys � ,ict staff not available online lectures or Internet services... the last time there was a total strike without concessions students in uniben protested in the gate due to hardship after 2 days.0

mathong:
Woman will always assist the family but she won't promise you so you don't relent in working hard!

No perfect woman out there, but they're always Noble!

this mindset makes we want to vomit.

marriage is supposed to be a partnership

not a union where a man takes care of a woman
he wont promise you to support her own family

really sad how entitled we are here

To begin your healing stop touching it....disconnect from her . If possible ghost on her ,no calls ,no chats ,no communication, just move on...

Block her off all social media . Stop communication for now.
To heal a wound you have to stop touching it
But you have to give it time...allow you go thru the process.

Please any update on those who terminated on the old platform after their contract expired??

She said those who opted to terminate might have to wait 2 months lol
That's bad

DragonFire433:
From what I know, you would not be paid.

Your initial capital is hanging until you go and renew your contract or demand for your money.

I am not sure if MBA have changed this policy.

Thanks

Please my 6months contract was to expire September 25th 2020

I have not been available to renew my contract in their office due to reasons beyond my control

Today is 31st will I still.be paid my roi??

Or I will forfeit this one month until I am able to update my form

Please I want to buy either camry 2012 or lexus rx330
Any suggestions

guys I want to buy a car. ordinarily I prefer a toyota Camry 2012 version but due to our bad roads I am considering to settle for the highlander limited.

I need suggestions please

I pray for those ttc for God to help them.
Please any suggestions for couples with children already but just desiring a particular sex (boy or girl)

I am close to 40. married with kids.have a good job and businesses, very stable. We have been there done it all.oga take this from someone older and way ahead of you in life ,experience ,wisdom and otherwise
please please please MOVE ON.
cut your losses
dont demand any explanation. just start practicing moving on from her
dont wait till you get hurt or burnt.

The second week, I bought her some body cares and give her money (2.5k) to make her hair.
this one weak me lol ,your type will pay skol fees
oga u both are naive
just move on abeg no one has time for a confused person
it is draining but seems your age can handle drama
ours cant anymore

Confusedwomsn:
Thank you.

I'm reading and learning, my father and mother are still together and my sister is still married. I just feel I will be looked as s failure...

He makes my child, I see the bond and I love it, if I I lesve the won't be so close. I want to give my child s sibling, he is always crying for someone to play with.
I want to leave with two children, because I do notvwsnt to remarry if this marriage fails.

pls this is better. stay and if possible have 3 kids with him.
if things don't improve coparenting is better
with 3 kids u can focus on your children and maybe have a side guy for sex and companionship

I hate people that scam and break trust .

*spits on the floor*

disgusting

really sorry for your state .sadly in Africa divorce is a taboo
but what about living by faith not feelings

we dont act based on how we feel but based on what is required and the truth

feelings a sinusoidal, comes and goes
if you are truthful they are times u have this feelings and times u dont have them .
start acting by faith
loving by faith
giving to him by faith
investing in your husband emotionally by faith even when u dont feel it
hopefully with time u will experience it

SUPERPACK:
Get a carpenter then 2 policemen, as u get there make sure the tenant is around, then tell the carpenter to remove the doors and window to the house. Shikena.

a very good suggestion

gave two of my tenant quit notice for refusal to pay rent .
the notice was to elapse december 31 and they pack out December
1,the first tenant has paid her rent arrears owing but refused to park since December saying she is looking for a house
2,the second guy is owing more than half his rent and still unable to pay and refused to park out citing money issues
3, now the legal fee to prosecute them in court is even more than the amount of money I will recover after the case
4,I am in a delima on how to recover the rent arrears and kick them out
I am seriously considering using thugs to seal up the place with their property inside
anyone with a better suggestion since a court order will be expensive

I gave two of my tenant quit notice for refusal to pay rent .
the notice was to elapse december 31 and they pack out December

1,the first tenant has paid her rent arrears owing but refused to park since December saying she is looking for a house

2,the second guy is owing more than half his rent and still unable to pay and refused to park out citing money issues

3, now the legal fee to prosecute them in court is even more than the amount of money I will recover after the case

4,I am in a delima on how to recover the rent arrears and kick them out
I am seriously considering using thugs to seal up the place with their property inside

anyone with a better suggestion since a court order will be expensive

mods this is a wrong narrative

dr dipo @ogbenidipo on twitter led the campaign to raise 1million naira to be sent directly to her account.
Nigerians on twitter from all ethnic origin supported the cause

Pls cost to clear 2008, 2009 toyota corolla sports from newyork
Roro

If possible shipping estimate
Thanks

So this shops will now get pos and have transfer options
So customers will no longer have to carry cash but will pos

onmyowncj:
u don't know what you are talking,come to Onitsha or Lagos or abs,most shops make sales worth 500k and more than evry single day

Let's be realistic how many of us carry physical cash of 500k walking around.
Its simple
Transactions should be online, via ussd, transfers pos unless we have to use cash

Deposits shd be via same route unless we forced to carry physical cash beyond our control


This helps fight corruption also

Encourages a digital economy

Where a mans treasure is that's where his heart will be also. There Is a correlation btw how much u willing to invest and the state of your heart towards that thing.

Marriage is about filling in not really shared responsibility

If u love someone u can't bear to see them struggle u want to be there for him or her

That's why men sweep, cook bath kids, even go to the market, wasH plates. Its about filling in to make life easier for the other person

So its wicked not to plan with your husband and make the burden lighter. That's d only reason she is in your life to be a help.

Two should be better than one, if one chase a thousand two ten thousand.

I reallt don't know what is wrong with some women.

Truth is no one can advise u. U just have to study d situation and look for a formula that will work.

U can't force her to work with u. She is a foolish woman.

But be bold and take some drastic steps like moving to a smaller apartment
Change the school to a more affordable one But with quality

Refuse to have more kids with her

This should be moved to front page. More experienced people need to comment.

Rush to the hospital Asap

When to see a doctor
Although you shouldn't panic if your baby is a delayed walker, there’s no harm in speaking with your doctor if your baby isn’t walking by 1 1/2, or earlier if you suspect a problem. Sometimes, delayed walking is caused by a foot or leg problem such as developmental hip dysplasia, rickets (softening or weakening of bones), or conditions that affect muscle tone like cerebral palsy and muscular dystrophy. Check with your doctor if your baby seems to limp or if the legs appear weak or uneven.

This should be moved to front page. More experienced people need to comment.

Rush to the hospital

When to see a doctor
Although you shouldn't panic if your baby is a delayed walker, there’s no harm in speaking with your doctor if your baby isn’t walking by 1 1/2, or earlier if you suspect a problem. Sometimes, delayed walking is caused by a foot or leg problem such as developmental hip dysplasia, rickets (softening or weakening of bones), or conditions that affect muscle tone like cerebral palsy and muscular dystrophy. Check with your doctor if your baby seems to limp or if the legs appear weak or uneven.

Best matured advice you should follow

In addition try and see those triggers that drives him into that mood


That's why studying him is key and seeing how to navigate

samblessed:
Madame, I might just contribute a little to help you on this challenge.

Firstly, relationship does not have any specific success formula to adopt bcs we are all wired differently. The best formula for a successful relationship is this; study your partner carefully by knowing his likes and dislikes, his weakness and strength etc, and create your own formula for a successful relationship out of your findings.
But from your short write up, I assume you didn't court with him or maybe you did and didn't open your eyes to the behaviors he is exhibiting now which has long been there. Your husband seems to be the type that's good at keeping malice, or not talking too much when provoked.

I advice you wake him up in the early hours of the morning, with tears in your eyes and genuinely ask him what the problem is and promise him to change. But if he still refuses to open up after few months, then know it's much more than you think. At this point, there's indeed cause for concern.

If I may ask, does he hit you at any slightest provocation? If he does, I'll suggest you temporary leave the house for the meantime.

Just be patient and try and look for your own formula. Marriage is such that what rocks someones boat can sink another's

He is harbouring, nurturing resentment based on something you do constantly, have done.

Also d resentment might be due to unfulfilled expectations from you like lack of support financially, drastic change of weight, hygiene etc

He could be cheating and catching his groove outside

All this are possible causes

Talk more to God and pls give it time

Sometimes d grass becomes green where u water it

Patience is key

Na them! Lol �, this must be one of them... If u know you know.
It must have really hit whew lol

I said most girls not all girls

Karma doesn't mean he will meet a better girl just means what ever we sow we reap.I think this is self explanatory

Of cos it swings both ways guys and girls inclusive. My comment isn't meant to bash girls. Its abt life in general

GrabHisBalls:
Men and the victim card.

Y'all think we don't have our experiences with some of you? If all girls between the ages of 18-25 are working time bomb, what are the guys?

This statement "Move on, you'll meet someone better" doesn't always hold true. At times, you end up with a worse partner.

His gf was immature in handling a rumor. Apart from how she went about it, it was all a misunderstanding they could've settled if there was effective communication. stop making women look like the demon. Some of you aren't worth the stress called 'relationship'.

Been there bro
Mine was she broke up with me
We reconnected strong after some months and promised with tears she is now stable and we are meant to be

Being that I so much value stability I settled for her and invested emotionaly

Practically put my life on the line for this girl

Guess what after she traveled she changed and told me she fell out of love with me even thou I fought so hard to stay thru to my commitments despite the distance

God knows I tried to move on fast but it wasn't easy

Even till now a part of me still wonders how someone can go from "I love you and u are my number 1,my everything, my rainbow" to "I think we rushed and I didn't have time to fall in love with u and have fallen out of love with u"

Even thou I have moved on and keep moving on
My advice to u is please give it time u will be fine
Block every contact with her or access to her to enable u heal

Don't try hurting her, just try move on and leave things to karma

Most girls btw 19 and even 25 are walking time bombs without a sense of stability so u dont go investing emotionally, physically, financially without your head

Invest only in ur wife, help girlfriends without a string attached...

Give it time and turn your pains to prayers � for every pain talk to God he will comfort u

Lastly use your experiences as a guide for up coming ones. See ur experience as a badge u wear to guide others

Stay around people and others. U can't talk and think at the same time, so to avoid thinking talk to people

From experience its not advisable going into electronics engineering in Nigeria
There isn't much to do here
Only if u are looking at telecoms networking or instrumentation and control

Graduated from electrical electronics for more than 10 years now and currently working as a coren registered engineer.

I majored in electronics engineering while in school and regret it cos seems outside d uni no much space for electronics outside instrumentation, control and telecoms but again its just my path

*****"**So just talking based on my exposure which can be limited thou*****"""

Basically in nigeria its power engineering(substation, transformers and all, electrical wiring